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Who's your oldest MAL friend? Do you still talk to them or are they just there on your friends list?

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Aug 14, 2017 2:57 PM
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When I mean oldest friend, I don't mean like join date for MAL or irl age. I mean the person you're been friends with since day 1 on MAL, I guess?

For the second question, Are you guys still active with each other like PM-ing or etc? Or did they go inactive for a long time or something.
Aug 14, 2017 3:06 PM
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I don't think I was friends with them day 1 but they were my first friend here.

He kind of gave up on mal a year or two ago, but he still comes on every so often to post and talk in pms. It's not perfect, but it's better than never hearing from him again.

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All that glitters is gold
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Aug 14, 2017 3:13 PM
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I kind of forgot how we became friends, but I think it was because he replied to my introduction thread two years ago? Since then we've been friends, and we talk through PMs.

I didn't go on MAL for a full year last year due to, uh, irl problems, but I started using MAL again two weeks ago, and we started PMing each other again. Yeah, I'm happy we're friends :p
Aug 14, 2017 3:29 PM
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I don't remember. And I'm sure I don't since it was 10 years ago.
Aug 14, 2017 3:38 PM
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My oldest mal 'friend' was an anime youtuber, i dont recall who i added a bunch in my first few days and yes theyre just in my friends list.
Aug 14, 2017 3:40 PM
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Baman. Actually not even sure if he'son my friends' list but he's my oldest friend on this site. I afk for three years. soz
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Aug 14, 2017 3:47 PM
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Sora, I talk to her here and there but not as it used to be.
Aug 14, 2017 3:52 PM
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Never talked with my oldest mal "friend"
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Aug 14, 2017 5:19 PM
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It's @waterfallsxo and I still talk to her regularly on another social media site.

Then @Roth and @Comic_Sans who I still talk to occasionally.
Aug 14, 2017 5:28 PM

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I don't remember. I haven't even talked to any of my MAL friends in a long time.

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Aug 14, 2017 7:29 PM

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my oldest MAL friend would be Utawarezen and man is that a story.
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The dude was 2 years older than me, i was 14. for some reason i looked up to him

He dropped out of highschool, He had drinking problems, suicidal tendencies and vented to me about his abusive family a lot.
One day he just deleted all his accounts. Told me he was goin' off to college, I really am not sure if he was telling the truth. weird to think about
a very one sided friendship really.
Aug 14, 2017 8:10 PM

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Not too sure about the "oldest", but this person I've been talking too feels like it's been going on for a while ---- three months to be exact.
Aug 14, 2017 8:16 PM

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Me, myself, and I. We don't talk anymore, though.





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Aug 14, 2017 9:24 PM

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not sure who my very first friend on MAL is (sorry I'm the worst person ever and my memory is horrid) but whoever it is, I don't still talk to them.
Aug 14, 2017 10:59 PM

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A guy named LordSenate who I spoke too on a drug forum, he was ex military and usually pilled the fuck out. Really chill dude tho, godspeed Lord Senate ;_;
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Aug 15, 2017 12:11 AM

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The people that I considered at some point to be "friends" on MAL are probably RandomChampion, Artstyle, Cigarette, Lime, Revelry, Immahnoob and thank God they're not on this crappy site anymore.
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Aug 15, 2017 12:12 AM
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Lindsayzzz, I've known him for 9 years now.
Aug 15, 2017 12:49 AM
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Think it was @Lord_Sithis and yeah I still talk to him, just not on MAL.
Aug 15, 2017 3:00 AM

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I think the first one was @Yarub if I'm not mistaken. And yup, we still talk on Discord and sometimes on MAL still.
And now I could get back at him for tagging me in that weird 'tag someone' FG thread, take that Yarub.
Aug 15, 2017 3:02 AM

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Myself! They still talked to me till now. I'm glad to have a friend who respect our friendship who were understand me! Age between the gape are doesn't matter as long as we trust each other.


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Aug 15, 2017 3:39 AM

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ChipFuu said:
I think the first one was @Yarub if I'm not mistaken. And yup, we still talk on Discord and sometimes on MAL still.
And now I could get back at him for tagging me in that weird 'tag someone' FG thread, take that Yarub.

Still won't stop.

OT: I think it was Youkai_No_Hebi, he's the first guy. I even know him irl now.
Aug 15, 2017 3:45 AM

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I stopped talking to my 'First MAL friend' a week ago. The relationship had turned sour, we shared minimal common interests, and had been doing nothing more then grinding each other's nerves for 9 months staight. It was time for us to move in separate directions.
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Aug 15, 2017 5:26 AM

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This one's easy. None other than my beloved senpai @Wretch.

And yes, we do still talk.
Aug 15, 2017 5:28 AM

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Even tho i joined the site in 2008 I don't think I added anyone til 2010 who's actually a friend irl, then in 2012 another irl friend lol

Was only in 2013 when I became a forum mod and went on IRC that I talked to more people and became friends with a lot more people.

I think looking back in history it kinda shows how I changed over time too. From 2008-2013, I was kinda the lone wolf kinda guy til I had to be social as a forum mod and eventually has a huge list now. Hmm.
Aug 15, 2017 6:05 AM

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Dunno, can't say. I had a friend who used MAL before I joined MAL myself, though the last time we talked to each other was the beginning of this year, I think... :v

Anyway, I was mostly a lurker on MAL 2 years after I joined, so I didn't actually start posting in the forums all that much until 2014 or so, which I think was the year I made my first friend through MAL. The last time I spoke to that friend was at the beginning of last year. Real bummer, tbh



Aug 15, 2017 6:13 AM

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@spooks @sixyears @korrvo @Mushmallow


Two I don't talk to, one I see around Discord occasionally, and one just recently returned. A lot's changed over the years, smh,



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Aug 15, 2017 6:33 AM

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@naoto_kun and @reddix they're early 90s (1991-1992) we still communicating till today. They still friendly and always make me laugh on their convos.
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Aug 15, 2017 6:35 AM

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I remember when @clebardman friended me when my profile was still a blank white space.

Now he probably doesn't remember who I am anymore :')
Aug 15, 2017 6:39 AM
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No friends, so I will say no to everything else.
Aug 15, 2017 6:40 AM
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tfw no mal friends. feels bad man...
Aug 15, 2017 6:42 AM

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i only remember 2 early friends

i never ever talked to the first one (i'm thinking of somehow unfriending lol)

the other one that i used to always talk to pretty much disabled(?) her account i can't even message her :(

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Aug 15, 2017 6:43 AM

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Yeah, I still talk to him because he is my friend irl too :p





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Aug 15, 2017 7:13 AM

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joined apr 15 and apr 17 @Astraea_ added me
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Aug 15, 2017 7:31 AM

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People I used to talk to around 2011-2012 I don't really hear about anymore, but a few 2013 users and onwards I have some kind of contact with.
Aug 15, 2017 10:21 AM

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@naoto_kun and @koneviart. They're 1 year older than me.
Naoto is a good senior and she always giving me advice not tease ppl but sorry senior i cannot help it lol.
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Aug 15, 2017 10:25 AM

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@Reddox Rei u meanie! I told u many times not to call me like that! X0
Aug 15, 2017 10:44 AM
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I talk with her on steam, but she hasn't been online on MAL in forever.
Aug 15, 2017 10:57 AM

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I dont know who is my oldest friend here. But maybe he isnt here anymore. 10 years is a lot of time.
Aug 15, 2017 12:29 PM

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I'm not sure about the Term "Friend" in General, so I would prefer something like "good/sympathetic Acquaintance". The very first ones I had and have, were the ones who had brought me here in the first Place. I didn't use MAL to talk to them in the Beginning, though. At some Point or other, they had removed me from the List. Then we came briefly into Contact again and I was re-added (but not everyone did). We haven't been in Contact mainly because I didn't want to use a Chat Program and there wasn't any Incentive on either Side to keep a Discussion on-going or to begin new ones.

As for my oldest good Acquaintances made on MAL, I still talk to some of them from Time to Time, but almost exclusively on Forums.
NoboruAug 16, 2017 3:31 PM

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