| I'm not sure if this is an appropriate thread. Are there any minor, or major flaws or faults that you'd want to admit to? A "minor" one would be something like: I have a habit of picking my nose still. A "major" one would be something like this: I have a habit of obsessively internalizing minor things people say to me for years. As in, I will remember somebody's words (usually harsh ones) for years that deeply affects me negatively for a very long time until I grow out of it. Or, another one would be like: I have a tendency of being very stern and condescending, to the point that quite a few people see me as an asshole (I probably am, I dunno) and sometimes rightfully so, such as shaming people for a certain set of behaviors (such as simply liking and disliking something). But then, as I go through the process of eliminating my own tendencies, I tend to shame others for... shaming others. Sorry if that was confusing. Edit: I must also admit, I tend to assume people to be a certain thing if something they say (which isn't really a bad thing they say, just something they say in general) bothers me. For example, if somebody says something like "๐ฅบ๐ฅบLUFFY SUPREMACYโจโจ he's baby" I assume they are a white teenage girl from Twitter, or that if somebody says something along the lines of "My Hero is mid, trash" that they are a Hispanic teenage boy from Instagram. In most cases this is not true so I tell myself otherwise, but I have the habit of letting it come to mind. I'm not free from being a projecting asshole, either. xD |
ChartTopper60Apr 11, 2021 1:16 PM
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| I do not want to admit to anything sadly |
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| A flaw of mines is being unable to talk to people whom I'm not friends with, even if I have spoken to them a few times beforehand. I will avoid talking to them as much as possible and whenever they start a conversation I always feel as if I made them regret even talking to me. It makes me seem as if I'm an egotistical person who doesn't care about other people when really the words just cant come out of my mouth. |
| yeahhh lets gooo - my horrible anger issues - my tendency to get stressed at any change in my routine/new situation - unintentionally blunt/aggressive (ppl tell me i sound rude when i don’t even mean to) - procrastination - EXCESSIVE daydreaming - unhealthy coping mechanisms (escapism) |
| I'm like suuuuper absent minded and easily distracted that it's kinda scary. I sleep at completely random times, but I neeeed sleep when I'm tired. I literally cannot do a thing when I'm tired. Luckily the work I do is kinda freelance, but still I often wake up in the dark and it can get kinda lonely. I'm too easily amused. If I see something even slightly funny, I'm on the floor and needing oxygen. I'm not as educated as I should be, but that not really my fault but still. I have a bad habit of biting & picking the skin off my lips. It can get quite bloody & hurt but I've been doing it since I was a kid. It's stress/nervousness related, I can and have stopped before, but sometimes I just can't help doing it. |
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| 2 things makes my life a mess and that is paranoia and laziness/avolition |
| Too many to admit tbh, I'm a narcissist....and more but like im to lazy to say the rest |
   ♥๏ธ ๐๐ท๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ ♥๏ธ “๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ธ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ต๐ ๐ช๐ท๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ป๐ธ๐ถ๐ช๐ท๐ฌ๐ฎ, ๐ฃ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ช, ๐๐ฒ๐ต๐ต ๐ต๐ฎ๐ท๐ญ ๐๐ธ๐พ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ช๐ฒ๐ญ.” – ๐ฃ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ช ๐๐ฒ๐ผ๐ช๐ด๐ช |
| I procrastinate way more than I would like to. |
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| I bite my nails (when nervous) and I´m super lazy, also procrastinate too much |
| "If I get reincarnated… I wanna become a clam.” – Monkey D Luffy |
| I have so many. One of them would probably be my anger issues. When I get angry I do stuff that I don’t mean to and hurt people. Another one would be I lack a lot of sympathy sometimes. |
| Picking your nose is fine if you wash your hands before and afterwards, and if you don't harm your nostrils or cause bleeding. Try to do it moderately and with hygiene. https://www.healthline.com/health/nose-picking |
| I have plenty flaws so choosing was difficult, eventually settled on these: I'm as escapist as they get I find it difficult to just "let things be", I must always confront others when I know they're wrong even when they're emotionally right I'm extremely afraid other people will harm me when I cause too much trouble for them and have a really hard time returning a faulty product due to that. People are scary Bonus: I often make myself look worse than I actually am and oftentimes I really do want the best for everyone (ofc within reason) |
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| the fact that i pretend to not care at all about anything and always say stuff like "chill, it's fine, i don't care and no-one else cares either" but i'm actually REALLY anxious about everything i do |
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Loungeshit said: i relate to that one, i don't know how people do it! i try to act like it but i'm not a very good actorI don't know how I'm supposed to enjoy seeing other people succeed. |
| BOMB BOMB BAKUDAN |
| I’m attracted to women and trans. I believe that you can never really know or trust another person. Everyone is a cheater given the right conditions. |
GenshinRosariaApr 12, 2021 5:30 AM
| My greatest flaw is being late under almost all kinds of circumstances, e.g. meeting friends, attending lectures, going to a certain activity or going to tutor children (as my part-time job). This is a really great problem and I wish I could fix it before my graduation. |
| I can be quite strict. Also I'm quite disciplined and that can create problems. I am extremely blunt and lack tact, something I've been trying to work around it's gotten alot better in the past decade but I still get into trouble with people due to it. Even my closest friends I end up hurting them sometimes, makes me feel bad but I feel even worse if I'm dishonest with myself so yeah. I'm terrible with small talk. |
| “There is something in this world which no one has ever seen. It is soft and sweet. If it is spotted, I'm sure everyone will want to have it, Which is why no one has ever seen it. For this world has hidden it quite well, so that it is difficult to obtain. But, there will come a day when it is discovered by somebody, And only those who should obtain it will be able to find it. That is all.” Yuyuko Takemiya |
| i still bite my nails and sometimes the little skin near them, im sometimes a know-it-all irl when in the internet im not like that at all (ig i think im more knowledgable bc of the internet while the ppl ik irl aren't) i despise it so much when i can "see" or "sense" when someone wants attention/is an attention seeker, i get distracted really easily and when my focus breaks its hard to get back to it which causes me to have breakdowns sometimes. and my biggest one is probably my anger issues. i inconsistently get angry at the smallest things that might result to me saying/doing things that hurt people when i could've dealt with it better if i wasn't so angry |
| A minor flaw is that I get lost in thought... all the damn time. Oh, and I sometimes forget what I'm saying AS I'M TALKING! Like it was there one second and gone the next. I'll usually remember what I was going to say 10 or 15 minutes later and by then no one can follow my train of thought lol. A major flaw is being an anti-social introvert. I don't like socializing. It's okay on RARE occasions and on a small scale, but I hate being around crowds of people. Literally I see a crowd and I want to run. It's like... nope, not dealing with that. Also, I'm far too sarcastic and it's almost got me into trouble. My boss pissed me off and I said something sarcastic and THANK GOD she thought I was being serious and I didn't get in trouble. I was horrified that my mouth ran away with me. My co-worker knows me though and as soon as our boss walked off she burst out laughing! I don't even remember what it was I said anymore because it was years ago, but I just remember that one instance in particular because I so thought I'd get fired. And that wasn't the only instance, but luckily people who don't know me can't seem to tell when I'm being sarcastic or not... I also hold grudges. For a VERY long time. And when I'm upset I internalize. Which isn't healthy. Also, an escapist. I'm also way more emotional then people know. I'm very good at hiding my feelings from internalizing so much shit since I was a kid, that I can hide being hurt very well. I'm pretty good at hiding anger too, but sometimes I internalize to much and I get majorly pissed off and then I make people cry... and sometimes I enjoy that and that's not good. |
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| ah lol that's a big question, there's a lot of things I would like to say but I think I should make it short -I am very lazy -pretty rude, I'm not very good at taking criticism -denser than a harem mc - and this one is the worst for me, but I can never forgive or forget anything that someone has done to me, or maybe they haven't even done anything, maybe it was justified. I just can't forgive people |
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| A minor flaw of mine is I bite my nails. Just a minor flaw really I don't mind it too much. A major flaw of mine is my I am very self loathing to the point where it affects how I view other people. |
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| A minor one would be sweaty hands, not something I can control or maybe I can, I don't know. My hands are always sweaty, not like dripping sweat, but moisty. A major one would be self-hatred, some part of me has never gotten over how much I hate myself, not sure what it is that I hate about myself. Another one would be that I am very blunt, it can come off as rude, I always have good intentions but I have no idea how to sugarcoat things well, because people pick up on my lies very easily, and being honest is considered rude by most people. |
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| im an ugly incel with extreme high functioning autism |
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| I'm a people-pleaser, unnecessarily self-conscious and will often speak without thinking, which will typically lead to me feeling shitty for the next day or two. |
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| A major flaw I have is I have no real connections with others or I can lose anyone and not feel sad. If all my friends cut me off or just ghosted me, I would not care. We talk and hang out a lot and we get along just fine but at the same time, I don't really care about them. This happens with a lot of people in my life. Even with my mom, my mom passed away and I haven't felt sadness. |
guych said: A major flaw I have is I have no real connections with others or I can lose anyone and not feel sad. If all my friends cut me off or just ghosted me, I would not care. We talk and hang out a lot and we get along just fine but at the same time, I don't really care about them. This happens with a lot of people in my life. Even with my mom, my mom passed away and I haven't felt sadness. Did you have a good relationship with your mother? Did you spend much time with her? Did you not allow yourself to grieve for her or do you think that you didn’t feel any sadness because of some negative reason? Or were you raised not to show any emotion or something? |
| The flaw I struggle with is seeing things as black or white, or catastrophizing when I'm in my head too much. It's something I'm actively unlearning through having things happen to me as a kid, so I'd say it's not something I struggle with as much anymore after becoming more self aware. |
| desu desu binches |
| Minor flaw - Being undecisive. It takes me a long time to choose when many options are presented, from the menu in a restaurant, down to what movie to watch / book to read. Major flaw - Procrastination and cramming. I understand the concept of Parkinson's law, but I can't seem to apply it in real life most of the time. |
 ใใใจใใซ ๅใใจๆใธ ๅฑฑๆก ่ฑใใๅคใซ ็ฅใไบบใใชใ. On a mountain slope, Solitary, uncompanioned, Stands a cherry tree. Except for you, lonely friend, To others I am unknown. |
| there are a couple of flaws i struggle with, i tend to overthink a lot and get stressed easily bc of minor tasks and there's a flaw i recently discovered, i hate being around crowds (like really big crowds) for a long time it makes me uncomfortable, esp if there are lots of unknown intimidating people there and if it's a closed space but it might because i'm an introvert |
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| I'm lazy and it's sorta destroying my life but I'm not giving a fuck about it cuz I'm lazy. |
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| i'm extremely indecisive, anxious, irritable, jealous, avoidant, and probably a lot of other things too. i can't let go of my anger and painful memories and i feel awkward around everyone because i feel like they are better than me or think theyre better than me, and they could never understand me, and any kindness they show me has to be fake, and theyre probably just out to use me or hurt me, and things like that. i always feel like the world is about to hurt me, and i'm paralyzed by that fear so much so that i find it difficult to do normal/easy things. |
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| Im too distant and withdrawn from others I guess. Im just not a fan of putting myself on show. |
| Oh sometimes I'm bad at understanding simple stuff. What I mean is that somebody asks me something or asks me to bring them something and I may overthink it and say/do something that's out of discussion despite being associated with the particular thing. Or I'm just air-headed I guess xD |
| I am a very flawed person lmao. some are: - procrastination - insensitive - not very serious Someone take away my emotions so I don't have to care anymore. |
| - I have awful temperament, I can go from calm to a yelling person in just seconds over minor things. I guess even more of a bad thing is I don't really have any good way to handle it. I have broken some of my stuff too to calm myself - I lie too easily, if I see there's a benefit to do it - Rarely if at all I actually open up about anything. I don't like to do it - My ego has issues - I'm a forgetful person - Hardly interested in my surroundings unless it is something specific. Hence I'm also bad listener |
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