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Jan 16, 3:04 PM
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I tried to show her the best anime I knew... I let her watching Evangelion, Steins;Gate, Mirai Nikki, Fullmetal Alchemist, Death Note... but she dropped every single one of them after 7-8 episodes saying they are boring, bullshit for childrens and that I have to grow up... what can I do?
 
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Jan 16, 3:05 PM

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get a better gf         
but shes right anime are for children      
 
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Jan 16, 3:06 PM

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You already lost when you showed her Mirai Nikki.
 
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Grow up and stop watching children's cartoons. Get out while you still can.
 
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What can you do? Realise that you don't have one ;^)
 
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i don't think it's up to you so much! she should be accepting of the stuff you enjoy whether she understands it or not! if you know she's not interested don't force her to watch any but you shouldn't have to stop doing something you enjoy for her, especially when it's not harming anybody..! good luck!!!

Edit: if you /really/ want her to watch smth tho i'd recommend gekkan shoujo nozaki-kin or ouran high school host club. they're the best and funniest shoujo i know and they'd probably be more up her alley, tho again! don't force her!
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Mirai Nikki... do I have to say anything else?
 
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it's your fault for showing her mirai nikki. if i had a boyfriend and he showed me that i'd break up with him immediately.
show her shitcom and utsu musume sayuri then she'll like it.
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Jan 16, 3:14 PM

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tell her to suck some other dude's dick and continue watching your children cartoons. also buy body pillows to help yourself feel like you're loved by someone
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Jan 16, 3:14 PM

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Make her see Shigatsu wa Kimi no Uso.. she probably gonna like it..
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Jan 16, 3:14 PM
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lie and say you'll stop but watch in secret I guess
 
Jan 16, 3:16 PM

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You guys don't have to agree about this to stay in a relationship.

Keep watching anime, but don't try to force her into your hobby.
I wonder how many people know how to use google and not just ask a question which has been answered thousands of times already in the past.
 
Jan 16, 3:16 PM

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You should've shown her The Rapeman, Euphoria, and Enzai (not Boku no Pico, too mainstream)

Btw, nice profile bro
 
Jan 16, 3:17 PM

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If she can't accept her for who you are, don't accept her as your gf man.
Girls come and go, but anime can last you a lifetime.
Or at the very least, defend yourself and your hobby and forestall your inevitable breakup.
Otherwise this is going to turn into a "one or the other" choice, and that's pretty much the worst outcome.
 
Jan 16, 3:19 PM

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Break up and get yourself a dakimakura.
Kokoro did nothing wrong.

 
Jan 16, 3:20 PM
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Break up and get yourself a dakimakura.
This is without a doubt the best thing to do.
 
Jan 16, 3:21 PM

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Show her better ones.... These are just really boring.
 
Jan 16, 3:22 PM

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Well she is just Biased.
if you find any Animated movies on dvd at her home then call her a hypocrite.
 
Jan 16, 3:23 PM

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FUCKING DUMP HER

In all honesty, all you gotta do is show her one of the more "mature" shows like Fate/Zero or Psycho-Pass and it'll be fine.

Otherwise sucks to be you man.
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Jan 16, 3:24 PM

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She's not worth your attention, break up. What could be more important than anime?

If she doesn't understand, how about you just try to come to an agreement? It's not like you have to do whatever she wants. If not, just arrange a certain time when you can watch but she's not around. Or find some hobby of hers that you disapprove of...




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Jan 16, 3:27 PM

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Well that's a very easy choice , What does anime have to offer? Anxiety, depression and wifus . What does your girlfriend have to offer? Anxiety , depression and real sex!! C'mon , it's easy boy 😂😂😂😎😎😎


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Jan 16, 3:28 PM

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ya take the waifu                    
 
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You should've not shown her those kind of shows. You know that many girls won't like em. You should've let her see anohana or some dramatic anime with little battle scenes like... Made in abyss?
 
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>Anime
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Life is full of surprises...
 
Jan 16, 3:30 PM

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To be frank, at that point, I'll call bullshit. There is no way no one calls anime for kids after NGE, Death Note Stein's Gate and FMA. Just no way or your girlfriend is ignorant or non-existent

But is this bait?

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Jan 16, 3:31 PM
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Look, don't show your girlfriend Anime unless you're certain she like it. My girl isn't a fan of Anime either but she has no problem with me watching it and a few rare times she will even watch an Anime with me

The first one we saw was togheder '' Boku no Hero Academia '' And we both really enjoyed that so my advice is that you show her somthing that's easy to understand with a straightforward plot with no overdramatized drama and stuff like that

And if she still dosen't like it then you need to just respect that and leave her alone with the Anime stuff, Anime is not for everyone :)
 
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leave her now m8. u ll leave her anyway in the close future, not only becus she dislikes anime, but she wants u to stop watching it cus she dislikes it (selfish and egocentric), and she is close minded af (anime is for childs just cus she didnt enjoy it? lol bye)
 
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ZionPulse said:


In all honesty, all you gotta do is show her one of the more "mature" shows


there is no more mature shows , she wont accept devilman nor ghost in the shell etc
its just prejudice or something like that, its like racism u will never fix someone other problem
 
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That's selfish of her for telling you to stop watching it just because she dislikes it. Sure not everyone is going to be into the same stuff, but she shouldn't make you stop watching it just because of her own opinion. I guess just let it go for now and do what you like who cares, you don't have to share it with her, it's not like it's harming anyone if you keep watching it on your own.

- and lol one of my friends stopped seeing a guy because he liked studio ghibli movies, I thought it was so dumb of her hahaha.
 
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anemonespotte said:
ZionPulse said:


In all honesty, all you gotta do is show her one of the more "mature" shows


there is no more mature shows , she wont accept devilman nor ghost in the shell etc
its just prejudice or something like that, its like racism u will never fix someone other problem
Fine, show her hentai or some shit i don't know.
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Alioune said:
I tried to show her the best anime I knew... I let her watching Evangelion, Steins;Gate, Mirai Nikki, Fullmetal Alchemist, Death Note... but she dropped every single one of them after 7-8 episodes saying they are boring, bullshit for childrens and that I have to grow up... what can I do?


SHE HAS SHIT TASTE.

Break up with her. :/

That's selfish of her for telling you to stop watching it just because she dislikes it.

Agreed. She's just a selfish bitch.



 
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so my advice is that you show her somthing that's easy to understand with a straightforward plot


dude she said death note was boring and for children, a show where its all about find new ways of killing the person in front of you
she finds BORING watch characters die, either bait or insanity
 
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Show her Boku no Pico, I think she'll love that....JK.

Show her Black Lagoon dubbed

Or ask her kind of movies she like, and try to find an anime equivalent
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>Anime
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Life is full of surprises...


Don't act retarded; most of my friends are MARRIED and their spouses are just as fanatical.



 
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im sorry but she sounds terrible. i would dump her immediately.
 
Jan 16, 3:43 PM
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You're doing it wrong, mate. You're supposed to show her stuff like Yuri on Ice, Free, Tiger and Bunny, or JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. If you show these to her now, she might forgive you.
 
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anemonespotte said:
dude she said death note was boring and for children, a show where its all about find new ways of killing the person in front of you
she finds BORING watch characters die, either bait or insanity


Mabye she likes Romance? School Animes i don't know? lol
 
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>mirai nikki
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joking, as long as she isn't disrespectful towards you i guess it's ok? you don't have to agree in everything to be together
 
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Maybe she thinks you like anime more than her so she just automatically hates them all.
girls are weird sometimes

otherwise if she just genuinely doesnt like anime and is forcing you to stop watching them then leave her ASAP
 
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Dump her, if she can't except your hobbies, why except her?


 
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if watching anime is something that you enjoy, do it. if your girlfriend doesn't approve of that, then maybe you should step out of that relationship. i don't understand how watching anime is childish, though. i mean, there are obviously some that are targeted at children, but you listed a few that definitely aren't.
 
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Drop her and get a dakimakura with your favourite Waifu on it
Not that it'll love you back or anything

Well, you can be persistent and continue to watch until she accepts you or find a new girlfriend who understands your interests/are interested in the same things as you.
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velvetPhos said:
Alioune said:

Evangelion
she dropped every single one of them after 7-8 episodes saying they are boring, bullshit for childrens

If someone thinks NGE is bullshit for children, then you don’t have many choices…


That's why he should dump her; she's obviously an idiot. :/

Just find a girl who LIKES anime there are tons of us.



 
Jan 16, 3:51 PM

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don't listen to her

Mirai Nikki bad idea, a drama would be more appropriate like Your Lie in April or a movie like Koe no Katachi
 
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You've shown her five shows, average at best, abysmal at worst. So yeah, found the smaller problem.

The bigger one is that she can't understand someone having a hobby, in which case I believe she should be alone forever, or find herself someone bland enough to not have opinions.
 
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I'd hate to know what your girlfriend would let's kids watch if she thinks that Death Note (murder, manipulation, philosophy, etc), Future Diary (murder, nudity, psychopaths) and Steins; Gate (require quite a bit of brain power to understand) are shows for children.

Honestly, being in a similar situation before, I'd ask her how she would feel if you wanted her to change who she is (I had to read that twice myself). If she still insists on changing you, either leave her or become a whipped bitch.
 
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Yeah, personally there's 2 deal breakers for me, trying to keep me away from friends and making me completely stop a hobby.
Especially if they aren't willing to give up anything on their end.
 
Jan 16, 4:00 PM

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Are you forcing your hobby onto her? If so, stop. Not all couples have to be into the same stuff. We are defined by your differences, and people love each other because of how they are different. If you want to love someone who's the same as you, then I think you need to reconsider a few things.
Even if you aren't , if she thinks you need to "grow up" and can't accept your hobby, then please get yourself out of that toxic relationship. You know what you like and who you are and own it. That's what maturity is. You don't need to grow up and if she thinks otherwise then I don't think she's that great of a person at heart.
 
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Kuraokani said:
I'd hate to know what your girlfriend would let's kids watch if she thinks that Death Note (murder, manipulation, philosophy, etc), Future Diary (murder, nudity, psychopaths) and Steins; Gate (require quite a bit of brain power to understand) are shows for children.

maybe she likes logan paul that dab in front of dead people, something that even kira would consider irrational
 
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100% fuck her dad and show her who is boss.
 
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