| No. Who cares if they're sorry? 99% of the time the thing they are most sorry for is getting caught. If someone cheated once, then given the opportunity, they'll do it again. Even if for arguments sake we assume that might not be the case, how would you ever be able to trust them again? |
| I would likely be done with the person then and there. |
 This ground is soiled by those before me and their lies. I dare not look up for on me I feel their eyes |
| Once a cheater, always a cheater. I might forgive in very rare case, but the break up is inevitable. |
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| depends on the circumstances. If they cheated like 10 years ago when they were 19 and now they're 29, then sure, fuck it. They're a different person now. Might be pointless to judge them based on what they did when they were functionally a child. |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
| no, it's better to be hurt with certainty than to forgive with suspicion. if i can't trust someone whom i am supposed to feel intimate with, there's no reason to continue it. |
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| Exactly what @mwinner said. It's just like getting fired from a job; you probably forgive the person as a person, but you don't want them to fill the role they were filling before. |
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| Depends how many times it happened and how long ago. I *could* forgive. |
And if you look at your reflection Is it all you want it to be? |
| My evil ex treated me like trash then cheated on me, and I forgive her The only person I could not forgive in this world, in my life, was my evil fat short goblin ex adviser |
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| If they make penance with it, genuinely, then no one is beyond redemption. But whether that condition is reached will depend on the severity of the offense. A pattern of behavior signals that there is no sincerity, at which point I can't tell anymore even if they do change somewhere down the line, so I can't do much about that but wish them a good life. |
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| No grudges but I would be dumping the woman on the spot, no taking time to think. |
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| As long as she doesn't take all my money, I can "forgive" to an extent, but that's not what happened. |
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| I’d eventually forgive them, but it’d take a good while. I'd still break up with them though. There's no way I'd continue to date, or get back into a relationship, with someone who cheated on me. |
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| If someone cheated on me... I'd break up with them. Depending on the situation I'd probably forgive them over time but wouldn't go back out with again. |
| And when creation goes to die You can find me in the sky Upon the last day And you will be okay |
| I probably would, but I also would feel the need to cheat too, to make it even. |
| no, no way, never, don't care for excuses, don't care if it was just once, I'm out. |
| Being cheated on hurts a lot. I would not hold grudges or anger towards the cheater but I cannot continue the relationship. Does not mean I hate her now. Only that it hurts more to be around her than brings me happiness. |
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| Never. There are no excuses for someone to cheat. You are bored of your current relationship or you're upset with your SO? How about you try and fix that and if it doesn't work, just leave, instead of doing some petty shit like cheating. |
| no, they're only asking for forgiveness because they got caught. if she was really sorry then she wouldn't have done the act in the first place |
| good opinions on anything, block = I own you |
| It really depends on the situation. Once I could forgive, but twice... say goodbye because this gal has self-respect. Unless it is a polyamorous relationship then I wouldn't call it cheating. |
| No, especially if she got knocked up. I might end up making the kid's life miserable just kidding |
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| no, I absolutely don't have to forgive them. If they feel the need to cheat on me in the first place there's no need for a relationship |
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| I was with my ex for atleast 2 years after the cheating so yeah I guess I would. Nowadays I'm unsure since I'm a different person than I was back then. |
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| most likely no but depends. i doubt i will trust that person again |
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| Yeah, I would forgive but I have to know they are genuinely sorry and have changed, if someone just turns around and says sorry that feels kind of disingenuous |
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| No, cheating is the worst thing anyone could ever do to me, I'll never forgive them, i wish they'd just die |
| Yes and no. If my girlfriend cheated on me and I found out I wouldn't forgive her. But if we married and she told me years later I would probably forgive her. That being said, she'd be better off not telling me because what I don't know can't hurt me. |
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| What kind of cheater are we talking about? Anyway, I’ve dealt with some students-cheaters enough in my career-lifetime. No room for forgiveness. I am extremely heartless during mid-tests and finals. |
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foxecairn said: SabineTB said: Depends how many times it happened and how long ago. I *could* forgive. What is the limit of what you can forgive? Why does when matter? Exact limit? idk. When they cheated on me matters because cheating two times 1 year ago could be a one time thing that they stopped doing. 3 times but one 1 year ago, one three months ago and one last week shows a pattern they aren't interested in stopping. |
And if you look at your reflection Is it all you want it to be? |
| def NOT. why would you forgive someone cheating. they betrayed you |
 "Don't give up after failing just twice. We'll be able to do it next time. Failure is the stepping stone to success." |
| The relationship would be over, but I wouldn't hold any malice towards them, gotta keep it moving you know? |
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| If they cheat once, I doubt that they would not cheat again so no, but I am a sub 5 so I would never date in general. |
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