zal said:The main reason I wanted to reply. As we can see even from this thread, the usual ecchi fans responses to an ecchi thread in order to avoid discussing are: "this is bait" (which to be fair can be but report it and move on), derailing the thread or "old anime did it too".
I mean, the main reason I don't discuss things in any kind of earnest in threads like that is that it seems pretty pointless to justify bait threads coming from known shitposters (i.e. the last thread you bitched about this in) with legitimate responses or, like this one, which I'd really need a strong, strong justification to not just see as a bait thread of sorts. I'm sorry if you don't like it, but I'm not going to waste my life trying to kick up a meaningful conversation in a discussion thread that's being laid out like this. If you want to do so, by all means try, but I'm not obligated to respond to you or discuss things with you - which, I usually won't bother with what I've seen be your most frequent approach to the topic, but I'll get into that in a bit - and I'd appreciate it if you'd stop childishly tossing about allegations of avoiding criticism every time people call a bait thread a bait thread. There is no meaningful discussion being laid out here, if you want to try to make one then go ahead, but the thread itself is pretty much weightless. Continue to complain about the lack of engagement with these topics if you want to, I guess, but to me it just seems like you're creating an entirely asinine narrative with all of this that doesn't need to be a thing at all.
And with you specifically (and not-so-specifically, I guess) I tend to avoid discussing these things because of what you pretty much outlined in your post right here:
zal said:That 80s "ecchi" image is not as distasteful and offensive in the context of an anime show. And I specify anime show because I'd welcome the characters OP posted in a hentai but not in an anime that has some resemblance of story or characterization. To me if it's done in a superficial way just for the fanservice they contradict each other.
This the angle I've seen you approach it from the most, and all I can really say is that I don't give a fuck whether or not you find it distasteful or offensive. Sounds harsh, but that's just how it is. Feel free to do so as you may, but I'm not interested in talking about it, I just really, really am apathetic to as much and I am in no way obligated to indulge in that conversation if I don't wish to. I don't see a reason to try and change your perspective, or even if I did, I don't think it's one egregious enough to try to change. I *don't* care about the application of sexualization in these contexts, and you very rarely bring it up outside of these contexts, at least from what I've seen.
This might sound a bit dickish, but it's kind of the truth I see here - what's the point of responding if I don't actually care enough about your take to want to engage you in a discussion about it? There's no need to really outright tell you "I don't give a fuck" when you start telling your thoughts or making a post in a thread, if anything that seems needlessly hostile to me, but since this isn't the first time I've seen you bitch about this, I might as well just tell you forthright that it's very much the case and it's the main reason why I don't engage you on this topic, just to leave you wondering less, perhaps. Your sensitivities, what you deem as appropriate or inappropriate to sexualize, things like this are none of my concern. And I just have no interest in making them my concern because it seems more draining and tiresome than interesting or thought-provoking.
So there you go. Can't really speak for others, but I very much just do not care about this specific kind of opinion (or this type of topic) in this case, hence I just move on and go about my day rather than kicking up an argument or conversation I really don't see as interesting or worthwhile. Maybe when I was rampaging about last year or so I would've engaged in a discussion on this topic that I saw as banal, but not now. I have a real life job, I administrate two clubs on this site, one of which has over 10k members, and when those two things aren't eating up my time, there's a plethora of things I'd rather spend my time doing than discussing whether or not you find a sexualized portrayal tasteful or distasteful. That does extend beyond you, too, I've pretty much abandoned the "tastefulness in ecchi" discussion at this point all together. Because I've reached the conclusion that I really, really just don't care if others find it offensive or whatever. I'll do me, I'll like what I like, and judgement such as that coming from others isn't anything to worry about.
Your problems aren't my problems, stop trying to make them as much by trying to taunt into engaging in a discussion I'm just not interested in having, because that's really how it comes off when you start accusing others of avoiding discussion and the underlying tone of that comes off like you're making it out as hiding from criticism or something. I will gladly write out something in earnest, whenever I view the topic as worth discussing or interesting to talk about. But what you're trying to bring up here, I don't. So I'm not wasting my time. Sorry. |