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| I would probably not date them either way, to be honest. Still, I came to the epiphany that a virgin is better. Not because I have some bizarre fetish but because I am tired of dealing with the emotional baggage of the so-called "experienced" people. Some of them are literally insane. I do not want to hear stories about their 43rd lover, who was a sailor and died tragically near Antarctica in the early 2000s, every time we have dinner. |
| yes and it would be cute since its out first time |
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| why not it has a lot of potential fuckery |
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149597871 said: I would probably not date them either way, to be honest. Still, I came to the epiphany that a virgin is better. Not because I have some bizarre fetish but because I am tired of dealing with the emotional baggage of the so-called "experienced" people. Some of them are literally insane. I do not want to hear stories about their 43rd lover, who was a sailor and died tragically near Antarctica in the early 2000s, every time we have dinner. "Bigot! stop shaming women for their sexual past!" How would you respond to this? |
| I'm gonna go ahead and explain my answer a little better. My primary wish is to marry a girl who's greatest desire in life is to be married and be a mother. So the way this relates to virginity, is that if I was about to marry a high school girl, then it would make sense for her to be a virgin and yeah that would be kind of nice. But since I want to marry a girl who makes love the most important part of her life, the chances of her being 20 years old, cute, and never having been with another guy are extremely low. It makes sense that the kind of girl I want would be the type who has dated other guys before. What matters to me more than whether she has had sex before is what kind of guys she had sex with, and whether she had sex with them because she was romantically involved with them, or if she was having a bunch of hookups. Now I will actually forgive a small handful of hookups. But if I see a consistent pattern then I find that to be a red flag. This is why I said a truly high number of sexual partners is definitely undesirable. A girl who's had sex with a few people beforehand though, that just comes with the type of girl I want. |
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| My thread is slowing down. I want input from more users |
_Maneki-Neko_ said: Welp, this is another, very incely question here. Why would you refer to it as 'incely'? I haven't demonstrated any contempt for women |
DaddyDonovan said: adolfpenguin said: Well wanting a virgin wife and expecting your wife to be sexually exclusive to you are both one and the same. Both are expectation borne from sexual-jealousy You said partners should be loved more for their personality and character than for fulfilling these expectations Yet you also want that sweet exclusive sexual commitment from your wife You are making a pretty weird false equivalency, cheating is an act of betrayal, a girl having relations with men prior to meeting you isn't. would you be okay if your partner asks permission for a one-off sexual encounter with another man? is merely suggesting to become sexually inexclusive cheating? |
DaddyDonovan said: No but wanting your partner to yourself and wanting your partner to be a virgin prior to even meeting you are two different things. on what grounds do you say they're different? I say they're similar since they are both expectation borne from sexual jealousy |
DaddyDonovan said: adolfpenguin said: on what grounds do you say they're different? I say they're similar since they are both expectation borne from sexual jealousy Yes they come from simillar feelings and you have the right to ask for either, all I'm saying is that just because you are cool with not being your partner's first partner doesn't mean you are cool with them getting with other men while you are with them. For me it's the same. Other men should not have been intimate or ever be intimate with my waifu. |
| Who gives a shit as long as they don't have stds. I rather date experience who know what to do in bed than deal with blood and rag dolls. Only virgin men deserve virgin women all other men are hippocrates. |
| I'm gonna NTR the shit outta you lololollol Nah I'm just playin. Yeah I'm down for dating whoever in this case. |
| I kinda mind but at the same time I don't because I'm in no position to talk, I lost mine pretty early. But it kinda depends on how many people they been with. One or two is fine but more than that, then I would be kinda wary (I'm assuming she is in the same age group as I am). |
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| Why not? Lol most people aren't virgins especially after 18+. Being the first person to have sex with someone could mean something to one or the other but at the end of the day, it doesn't matter that much. |
| I mean yeah, is the fact that someone has already had sex before such a turn-off? I mean that´s most people I suppose if you´re over the age of 18 |
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| i'm a virgin dating a non-virgin so the answer is yes but also when i think about how he's already fucked a dozen other people i secretly get really jealous and angry because i'm insecure. but on the other hand it'd be weird if he was 31 and still a virgin. |
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| It's the twenty first century, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin or not. |
| I don't care. If I love the person, I'll accept their past. People lose their virginity for many reasons. Some may lose it tragically, but some may lose it intentionally. It's very unfair to judge people based on virginity, especially those who had experienced trauma before. |
| Sure. Can't say i'd put much effort into the relationships though , she's used goods after all. I'd just try to enjoy my turn |
| the people who obsess over virginity generally never get the opportunity to lose theirs |
| Yes, of course. All the guys I went out with weren't virgins. Why would I reduce someone to their sex life. That's low and no one has the right to judge anyone because of that. The concept of virginity is so overrated. I'm tired of it being such a big deal. |
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| Of course, it's stupid to judge someone on their sex past because you don't know their reason (unless you grow up in culture where it really matters). |
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| dating a girl who is not a virgin? Yes Love her, marry her and make her the mother of my children? It is possible but very difficult. I have slept with a variety of girls and I have had special affection for some of my partners but I have only loved one, and she was a virgin even on her lips. Now I would lie if I said that her virginity was the attribute that I loved the most about her, but I would also lie if I said that I would have fallen in love with her if I had not met her as a virgin. The desire to be the first and only one in a woman's life is something very innate and deep in man's nature. Such desire is especially vehement in my case, because unlike other men, I feel very little capable of sincerely loving a woman who cannot satisfy it. I suspect that the only way that I can fall in love with a woman who gave another man her virginity is that she has moral virtues high enough for me to be certain that it is much less difficult to find a decent virgin than someone like her. |
_Nemrod_Apr 30, 2023 2:09 PM
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| Why should I care if my partner had sex with others before me so long as they don't have sex with other people while we're in a relationship. |
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| No, I would most likely not be in a relationship with someone who is not a virgin. The emotional baggage, STDs, & possibly comparing me to previous partners- it wouldn't be fair on me when I've never been in a relationship before. I want my first to have as high a chance of working out as possible. If had already been in a relationship before however, then it would be a double standard wouldn't it, in that case I may be more likely to choose them. But it still depends on how many partners they have had. |
Hydre_ItoJun 3, 2021 11:30 AM
| Virginity is overrated. But you can stay single your whole life after being ignored every time you say to a potential girlfriend that you only want to date a virgin, I guess. After a while you'll renounce to that one I bet. |
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| Already am, and I honestly don't care too much either way. |
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SinfulFate said: I don't think i would, just thinking about the fact my gf or future wife is already banged by another man make me sick, for that reason too I'm keeping my virginity for only one who i truly love This is probably the only thoughtful, sane and realistic answer on this thread Congratulation, you're not a degenerate.I have a little faith in the people here again |
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| I think most people nowadays are dating/married to "non-virgins". |
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BestGirlViolet said: adolfpenguin said: I wouldn't, even the mere thought of it makes me feel sick. Another man should not have porked my wife, it would devastate me But you'd expect a woman to be with you if you porked other women, right? That's typically how it goes. yes. Is there any rule that you have to be x if you should expect x from a partner? |
| it depends, if the person is nice, loyal and not a wh**e, then why not |
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