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Nov 4, 2019 7:34 PM

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I dunno if it's a good or a bad thing. But I didn't develop any kind of romantic feelings towards anyone since late 2018. Like I don't
Feel attracted to anyone anymore. I feel that I've became asexual or smth
Nov 4, 2019 8:19 PM
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nah, it's too much of a hassle for me to consider because I need that extra brain space for cramming school work. also, seeing how my friends dragged me into their relationship dramas with their exs and crushes, i feel it's better to just avoid having these feelings to spare the trouble
Nov 5, 2019 3:32 AM

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Sphinxter said:
operationvalkyri said:
Enough of the deflection. Do you have a crush or not? Asking for a friend.
I have yet to meet the man to rival my greatness, and be worthy of my love.

'Tis wonderful to be lonely at the top, whence I stare down upon the feeble masses so verily inferior.
Why are you still pretending you don't lust after me?
Nov 5, 2019 5:25 AM

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Not at the moment, since I've been more or less consumed by my studies and my social life has been very constrained as a result. Don't get me wrong, there are people in my life I'm *very* physically attracted to but I don't really know anyone I could see myself dating.

Edit: Just hung out with a girl who I just realized was making a ton of lowkey advances and now I feel silly.
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Take care of yourself

Nov 5, 2019 5:29 AM
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Kosmonaut said:
Sphinxter said:
I have yet to meet the man to rival my greatness, and be worthy of my love.

'Tis wonderful to be lonely at the top, whence I stare down upon the feeble masses so verily inferior.
Why are you still pretending you don't lust after me?
I'm just disappointed that he said 'man'. I thought gender was a social construct.
Nov 5, 2019 6:10 AM

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Kosmonaut said:
Sphinxter said:
I have yet to meet the man to rival my greatness, and be worthy of my love.

'Tis wonderful to be lonely at the top, whence I stare down upon the feeble masses so verily inferior.
Why are you still pretending you don't lust after me?
Contrary to the lesser man, I am not one to consider being male an excuse for a lack of adequate hairstyling.


It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate".

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Nov 5, 2019 6:19 AM

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Sphinxter said:
Kosmonaut said:
Why are you still pretending you don't lust after me?
Contrary to the lesser man, I am not one to consider being male an excuse for a lack of adequate hairstyling.
But you do lust after me, that much is obvious. Excuses only delay the inevitable. You know it's wrong to lust after males with uninspired hair, but you can't fight it.
Nov 5, 2019 6:22 AM

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Kosmonaut said:
Sphinxter said:
Contrary to the lesser man, I am not one to consider being male an excuse for a lack of adequate hairstyling.
But you do lust after me, that much is obvious.
Why though?

You know it's wrong to lust after males with uninspired hair, but you can't fight it.
I care not whether the man with uninspired hair be male or female.


It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate".

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Nov 5, 2019 6:26 AM

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Sphinxter said:
Kosmonaut said:
But you do lust after me, that much is obvious.
Why though?

You know it's wrong to lust after males with uninspired hair, but you can't fight it.
I care not whether the man with uninspired hair be male or female.
It's okay, though, I won't expose you.

operationvalkyri said:
Kosmonaut said:
Why are you still pretending you don't lust after me?
I'm just disappointed that he said 'man'. I thought gender was a social construct.
Clearly he's just avoiding the issue of confessing his love by throwing smoke screens.
Nov 5, 2019 6:33 AM

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Bakchos said:
I never had a crush on anyone but I think the girl that works at the supermarket near home is extremely hot. She wears a wedding ring, so no approaching for me.
Marriage is a formal construct by the aristocracy to officially cockblock women in heat and men of vigorous ambition. Two-time that bitch and get along with it.
Nov 5, 2019 8:36 AM

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boy do i at the moment, it's both the most interesting and meaningful thing in my life so far and the most troublesome and stressful. without going into any details, it's made me feel more confident and better about myself as a person, and given me more to look forward to in the future. equally, i'm afraid it might hurt me or i might hurt someone else as a result of it at some point, but who knows.
Nov 5, 2019 8:37 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
Kosmonaut said:
Why are you still pretending you don't lust after me?
I'm just disappointed that he said 'man'. I thought gender was a social construct.
It is but you, not I, who would seriously assign any gendered meaning to the word "man".


It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate".

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Nov 5, 2019 8:40 AM

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Yarub said:
Bakchos said:
I never had a crush on anyone but I think the girl that works at the supermarket near home is extremely hot. She wears a wedding ring, so no approaching for me.
Marriage is a formal construct by the aristocracy to officially cockblock women in heat and men of vigorous ambition. Two-time that bitch and get along with it.
Yarub alpha male Chad that cucks soyboys confirmed.
Nov 5, 2019 8:51 AM
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Sphinxter said:
operationvalkyri said:
I'm just disappointed that he said 'man'. I thought gender was a social construct.
It is but you, not I, who would seriously assign any gendered meaning to the word "man".
Touche.

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Nov 5, 2019 8:52 AM

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I'm currently engaged with my crush. I met him at work and I felt a lighting striking on me when I first saw him. I was so shy but I didn't want to lose this opportunity to be with him and what I did was just message him and arrange a coffee meeting. Well it was luckily both sided and we are now together and happy with each other! :)
Nov 5, 2019 9:10 AM

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Kosmonaut said:
Yarub said:
Marriage is a formal construct by the aristocracy to officially cockblock women in heat and men of vigorous ambition. Two-time that bitch and get along with it.
Yarub alpha male Chad that cucks soyboys confirmed.
Tis' indeed not the case. I just eloquently strike a girls heart and leave her wounded and oblivious to the fact that she may never come close to me or be with me in any parallel universe. I sit upon my throne and laugh at those inferior beings that are consumed by lust and love, while I play chess with the deity that is I. For I am the only superior being in the universe.
Nov 5, 2019 9:31 AM

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probably not, its been 4 years since last time i had romance-relationship tho.
maybe still same for the next 5 years or 10 years ahead.

note: lot things happen that causing me now doesnt want to having any romance relationship, or maybe.. i just still trying to recovering my feelings after the last ones idk tbh.
Nov 5, 2019 1:52 PM
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I've hooked up with this girl a few times recently, and I think she may want to escalate into a more serious relationship. But I just can't see myself dating her. I haven't felt extremely attracted to someone for a long time, and the last time I did it ended up making me feel like crap. SO maybe I am just subconsciously guarding myself. Who knows. I'm the last person of all my friends and family to be single but I'm not going to just date someone for the sake of it, there has to be real connection.

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Nov 5, 2019 2:09 PM

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Right now? After breaking up with my boyfriend months ago, nop.
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Nov 5, 2019 2:39 PM

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Yarub said:
Kosmonaut said:
Yarub alpha male Chad that cucks soyboys confirmed.
Tis' indeed not the case. I just eloquently strike a girls heart and leave her wounded and oblivious to the fact that she may never come close to me or be with me in any parallel universe. I sit upon my throne and laugh at those inferior beings that are consumed by lust and love, while I play chess with the deity that is I. For I am the only superior being in the universe.
I'll be sure to hide all my women so they aren't taken away by an Arabian Prince.
Nov 5, 2019 2:46 PM

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Nov 5, 2019 5:05 PM

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Yarub said:
Bakchos said:
I never had a crush on anyone but I think the girl that works at the supermarket near home is extremely hot. She wears a wedding ring, so no approaching for me.
Marriage is a formal construct by the aristocracy to officially cockblock women in heat and men of vigorous ambition. Two-time that bitch and get along with it.
I wish I had enough game to two time anyone, even a puppy.

Edit: today this lady came to the restaurant I work in, I think she was italian, my god, I fell in love with that glute game she had going on. Does that count? Am I a creep for noticing?
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Nov 5, 2019 5:31 PM

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Yes, when I was younger. No crushes anymore except for the goddess that is Chloe Grace Moretz :)
Nov 5, 2019 5:54 PM

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Unfortunately no. I don't have time for such trivial matters
Nov 5, 2019 5:55 PM

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I do~ I really don't want to be in a relationship right now though so I know it's going nowhere & am not worried about it in the slightest.
Nov 5, 2019 6:15 PM

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Nov 5, 2019 6:37 PM

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ive been in a relationship for 2 years and 2 months now, so i do guess so haha

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Nov 5, 2019 6:51 PM

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No. But I will have a crush on the next poster, whoever that happens to be.
(Let's see if this post single handedly /threads the thread.)
Nov 6, 2019 3:23 AM

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Freshell said:
No. But I will have a crush on the next poster, whoever that happens to be.
(Let's see if this post single handedly /threads the thread.)
C'mon, you promised, now there's no backtracking.
Nov 6, 2019 8:41 AM

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These hoes aint loyal. Focus on yourself
Nov 6, 2019 10:29 AM

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In retrospect, I probably never had any kind of romantic experience so I was looking for chances. Maybe I was not looking hard enough, or my interest dropped over time. But I started appreciating romance anime after I stopped talking to a girl I was interested in years ago. We never made it past the "friends" part though I wanted it to be more than that. Maybe my timing was too soon, or maybe she wanted to shut me down as soon as possible but things faded away quite quickly. I never watched any romance anime before that and tried one just to understand what I felt and how it is usually portrayed. I am thankful to her for that atleast. When some MCs tell the cliched line to other guy/girl that his/her smile is what makes them happy, I could really relate to it having seen it in that girl.
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Nov 6, 2019 11:56 AM

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Kosmonaut said:
Freshell said:
No. But I will have a crush on the next poster, whoever that happens to be.
(Let's see if this post single handedly /threads the thread.)
C'mon, you promised, now there's no backtracking.

Ah, you caught me. Yes, I have a crush on you, good sir. It's mostly because you... *skims profile* are a beta male, and I love feeling like top dog. It's like winning a sports trophy except I'll probably want both of us to be on magic shrooms while we weakly flail fight for dominance and only one of us is likely to be sore the next day.

Also, like, omg, I'm also INTP. :D
Nov 6, 2019 12:49 PM

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Nope, my latest crush was three years ago and I have never been in love. It would be cool and all but I also hate myself and I really can't imagine being in a relationship for some reason.
Nov 7, 2019 12:08 AM
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Not any that I can think of at present. I haven't been out and about socializing much to form these feelings of infatuation. I do roughly think about what life would be like if I had a romantic interest. The last time I had a crush was waaay back - like 8-9yrs ago. I met this one girl that I worked with, but later found out she was going out with someone else. I was probably 2-3 weeks late, else I would have confessed. I've moved on since then...she's no longer with said person...but its been so long, I've lost track of them. I've met people in passing that I chimed with really well. But again, since its only people I've met in travels, I haven't had the opportunity to see them regularly - no way a strong bond or relationship can form from that.
Nov 12, 2019 11:03 PM

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This thread is very surprising to me because I get crushes all the time and now I feel weird.

I was actually surprised that at the beginning of starting college (this is my first semester), I only had one crush, and it was a very, very faint one. I learned she is married and has kids, though, so, no hope there. (However, I am a badass and got her number. She is so adorable!)

As I got to know my fellow students better, I did sort-of-maybe get a crush on a guy in my Japanese class for a while, but eh, they evaporated pretty quick when he said he has a girlfriend. (Idk why my crush on him died but yet it's still going strong on the first girl.)

Now, as recently as tonight (erm... yesterday night, since it's 1am) I have come to the epiphany that I perhaps have a crush on a second girl, which is starting to make this feel like a really gay semester for me. Anywho, it's another person in my Japanese class. She's always been shy, but as time goes on, she has become more comfortable around me, and it's great. I did not think I had a crush on her, but then we were joking, and she pushed my hat down so that it covered my eyes. I retaliated by pretending I was going to push her. This made her laugh, and that laugh was so adorable, it got to me. Suddenly, I was struck by the image of hugging her, and my heart was like "woW that's a good image bro, your heart really really really wants to hug her, the experience would be 10/10, and then maybe kis-" and I was like "okay another crush has been acquired"

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Nov 13, 2019 12:18 AM
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One that isn't a fictional character? No.

Sometimes I start thinking about putting myself out there more, cleaning myself up a bit and getting out and going places and meeting people, but then I just kind of give up on that idea after a few days and get back into my routine. I guess that's why I keep the idea open for "Maybe one day I'll actually go through with it and begin trying" but that day most certainly won't be today.

Feb 9, 2023 7:45 AM
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Imagine being grown with a crush. "Oh my God my crush guys. He talking to my crush, she 32 years old oh my God"

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Feb 9, 2023 7:54 AM
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My first love was a girl in elementary school right before attending middle school. Same age. Let's say when we had a lot of SFW private time after class. I still remember her and I think about the times even to this day.

(Do keep in mind that we were both girls.)
Feb 9, 2023 8:13 AM
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Nope, I actually like being single.
Feb 9, 2023 3:50 PM

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No, I'm not ready for a relationship after my breakup and I'm not stable enough. People hit me up to hangout but I always make excuses not to.
Feb 11, 2023 11:02 PM

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It's a bit complicated. There's a girl in a couple of my classes who I think is kinda cute. We've exchanged short conversations and are working together on a project for my piano class. Now I definitely like her more platonically than anything else, but something told me to pursue anyway.

On Wednesday, I asked her out on a date and got hit with the "I'll think about it". I think the main reason I did it was because I otherwise don't really have an opportunity to talk to her alone and get to know her. Part of me thinks it may have been a mistake and not actually what I wanted, but whatever the outcome, I've crossed the threshold of asking someone out for the first time. If she says "yes", I'm sure the date will go fine, even if there is no second. If she says "no" or nothing at all, it will definitely hurt, but we'll probably still be friends.
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Feb 12, 2023 12:51 AM
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No, I've been kind of closed off for a while now. I miss that feeling though.

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Feb 12, 2023 1:02 AM

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nah, at this current point I don't have any romantic interest and I don't really plan on chasing after someone 
Feb 12, 2023 3:26 AM

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Feb 12, 2023 12:42 PM

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There's a girl I've been seeing and we've been on two dates so far, and we're going on our third this coming week. I'm honestly not entirely sure how I feel about getting into a serious romantic situation yet since we've only been on two dates and I've spotted a small handful of red flags but I do really like her so I'll just go with the flow for now and see where the third and potentially fourth date take us. 
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Feb 12, 2023 12:44 PM

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Nope, and I've been back to my default level of sociability and pessimism since 2020.

Feb 12, 2023 3:11 PM

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Yes, I'm quite fond of my wife. Hopefully she likes me back.
Feb 12, 2023 3:14 PM

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Nah, I just have a mild obsession with a character from a TV show

I'm not fit for romance so I dont seek it out. It would only go sour so no need to waste someone else's time.



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Feb 20, 2023 11:19 PM

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To be fair, yeah I do have a crush on a couple of girls who happen to be my fellow batchmates from a certain academic training course. But it's all in my mind & I have never expressed my feelings towards them nor been close to even attempt to start an affair with them. Might sound wierd but even at my current age I'm single to date & I do have this inner wish that a girl of my liking would someday come & fulfill my life with romance/love. 😍
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