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Jul 30, 2022 3:39 PM
#51
"why?" This is like asking "You don't like pickles, why?"...don't know, I just don't. Similarly when I would have pickles in a salad which also has other things in it, I can watch show with BL in it if it's not the main focus and there is enough interesting other stuff. Just not interested in it. |
Jul 30, 2022 3:48 PM
#52
Because I much prefer to see two guys beating each other to death than romancing each other. |
(っ◔◡◔)っ 𝓘 𝔀𝓲𝓼𝓱 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓪𝓵𝓵 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓪 𝔀𝓸𝓷𝓭𝓮𝓻𝓯𝓾𝓵 𝓭𝓪𝔂 ♥ |
Jul 30, 2022 3:54 PM
#53
I'll watch every genre except BL, that's a rule I made for myself. |
“You yourself have to change first, or nothing will change for you!” ' |
Jul 30, 2022 3:56 PM
#54
The same reason I don't like furry, or sports, or cyberpunk. It's just not my thing. The amount of people throwing "homophobia" around lightly also doesn't help. Just look at this thread for reference. |
Jul 30, 2022 4:13 PM
#55
Nowadays people cannot have preference without being labeled. I get it. |
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Jul 30, 2022 4:14 PM
#56
The same reason I'm not into the idol genre or comedy genre. Doesn't grab my interest |
Jul 30, 2022 4:16 PM
#57
Jul 30, 2022 4:17 PM
#58
MightBeAWolfe said: The same reason I'm not into the idol genre or comedy genre. Doesn't grab my interest I am the same, also don't like isekai and idols genre. |
Jul 30, 2022 4:17 PM
#59
Just a matter of taste, just like with any other genre. |
Jul 30, 2022 4:35 PM
#60
I believe there is a reason for everything. People who say they, "just don't" like BL, means they haven't found the reason yet. I thought BL was weird when I hadn't tried it, then I tried it and I was like, "Lol, I was judging the genre. I was super uninformed on what BL is, but now I am edjucated because I tried it, and am super into BL that isn't sexual." BTW, not all BL is gross. Sasaki to Miyano is wholesome and cute :3 |
Jul 30, 2022 4:37 PM
#61
CatSoul said: I get why a straight guy wouldn't be into Dick Fight Island kyonkyonkun said: obv no one is excepting them to read titles like dick fight island. Rumor says Squidward Tentacles is a fan of that series. |
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Jul 30, 2022 4:38 PM
#62
Idk. Maybe it's just uncomfortable the same way i feel watching ecchi especially those extreme ones. I also watched Oniisama e.. which has the "girls love" tag (wasn't really girls love at all) and it was really good so if boys love have the same thing i think i might watch it. MightBeAWolfe said: true.The same reason I'm not into the idol genre or comedy genre. Doesn't grab my interest |
Jul 30, 2022 4:40 PM
#63
Sotara said: Laxative said: Sotara said: Laxative said: I'm not a homo, that's probably the main reason I don't like it as a genre. Many hetero people read and watch BL genre. It is not connected with one another. What I mean is that I simply don't like it since I'm not gay, also I don't think the majority of straight people enjoy BL so to say it is not connected is weird. Maybe you are right. I understand you, thanks for clarifying it. Wusel-chan said: Anjuro said: liebert_ said: I just don't like genres focussed on romance. Anjuro said: For me personally I just don't like romance in general. There are some romances that I have enjoyed but the usual formula of stretching the "confession stage" to the length of the series bores me to tears (admittedly I tend to avoid romance so its a self reinforcing bias but I do also feel like I've seen enough to at least have an opinion). I don't have a problem with BL specifically, but if I am 100% honest In my mind a friendship story is better than a romance so I do sort of subconsciously reject the idea of BL. Then again I've basically only seen banana fish as far as BL goes so I literally don't know what I'm talking about, I guess the bottom line is nobody has sold me on why I should care about BL when I (mostly) don't even care about regular romance. Pretty much I feel similar, although I've been told Banana Fish is more about a deep platonic relationship than a romance? Then again, I've never watched it myself... Dunno, it definitely came off as a bit saucy to me, sexual tension was definitely there. I'm surprised to hear of a fellow romance apathetic, I thought I might be the only one. Even if there was tension, it was never acted upon. I advised it to several heterosexual male friends and 4 out of 5 liked it because the story is not about romance, but the story of Banana Fish. Indeed, amazing story, I agree! I recommend to watch Banana Fish to all who like detective, drama and mystery genre! I still hope that Garden of Light will be adapted into anime series too... Although I know that in that case very unpleasant truth will be revealed... I agree with you, although you forgot mentioning the gunfights - they are such a huge part. And the fact that it does play in America also makes the feeling of the anime quite different compared to those who play out in Japan. Did you read the entire manga? Because there were some quite interesting things, which got left out in the anime, such as Charlie becoming an item with Nadia (to name one example). And I - sadly - highly doubt that Garden of Light will be adapted because of what they did on their website. Personally I would love both Angel Eyes and Garden of Light be adapted, because that specific scene in episode 9 doesn't make too much sense without the prequel chapter... |
The stain of red that colors the pavement Painted with blood of somebody you love Is this the sacrifice for the broken Losing the purest of what's in your heart |
Jul 30, 2022 4:40 PM
#64
Lucifrost said: CatSoul said: I get why a straight guy wouldn't be into Dick Fight Island kyonkyonkun said: obv no one is excepting them to read titles like dick fight island. Rumor says Squidward Tentacles is a fan of that series. So funny caption attached to the manga! Wusel-chan said: Sotara said: Laxative said: Sotara said: Laxative said: I'm not a homo, that's probably the main reason I don't like it as a genre. Many hetero people read and watch BL genre. It is not connected with one another. What I mean is that I simply don't like it since I'm not gay, also I don't think the majority of straight people enjoy BL so to say it is not connected is weird. Maybe you are right. I understand you, thanks for clarifying it. Wusel-chan said: Anjuro said: liebert_ said: I just don't like genres focussed on romance. Anjuro said: For me personally I just don't like romance in general. There are some romances that I have enjoyed but the usual formula of stretching the "confession stage" to the length of the series bores me to tears (admittedly I tend to avoid romance so its a self reinforcing bias but I do also feel like I've seen enough to at least have an opinion). I don't have a problem with BL specifically, but if I am 100% honest In my mind a friendship story is better than a romance so I do sort of subconsciously reject the idea of BL. Then again I've basically only seen banana fish as far as BL goes so I literally don't know what I'm talking about, I guess the bottom line is nobody has sold me on why I should care about BL when I (mostly) don't even care about regular romance. Pretty much I feel similar, although I've been told Banana Fish is more about a deep platonic relationship than a romance? Then again, I've never watched it myself... Dunno, it definitely came off as a bit saucy to me, sexual tension was definitely there. I'm surprised to hear of a fellow romance apathetic, I thought I might be the only one. Even if there was tension, it was never acted upon. I advised it to several heterosexual male friends and 4 out of 5 liked it because the story is not about romance, but the story of Banana Fish. Indeed, amazing story, I agree! I recommend to watch Banana Fish to all who like detective, drama and mystery genre! I still hope that Garden of Light will be adapted into anime series too... Although I know that in that case very unpleasant truth will be revealed... I agree with you, although you forgot mentioning the gunfights - they are such a huge part. And the fact that it does play in America also makes the feeling of the anime quite different compared to those who play out in Japan. Did you read the entire manga? Because there were some quite interesting things, which got left out in the anime, such as Charlie becoming an item with Nadia (to name one example). And I - sadly - highly doubt that Garden of Light will be adapted because of what they did on their website. Personally I would love both Angel Eyes and Garden of Light be adapted, because that specific scene in episode 9 doesn't make too much sense without the prequel chapter... Yes, I read the manga. My mistake, sorry. |
Jul 30, 2022 4:50 PM
#65
Over half of the ones I've seen had either rape, pedophilia, or just the relationship being toxic as fuck with them one of them being abusive or a manipulative ass.. Which is a major turnoff to say the least. The main ones I remember liking is Doukyuusei, Banana Fish, and Gakuen Handsome. |
Jul 30, 2022 4:54 PM
#66
I think as long as anyone enjoys romance they should be able to watch any sort of couple. I watch gl/bl/straight despite being a straight female. I don't care what their gender is. I just want to see some wholesome romance. I have a friend that just really hates the romance genre so he wouldn't touch any romance heavy title, I can understand that, but I don't get the mindset of not watching a show because it's not the gender your attracted to. Stuff like Given, Stranger at the Sea, and Sasaki to Miyano are really unique. They either completely turn cliches on their head (Sasaki to Miyano) or teaches you good life lessons (Given) that anyone could appreciate. That's just my thoughts on this though. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:00 PM
#67
TinaTunaTina said: I think as long as anyone enjoys romance they should be able to watch any sort of couple. I watch gl/bl/straight despite being a straight female. I don't care what their gender is. I just want to see some wholesome romance. I have a friend that just really hates the romance genre so he wouldn't touch any romance heavy title, I can understand that, but I don't get the mindset of not watching a show because it's not the gender your attracted to. Stuff like Given, Stranger at the Sea, and Sasaki to Miyano are really unique. They either completely turn cliches on their head (Sasaki to Miyano) or teaches you good life lessons (Given) that anyone could appreciate. That's just my thoughts on this though. I absolutely agree with you! Given is unique work in its genre. I never watch such works before! And the Mafyu cute little white puppy chihuahua is so adorable! Still recent manga chapters are quite dull for me, only diary pages and memories. I wish the same energetic and atmosphere as were at the beginning and the middle of the manga that were adapted into the anime series! |
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Jul 30, 2022 5:13 PM
#68
Heterosexual male, don't feel it, that's it. |
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Jul 30, 2022 5:18 PM
#69
First reason I can think of: Gender It's fairly obvious that the main audience for BLs are females; hell, there's often portrayals of fujoshis in anime as well, particularly in SOLs and school life iirc. Sure, there's also gonna be some guys who like the genre as well (fudanshis), but it's a rather small market. It's pretty much the same way with the yuri market: there's a lot of guys that read doujins on the genre (himedanshi) but there's also a relatively small part of girls interested as well (himejoshis). I genuinely think that the concept of BL is often the following: made by girls for girls. Second reason: Taste This one kinda ties into the first reason in that not everyone will have the exact same taste as another. Sure, there might be some commonalities and similar interests that may arise, but generally, two people won't have the exact same interests so much that it is a carbon copy. That being said, I feel that the forum post is coming off at an aggressive tone with the implication of one being better than the other. Realistically, there's not much you can do to really push someone to liking into a genre; just simple coercion. All in all, it just depends on what the person likes and dislikes and you kind of have to respect their opinions on that while also being able to have the tolerance on ridicule or differing opinions on what you hold dear. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:18 PM
#70
Wusel-chan said: wdym with this? owoAnd I - sadly - highly doubt that Garden of Light will be adapted because of what they did on their website. id say they wont adapt it bc the adaption was too much time ago |
Jul 30, 2022 5:21 PM
#71
NekOniiChan said: First reason I can think of: Gender It's fairly obvious that the main audience for BLs are females; hell, there's often portrayals of fujoshis in anime as well, particularly in SOLs and school life iirc. Sure, there's also gonna be some guys who like the genre as well (fudanshis), but it's a rather small market. It's pretty much the same way with the yuri market: there's a lot of guys that read doujins on the genre (himedanshi) but there's also a relatively small part of girls interested as well (himejoshis). I genuinely think that the concept of BL is often the following: made by girls for girls. Second reason: Taste This one kinda ties into the first reason in that not everyone will have the exact same taste as another. Sure, there might be some commonalities and similar interests that may arise, but generally, two people won't have the exact same interests so much that it is a carbon copy. That being said, I feel that the forum post is coming off at an aggressive tone with the implication of one being better than the other. Realistically, there's not much you can do to really push someone to liking into a genre; just simple coercion. All in all, it just depends on what the person likes and dislikes and you kind of have to respect their opinions on that while also being able to have the tolerance on ridicule or differing opinions on what you hold dear. Yes, one connects with another. kyonkyonkun said: Wusel-chan said: wdym with this? owoAnd I - sadly - highly doubt that Garden of Light will be adapted because of what they did on their website. id say they wont adapt it bc the adaption was too much time ago There was never such announcement from MAPPA. They didn't stated it. So we hope that the remaining parts of the series will be adapted one beautiful day. |
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Jul 30, 2022 5:22 PM
#72
NextUniverse said: I hear ppl have a big distaste for BL. I remember being at MAL Christmas event and ppl were putting BL as a genre to avoid, sometimes even on the forum, people don't show a big interest in it. As someone who doesn't care about what genres offer, but rather what every individual anime does in said genre. I see no reason to dislike BL. So, what are the reasons? Because... A part from I am not into boys in sexual way, from the storyline perspective most of the BL genre is just too boring... Most of the BL story is all about a weak and crybaby male getting dominated by a strong alpha male in a blatant way possible if only they can more cover it up little bit like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru maybe it will be a fine anime to watch. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:23 PM
#73
tongsamchongs said: NextUniverse said: I hear ppl have a big distaste for BL. I remember being at MAL Christmas event and ppl were putting BL as a genre to avoid, sometimes even on the forum, people don't show a big interest in it. As someone who doesn't care about what genres offer, but rather what every individual anime does in said genre. I see no reason to dislike BL. So, what are the reasons? Because... A part from I am not into boys in sexual way, from the storyline perspective most of the BL genre is just too boring... Most of the BL story is all about a weak and crybaby male getting dominated by a strong alpha male in a blatant way possible if only they can more cover it up little bit like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru maybe it will be a fine anime to watch. Not always about crybaby and alpha male. Ofthen there are two males who look like usual males, not fragile boy. I also like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru. Still BL moments are not so many in this series sadly. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:25 PM
#74
Because it's gay and I don't find guys sexually attractive. This is why I can tolerate yuri but not yaoi, because at least I get to see something I'm attracted to. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:26 PM
#75
Because I don't want to watch dudes in a relationship. |
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Jul 30, 2022 5:29 PM
#76
Sotara said: tongsamchongs said: NextUniverse said: I hear ppl have a big distaste for BL. I remember being at MAL Christmas event and ppl were putting BL as a genre to avoid, sometimes even on the forum, people don't show a big interest in it. As someone who doesn't care about what genres offer, but rather what every individual anime does in said genre. I see no reason to dislike BL. So, what are the reasons? Because... A part from I am not into boys in sexual way, from the storyline perspective most of the BL genre is just too boring... Most of the BL story is all about a weak and crybaby male getting dominated by a strong alpha male in a blatant way possible if only they can more cover it up little bit like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru maybe it will be a fine anime to watch. Not always about crybaby and alpha male. Ofthen there are two males who look like usual males, not fragile boy. I also like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru. Still BL moments are not so many in this series sadly. Exactly what I said... Yes... not always but most of it... I think Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru is a good development in BL genre, I need to confirm twice that it is certainly is BL, before dropped it.. :p |
Jul 30, 2022 5:31 PM
#77
Jul 30, 2022 5:31 PM
#78
Look, people have their choices. I might like something you don't, and you might like something I don't. And there isn't anything inherently wrong about that. I sense that OP is deliberately trying to stir up drama here. It's actually nice to see the support for BL here, and the recommendations like Sasaki to Miyano, and Given are great. They are genuinely well-written heartwarming stories which you can enjoy regardless of your sexuality. Whilst a majority of BL might be perceived to be yaoi or just plain hentai, if you did some research you would find some excellent manga. The psychology/motivations behind the characters in well-written BL are also very human at their core, whether it be plain old love, romance, dealing with past trauma, it's all rooted in the basic human condition. It doesn't matter whether you're gay, straight or bi, you are free to enjoy and appreciate good storytelling. As I understand, OP identifies themselves as non-binary. Upon looking at my shared manga with them, I was quite surprised to see they rated Shimanami Tasogare a 4/10. Personally for me, Shimanami Tasogare was an amazing BL/slice-of-life manga, it's combination of visual story telling and the psychology behind the MC were extremely touching in the way he dealt with his internalised homophobia by talking about it with members of the LGBT+ community. If anyone is looking for serious, in-depth psychological manga that also happens to be BL, I highly recommend Shimanami Tasogare and Koimonogatari. Once again, people are free to like and dislike whatever they want, provided they don't shove/force their ideas down someone else's throat non-consensually. Leave people be, enjoy what you like, and let others do the same. Let's all respect each other's views and have constructive discussions. But wait...this is the internet :/ |
Jul 30, 2022 5:32 PM
#79
tongsamchongs said: Sotara said: tongsamchongs said: NextUniverse said: I hear ppl have a big distaste for BL. I remember being at MAL Christmas event and ppl were putting BL as a genre to avoid, sometimes even on the forum, people don't show a big interest in it. As someone who doesn't care about what genres offer, but rather what every individual anime does in said genre. I see no reason to dislike BL. So, what are the reasons? Because... A part from I am not into boys in sexual way, from the storyline perspective most of the BL genre is just too boring... Most of the BL story is all about a weak and crybaby male getting dominated by a strong alpha male in a blatant way possible if only they can more cover it up little bit like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru maybe it will be a fine anime to watch. Not always about crybaby and alpha male. Ofthen there are two males who look like usual males, not fragile boy. I also like Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru. Still BL moments are not so many in this series sadly. Exactly what I said... Yes... not always but most of it... I think Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru is a good development in BL genre, I need to confirm twice that it is certainly is BL, before dropped it.. :p BL elements are so little there, but it has such traits. LightOfVoid said: Look, people have their choices. I might like something you don't, and you might like something I don't. And there isn't anything inherently wrong about that. I sense that OP is deliberately trying to stir up drama here. It's actually nice to see the support for BL here, and the recommendations like Sasaki to Miyano, and Given are great. They are genuinely well-written heartwarming stories which you can enjoy regardless of your sexuality. Whilst a majority of BL might be perceived to be yaoi or just plain hentai, if you did some research you would find some excellent manga. The psychology/motivations behind the characters in well-written BL are also very human at their core, whether it be plain old love, romance, dealing with past trauma, it's all rooted in the basic human condition. It doesn't matter whether you're gay, straight or bi, you are free to enjoy and appreciate good storytelling. As I understand, OP identifies themselves as non-binary. Upon looking at my shared manga with them, I was quite surprised to see they rated Shimanami Tasogare a 4/10. Personally for me, Shimanami Tasogare was an amazing BL/slice-of-life manga, it's combination of visual story telling and the psychology behind the MC were extremely touching in the way he dealt with his internalised homophobia by talking about it with members of the LGBT+ community. If anyone is looking for serious, in-depth psychological manga that also happens to be BL, I highly recommend Shimanami Tasogare and Koimonogatari. Once again, people are free to like and dislike whatever they want, provided they don't shove/force their ideas down someone else's throat non-consensually. Leave people be, enjoy what you like, and let others do the same. Let's all respect each other's views and have constructive discussions. But wait...this is the internet :/ I totally agree with you! Let's respect other opinions! Thanks for the recommendations! |
Jul 30, 2022 5:41 PM
#80
i just don't really like romance much in general. many romance works frame love in a way that i don't particularly ascribe to, and don't touch on what is interesting about love or relationships to me, they are either too idyllic or melodramatic or only show the will they/won't they build up to the romance or what have you. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:47 PM
#81
Because I don't find people kissing interesting, regardless of gender. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:47 PM
#82
RobertBobert said: If you want to watch a show about friendship and you don't like the shippers' persistent attempts to make it gay, then you're a homophobe. That is, either you accept their preferences and desires, or you are a bigot. or maybe they're just tired of how often people sexualize same-sex friendships. some people's fetishization gets rather extreme. if they're being so persistent about their shipping to the point of pushing it on or insulting other fans that aren't shipping with them, it's not homophobic to be annoyed by that persistence. some people just want to stick with what's canon. it's kind of sad when people feel the need to take any kind of platonic affection between two male characters in a non-BL show and see it as romantic or sexual love. it's not even just a thing done with boys (or anime, for that matter). I get that a lot of times writers are trying to bait people but you don't have to take it. platonic love exists. |
Jul 30, 2022 5:48 PM
#83
kyonkyonkun said: Wusel-chan said: wdym with this? owoAnd I - sadly - highly doubt that Garden of Light will be adapted because of what they did on their website. id say they wont adapt it bc the adaption was too much time ago |
The stain of red that colors the pavement Painted with blood of somebody you love Is this the sacrifice for the broken Losing the purest of what's in your heart |
Jul 30, 2022 5:59 PM
#84
Jul 30, 2022 6:11 PM
#85
Jul 30, 2022 6:24 PM
#86
Because I like women. That could be the end of it, but further, 99% of romance in anime in general is childish, annoying, and never stops beating around the bush. It's filled with characters who don't communicate properly and create endless pointless 'drama' because otherwise there would be nothing to write about. Half the time it's because the characters are young and japanese where everyone is allergic to simply telling someone that they wanna start a relationship or have a tumble in the sheets. This is why, despite my general enjoyment of anime, romance is not what I look for. Instead, I prefer the other aspects like watching crazy-powered samurai cut each other into unreasonable amounts of gory pieces. |
Jul 30, 2022 7:39 PM
#87
Wusel-chan said: kyonkyonkun said: Wusel-chan said: And I - sadly - highly doubt that Garden of Light will be adapted because of what they did on their website. id say they wont adapt it bc the adaption was too much time ago its a chart of the relations yes but i dont get how it denies an adaptation :o |
Jul 30, 2022 8:15 PM
#88
Bloodglas said: RobertBobert said: If you want to watch a show about friendship and you don't like the shippers' persistent attempts to make it gay, then you're a homophobe. That is, either you accept their preferences and desires, or you are a bigot. or maybe they're just tired of how often people sexualize same-sex friendships. some people's fetishization gets rather extreme. if they're being so persistent about their shipping to the point of pushing it on or insulting other fans that aren't shipping with them, it's not homophobic to be annoyed by that persistence. some people just want to stick with what's canon. it's kind of sad when people feel the need to take any kind of platonic affection between two male characters in a non-BL show and see it as romantic or sexual love. it's not even just a thing done with boys (or anime, for that matter). I get that a lot of times writers are trying to bait people but you don't have to take it. platonic love exists. Yeah. I get pretty annoyed by that. And often times, it's really offensive. It's as if no guy can have a close friendship with another guy without it being interpreted as gay. |
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Jul 30, 2022 8:17 PM
#89
Because I just like more yuri than BL...... |
Jul 30, 2022 8:18 PM
#90
They don’t want to admit that seeing cute anime boys makes them think naughty thoughts. |
Jul 30, 2022 8:22 PM
#91
Jul 30, 2022 8:27 PM
#92
Because I was raised in a family with values and we don´t consume soy. |
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Jul 30, 2022 8:36 PM
#93
Because I prefer women? Also, seeing how I run a club that worships big anime tiddies... |
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Jul 30, 2022 8:37 PM
#94
Jul 30, 2022 8:49 PM
#95
TheFireNinja said: I mean they do this with all female shows too. If I had a dollar for everytime I saw a "is this yuri" or "is this yaoi" is fourm on an anime, I'd be rich. You even have people like yuri crusader that I hope is a troll for my own mental health that has to ship two girls if they so much as stand by eachother. Bloodglas said: RobertBobert said: If you want to watch a show about friendship and you don't like the shippers' persistent attempts to make it gay, then you're a homophobe. That is, either you accept their preferences and desires, or you are a bigot. or maybe they're just tired of how often people sexualize same-sex friendships. some people's fetishization gets rather extreme. if they're being so persistent about their shipping to the point of pushing it on or insulting other fans that aren't shipping with them, it's not homophobic to be annoyed by that persistence. some people just want to stick with what's canon. it's kind of sad when people feel the need to take any kind of platonic affection between two male characters in a non-BL show and see it as romantic or sexual love. it's not even just a thing done with boys (or anime, for that matter). I get that a lot of times writers are trying to bait people but you don't have to take it. platonic love exists. Yeah. I get pretty annoyed by that. And often times, it's really offensive. It's as if no guy can have a close friendship with another guy without it being interpreted as gay. |
Jul 30, 2022 8:51 PM
#96
No hate but I'm straight it does not cater to my tastes |
Jul 30, 2022 8:57 PM
#97
TinaTunaTina said: TheFireNinja said: I mean they do this with all female shows too. If I had a dollar for everytime I saw a "is this yuri" or "is this yaoi" is fourm on an anime, I'd be rich. You even have people like yuri crusader that I hope is a troll for my own mental health that has to ship two girls if they so much as stand by eachother. Bloodglas said: RobertBobert said: If you want to watch a show about friendship and you don't like the shippers' persistent attempts to make it gay, then you're a homophobe. That is, either you accept their preferences and desires, or you are a bigot. or maybe they're just tired of how often people sexualize same-sex friendships. some people's fetishization gets rather extreme. if they're being so persistent about their shipping to the point of pushing it on or insulting other fans that aren't shipping with them, it's not homophobic to be annoyed by that persistence. some people just want to stick with what's canon. it's kind of sad when people feel the need to take any kind of platonic affection between two male characters in a non-BL show and see it as romantic or sexual love. it's not even just a thing done with boys (or anime, for that matter). I get that a lot of times writers are trying to bait people but you don't have to take it. platonic love exists. Yeah. I get pretty annoyed by that. And often times, it's really offensive. It's as if no guy can have a close friendship with another guy without it being interpreted as gay. I mean, I'm not the one writing those shows. And I'm not interested in yuri content any more than yaoi content. |
Jul 30, 2022 8:59 PM
#98
TheFireNinja said: I mean I'm not saying you're interested. I'm just saying that basically nobody can be close to anyone without them speculating on the nature of the relationship.TinaTunaTina said: TheFireNinja said: Bloodglas said: RobertBobert said: If you want to watch a show about friendship and you don't like the shippers' persistent attempts to make it gay, then you're a homophobe. That is, either you accept their preferences and desires, or you are a bigot. or maybe they're just tired of how often people sexualize same-sex friendships. some people's fetishization gets rather extreme. if they're being so persistent about their shipping to the point of pushing it on or insulting other fans that aren't shipping with them, it's not homophobic to be annoyed by that persistence. some people just want to stick with what's canon. it's kind of sad when people feel the need to take any kind of platonic affection between two male characters in a non-BL show and see it as romantic or sexual love. it's not even just a thing done with boys (or anime, for that matter). I get that a lot of times writers are trying to bait people but you don't have to take it. platonic love exists. Yeah. I get pretty annoyed by that. And often times, it's really offensive. It's as if no guy can have a close friendship with another guy without it being interpreted as gay. I mean, I'm not the one writing those shows. And I'm not interested in yuri content any more than yaoi content. |
Jul 30, 2022 9:57 PM
#100
This feels like a strange question. Something like BL can be expected to be most appealing to a few target demographics, and I'm not among them. Every idea has at least a few haters. I don't actively dislike BL, it just doesn't appeal to me. |
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