| How about instead of dividing people into males and females and assuming you should treat one group one way and the other group in another way, you instead just treat people like individuals with a common sense approach? |
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CosmicWarriors said: Females use more non verbal communication than verbal. But they also think guys are assholes for not responding to their body language. If you have read this far download a few free pdfs about body language. Females turning away from you/crossing their arms shows they are not interested. (Or may just not be ready at this time) in themustery method they tell males to never face a female directly and always act like they are about the leave. This puts pressure on the female to give you her number before you leave instead of having you chase her (they love to be chased as this builds up thier self esteem) This works in the opposite direction also if you are attuned. Like, I was a young man and I had a gud job I had just started so I was cashing my paper check at this local grocery store cuz they only charged like three bucks, but whatever. Anywho, this girl I went to highschool with who I always though was cute but she always had a boyfriend or whatever so we just interacted in social circle overlap... errr, anyways. Like I had just shaved and my razor I had sucked so I ended up with shave bumps on one side of my neck right? So she comes up to me all flirty and bubble so I cross my arms and turn my face from her to hide that cuz I wanted to slam you know? Just giving her brief yes or nos She acted like I physically slapped the shit of her. Lol. Fuck. |
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CosmicWarriors said: Of course, but that doesn't mean everyone will conform to the same gender stereotypes. Generalizing too much is not going to help youHaXXspetten said: How about instead of dividing people into males and females and assuming you should treat one group one way and the other group in another way, you instead just treat people like individuals with a common sense approach? No. They are different. Character limit |
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| Hit them uwu. Ngl this isn't that sexist. It's actually pretty accurate. And wow so many posts, is this like your career? CosmicWarriors said: Personally my dong is named tiny tim. Feel free to use this dong name yourself to surpise your lady for the "big reveal" Lol okay, oof. HaXXspetten said: Of course, but that doesn't mean everyone will conform to the same gender stereotypes. Generalizing too much is not going to help you I agree, but stereotypes are a common thing to exist. So sadly, it cannot be taken that way. |
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| Thanks for your essay. I find it's easier to just interact with people normally though. It's pretty easy to do if you don't suffer from crippling social anxiety. |
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Scud said: Thanks for your essay. I find it's easier to just interact with people normally though. It's pretty easy to do if you don't suffer from crippling social anxiety. Last OnlineNow GenderFemale BirthdayNov 8, 1989 Locationひ・み・つ JoinedJul 31, 2007 |
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MoodBooster said: Don't worry, I'm not actually that old.Scud said: Thanks for your essay. I find it's easier to just interact with people normally though. It's pretty easy to do if you don't suffer from crippling social anxiety. Last OnlineNow GenderFemale BirthdayNov 8, 1989 Locationひ・み・つ JoinedJul 31, 2007 |
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| Lots of rash generalizations and seemingly personal anecdotes. Not sure what is "scientific" about this other than it being the type of thing you'd see on TRP or a Jordan Peterson video's comment section. Please explain what research has been conducted for any of these claims. I was a particular fan of "women are emotional creatures" that don't know why they do what they do. Do one for men instead. |
| "Few, but ripe." - C.F. Gauss |
| Porn consummation doesn't make me have any form of unrealistic standards. I still find the vast majority of females (as long as not too old or too young) visually pleasing and attractive (as long as not obese and no extreme tattoes, piercings, etc.) from the looks. There are traits like smoking, excessive drinking or even drug usage that make me turn away, but other than that, it's more of a lack in interest. I can only really get interested in someone when I get the feeling there's at least someone feeling interest in or even compassion towards me. Romance and sex would be like a bonus. I would gladly be "friend-zoned" if it means that I could keep a close and meaningful relationship. But unfortunately, I tend to be "leave-zoned", because I tend to attract people with a short fuse, with problems to communicate their discontent with me in advance, and/or who have other issues, and/or people, who toss me aside once I can't provide entertainment or whatever to them any longer. I am usually very forgiving and tolerating unless it's something extreme like abuse; it's been pretty much always the other side that doesn't take the relationship towards me as seriously as I do towards them and thus don't feel any strong enough sense of commitment so that basic virtues like "loyalty/faithfulness/fidelity" don't apply to them or more like: they don't see it being applied, even when I'm applying it towards them. If anything, then I'm just too gullible; I see too much good in other people and I misinterpret intentions. It's also possible that my feelings are simply stronger and longer-lasting than how the other side feels about me. |
Scud said: Don't worry, I'm not actually that old. That's not the only lie there either. |
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| Because there is nothing that turns girls on more than being generalized as being all the same.... >.> At least you didn't say anything too too horrible and some things are good reasonable advice mixed in there but nothing extraordinary. Also come on be honest, a lot of things you said are objectively scientifically known to be a myth, such as masturbation significantly lowering testosterone levels. |
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| Thank you for the advice, Cosmic Warrior |
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| to me it doesn't make a difference it doesn't matter if the person is a girl or not i would just talk to them normally and be respectful and honest |
| I myself prefer to just break out the chloroform and chain them to the radiator in my rape dungeon basement |
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| You gotta run up to them from five miles away carrying a beautiful bouquet of roses, and then slap em on the pussy! |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
Lost_Viking said: I prefer the Ted Bundy way...Alex Jones style!I myself prefer to just break out the chloroform and chain them to the radiator in my rape dungeon basement |
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| Man you are the hero we need but don't deserve. Your guide is very interesting and complete, but can't work for me... because...y-you know... I-I like anime girls...but...but... THEY DON'T FUCKING EXIST! |
| Thank you but nah I only fap to 2d girls |
| The problem with long lists of advice like this, is that you can talk all you want about what works with girls and whatnot, and none of this advice is going to help anyone. The reason why is because the issue, for the most part, is not with male behavior. Most men these days have such pathetically low standards that its truly embarrassing to watch. Men don't need their dignity attacked any further, they need to be told to actually have some. Men's mental health is in the shitter these days because they keep believing in this self-improvement crap and thinking its their fault when they fail rather than demanding a reasonable bar to reach for. |
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Ryuk9428 said: The problem with long lists of advice like this, is that you can talk all you want about what works with girls and whatnot, and none of this advice is going to help anyone. The reason why is because the issue, for the most part, is not with male behavior. Most men these days have such pathetically low standards that its truly embarrassing to watch. Men don't need their dignity attacked any further, they need to be told to actually have some. Men's mental health is in the shitter these days because they keep believing in this self-improvement crap and thinking its their fault when they fail rather than demanding a reasonable bar to reach for. Being a tribal leader, this was the core concept of the mystery method. Humans still function with caveman instincts. The higher status someone has the more attractive they will be percieved to be. This is instincts from when we lived in tribes a male who is part of a large tribe with other powerful males (a circle of friends) he will be more able to hunt food and protect a female with the help of his friends/relatives. The irony is that even with emancipation and even among females who absolutely don't want to have any children at all, those instincts still prevail. It's very noticeable when they primarily ask you about your material possessions and your living situation (instead of more about your interests or likes/dislikes), and when their attraction towards you changes based on your reply. Plus, it's like the meme with "need job for experience - need experience for jobs": "need friends to be able to befriend people". For some, it's even hard to get mutual interest on-going and the approach that seems to be the most promising like trying to befriend someone where there appears to be mutual attraction (more often than not with someone from the opposite sex or respectively: the sex you're attracted to), ironically always fails, because of unconscious, biologically motivated actions. |
Xstasy said: How about talking to them normal like you would talk to anybody else. If ur lucky like I was they will be into lewd role playing. |
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Xstasy said: Great; now I only need to figure out how to keep their interest in me and how to make them stay with me, even if "only" as friends. It's not hard for me at all to keep talking to other people once there is an initial spark, but the feeling of "clicking" seems to vanish by the other side at some point or other, even if it may be rekindled for some short period.How about talking to them normal like you would talk to anybody else. IpreferEcchi said: That would be certainly fun, but only if you are the one participating. Reading stuff like that as a non-involved party is boring. btw.: that reminds me, but I used to read lewd fanfictions of Naruto (Lime and Lemon; don't know which was which, but the one only had sexual acts hinted while the other one had sexual acts explicitly mentioned)If ur lucky like I was they will be into lewd role playing. |
| nah, this is much better https://www.wikihow.com/Talk-to-a-Girl |
| [7] Poe's Law - A documentation of the craziness found on the MAL forums ||| "Show you are not afraid, you are a strong man who is able to pork powerfully" - When evopsych goes wrong From now until forever, These two threads of yours will have a special place in my heart. #7, welcome, welcome. |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
| Extremely insightful post. I shall write notes on this thread to help with my future plans with dating. Much appreciated. |
CosmicWarriors said: Most people male and female who cannot get a partner simply have unrealistic standards. Stopped reading right here, thanks for the post. |
| "how to interact with females" "protect a female" "the ability to provide for and protect females" "what females subconsciously want to know is that you have support" "make them feel more secure and that her offspring will have a greater chance for survival" "females will actually probably turn you down at first even if they like you" "show you are not afraid, you are a strong man who is able to pork powerfully" "they love to be chased as this builds up their self esteem" "the problem is women are emotional creatures" "look up the mystery method for very detailed explanations of female psychology" not sure if op has been living in a cave or is just a troll. given their lack of entries, despite signing up six days ago, i'll go with the latter. r/niceguys |
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| TLDR If you want to interact to girls just get up real close to their face and talk in a loud threatening tone. If she tries to run just grab her wrist pull her towards you and say "you ain't going nowhere bitch" Works every time. |
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post limit... post limit r/niceguys |
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That song... is kind of hilariously mortifying. |
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Ahhhhhh greaaaaat, I already had a feeling this thread was gonna turn into an immediate shitstorm. |
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| @CosmicWarriors: First, let me summon @Railey2: because your replies are quite amusing and he's missing a few pieces of gold for his museum. Second, I will shortly address your long posting. Basically, you've ignored the statements here in this thread that stated that porn consummation did not at all cause an increase of unrealistic expectations or decreased the libido of someone. The language was quite hilarious at a few parts, but aside from that, there seems to have been some good advice hidden like with the simile with a male bird building the nest and waiting for the female instead of chasing them. About the friend-zone: just because someone mentions it, it doesn't automatically mean they would complain about it. If you had actually read my posting(s), you would know that I would prefer such a thing over being completely ditched (leave-zoned). On that note, I don't quite agree with there being only the option to get into a romantic relationship with a female and to befriend females only to eventually get into a romantic relationship, and if that fails, to completely ditch them. Correct me if I misunderstood you. Now about your reply to me: CosmicWarriors said: - I was merely criticizing the still prevalent focus on factors that imho shouldn't matter in modern times, especially not with people who according to themselves don't want children, anyway. In my mind, everyone should be able to provide for themselves, so it shouldn't matter whether someone can easily provide for children who don't exist and won't exist with proper protection. Thus, also the parts about showing "father qualities" or having lots of friends/support shouldn't be needed to apply, if you ask me. This holds even more truth when you don't aim for a love relationship, but in truth are at most open for one and would be already very happy to be in a close, deep, firm, steady and true friendship with a member of the opposite sex.Not sure what you are trying to say. You dont have any friends and cant get friends because you have no friends and cant get a girlfriend because you have no friends? As for doing what I love and/or meeting people: 1) I don't really "love" things. I cannot be passionate enough to harbor that strong feelings to something. 2) I lack the motivation to do things on my own (like learning a new language), because I lack the encouragement from others and/or the people, who would actively wish for me to do those things (like learning their language to talk to them in their language or doing sports to be fitter myself). There's also no pain or health reason for me to do sports, because I'm not overweight at all. 3) I would be fine just with writing to people online. In fact, it's often preferable over having to stress myself to get ready to meet up with someone in person. They can be supportively there for me even directly after work hours are over or at whatever random time. The connection is what matters way more to me than having physical, visual and audible contact. Besides, at least for the latter two, modern technology makes it possible to overcome that distance, too - provided there is mutual interest in it, that is. |
NoboruJul 25, 2019 12:39 PM
bimbos said: Ryuk9428 said: red alertThe problem with long lists of advice like this, is that you can talk all you want about what works with girls and whatnot, and none of this advice is going to help anyone. The reason why is because the issue, for the most part, is not with male behavior. Most men these days have such pathetically low standards that its truly embarrassing to watch. Men don't need their dignity attacked any further, they need to be told to actually have some. Men's mental health is in the shitter these days because they keep believing in this self-improvement crap and thinking its their fault when they fail rather than demanding a reasonable bar to reach for. red alert nice guy detected nice guy detected sound the alarm Red alert, cucked male feminist here. |
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| I love that you exist, you make my heart go doki doki even though my literature level is not over nine thousand. You try to preach in a public chat space where final fantasy cannot become a reality, where nekos and foxes don't go yeet yeet. Oh, good luck on your exam! |
| @Noboru this guy is too good, I think I'll just add small portion like "there's more gold in the threads", and leave it there. Unless he gives us another iconic phrase. Who am I kidding, all of it is iconic, but the entry is already long enough. I'll see what I can do tomorrow, I need to rewrite some parts anyway. |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
| I'm not the type of person who can give you advice on that kind of subject, sorry. On the other hand, had the thread been titled "How to avoid interaction with females," I would've been able to give you loads of advice. :P |
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Railey2 said: Haha, you're welcome :D You should make backup copies for as long as this thread + the replies still exist, which was the primary reason why I've summoned you ^^@Noboru this guy is too good, I think I'll just add small portion like "there's more gold in the threads", and leave it there. Unless he gives us another iconic phrase. Who am I kidding, all of it is iconic, but the entry is already long enough. I'll see what I can do tomorrow, I need to rewrite some parts anyway. Seiya said: lol, as if that were that much of a problem for many people here including myself </3On the other hand, had the thread been titled "How to avoid interaction with females," I would've been able to give you loads of advice. :P |
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