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Mar 22, 2020 3:12 PM
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I have heard of women cuddling and getting touchy with each other, but you don't really see that with guys. If your bro is down would you ever cuddle with him? If no, why not?
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Mar 22, 2020 3:13 PM
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yeah if you are bisexual it doesnt really matter...
Mar 22, 2020 3:17 PM
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as someone who isn't a guy, i wouldn't cuddle with anyone that isn't my cat, people have bones that hurt and they smell
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Mar 22, 2020 3:18 PM
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If it is astolfo looking then yes. and we can do more than that.
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Mar 22, 2020 4:07 PM
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Sure, I'm not insecure about my sexuality and I have compassion for my homies
Take care of yourself

Mar 22, 2020 4:10 PM
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No because it just doesn’t cross the minds of straight manly men.
Mar 22, 2020 4:12 PM
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Kayle_x_Morgana said:
If it is alfonso looking then yes. and we can do more than that.
Couldn't have said it better. Time for Roman Rvles.
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Mar 22, 2020 4:14 PM
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No. That's a little too intimate for me. The occasional bro-hug? Sure. But I prefer my cuddle buddies to be female, even platonically.

FlowersInTheRain said:
No because it just doesn’t cross the minds of straight manly men.

I register as "mostly straight" and I'm not down for it. Though, I barely like other dudes platonically.

Mar 22, 2020 4:18 PM
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You mean, when they're down in the dumps, offering a shoulder for them to rest their head on while stroking their hair and giving them a handjob? Sure, that's called being there for your friends and providing emotional support. This is how we fight toxic masculinity, by talking about our feelings and not being called gay for it.
Mar 22, 2020 4:23 PM

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I've never had a male friend I desired to cuddle with. I wouldn't rule it out though. I'd be most likely to do it if I'm upset.
Mar 22, 2020 4:42 PM

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Sure, it's something I've always wanted to do.

If he's a bit effeminate, and has bangs/a fringe, it would be even better, because I'd do more than just cuddle him. :P

Mar 22, 2020 4:53 PM

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No cause I'm not a homo. Nothing against Homo's btw.
Mar 22, 2020 5:01 PM
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Seiya said:
Sure, it's something I've always wanted to do.

If he's a bit effeminate, and has bangs/a fringe, it would be even better, because I'd do more than just cuddle him. :P

Tell us explicit what else you would want to do with him.
Mar 22, 2020 5:22 PM

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FlowersInTheRain said:
Seiya said:
Sure, it's something I've always wanted to do.

If he's a bit effeminate, and has bangs/a fringe, it would be even better, because I'd do more than just cuddle him. :P

Tell us explicit what else you would want to do with him.


Lol, I don't think I have to go into detail.

Use your imagination. :P

Mar 22, 2020 5:33 PM

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i only cuddle with gf, not sure why you'd do it with any friend tbh
Mar 22, 2020 6:12 PM
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Even if I was going to die from hypothermia, the answer would still be no.
Mar 22, 2020 6:17 PM
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wow great question. as a perfectly straight person, that question sent shivers down my spine, and now my hands are sweaty. so to answer your question, no, i'd never cuddle with a dude unironically. but if socks are on and we're memeing around, heh.



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Mar 22, 2020 8:11 PM

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Female but Ill cuddle with anyone I trust. I didnt add into the poll since this wasnt directed to me.
Mar 22, 2020 8:20 PM

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No, that's just weird. I would never be that affectionate towards another male.

I respect gay shit, but don't apply it to myself. Except if he is actually cute/feminine, then sure. But they would have to look extremely feminine, so that's really unlikely anyway.
Mar 22, 2020 10:57 PM

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There is a couple of bros I could think of cuddling with tbh
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God damn, another gay thread upon us.
Mar 23, 2020 12:53 AM
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What a time to ask this.
Social distancing, guys. There should be no cuddling here.
Mar 23, 2020 1:02 AM

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Nah. There's a fundamental aspect of cuddling that involves feelings/sex, if I think about it the only way I would even want to cuddle with someone I don't like and/or want to bang is to not die from hypothermia, in witch case I would absolutely cuddle with any human/animal/thing. Cuddling with a dude just sounds kinda gross and sweaty, if you disagree you live in a cold place.
Mar 23, 2020 1:06 AM

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Probably not. Not very comfortable around guys like that.

I could probably be convinced if he was a very girly looking boy though, and smelled like one.
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Mar 23, 2020 5:00 AM

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Brohugs are okay, cuddling would be a bit too much for me personally. I think it's too intimate for straight dudes to be doing that, but I might be wrong, I dunno.
Mar 23, 2020 6:01 AM

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Sawilagar said:
Kayle_x_Morgana said:
If it is alfonso looking then yes. and we can do more than that.
Couldn't have said it better. Time for Roman Rvles.


Sorry. Mistyped. Meant to put astolfo
Mar 23, 2020 6:54 AM

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Most of the time no. If they are cute like Shinji then maybe.
Mar 23, 2020 7:05 AM
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if it were for survival in bitterly cold temperatures then yeah I don't wish to die from exposure
Mar 23, 2020 9:03 AM

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hugging is fine if they need support, but cuddling is out of the question







Mar 23, 2020 9:16 AM

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School trip in Greece during high school. Friend and I were late for the apartment, so we ended up in a king-sized bed. Let's just say that we acted out a nice little charade.


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Mar 23, 2020 9:40 AM

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Luchse said:
School trip in Greece during high school. Friend and I were late for the apartment, so we ended up in a king-sized bed. Let's just say that we acted out a nice little charade.


So unfair! You had your Free! moment whilst my poor self was in the closet all along... Oh, woe is me!

Mar 23, 2020 9:58 AM

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Auron_ said:
Luchse said:
School trip in Greece during high school. Friend and I were late for the apartment, so we ended up in a king-sized bed. Let's just say that we acted out a nice little charade.


So unfair! You had your Free! moment whilst my poor self was in the closet all along... Oh, woe is me!

The cherry on top is the fact that the friend of mine is a nice little twink.


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Mar 23, 2020 10:05 AM

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short answer no

long answer yamerooo

I would play football together though
Mar 23, 2020 10:18 AM
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FlowersInTheRain said:
No because it just doesn’t cross the minds of straight manly men.


Fucking traps left and right isn't really straight but if you want to delude yourself into thinking that it's in fact straight then it fine.

No because it just doesn’t cross the minds of Heteroflexible manly men.

Seiya said:
FlowersInTheRain said:

Tell us explicit what else you would want to do with him.


Lol, I don't think I have to go into detail.

Use your imagination. :P

So you would do anything I imagine? In that case I should give you some instructions / guidance on how I would like your encounter to play out.

Luchse said:
School trip in Greece during high school. Friend and I were late for the apartment, so we ended up in a king-sized bed. Let's just say that we acted out a nice little charade.

Lol when in Rome... Or Athens even πŸ˜…
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Mar 23, 2020 10:18 AM

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I cuddled with my best friend once (shirtless), but we were high on ecstasy at the time, so it's not gay. Or is it...?
Mar 23, 2020 10:26 AM

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I've cuddled with guys before, although admittedly only while both of us were on MDMA, which makes you want to cuddle just about everything under the sky.

Otherwise hugs are pretty normal as a greeting or to comfort one another, but cuddling is usually limited to girlfriends.

Personally I'm not against it on principle tho, I don't think emotional comfort can only come from the sex you're attracted to. I guess it all depends on what kind of cuddling we're talking about on a range from 'comforting someone' to 'basically foreplay'.
I probably regret this post by now.
Mar 23, 2020 10:29 AM

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As a lesbian, it's not always a problem if we cuddle together in the squirt puddle that we made after a long scissoring session. But I can at least understand why straight guys don't want to do that, unless they wear a metal codpiece.
Mar 23, 2020 10:30 AM

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FlowersInTheRain said:
So you would do anything I imagine? In that case I should give you some instructions / guidance on how I would like your encounter to play out.


Lol, there's no point, because the chance of me meeting someone is slim to none, because I'm antisocial, and I rarely leave my apartment.

Mar 23, 2020 10:33 AM

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Luchse said:
The cherry on top is the fact that the friend of mine is a nice little twink.


You have lived long enough Luchse. You must be exterminated.

OT: Sure but, I don't think I'm eligible to answer that question lol.
Mar 23, 2020 10:51 AM

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Konradikon said:
As a lesbian, it's not always a problem if we cuddle together in the squirt puddle that we made after a long scissoring session. But I can at least understand why straight guys don't want to do that, unless they wear a metal codpiece.

I don't know why but that didn't sound sexy even though it should have
Mar 23, 2020 12:10 PM
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Seiya said:
FlowersInTheRain said:
So you would do anything I imagine? In that case I should give you some instructions / guidance on how I would like your encounter to play out.


Lol, there's no point, because the chance of me meeting someone is slim to none, because I'm antisocial, and I rarely leave my apartment.

You can still meet thousands of people living like that.
Mar 23, 2020 12:11 PM

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FlowersInTheRain said:
Seiya said:


Lol, there's no point, because the chance of me meeting someone is slim to none, because I'm antisocial, and I rarely leave my apartment.

You can still meet thousands of people living like that.


And, how exactly am I supposed to do that?

Mar 23, 2020 12:14 PM
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Seiya said:
FlowersInTheRain said:

You can still meet thousands of people living like that.


And, how exactly am I supposed to do that?

You're in contact right now with thousands of people on MAL. What if you were to go to another place online for people who want to have sex or get into relationships? You need only to reach out, make an account, upload some pics, fill in your profile and start writing posts messages. You don't have to go to Tinder and OkCupid like everyone else. There are plenty of other places. You don't need to spend any money either. Just have a look.

Mar 23, 2020 12:19 PM

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Nope, for me that would be cringe af.
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Mar 23, 2020 12:20 PM

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FlowersInTheRain said:
Seiya said:


And, how exactly am I supposed to do that?

You're in contact right now with thousands of people on MAL. What if you were to go to another place online for people who want to have sex or get into relationships? You need only to reach out, make an account, upload some pics, fill in your profile and start writing posts messages. You don't have to go to Tinder and OkCupid like everyone else. There are plenty of other places. You don't need to spend any money either. Just have a look.



I live in the middle of nowhere, in a town of less than 7000 people, and "cities" do not exist anywhere.

Also, I tried creating a Grindr account back in 2019, but deleted it a few weeks later, because everyone on it had a beard.

Mar 23, 2020 4:19 PM

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If I wanna fug em? Sure.
If I don't wanna fug em? Idk, maybe for warmth or if they seem particularly distressed and want that.
Mar 23, 2020 4:21 PM
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Seiya said:
FlowersInTheRain said:

You're in contact right now with thousands of people on MAL. What if you were to go to another place online for people who want to have sex or get into relationships? You need only to reach out, make an account, upload some pics, fill in your profile and start writing posts messages. You don't have to go to Tinder and OkCupid like everyone else. There are plenty of other places. You don't need to spend any money either. Just have a look.



I live in the middle of nowhere, in a town of less than 7000 people, and "cities" do not exist anywhere.

Also, I tried creating a Grindr account back in 2019, but deleted it a few weeks later, because everyone on it had a beard.

So you've given up? Make another profile and say NO BEARDS!
And try other places you can't rely on just one fishing net. If you can't move or don't want to move then you either have to travel (I know you have back problems) or get people to travel to you. You can find what you want if you make an effort over time.
Mar 23, 2020 4:23 PM

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Bro i kiss my homies goodnight all the time 0.0
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Mar 23, 2020 4:33 PM
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Nah...I won't "cuddle" up close unless it's a survival situation where they can't keep themselves warm.

I will wrap a blanket around the distressed and comfort / inspire them to push on, I will listen to their concerns, but "cuddling" would be reserved to those whom I hold a romantic interest in - girls only please.
Mar 23, 2020 4:37 PM

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Only if the other guy is a trap. If he looks too manly then nah.
Mar 23, 2020 5:30 PM

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That only happened one time and he was tucking his dick between his legs so it totally wasn't gay.
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