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May 20, 2020 5:50 PM
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ye someone on the other thread suggested this so here it is

go wild with your own definition of whats good or bad girls/women

i go for bad girls like badass and even hot blooded ones that are more like independent woman that do not need any white knights and can be the leader of the pack too basically i call them bad girls since they are rebels against social norms like gender roles but mostly in fiction lol in real life i dont have a preference since it does not matter anyway (err i just described my waifus)

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May 20, 2020 5:57 PM
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Both. Depends on who they are. Typically "good" is better though.

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May 20, 2020 6:23 PM
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bound 2 fall in loveeeee

uh huh honey
May 20, 2020 6:33 PM
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Good girls is kind of the ideal if you ask me. Loyalty is very important in my view, but that is probably a biological perspective when it comes to reproduction. In hentai either one is fine. In terms of entertainment value bad girls are more entertaining in media like with Revy from Black Lagoon. A lot of good girls seem very similar in anime like with the Love Live cast. Antagonists show a lot more variation in character traits.
May 20, 2020 6:35 PM
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p0ckyy said:
bound 2 fall in loveeeee

uh huh honey


is this implying me? nah lol there is just a trend of love topics here on MAL CD recently so i bandwagon it heck i think you are the starter of it
May 20, 2020 7:12 PM
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I like both. Relationships with good girls are more long term, but I still have a kink for some bitchiness.

May 20, 2020 7:16 PM
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Same answer:

Just normal people, who behave very human and got a spine.
I feel attracted to people, when I get along with them well and I get along with certain kind of people, ofc. It's a given that they show basic decency and humanity towards others. I can't along with the real jerks ofc, but neither with people (or in this case guys), who are like a Labrador.

*or in this case a woman
May 20, 2020 7:28 PM
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both depends on the personality and how they pull it off. if they are a genuine bitch i probably won't like them, but if they are snarky domineering yet at the same time still care about others then yes.

i also enjoy the nice girl (like nanoha (strikers nanoha, specifically.) does she count as good girl?)

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Those who undergo suffering and spread it to others. And those who undergo suffering and avoid giving it to others." -Alice
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May 20, 2020 7:31 PM
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You can have a good girl who is a hot-blooded, independent badass. A personality and someone's morals or lack thereof are two different things.
May 20, 2020 8:32 PM

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Are bad girls the ones you have to spank real good when they did something naughty?
May 20, 2020 8:38 PM

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good girls only exist in anime, unfortunately
May 20, 2020 8:41 PM
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Konradikon said:
Are bad girls the ones you have to spank real good when they did something naughty?


thats up to you to decide or define dude lol
May 20, 2020 8:46 PM
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Bad, good, I don't think a person can qualify as such. When I consider me as identified and my preferences as what betters my survival, that would be good girls, because they're good for me. But in absolution from my identity and specific survival, any girl that is not per say perfect, and is in position to better herself.

I guess that would be bad girls for some. Not specifically because of criminality or toxicity in interactions, but because of independency, self-governance, amorality...



May 20, 2020 8:54 PM

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deg said:
Konradikon said:
Are bad girls the ones you have to spank real good when they did something naughty?


thats up to you to decide or define dude lol


Well, just to be safe, I'm gonna go with gad girls.

Btw, p0ckyy's reply is a Kanye West song, sampled from a Ponderosa Twins Plus One song.
May 20, 2020 8:55 PM
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Lolsebca said:
Bad, good, I don't think a person can qualify as such.


well there is no such thing as black and white (all or nothing) in the real world anyway but we can weigh it in spectrum like in this case is it more good or more bad compared to the whole or the person?
May 20, 2020 9:26 PM

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Someone who has principles and moral values, also a good role model to the children

Bad girls can be fun, but not worth the time








May 20, 2020 10:14 PM

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Only good girls for me.

I prefer men, but would take a nice good girl, but she would really have to be genuinly good, not manipulative. How can I spoil her if she is manipulative?

idk about you but the closer a girl gets to looking like ronald mcdonald, the more aroused i become. CAV

where can we cast our eyes to @PoruMairu who thinks of himself a member of the true church. Helion.
May 20, 2020 10:40 PM

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Probably leaning towards good girls. I would picture someone with a bubbly personality and a sense of humor which would tend to lean more into "good girl" traits.
May 20, 2020 11:26 PM

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I go for sensitive girls. The associated idea of sensitiveness that I have has nothing to do with any emotional weakness, I am rather thinking about the older meaning of the concept.

You know, what a tsundere is always hiding.
May 20, 2020 11:52 PM
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Any type of personality will do. Of course I won't get along with a girl so bad she's doing something illegal, but in all other cases - I don't really care, I'll just accept her for who she is.
But if she's a petite blonde with a lovely face - she can even punch babies and I'll still love her.
[I don't date women btw, that only applies to being friends]
May 21, 2020 12:11 AM

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Good girl of course. I like a girl who is well-mannered, soft-spoken, calm, and smart. Basically I was describing kuudere.
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May 21, 2020 6:12 AM

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Metaphysics snippets on postcards claim that 'good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to *insert any touristic european city*'. Since I'm a man of the Lord, I'll have to go with bad girls, because they're closer and I have to help them save their souls.
May 21, 2020 6:19 AM
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Good girls and bad trannys. Bad to the bone.
May 21, 2020 10:44 AM
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@deg

Basically everything you said in the opening post.

I've always been into women that just stand up for themselves, can be quite hotheaded, are independent, strong-willed, that sort of thing. But I also love women who are more introverted, shy, but with noticeable intellect and sensibility.

Mostly in anime I go for the bad-ass female characters, probably because when I was younger, I was always somewhat of a bad-ass myself. :P
May 21, 2020 10:48 AM
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Inphyy said:

Mostly in anime I go for the bad-ass female characters, probably because when I was younger, I was always somewhat of a bad-ass myself. :P


wow isnt that the truth it also applies to me lol now im just a fat guy netizen 24/7 lol
May 21, 2020 11:03 AM
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deg said:
wow isnt that the truth it also applies to me lol now im just a fat guy netizen 24/7 lol


I hear ya. Before I was put on antipsychotics I felt cool all the time. Like rocking leather jackets and jeans, studied martial arts, could do fancy kicks and whatnot. But also was a bit of a smoker. Medication destroyed a lot of my self-image, but simmered me down a little bit at the same time. So it benefited me in some ways, just not all.
May 21, 2020 11:18 AM
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Inphyy said:
deg said:
wow isnt that the truth it also applies to me lol now im just a fat guy netizen 24/7 lol


I hear ya. Before I was put on antipsychotics I felt cool all the time. Like rocking leather jackets and jeans, studied martial arts, could do fancy kicks and whatnot. But also was a bit of a smoker. Medication destroyed a lot of my self-image, but simmered me down a little bit at the same time. So it benefited me in some ways, just not all.


ah for me i feel good back when i was still in school except college where i started showing signs of social phobia/anxiety that later escalate to what i got today, i played basketball, 9 ball pool, playstation, lots of fun stuff for normal teenagers at those times and ye i was kinda a top 10-15 student back in the days too and i know my english skills was tons better during those times too lol and ye i can articulate myself well better back in those days



May 21, 2020 11:36 AM
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deg said:
ah for me i feel good back when i was still in school except college where i started showing signs of social phobia/anxiety that later escalate to what i got today, i played basketball, 9 ball pool, playstation, lots of fun stuff for normal teenagers at those times and ye i was kinda a top 10-15 student back in the days too and i know my english skills was tons better during those times too lol and ye i can articulate myself well better back in those days



I can relate with the articulation thing. I'd speak with more articulation and charisma, kind of like how a radio announcer sounds, before I was put on medications. I could also manipulate my way out of any tight situation. I had more street-smarts as well. Now I'm just a empty shell of my former self. But at least I'm more laid back and am not getting myself into trouble as much.
May 21, 2020 11:59 AM

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I am more or less attracted to all of the AI girls from Beatless. Especially Kouka.
If the universe fucked up really bad and granted me a magical lamp that granted three wishes I would wish for AI companion waifus for all. Various monster girl species to exist. Scratch that I just need two. Free the poor genie with the third.
May 21, 2020 12:02 PM
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Soverign said:
I am more or less attracted to all of the AI girls from Beatless. Especially Kouka.
If the universe fucked up really bad and granted me a magical lamp that granted three wishes I would wish for AI companion waifus for all. Various monster girl species to exist. Scratch that I just need two. Free the poor genie with the third.


why not just wish for The Matrix then Interspecies Reviewers will become so real that way
May 21, 2020 12:09 PM

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I like good girls that become horny af when you start dating them.
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May 21, 2020 12:12 PM

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deg said:
Soverign said:
I am more or less attracted to all of the AI girls from Beatless. Especially Kouka.
If the universe fucked up really bad and granted me a magical lamp that granted three wishes I would wish for AI companion waifus for all. Various monster girl species to exist. Scratch that I just need two. Free the poor genie with the third.


why not just wish for The Matrix then Interspecies Reviewers will become so real that way


The Matrix is fun and all, but ultimately silly. Its as silly as thinking a vastly more intelligent alien species needs weapons to pacify humans for our resources that can be gotten anywhere else instead of sending fertile promiscuous cat girl legions.

May 21, 2020 3:02 PM
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Trick question.

All wahmen are bad.
May 21, 2020 3:13 PM

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I guess most of the women I've liked throughout my life have leaned more on the "good" end of the spectrum, though what you mean by "good" or "bad" could be argued about for centuries. In general, I'd say I like someone who's friendly, with a strong personality and is into a lot of the same stuff as me. That's basically it tbh.
May 21, 2020 9:55 PM

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Def bad girls

A girl that breaks the rules ( nothing too illegal obviously )
tattoos
curses a lot
has some sass to her ( not a drama queen )
Dominant
Confident AF
badass

Nothing wrong with good girls, they are just not my preference, especially the passive aspect about them, that's a turn off
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May 21, 2020 9:57 PM

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So dualistic, Deg.

Uh, definitely good girls but I don't really give a shit.
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May 22, 2020 2:18 PM

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Most of the women who are labeled as "bad girls" are not really bad people, they are simply women whose vices moderately outweigh their virtues. Most of the women who are labeled as "sweet girls" or "good girls" are not usually really moral people, they are simply women whose virtues slightly outweigh their vices.

Regarding my preference about these types of girls, that will depend on the type of relationship that I want.

Sporadic and short-term relationships just need elements like sexual chemestry so they can happen, so in this type of relationship I tend to prefer to relate to the "bad girl" since she is usually much more approachable than the "sweet girl" when it comes to getting involved in relationships that do not demand affection and exclusivity.

Stable relationships that do not have the intention of starting a family and building a common project, although they do not require the level of virtue and love that a good marriage demands, need a certain degree of virtue and affection in order to function. For this type of relationship I tend to prefer the "good girl" as long as she shows more affection towards me than I have towards her. Some "bad girls" (girls hungry for affection and spanking :v) also have my preference, as long as they show much greater affection for me than vice versa.

It may sound selfish to demand more affection from a woman than what I am willing to offer her and even sounds crazy to do it more markedly with a "bad girl" than with a "good girl"; however, it is not what it seems when the nature of woman is taken into account. You see, any good observer knows that a woman seldom fall in love with a man predisposed to offer her more affection than she are willing to give him, for that reason, when it comes to stable relationships, I do not accept women who want to receive more than they aspire to contribute. On the other hand, the less virtue a woman possesses, the more her fidelity depends on the intensity of her affections and feelings, hence it is necessary that I be more demanding with the affection that a "bad girl" give me than the one that a "good girl" offers me.

Then we have solid relationships like the good marriages, that in addition to demanding chemistry, compatibility and affection; They demand a love nurtured with virtues strong and numerous enough to prevent vices from wreaking havoc on the relationship as time goes on. In this type of relationship I have a predilection for women whose virtues surpass their vices - at least - moderately because someone with less virtue could not be a good wife and a good mother. However, this woman is scarce in these times and I very much doubt that I will ever meet such a woman like that again, so...
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May 22, 2020 2:23 PM
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The perfect woman is when she is herself, not pretending to be someone else when I talk to her and treating and loving me as I am.
May 22, 2020 2:24 PM

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Probably the innocent type
The bad type is more likely to cheat I guess
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May 22, 2020 2:26 PM

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I have some certain kinks of questionable nature so I'll order myself a bad one.


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May 22, 2020 10:26 PM
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I prefer someone who will mostly abide by the law so they will not attract police attention to me.

Just so I'm not just copy-pasting from the other thread I'll expand a little.
I'm a minority. I prefer good girls and boys who aren't going to attract the polo.

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May 22, 2020 11:19 PM

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a good girl to match my bad boy persona. like yin and yang. she really likes good boys but was so overwhelmed by my badassness that she swoons over me. hell yeah.
Jun 10, 2020 12:10 PM
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I like people with passion and rebellion, but it needs to be for good reason.
Jun 10, 2020 12:20 PM

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I'm in love with Catra, and according to the creator, she's a Hufflepuff who wants to be a Slytherin.

So I guess I'm into good girls who want to be bad girls.
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Bad girls can ruin your life for what, a little fun? Good girls all day.
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Oct 20, 2022 7:14 AM
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Good girl in the streets, and bad girl in the sheets lmao.
Oct 20, 2022 7:22 AM
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Good girl in the streets, and bad girl in the sheets lmao.
ya same, though its like 60% bad 40% good, your joke is soooooo good, respect the situation is especially
good best mal suggestion ever - https://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=2047945
Oct 20, 2022 8:02 AM

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In fiction definitely bad girls, IRL definitely good lol
Oct 20, 2022 9:14 AM

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honestly i just want some sexy bacon


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Girls want a bad boy who will be good just for her.

Boys want a good girl who will be bad just for him.
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