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Sep 29, 2019 7:13 PM
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why are we talking about what we look in a signficant others and first dates when we mostly likely fap to hentai and have a diagnosis of autism?

do you think mal users are getting dates and getting into relationships? why or why not? seems unlikely. we are into anime after all.
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Sep 29, 2019 7:15 PM
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Speak for yourself. You can still fap to hentai and have normal relationship.

Sep 29, 2019 7:16 PM
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youre right but a lot of users here are still teenagers and are in school though so there is hope for them and more likely they are the ones making those threads
Sep 29, 2019 7:20 PM
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Kaiser-kun said:
Speak for yourself. You can still fap to hentai and have normal relationship.


lol good luck finding a normal well adjusted woman ok with you fapping to animated porn. especially one you want to marry. haha.

deg said:
youre right but a lot of users here are still teenagers and are in school though so there is hope for them and more likely they are the ones making those threads


true but i wonder
Sep 29, 2019 7:37 PM
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Speak a lot how inexperienced you are with woman.

Sep 29, 2019 7:38 PM
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Op chill bro we ain't tryin to scare the bitches like that
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Sep 29, 2019 7:44 PM
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So a potential "significant other" can't enjoy anime too?
That's so crazy, guess I've been lucky? The other person usually likes genres I could pass on or they watch their own stuff. That's like saying a gamer can't get a girlfriend lol
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Sep 29, 2019 8:01 PM
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AnimeFreak-San said:
Kaiser-kun said:
Speak for yourself. You can still fap to hentai and have normal relationship.


lol good luck finding a normal well adjusted woman ok with you fapping to animated porn. especially one you want to marry. haha.


People masturbate (including to porn and hentai) even when they are in a relationship. Only virgins wouldn't know that. Not that there's anything wrong with being a virgin of course...
Sep 29, 2019 8:04 PM
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Of course we won't, I mean we're using MAL so I think that justifies it enough that we'll forever be alone. Perhaps getting married to an anime girl is something I can look forward to in the future.
Sep 29, 2019 8:17 PM

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What if I neither date nor fap to hentai?

You've made me feel so "other" tonight for not fitting neatly into either category.
Sep 29, 2019 8:18 PM

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If anime is the whole reason you're not getting any dates, then something is wrong with you. Either you a whole ass weaboo or you don't even try.
Sep 29, 2019 8:40 PM

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Are you sure you aren't just projecting?

I've been in a relationship for two years and am now engaged. I've had dates and relationships before that. If you find yourself unable to get a girl then it doesn't matter if you watch anime or not, because you wouldn't get one either way.
Sep 29, 2019 8:44 PM

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Silverstorm said:
So a potential "significant other" can't enjoy anime too?
That's so crazy, guess I've been lucky? The other person usually likes genres I could pass on or they watch their own stuff. That's like saying a gamer can't get a girlfriend lol


they can like normie anime like pokemon and fairy tail but nothing degenerate like.

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AnimeFreak-San said:


lol good luck finding a normal well adjusted woman ok with you fapping to animated porn. especially one you want to marry. haha.


People masturbate (including to porn and hentai) even when they are in a relationship. Only virgins wouldn't know that. Not that there's anything wrong with being a virgin of course...


even normie hot girls? i doubt it.
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What if I neither date nor fap to hentai?

You've made me feel so "other" tonight for not fitting neatly into either category.


then you are a subset of mal users, still pretty regular.
Sep 29, 2019 8:52 PM

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Veronin said:
Are you sure you aren't just projecting?

I've been in a relationship for two years and am now engaged. I've had dates and relationships before that. If you find yourself unable to get a girl then it doesn't matter if you watch anime or not, because you wouldn't get one either way.


I thought you were giving up anime which proves my point? lol,

and I speak for all us weirdos and misftis on mal...living in our mothers basement...eating cheetos and takeout...being filthy and fat...we only have our anime girls to love. we will forever be scorned and be unwelcome to the touch of a beautiful 3d woman...alas we must find solace in 2d, and therefore, we must truely belive and pray that 2d, is indeed, better than 3d...
Sep 29, 2019 8:53 PM

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Sep 29, 2019 8:54 PM
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First of all like 95% of Americans get married at least once in their life (excluding people who die young). So even if you're some massive weeb chances are you're perfectly capable of getting a date.

You sound like you're a high school student though talking about high school age anime viewers being capable of getting laid before highschool. In which case, yes, obviously if you watch anime you're more likely to be a dork than somebody who doesn't. But anime is becoming pretty mainstream now and frankly there's a fair amount of people who watch anime that weren't dorky in highschool (I certainly did well for myself back in the day, although to be fair I didn't really pick up anime until a couple years ago but still I'm a massive fan of it now). But shit even dorks sometimes get girlfriends in Highschool. It's literally just having the confidence to ask a girl out, it takes like ten seconds and the worst that can happen is they say no, never got why kids see it as so hard to do. Besides, a bad date is just like one wasted night, most girls will say yes if you're confident as long as they're not like way out of your league.
Sep 29, 2019 9:15 PM

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Seems like you're projecting a tad. Confidence goes a long way, having a niche interest doesn't invalidate you from finding a potential partner.


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Sep 29, 2019 10:06 PM

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AnimeFreak-San said:
Veronin said:
Are you sure you aren't just projecting?

I've been in a relationship for two years and am now engaged. I've had dates and relationships before that. If you find yourself unable to get a girl then it doesn't matter if you watch anime or not, because you wouldn't get one either way.


I thought you were giving up anime which proves my point? lol,

and I speak for all us weirdos and misftis on mal...living in our mothers basement...eating cheetos and takeout...being filthy and fat...we only have our anime girls to love. we will forever be scorned and be unwelcome to the touch of a beautiful 3d woman...alas we must find solace in 2d, and therefore, we must truely belive and pray that 2d, is indeed, better than 3d...
that's more like a hikkikomori or an anime otaku to me than a mal user tbh. only an anime otaku or a hikki or both who would have such paradigm about anime fans
Sep 29, 2019 10:20 PM

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AnimeFreak-San said:


lol good luck finding a normal well adjusted woman ok with you fapping to animated porn. especially one you want to marry. haha.


I wouldn't bloody care at all; at this point I could only date a guy who WAS into anime. :p

and I've definitely already dated guys who fapped to animated porn. Most men like porn...I've just accepted that.

seems unlikely. we are into anime after all.


Don't act retarded. ALL of my friends who are into anime and are married/dating. Grow up and lose this dumb narrow-minded way of thinking "stereotypes must be true lol nerds are virgins for life".
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Sep 29, 2019 11:08 PM

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@AnimeFreak-San Okay, that is fair. Maybe not Pokemon though but I know what you mean haha
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Sep 29, 2019 11:22 PM

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So-called "dates" are really rare in the Netherlands; even "online dating" rarely results into a "date" in the American style where one's in a restaurant asking the other formulaic quæstions.


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Sep 30, 2019 12:18 AM
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>most of us
Really, you and what army?
Sep 30, 2019 12:48 AM

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Of my friends who watch anime, probably 70% of them are either married or in long term relationships (and often their SO watches anime as well!).

So yeah, disagree.
Sep 30, 2019 3:19 AM

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If you are talking about all MAL users, then I disagree. Most of them probably have an SO. And again most of them do not post on forums at all.
If you are talking about MAL forums, maybe...
Every person I know irl that likes anime (can count them on one hand tho) are already married and have children.
Sep 30, 2019 3:33 AM

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Yes it's all over if your not a chad, and things are going to get only worse in future.
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It's like 90% women chase after 10% men nothing good can come from that.
Sep 30, 2019 5:50 AM

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Tell that to my ex. She saw something in me clearly.
Sep 30, 2019 5:59 AM

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Before getting a date you need to want a date
Sep 30, 2019 7:33 AM

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Bunch of bollocks.
You can beat that dick to whatever the hell you want and have a partner as long as you're a decent person.
Sep 30, 2019 8:07 AM
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Kaiser-kun said:
Speak for yourself. You can still fap to hentai and have normal relationship.
+1.

The OP just smells of insecure projection with this "We" and "Us" stuff
Sep 30, 2019 8:58 AM

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Nothing wrong with having high standards. Getting a woman is easy, but finding a quality woman is hard.
Sep 30, 2019 9:10 AM

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AnimeFreak-San said:
why are we talking about what we look in a signficant others and first dates when we mostly likely fap to hentai and have a diagnosis of autism?


I couldn't agree more.

I've always been disturbed by how clearly delusional MAL users are. They talk in hypotheticals a lot about dating, and it's just sad. We all know they aren't going to get dates. There's no point to them posting about something that is never going to happen. Nobody wants to date a weeb.
Sep 30, 2019 10:01 AM
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I do fap to hentai, and I do have a diagnosis of autism.
Sep 30, 2019 1:10 PM

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Nah, I could get date, if I wasn't such a shy bitch, and had some self confidence

I'm not a bad looking person(based on feedbacks I got so far(not from my mom)), neither a dumb one, I have good sense of humor, I can talk with others easily and I do sports regularly

Of course I have bad qualifications too, but those are not really noticeable things

Just because one watches anime doesn't make him am antisocial weirdo
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Sep 30, 2019 1:13 PM

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ok but my smol kawaii waifu goes on dates with me all the time
Sep 30, 2019 2:10 PM

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You can like anime and not watch hentai or have a room filled with anime/hentai-related merch. This isn't x vs y. I speak from experience.
Sep 30, 2019 3:28 PM

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AnimeFreak-San said:
why are we talking about what we look in a signficant others and first dates when we mostly likely fap to hentai and have a diagnosis of autism?


This is 100% true, but the difference between you and the people on MAL who actually get dates is that they are capable of hiding their autism and hentai addiction and are able to masquerade as normies when it's necessary to do so.


What's the difference?
Sep 30, 2019 3:56 PM

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As a qt gamer girl, I can get many dates XD~
Sep 30, 2019 3:57 PM

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Usagi said:
As a qt gamer girl, I can get many dates XD~


Theres no women on the internet silly
Sep 30, 2019 5:19 PM

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Daemon said:
AnimeFreak-San said:
why are we talking about what we look in a signficant others and first dates when we mostly likely fap to hentai and have a diagnosis of autism?


This is 100% true, but the difference between you and the people on MAL who actually get dates is that they are capable of hiding their autism and hentai addiction and are able to masquerade as normies when it's necessary to do so.

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This. I even got invited to a Netflix and Chill tonight, but had to turn it down due to schedule conflicts.
Sep 30, 2019 6:08 PM

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To a point, attactiveness is subjective , and oh trust me, I could actually get plenty of dates within the month if I wanted to. Just that all of them would be guys. I don't have the will to pursue actual women, and if a girl wants to go out with me, she can ask herself. The odds are against me, but frankly I couldn't care less. If I actually wanted to have a partner, I'd just go for men instead. In the meantime, I'm content with being a single skinny guy with a demon for a waifu.
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mascarpone said:
Daemon said:


This is 100% true, but the difference between you and the people on MAL who actually get dates is that they are capable of hiding their autism and hentai addiction and are able to masquerade as normies when it's necessary to do so.

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This. I even got invited to a Netflix and Chill tonight, but had to turn it down due to schedule conflicts.


Netflix and chill is literally just a meme, you were probably getting scammed.
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This. I even got invited to a Netflix and Chill tonight, but had to turn it down due to schedule conflicts.


Netflix and chill is literally just a meme, you were probably getting scammed.

That is a possibility, but it seemed legit.
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BTDee said:
Usagi said:
As a qt gamer girl, I can get many dates XD~


Theres no women on the internet silly


Will you stop with that stupid-ass joke? It was never funny in the first place. :|

Only if that weeb is into SAO or Tokyo Ghoul tbh. These are undatable.


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Well jeez, way to be a debbie downer (not directed to people who are actually named debbie - except the OP).

I bet there are some people online with healthy relationships already. You never know, besides, not everyone is going to share every juicy bit of detail out of their life.

A lot of the members of a MAL club I'm a part of are married and all. So if anything, there are people who have moved a step beyond the dating phase.
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AnimeFreak-San said:
Kaiser-kun said:
Speak for yourself. You can still fap to hentai and have normal relationship.


lol good luck finding a normal well adjusted woman ok with you fapping to animated porn. especially one you want to marry. haha.

That's, psychologically, non-sense. I don't know what girls you've been dealing or whatever, but I got quite a bunch of friends who are anime fans (and there's no possible way to be an anime fan and still be able to steer clear of hentai trust me) have girlfriends and stuff. And they are all healthy, even sporty; their gf aren't even an anime fan let me tell you. Of course there'll be people who aren't ok with that, but your generalization is way too foolish.
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Oct 1, 2019 4:02 AM

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All the degenerate and forever alone talk is fun, but if someone really believes that most of people here are like that, then I'm afraid such person will be very disappointed. From my observation, however limited sample that is, majority of anime fans are pretty normal (at least relationship-wise lol) people and degenerate/loser jokes are just that - jokes.
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Chiibi said:
BTDee said:


Theres no women on the internet silly


Will you stop with that stupid-ass joke? It was never funny in the first place. :|


Humour is subjective and to me that joke is fucking hilarious, ty.
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Yes it's all over if your not a chad, and things are going to get only worse in future.
Women ride cock-carousel until they hit the wall and then wonder where are all the good men gone.
It's like 90% women chase after 10% men nothing good can come from that.


*women
10 and 9 need to switch places.
8 and 7 are 6s.
6 is a 5.
I’m a little hesitant with 3. She’s like 2.5.
2 belongs with 1.

Edit: 1 should not be on the scale.
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BlackPilled said:
Yes it's all over if your not a chad, and things are going to get only worse in future.
Women ride cock-carousel until they hit the wall and then wonder where are all the good men gone.
It's like 90% women chase after 10% men nothing good can come from that.


*women
10 and 9 need to switch places.
8 and 7 are 6s.
6 is a 5.
I’m a little hesitant with 3. She’s like 2.5.
2 belongs with 1.

Putting people in numbers is cringey anyway, but what's the worst in this picture is that the "1s" surely suffer from some kind of genetical deformations. Haha how funny, making fun of disabled people how ugly they look. The niveau sinks here.
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Maneki-Mew said:
gwimweeper said:


*women
10 and 9 need to switch places.
8 and 7 are 6s.
6 is a 5.
I’m a little hesitant with 3. She’s like 2.5.
2 belongs with 1.

Putting people in numbers is cringey anyway, but what's the worst in this picture is that the "1s" surely suffer from some kind of genetical deformations. Haha how funny, making fun of disabled people how ugly they look. The niveau sinks here.

Well according to that graph you would be a 1, which is probably why you have that opinion...
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