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Feb 12, 2018 5:10 AM

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Nah to both, I want to stay independant. I'm not a big fan of kids and I don't need a paper to prove that I'm in love with my partner.



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Feb 12, 2018 5:15 AM

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What I intend and what will happen are unfortunately two different things. And getting married is something I only have very little influence on.
Feb 12, 2018 5:18 AM
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Marriage is the goal.
So I can start my small army to take over china for Japan
Feb 12, 2018 5:40 AM

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Terkhev said:
Marriage yes. Children? Still on the fence. Having my own cute girl doing cute things sounds great, but then she'd start meeting guys... argh.

Hey, there's always a possibility she'd start meeting girls
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Feb 12, 2018 5:45 AM

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Kitsu-nee said:
Terkhev said:
Marriage yes. Children? Still on the fence. Having my own cute girl doing cute things sounds great, but then she'd start meeting guys... argh.

Hey, there's always a possibility she'd start meeting girls
>D

However weird that might sound, I'd actually welcome that. For some reason yuri feels pure.
But yeah, I can't, nor would I dare to, control my child's sexual preferences. It's all fun now, but tbh I really expect to be overly protective father if I ever have a daughter.
Feb 12, 2018 6:13 AM

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As long as I agree with my wife and she has the same interest as me so when talking in a conversation, it wouldn't be awkward. I would name my child after anime characters with non-japanese names, but I think I would name them Emilia, Rem and Felix. But it's hard to believe I would be able to find the one and I would stay single but not a virgin
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Feb 12, 2018 6:29 AM

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Nah, to both. :D i'm too damaged for these.
Feb 12, 2018 6:43 AM
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I don't plan to but it wouldn't be a bad thing. But heck no on the children. There are enough abandoned children out there, I don't care if adoption is the biggest struggle to get completed, bringing another person into the world when there are kids who need homes seems fucking stupid.
Feb 12, 2018 6:50 AM

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No, but my family and society will make me do it
Feb 12, 2018 6:55 AM

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im actually already married with a pretty famous guy. His name is jotaro kujo, some of u probbly know him. we have a daughter as well. this is kinda a secret tho, we dont want people to know who jotaro is married to cus im afraid to be known to public :')
Feb 12, 2018 7:05 AM

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I once viewed marriage just as a license to have sex all year long for a certain long term. Now I see it as something more.

It is a license for sex, as well as a tool for emotional and physical abuse. Additional threat are children who scream at insane loudness and frequencies and just wont shut up.

Just my opinion though.
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Feb 12, 2018 7:11 AM

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I don't intend to get married, even if I find someone and change my mind someday I'll definitely not have any kids.
Feb 12, 2018 7:24 AM

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Yes, this summer. And we're hoping for one kid but who knows what future has for us.

Feb 12, 2018 9:25 AM
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Yes, and yes. So long as I manage to keep thinking with my big head I'll be fine.
Feb 12, 2018 9:47 AM

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Marriage, sure. Kids? No way. I deem it as immoral, and I would rather love my kid that was never born.
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Feb 12, 2018 10:06 AM

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Having my own family is probably my biggest dream.

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Feb 12, 2018 11:13 AM

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I have a huge set of standards when looking for a partner. At the same time, I have a lot about me that I doubt just anyone would accept (my geeky hobbies, my depression, and things I'm passionate about). I also see many married couples become unhappy (including my parents). I will probably never look for a partner but if I happened to meet my match I would consider marriage.

As for children, there are a LOT of reasons I don't want them. I would POSSIBLY consider adoption if I'm at a financially stable point in my life, but as for right now I'm fine without them.

(BTW soymilkyy I'm 23)
Feb 12, 2018 11:42 AM
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You just want attention not my heart 😍
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Feb 12, 2018 11:48 AM

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yes am planing to get maried and to have childrens
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Feb 12, 2018 12:06 PM

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Honestly if I can't even take care of myself properly then I'm obviously not the most fitting parent. It's really hard to take care of a child and I wouldn't want to destroy their future just because I'm unresponsible.

About marriages, I really hate them, but if my partner would want us to get married then ok... not really a problem.
Feb 12, 2018 12:07 PM

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Yes and yes. I hope to have a happy family and raise my childern to be good people and in a sense carry my legacy.
Feb 12, 2018 1:23 PM

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Wow so many people plan to get married. And I always thought that almost nobody care about marriage anymore in our time. I guess I was totally wrong.

*Heavily Schocked*

To answer the thread: I'm 100% against marriage, but I plan to have kids in the future. I don't know how these two are relied to each other tho.
Feb 12, 2018 1:54 PM

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I'm open to it. Or more like: I would more than welcome a picture-book-like Development with a Woman and common Children, but so far, I'm Miles away from that. So far away, that I've yet to even reach the Starting Line.
Feb 12, 2018 3:58 PM

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Probably wont find the perfect girl like in anime but I'd still want to get married I guess. Even though for my wife it would feel like she already has a child because of my ADD so not sure if she could handle more.



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Feb 12, 2018 4:31 PM

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Yes and maybe, cause arranged marriage.
Feb 12, 2018 4:43 PM

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I would love to find someone I love and get married someday. Marriage is still very much a romantic notion for me. As for kids, I'm hesitant because who knows if I'd be any good at that, but if I do have a kid I'd like to adopt them.

I'm not about giving birth tbh.



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Feb 12, 2018 5:13 PM

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Feb 12, 2018 6:19 PM
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I don't really want kids for a number of reasons, but marriage I'm not sure about. My partner and I are in a loving steady relationship, I've never liked the idea of marriage because I don't see the point of it but we could get married for the legal benefits.
Feb 12, 2018 6:41 PM
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Kitsunethyst said:
If my partner and I both agree and are satisfied in our position in life, yes, I would do so.

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Feb 12, 2018 7:01 PM

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Nah. I'm good. Being single works for me. And fuck having kids 'cause I'm all about me.

Feb 12, 2018 7:41 PM

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Only if I find a vampire girl, or if I become a vampire and turn the girl that I like into a vampire.
Otherwise I really don't want to start a life with someone who will just get older and uglier over time.
And I would never make a child. That's like making some kind of substitution of yourself and of the person that you like.
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Feb 12, 2018 7:42 PM

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I already am married. As for children, I would like to have two once my husband and I both have a stable income.
Feb 12, 2018 7:43 PM

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I feel as if I have already answered this on a separate thread, but whatever. The answer is..... maybe.
Feb 12, 2018 8:24 PM

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I'm now married and I said I would never do it unless I met ... well me but fate/life/whatever happens and here I am and there he is.

As for kids, no plans at all, if it happens it happens if it doesn't I'm not going to feel like a void is in our lives. We got married as a commitment to each other, not for breeding rights, so it would be a surprise if we have one anytime in the next few (5-10) years. Adoption isn't off the tables later in life.

Now, Titania, shall we bet? If those two would get along.
Rather than that, it would be better to bet on how many are made.
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Feb 12, 2018 9:45 PM

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I would definitely love to get married to my significant other some day. However, the whole 'children' aspect we might have to discuss a bit since I'm not the most adamant about having any. I'd be more than willing to adopt, though.
Feb 12, 2018 9:48 PM

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I don't see the need for marriage other than tax benefits, so I would do it but not because it holds any meaning to me. As for children I have never wanted any since I was a child, but I would like to contribute to the next generation, the pressure people put on you to have children feels so bad though, I'm worried on day I could get sick of it and give in, I hope not though.
Feb 12, 2018 9:55 PM
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Do you intend to get married?


At some point in the near future, yes.

If yes, do you plan to have children?


While my boyfriend wants some (3 max) so as to keep the red hair gene in the family (he's part Scottish), I'm still quite hesitant/iffy on the subject. Mostly due to the fact that I made a promise to myself aaaages ago (before I met my boyfriend, that is) to never have children and also because I believe I won't be a good mother or know how to raise them properly, et cetera, et cetera, so...
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Feb 12, 2018 10:11 PM

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If I find the right girl obviously I would.
Feb 12, 2018 11:02 PM

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I don't think marriage is a realistic outcome considering my current life choices. In fact, I find the idea somewhat laughable, I doubt any sane person would tie themselves to me for the reminder of their life.


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Feb 13, 2018 12:27 AM

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I wouldn't say yes same goes to that I wouldn't say no. I know my gf for a couple of years, started with friendship, been together, broken up and together again. I guess it happens when it feels right to do. Otherwise I'd say no.
Feb 13, 2018 2:22 AM

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I would say no, but if my parents really want then I might try
Feb 13, 2018 5:52 AM
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I wish, but probably won't happen...
Feb 13, 2018 6:34 AM

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y'all will end up married in the future so stop talking shit
Feb 13, 2018 8:22 AM

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Recently got married and yeah, i would like kids.
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Feb 13, 2018 8:25 AM

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Definitely :3

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Feb 13, 2018 9:44 AM

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I am married. I do not have kids. We plan on.... probably never having kids. Relationship for almost 9 years.
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Feb 13, 2018 9:54 AM

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I am not entirely opposed to this idea as I used to be, but if ever I will think about it much later. I am slowly recovering from tough years and got things to do before I will settle down.
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Feb 13, 2018 10:29 AM
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I was actually supposed to get married later this year, but due to some extremely shitty circumstances that I do not want to get into, I no longer am. I still want to at some point in my life, but I don't fucking want to even think about rushing into it right now. I don't even want to be in a relationship right now.

I would like to have kids and my ex was actually pretty far along at one point but then she had a miscarriage. That was honestly one of the most devastating things I remember ever happening in my life.
Feb 13, 2018 10:45 AM

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PureBlueSF said:
I was actually supposed to get married later this year, but due to some extremely shitty circumstances that I do not want to get into, I no longer am. I still want to at some point in my life, but I don't fucking want to even think about rushing into it right now. I don't even want to be in a relationship right now.

I would like to have kids and my ex was actually pretty far along at one point but then she had a miscarriage. That was honestly one of the most devastating things I remember ever happening in my life.

Sorry to hear that. I wish you the absolute best! Keep your chin up :)
Feb 13, 2018 11:00 AM

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Both will be hard. Too many responsibilities.
And, tbh, i like single life aka freedom.
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