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| I wouldn't, even the mere thought of it makes me feel sick. Another man should not have porked my wife, it would devastate me --------------------------- Mod Note: Thread Locked. This two-year-old thread was recently bumped but it was already in violation of Casual Discussion Rule 6. Casual Discussion is also not a sex board. Thread topics about sexually explicit material are not allowed and will be removed. This includes but is not limited to topics about: -porn material, the porn industry -masturbation, sexual preferences, sexual experiences, sexual fetishes |
dipItFooMay 24, 2023 5:14 PM
| Yes, having a partner or two in the past wouldn't bother me at all. However if it's like over 4 partners then that's actually a big red flag |
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| I've been with exclusively non virgins lol. Also I hope people would date a non virgin in context of dating me lol. |
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RightWing said: but are you in a position to have such high demands? in western countries women lose their virginity at 16 or something like that. that is selfreported so it is probably even lower. do you really think you will find a unicorn? if you are from a western country your only hope is to convert so some christian fundamentalist group and get a church girl. i don't know if you are into that. ^ QFT even in Asia girls are getting more promiscuous than ever so if OP is trying to lose his virginity with his low SMV and this type of mindset he'll most likely end up becoming a grand wizard instead. Beggars can't be choosers or so they say Another thing is that it looks to me like most people on MAL cannot differentiate the meaning of "dating" and "being committed in a relationship". Dating a girl doesn't mean that you will put a ring on it anytime soon lol |
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Futari_no_Ossan said: RightWing said: but are you in a position to have such high demands? in western countries women lose their virginity at 16 or something like that. that is selfreported so it is probably even lower. do you really think you will find a unicorn? if you are from a western country your only hope is to convert so some christian fundamentalist group and get a church girl. i don't know if you are into that. ^ QFT even in Asia girls are getting more promiscuous than ever so if OP is trying to lose his virginity with his low SMV and this type of mindset he'll most likely end up becoming a grand wizard instead. Beggars can't be choosers or so they say Another thing is that it looks to me like most people on MAL cannot differentiate the meaning of "dating" and "being committed in a relationship". Dating a girl doesn't mean that you will put a ring on it anytime soon lol It's all or nothing. If I can't find myself a virgin qt, I will give up on dating and perhaps become a pastor |
| I suppose I would, but I wouldn't want to know anything about their past experiences or relationships. |
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adolfpenguin said: It's all or nothing. If I can't find myself a virgin qt, I will give up on dating and perhaps become a pastor That's a great mentality to have at least. I guess we're not so different you and I, either I find a perfect 16 yo wife to bring home or I go bust |
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Seiya said: I suppose I would, but I wouldn't want to know anything about their past experiences or relationships. If you don't want to know of their past, then it simply means you'd prefer for them to be a virgin/lack any kind of romantic unions if you had the chance, right? |
adolfpenguin said: Seiya said: I suppose I would, but I wouldn't want to know anything about their past experiences or relationships. If you don't want to know of their past, then it simply means you'd prefer for them to be a virgin/lack any kind of romantic unions if you had the chance, right? Yes, I would prefer to date a virgin, but finding people who are my age who are also a virgin is a bit difficult. |
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Seiya said: adolfpenguin said: If you don't want to know of their past, then it simply means you'd prefer for them to be a virgin/lack any kind of romantic unions if you had the chance, right? Yes, I would prefer to date a virgin, but finding people who are my age who are also a virgin is a bit difficult. You should've been more aware of the socio-sexual predicament of your region and snagged a virgin as soon as possible |
RightWing said: but are you in a position to have such high demands? in western countries women lose their virginity at 16 or something like that. that is selfreported so it is probably even lower. do you really think you will find a unicorn? if you are from a western country your only hope is to convert so some christian fundamentalist group and get a church girl. i don't know if you are into that. If the cost of bussy is to literally be a cuckold, then no thanks |
adolfpenguin said: Seiya said: Yes, I would prefer to date a virgin, but finding people who are my age who are also a virgin is a bit difficult. You should've been more aware of the socio-sexual predicament of your region and snagged a virgin as soon as possible I'm anti-social, and I'm mostly only attracted to anime characters. I'll likely be alone for the rest of my life. |
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| I'd prefer to and probably would for the sake of sharing that experience and not feeling judged 24/7 over it or compared to previous partners, but if we're already dating before I know then I'm not going to break up with them over it, as long as they're committed and sex isn't the only thing they want. |
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| If you have a fetish for blood you can just exclusively date girls below 9-years-old. |
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KaiserHamuel said: A bit of a backwards view. Who cares whether or not your partner is sexually experienced. Surely you love them for more than that In the first place. would you be okay if your partner asks permission for a one-off sexual encounter with another man? |
Kaasfondue said: If you have a fetish for blood you can just exclusively date girls below 9-years-old. They are children. Has it really become a fetish to want your wife for yourself? |
| Why not? I myself am no longer a virgin as well. We have our experiences. But I don't mind with people who are still a virgin. |
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KaiserHamuel said: adolfpenguin said: would you be okay if your partner asks permission for a one-off sexual encounter with another man? You’re actually suggesting that if your partner is not a virgin they can’t be committed to the relationship. Where are you from? Saudi Arabia perchance... Why do you want that sexual commitment? You declared that the essence of your partner(their personality, emotional bonding) is more important than some arbitrary sexual commitment in your first comment. Yet it appears you still want her to remain sexually exclusive to you Why do you hold this seemingly backward view that your partner should remain sexually exclusive with you? |
| I avoid dating as I have no desire for kids or a family. The more previous partners someone has had the more unstable the relationship statistically. You really should have divided the poll by gender as males and females are way different in terms of standards.if I ever did date it would be with a virgin only. As long as they are at least 18 I could care less about a age difference. |
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KaiserHamuel said: adolfpenguin said: Why do you want that sexual commitment? You declared that the essence of your partner(their personality, emotional bonding) is more important than some arbitrary sexual commitment in your first comment. Yet it appears you still want her to remain sexually exclusive to you Why do you hold this seemingly backward view that your partner should remain sexually exclusive with you? How is this related to their hypothetical virginity or lack there of. Well wanting a virgin wife and expecting your wife to be sexually exclusive to you are both one and the same. Both are expectation borne from sexual-jealousy You said partners should be loved more for their personality and character than for fulfilling these expectations Yet you also want that sweet exclusive sexual commitment from your wife |
adolfpenguin said: Depends on where you live and how you're brought up. If you live in a place where it's common to have girls/women lose their virginity outside of marriage, aren't brought up with traditional/religious values, then yes it can be argued it is a fetish of some kind. You literally want to be first to enter a female's vagina so badly you don't want any otherwise.Kaasfondue said: If you have a fetish for blood you can just exclusively date girls below 9-years-old. They are children. Has it really become a fetish to want your wife for yourself? Is this a setup for a uno reverve card where you pretend wanting a virgin is the same as wanting a monogamous relationship. That's cute. |
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| I’m not even a virgin myself, So it doesn’t really matter to me. |
Kaasfondue said: Depends on where you live and how you're brought up. If you live in a place where it's common to have girls/women lose their virginity outside of marriage, aren't brought up with traditional/religious values, then yes it can be argued it is a fetish of some kind. You literally want to be first to enter a female's vagina so badly you don't want any otherwise. Is this a setup for a uno reverve card where you pretend wanting a virgin is the same as wanting a monogamous relationship. That's cute. It pains in my heart when I think of my future wife being pumped with cum by other men. If that's a fetish then okay, let it be |
adolfpenguinMay 9, 2021 12:12 PM
| That isn't the blood I want to spill. Virgin blood tastes just like it smells. Fuckin nasty ;_; Unless you are really poor or something a high quality sex doll will meet your needs. It won't validate your existence but it will fuck your brains out. Also, no other dude should have fucked it... |
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KaiserHamuel said: adolfpenguin said: Well wanting a virgin wife and expecting your wife to be sexually exclusive to you are both one and the same. Both are expectation borne from sexual-jealousy You said partners should be loved more for their personality and character than for fulfilling these expectations Yet you also want that sweet exclusive sexual commitment from your wife They’re just not. I like most people think of a relationship as a commitment. You just have a nonce like fetish for blood and an inferiority complex toward other men. >They're just not Good point, my bad sdadsadsad |
adolfpenguin said: Why have you bolded that part? We actually aren't in your imaginary world yet where monogamous relationships are considered someting of the past. It Kaasfondue said: Depends on where you live and how you're brought up. If you live in a place where it's common to have girls/women lose their virginity outside of marriage, aren't brought up with traditional/religious values, then yes it can be argued it is a fetish of some kind. You literally want to be first to enter a female's vagina so badly you don't want any otherwise. Is this a setup for a uno reverve card where you pretend wanting a virgin is the same as wanting a monogamous relationship. That's cute. It pains in my heart when I think of my future wife being pumped with cum by other men. If that's a fetish then okay, let it be I see, wanting your future wife to be a virgin, is the same as wanting your future wife not to give her body to other men while you're with her. Because both are about your future wife being exclusive to you. So it's totally the same thing. |
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| the thought of my girl even showing her ankles off to other men disgusts me so no |
| not too sure tbh. i'd have to think about this question more and then form an answer. |
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| That's a stupid double standard, if I've had past partners they're allowed to have past partners too. That being said, I'm fairly monogamous I'm looking for a life partner not one time flings (usually, I think it's fine time to time) so if a girl's body count gets into the double digits that does start to gross me as it gets higher. But I feel the same way if a guy has a really high body count (that's not something a guy should brag about that just means you live a shitty unfocused lifestyle). More than one partner every six months (like you're bouncing from long term relationship to long term relationship) and the rare fling in-between those dating periods is absolutely excessive even that is pretty lenient. |
| Yeah? There's more important stuff to worry about lol |
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Kyotosomo said: That's a stupid double standard, if I've had past partners they're allowed to have past partners too. That being said, I'm fairly monogamous I'm looking for a life partner not one time flings (usually, I think it's fine time to time) so if a girl's body count gets into the double digits that does start to gross me as it gets higher. But I feel the same way if a guy has a really high body count (that's not something a guy should brag about that just means you live a shitty unfocused lifestyle). More than one partner every six months (like you're bouncing from long term relationship to long term relationship) and the rare fling in-between those dating periods is absolutely excessive even that is pretty lenient. Is it a double standard if a girl wants to date a tall man but she herself is not tall? What is this rule that you have to be/fulfill X before you can expect X from a partner? But I feel the same way if a guy has a really high body count (that's not something a guy should brag about that just means you live a shitty unfocused lifestyle) Hopefully you're not forcing yourself to feel that in the name of 'equality' |
adolfpenguin said: Kyotosomo said: That's a stupid double standard, if I've had past partners they're allowed to have past partners too. That being said, I'm fairly monogamous I'm looking for a life partner not one time flings (usually, I think it's fine time to time) so if a girl's body count gets into the double digits that does start to gross me as it gets higher. But I feel the same way if a guy has a really high body count (that's not something a guy should brag about that just means you live a shitty unfocused lifestyle). More than one partner every six months (like you're bouncing from long term relationship to long term relationship) and the rare fling in-between those dating periods is absolutely excessive even that is pretty lenient. Is it a double standard if a girl wants to date a tall man but she herself is not tall? What is this rule that you have to be/fulfill X before you can expect X from a partner? But I feel the same way if a guy has a really high body count (that's not something a guy should brag about that just means you live a shitty unfocused lifestyle) Hopefully you're not forcing yourself to feel that in the name of 'equality' It is a double standard but even short guys are taller than most women so it's not too big of an issue. And no I'm not forcing myself to feel that way, if you've banged like a hundred people before you're even in your 30s I don't care how safe you were I would not be shocked if you got an STD. Plus it's the whole meaningless sex thing, it's supposed to be romantic imo, banging anything that moves kind of takes away from that all though I understand if people don't view it that way just viewing it instead as quick dirty fun but I like to think it's supposed to be more meaningful than just grinding parts together. |
| Doesn't really matter to me if my partner is a virgin or not |
| That's a tough question, probably yes cause she has the experience cause I'm still a virgin :( |
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| Imagining an ideal situation, I would prefer to date a woman who is still virgin, but to be honest that is really far from being a decisive factor. There are many things a lot more important in terms of what would make a lover the ideal one. So, yes, I would date a non-virgin. |
| “Right is right even if no one is doing it; wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it.” ― Saint Augustine |
| Yes. My very first internet girlfriend was a non-virgin. |
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Mummykun said: Imagining an ideal situation, I would prefer to date a woman who is still virgin, but to be honest that is really far from being a decisive factor. There are many things a lot more important in terms of what would make a lover the ideal one. So, yes, I would date a non-virgin. I wish more people were honest like you |
adolfpenguin said: Mummykun said: Imagining an ideal situation, I would prefer to date a woman who is still virgin, but to be honest that is really far from being a decisive factor. There are many things a lot more important in terms of what would make a lover the ideal one. So, yes, I would date a non-virgin. I wish more people were honest like you Yes, people who are saying that they don't care at all about the girl's virginity are probably not being honest. Actually there's a problem in my previous post that I did not explore properly: Between a virgin ugly woman with blue hair and tattoos on her body, and a non-virgin beautiful woman who cares about moral values, I would prefer the non-virgin. But the important detail that deserves attention here is that such is almost never the case, as the degenerate ugly girls with tattoos are by far a lot more likely to be the ones who are non-virgin. I acknowledge that being or not virgin is not just a detail, but has a lot of connection with the person's personality, though I also believe in redemption, as only because some people had a degenerate phase at one point of their lives, in which they lost their virginity without being married, it doesn't necessarily mean that they couldn't improve themselves, feel ashamed of their mistakes, and become better persons. |
ColtBuntlineMay 9, 2021 11:22 PM
| “Right is right even if no one is doing it; wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it.” ― Saint Augustine |
RightWing said: if women fantasize about being tied up and raped by putin and hisoka they are praised for "knowing what they want". don't kinkshame! but when a man has the wish to marry a virgin he is slandered and asked to justify his evil desire. Lol, liberals do the same thing with me wanting a girl who'll be sweet, domestic, and nurturing. The most disgusting fetishes/kinks imaginable are justified these days but wanting any kind of traditional personality traits or behavior will immediately have people attacking you. To answer @adolfpenguin. Personally I don't mind it if she's not a virgin, I would care if she had a high number of sexual partners. It doesn't bother me if there's been men before me though. I do admire your commitment though. |
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