| Baby don't hurt me Don't hurt me No more.. Anyways back to the topic, is what you consider love by saying to someone you love them, or a physical feeling inside you? |
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| I agree with the first definition that comes up on Google: "an intense feeling of deep affection." What you do out of that love is not love itself. P.S. Your birthday is the day before mine. |
SmugSatokoMay 30, 2019 6:22 AM
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| Living Off Vital Emotions and i know that love at first sight is actually scientifically proven to be lust at first sight https://www.forbes.com/sites/zhanavrangalova/2017/12/09/love-at-first-sight-is-actually-simply-lust-at-first-sight/#43d34de97d0f |
| I don't know. I've never really experienced it myself. I thought I did, but not really. |
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| Painful and euphoric to be honest with you... |
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| Is It Love or Mental Illness? They're Closer Than You Think Science is beginning to pay more attention to the chemical storm that romantic love can trigger in our brains. Recent studies of brain scans show that being in love causes changes in the brain that are strikingly similar to serious health problems like drug addiction and obsessive-compulsive disorder. https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB117131067930406235 |
degMay 30, 2019 6:45 AM
BallistikJuice said: «If your goal is to be loved, then you will not be able to achieve it. The only way to be truly loved is to become truly love worthy; it is impossible to become worthy of love, if the purpose of your life is just to be passively loved». so much conditional love lol is there no such thing as unconditional love? im sure every or most moms unconditionally loves their children |
| Truthfully I don't have experiences on love but I'd like to give my opinions and see if anyone agrees or cringes on it lol. Love is when you can forgive, can give and sacrifice, when you feel biased that the thing/person is always correct as well as want to lead the things/person to the right path because you care deeply. Love is a feeling that gives out different definition to different people. It's hard to explain. Also, I think love is to share happiness (their happiness is your hapiness), to make you human, to make you feel emotional like everyone does. With all the thing I assume love is, I also wanna know how it feel to be in love and to be loved as well. |
I feel so blue ... you are my world ... but you are not mine ♫    |
| love is the feeling inside you than just something you'd say to someone. honestly idk OP.. i don't even know what love is |
| I think it's the desire to fuck... that's what I was told. |
 "というわけで。待望の、体 操 服！ でっあ～る。祭りであれば、余も着飾ってはいられぬと用意したが……うむ！ 心身ともに軽くなったようだ。どうだ？ 似合っているであろう、マスター？" - Random Quote From Internet by Saber Nero |
| I feel like the strongest love I've ever experienced was with my anime "waifu(s)" back when I was a child. I knew that I couldn't really "be" with them and I was too young to be driven purely by sexual desire yet my feelings towards them were so strong. Most people use that word in their adulthood because they either don't know the difference between love and having a crush or simply because it is required in order for them to get laid. |
BallistikJuice said: deg said: so much conditional love lol is there no such thing as unconditional love? im sure every or most moms unconditionally loves their children The delusion regarding love as feeling arises from the fact that we confuse cathexis with love. This error is not difficult to understand since it is a question of such processes, but there are still clear differences between them. First of all, we can experience a cathexis in relation to any object - living and inanimate, animate and inanimate. So, someone may experience a cathexis of a stock exchange or a jewel, they may feel love for them. Secondly, if we experience a cathexis to another human being, this does not mean at all that we are at all interested in its spiritual development. The dependent person is almost always afraid of the spiritual development of her own spouse, to whom she feeds the cathexis. Let's just say...a mother who stubbornly took her son to school and back certainly experiences a cathexis against the boy: he was important to her..."he", but not his spiritual growth. *Something that I've read long ago from some Russian book, so I can't remember the exact context, and I'm not very good at translating certain stuff. >cathexis i have to google that and it says something about psychoanalysis which is considered pseudoscience by many |
| Love is a form of dopamine that affects vital parts of your being, emotion, thought, heartbeat, and your libido. Love is a dangerous drug that can lead people through pain or pleasure depending on the individual and the one they are in "love" with, love can also reveal many flaws you have with yourself. So basically just love your dogs pls, they won't hurt you back like the homo sapiens will. lol |
  Ascended Taste I only came back to this site for the forum sets and to promote my RYM list... Anilist ftw still :dab: |
BallistikJuice said: deg said: >cathexis i have to google that and it says something about psychoanalysis which is considered pseudoscience by many Dude, true love does exist (and no, I'm not talking about hookups or even BF/GF relationships, those don't last long and waste of time), both parties must be obsessed with each other (romantically, physically, mentally, etc) enough to make it works, even some tiny disagreements about each other (or even their family/friends) can lead/grow into bigger problems later on. So, because of that, and many other factors, the question arises...Does anybody willing to put up with so much of that crap and effort and basically devote your life to it, to make it work?! In reality no! because people are too selfish and lazy and only care about themselves, it's much easier to say: "Honey, I love you" and then just fuck off and do your own things. well ye i do not personally believe in true love since divorce rates are high or even increasing worldwide if i remember right and one of the main reason for divorce is lack of financial security but ye obviously there are some rare occurrences of true love |
| @BallistikJuice ye i get you its the same thing here because of wedding and church ceremonies are getting more expensive then civil wedding will do for a lot of people or like you said they do not marry at all and just be partners for life and as i said on my edit on the earlier post but ye obviously there are some rare occurrences of true love |
| idk tbh, it's hard to explain what exactly love is, love is involuntary when you love someone, especially romantic love, you depend on them emotionally, you get attached to them and care about another person more than yourself, that's why it hurts when you break up |
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| love is jerking off your crush's instagram |
Kled11May 30, 2019 1:29 PM
| I think the short answer is both. I feel something of affinity (not best word to use) towards the people, and a physical comfort from it (perhaps due to less social anxiety?). I feel compelled to do more so by them than I would from someone I'm apathetic to. But generally love is thrown about alot so I usually like people, and the response is different than what I said about love in my post. |
| "In the end the World really doesn't need a Superman. Just a Brave one" |
C'mon man!! :)) You KNOW I joined the topic just to see how far down I would have to scroll before that would be posted, and you had to sucker punch me like that.. Op is always a fag. |
| Closer. |
| I see romantic love as having an idealized projection of another person inside oneself and feeling attached to it in an emotional way. As some say, people are in love with the idea of being in love and not the other person themselves. About love as a general concept, I think it's about caring and being able to give more of yourself for the good of another person/animal/dream without expecting something other than gratitude. |
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| Love is the final ideal thing to gain in this life something better than every other possibility. |
| Love is when my babygirl doesn't hurt me ;;) |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| Ayn Rand once said "Love is a response to values... love is friendship that's caught on fire." |
| Not to sound like an edgelord, but I don't really know anymore. |
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| Love is willingly putting the needs and desires of another before your own. |
 It’s okay to look back at the past, just don’t stare too long |
| I don't know why you're not fair I give you my love, but you don't care So what is right and what is wrong? Gimme a sign |
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Fidelium said: Love is when my babygirl doesn't hurt me ;;) That.....sounds like an abusive relationship or something along those lines |
gSol said: Painful and euphoric to be honest with you... Meirl :( These are the exact feels man |
| Just an obligatory "baby don't hurt me" |
| Love is overrated. It's just an illusion made up to fulfill one's desires. |
| there's only one correct "what is love" and it's "baby don't hurt me" |
AnimeFreak-San said: is this a male gender issure...human issue...mental illness perhaps? |
| The only logical answer is that there is no simple answer, since its form and nuances mean very different things to different people. Sometimes similar, while sometimes wholly distinct from one another, alien, and diametrically opposed even. Myself, I'm aromantic so have never felt romantic love/desires of any kind, but familial and platonic love, yes, which to me means loyalty and comfort. |
| Love is extreme affection. When you're not with that person, you realize that you'd really rather be with them. When you see the person you love, you smile. When they talk to you, you feel happy. Unless they're talking shit, which they tend to do. Stop talking shit! |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
| Love is when you feel your insides tingle, when you want to make love to someone so hard that you almost can't contain it, And once you're with your person of interest, you lose your shit as soon as you touch them. |
If life ain't just a joke Then why are we laughing? If life ain't just a joke Then why am I dead? |
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