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Sep 7, 2019 6:58 PM
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Thats the whole question, long time ago i was in a similar situation, so i would like to know different peoples mentalities if that makes sense.
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Sep 7, 2019 7:03 PM
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RogueCitizen64 said:
Nope, I would never change myself for someone else.
yeah, theres no reason to change yourself right
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Sep 7, 2019 7:09 PM
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I'd probably make them waste big time of theirs with arguments just to say I wouldn't drop.
Sep 7, 2019 7:10 PM
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No, because watching anime isn't a bad thing so that would just be controlling on their part. If someone is borderline obsessed and their partner tells them to cut it down that could be okay but that's not the scenario for me at least.

Rarie said:
RogueCitizen64 said:
Nope, I would never change myself for someone else.
yeah, theres no reason to change yourself right

No one is perfect, people can change for the better. It depends on what they're asking you to change.
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Sep 7, 2019 7:15 PM
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-InfiniteLoop- said:
No, because watching anime isn't a bad thing so that would just be controlling on their part. If someone is borderline obsessed and their partner tells them to cut it down that could be okay but that's not the scenario for me at least.

Rarie said:
yeah, theres no reason to change yourself right

No one is perfect, people can change for the better. It depends on what they're asking you to change.
thats a good point, its not a biggie to change something minor i guess
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Sep 7, 2019 7:16 PM
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No but I'd certainly be dropping something else.
Sep 7, 2019 7:16 PM
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I wouldn't change myself for a crush if it's not something bad and is just something I like doing in my spare time. If they can't accept it they can accept me.
Sep 7, 2019 7:21 PM
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Nope i would never change myself for my crush and why should i? Exactly theirs no point in changing something that you do. You need to find someone else who can like you for what you do and who you are.



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Sep 7, 2019 7:26 PM
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It's not worth it if they're just a crush. Crushes come and go, and forever is a really long time.
Sep 7, 2019 7:33 PM

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If she told me to drop anime, then she's not really my kind of girl in the first place.
Sep 7, 2019 7:39 PM

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Then she is not my crush anymore. I ain't dropping it for tits and vegene.

Sep 7, 2019 7:50 PM

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Lol, no. I'd prefer a crush who isn't controlling. I'd most likely laugh and then in my best Vince McMahon voice say, "Who the hell do you think you are!!?".
Sep 7, 2019 7:58 PM

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An irrational request like that would come from an irrational person. I'm not interested in someone like that.

I can see you


Sep 7, 2019 8:00 PM

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Why would you even want to be with someone that would force you to stop liking something as small as an anime lol.

If you actually have to think about a scenario like that, let me tell you that relationship won't last past the honeymoon phase, or maybe not even through it.
Sep 7, 2019 8:53 PM

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I mean, I already don't watch anime, so...

Sep 7, 2019 9:05 PM

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They wouldn't be my crush anymore if that were the case.
Sep 7, 2019 10:32 PM
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My last ex-gf hated Anime-related stuff with a passion, she was more into American live-action movies crap and music pop culture, luckily I don't have to deal with her crap anymore, and thank god!
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Sep 7, 2019 10:34 PM

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lol no way i rather become #ForeverAlone then like im doing already but its different if its like millions of dollars that will make me financially secure for life then i can just buy love lol
Sep 7, 2019 10:37 PM

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Hell no, i like and do what i want to. What gives that person to say otherwise? They ain't gonna take away my freedom lol
Sep 7, 2019 11:53 PM
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I wouldn't like them at all if they asked me to drop something I enjoyed. Not that I know why anyone would request their partner to do such a thing. Seems kind of strange to me. But yeah, there's nothing wrong or shameful about viewing and enjoying anime so people shouldn't be telling those who do watch it to stop. It doesn't affect them in any way so personally, I'd tell them to bugger off.
Sep 7, 2019 11:58 PM

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Uhm is there anyone who would actually do that?

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Sep 7, 2019 11:59 PM

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If they told me to forever leave my Nyankos, I'd forever leave hem instead. Nobody takes my Nyankos away from me! Nobody, I tell you!
Sep 8, 2019 12:30 AM

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I want to be the very best, like no one ever was. To watch them is my real test, to list them is my cause. I will travel across MAL, searching far and wide. Each anime to understand the power that's inside. Gotta watch 'em all!
Sep 8, 2019 12:52 AM

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Considering all my crushes are anime characters, I would only assume that her requesting me to stop watching anime would be the equivalent of "We should stop seeing eachother". If I stopped watching anime I can't be with my waifu, but if I keep watching anime I won't be able to date my waifu. These kinds of conundrums will keep you up at night......
Sep 8, 2019 1:17 AM

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No, if they can't accept me doing something as harmless as watching anime they're not worth it.
Sep 8, 2019 1:40 AM

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No. They would be getting dropped. No matter how much I'm into them, I could never take away one of my main hobbies, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who is selfish enough to request that anyway.
          
Sep 8, 2019 1:41 AM

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That would never happen. Either no one would bother making such a demand or I just simply would not be into someone that bossy and controlling to begin with.
Sep 8, 2019 1:51 AM
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Crush can't ask to stop anime
If she 2D.
Brain the width
Of Pluto.

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Or, perhaps, in a dream you might date your waifu, and spend your NEET day watching anime and fan-arts.
So your most emotional memories are spent with her, so she appears in your dreams?
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Sep 8, 2019 1:57 AM
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Never. Look, if you're going to date someone then it's basically a necessity that you have some common interests or you won't have any fun together in the first place. Thus having to give up what you enjoy in order to be with someone is just paradoxical in nature. Just leave them be and go look for someone more suitable for you instead
Sep 8, 2019 1:57 AM
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No I would make them watch that anime instead😈
Sep 8, 2019 8:25 AM

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024 said:
Uhm is there anyone who would actually do that?
Believe it or not, a lot of people are like this.
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Sep 8, 2019 8:29 AM

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I like to think i wouldn't have a crush on someone so close minded in the first place.
Sep 8, 2019 8:33 AM

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If she promises to entertain me more than anime (which is, tbh, not a lot), then sure. Otherwise she can suck my dick I hope.
Sep 8, 2019 8:40 AM

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That's not happening. I'd drop her instead.


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Sep 8, 2019 9:27 AM

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sorry, no way, I am myself, I love what I do.
Sep 8, 2019 11:19 AM

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Thanakos said:
If she promises to entertain me more than anime (which is, tbh, not a lot), then sure. Otherwise she can suck my dick I hope.
What do you mean by entertain you lol
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Sep 8, 2019 11:37 AM

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I wouldn't give up something I love for anyone, unless it was something that was doing me or someone else some harm (drugs, reckless behavior, etc...), and the person was asking me to give it up because they really care about me and didn't want to see me hurt. Otherwise, I wouldn't even consider it. I don't care if the person asking me to give it up is a friend, a significant other, or even my mom. No one worth keeping in my life would ever ask me to give up one of my hobbies or interests for them, anyway.

A "crush" is literally nothing. Something that comes and goes, a person who isn't important at all in the long run. If they don't like me for who I am, they probably aren't worth my time and energy to begin with.
Sep 8, 2019 11:56 AM

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I really doubt it. Most of my partners have hated anime, but I don't think I could end up with a person who wanted to change my hobbies like that.
Sep 8, 2019 12:14 PM

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Nah. My ex told me to give up video game, so I decided to just find someone else.
Sep 8, 2019 1:17 PM
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Yes. I don't care much about anime these days anyway.
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Sep 8, 2019 2:45 PM

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Definitely not, I’d look for someone more open minded instead. Anime is a huge part of my life, I wouldn’t give it up <3
Sep 8, 2019 3:32 PM

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No, I would not if my crush said so. They wouldn't be a crush in the first place if that was the case.
Sep 8, 2019 4:06 PM
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Welp since the topics a "crush" and that means your not even in a relationship with em to start with, it's a hard nope for me. Why listen to someone telling you how to live your life if they aren't even in it to start with?
Sep 8, 2019 4:57 PM

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TheHentaiKing said:
No, I would not if my crush said so. They wouldn't be a crush in the first place if that was the case.


Lmfao that image is exactly what I'd say if I was ever in this situation.


It's not like anime is a bad thing, if my partner couldn't give me a valid reason to stop doing something then I was say fuck em ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Sep 8, 2019 5:04 PM

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No. She may however leave me after I cuckquean her with two prostitutes I dressed up like the sisters from Kill la Kill.
Look, baby, I had to do this. sisters should never fight, you know? Now you two kiss and make up.
Oh my goodness, girl why you looking at me all crazy like that? Okay, look, I know I fucked up big time, so you pick which one I finish with okay?
I forgot a crucial part tho, I told both of them beforehand that the one who 'wins' gets an extra 500$, they was already pretty feisty and aggressive.
What...
You want that 500$ for yourself...
I didn't anticipate this.
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Sep 8, 2019 5:06 PM

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No , I mean I don't need her if she can't accept me the way I am



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Sep 8, 2019 5:09 PM

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Right now, yeah, I would drop anime: it wouldn't hurt too badly, but if you asked me in a couple years time, probably not.
Sep 8, 2019 6:02 PM
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No. Not for anyone.

If they were saying something like, "Hey, your relationship with anime is unhealthy. You need to stop watching it," and if I actually DID have an unhealthy relationship with anime then I'd just go about it another way. Because I definitely have some habits with anime that I should keep an eye on. They're fine now and all in good fun, but much like a lot of things, they could take a wrong turn. That's just reality, but that doesn't mean that if it gets to a bad point then I can't fix it.

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Sep 8, 2019 6:47 PM
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I did that once, in winter 2015 I knew a girl (crush) who doesn't like anime (like hate it). So according as we talk and spent time together I progressively felt ashamed because of anime.
Half a year later I came back to the anime world (stronger than ever, of course) and the funny thing is that, now, she watches anime too LOL, a perfect fangirl I think.
So don't feel ashamed because your likes and hobbies, and do not try to fit in if it is just not your place. If you ever want to leave it, just do it, but do it by choice.
Have a nice day, guys! ╰(´︶`)╯♡
Sep 8, 2019 7:20 PM

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Nope, if she doesn't like me doing something that makes me happy I shouldn't be with her.
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