| I've encountered this a lot in my daily travels. Women from all ages and nationalities will address me as either, Sweetie, Honey or Sugar. I think it's probably due to the fact that I'm such a handsome individual, and I appreciate the flattery, but ladies please.. You're making me feel like a piece of meat. Have any of my fellow posters encountered the same thing? Are these ladies down.. to get down, if you catch my drift? |
| Maybe it is because you are such a nice guy and they can tell :) |
| Real men cry themselves to sleep every night |
| I haven't ever experienced this, at least not from younger women. Older women will sometimes use hun/honey/sweetie as a condescending way of talking to you, because they think that they know better for some reason. |
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| Based on my experience sweetie and honey are synonymous of friend zoning so I cut that out as soon as possible. |
''Enemies' gifts are no gifts and do no good.'' |
| I've only experienced it from older women and condescending younger women |
| I need to tell you that getting them to notice you is a feat itself because they usually like it rough if you're drifting around my nibbahood. |
SpamuraiSensei said: I've encountered this a lot in my daily travels. Women from all ages and nationalities will address me as either, Sweetie, Honey or Sugar. I think it's probably due to the fact that I'm such a handsome individual, and I appreciate the flattery, but ladies please.. You're making me feel like a piece of meat. Have any of my fellow posters encountered the same thing? Are these ladies down.. to get down, if you catch my drift? Yeah man, it's really nice to hear them say that. It's always such an "endearing" thing. Or IS it lmao. |
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| Nah, I find those terms a bit creepy to be honest. I can tolerate 'dear', that one's alright, and I come from parents who always call each other 'love' so I'd probably end up saying that without even realising it, but all the others are just bleh |
| I guess it's polite sometimes, not super familiar but friendly. It is used sometimes in condescension but I rarely meet people like that who do it unironically. |
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| i've been addressed as a sweetie and honey on a daily basis irl in the public usually by older women (30 or above) and that's pretty common here i think since it's a way to show friendliness to people marginally younger than you; to some extent i do think they're saying it for the sake of politeness as well on the internet not so often but i've been called sweet before (a guy calls a guy sweet is kinda weird though unless it's a weeb banter or something alike) i'd take it as a compliment |
| I'd never address someone that way, calling someone who's practically a stranger sweetie or honey just sounds a bit overly friendly. Granted i understand it's probably just a habit for some people, so i'm not going to be rude and tell them not to call me that. |
| I've only experienced this with older women. I think it is cute desu. |
2ego said: I think it's just a common thing in some areas. However, sometimes people address you like that to assert their experience; indirectly saying you don't have any. i get you there older women do that to me all the time and i'm feeling like they're viewing me as someone of fewer life experience by no means i'd directly relate it to condescendence however and i know they're saying it for the sake of being polite and amiable |
Xstasy said: Oh Sweetie I don't know I think that it's just a common way of communication, your looking too much into it.π You called me sweetie and used a winking emoji. That must mean you're attempting to flirt with me. |
Seiya said: Older women will sometimes use hun/honey/sweetie as a condescending way of talking to you, because they think that they know better for some reason. Replace "older women" with "some bitch I used to know" and this is exactly how a worthless cunt of a former friend of mine would use the the terms against me when I said something she didn't like. So it''s not just condescending older women, it's condescending basic bitches too. |
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| What I thought of when I first saw this post lol |
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| In my experience I've only had this happen with older women. I don't think nothing of it. |
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| im too old for ppl to say that tooo me...I was thing the same thing. |
SpamuraiSensei said: OP must be boy who has little experience with women? they're calling you sweetie and honey, not asking to suck your dick dudeAre these ladies down.. to get down, if you catch my drift? don't read into it too much buddy Lux_Lucis said: you're manliest man that's why. lux who tf is going to call you sweetie?? maybe my grandmotherWut? Wtf? Are you all actually so cute or people just hate me irl? Why no older women ever call me anything so cute? I always get the Sir / Mister... I mean honestly the best I get is ‘young man’ :< And I’ve been to many countries and for relatively long periods of time... Fml. Xstasy said: +1Oh Sweetie I don't know I think that it's just a common way of communication, your looking too much into it.π |
| “The world is full of nice people. If you can't find one, be one.” β Nishan Panwar 8=D ~ O: |
| Dude like, i have my closest friends who have been taken for years, call me such names like babe, hun, sweetheart, sweetie, honey, sweetness, etc. It's all just an endearment thing yo. "Terms of endearment." Just letting me know, they care. However some ppl i feel, don't understand that term and even take such things way too far then they should, lol |
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| Can't say it about women but I certainly get countless messages from older males trying to get in my pants all the time. You get used to it over time but it also starts feeling extremely artificial and it's hard to really take anything people like that say as a sincere compliment considering the rather blatant ulterior motives lying behind them When people just say stuff like that casually as a greeting though I don't think you should worry about it. They're probably just trying to be nice and/or polite |
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| If someone my age (or even younger) were calling me "sweetie" or "honey", I would be a bit confused. I've only come across this when dealing with older women (usually in customer/employee exchanges). |
| I've never understood the appeal of these dating simulators. It seems the developers don't have much experience with women considering most character dialogues. |
| Ahahahahaaaa I usually lay it off as bullshit. |
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| She's low-key asking if you're looking for a new mommy. |
| if a bunch of girls suddenly show interest in an all-round mediocre guy then romance is probably the last thing on any of their minds. Be careful brother. |
| Pretty sure you're misinterpreting them buddy, sweetie and honey are generally terms used by women talking down to you lol, or even best case scenario they just come from one of the few specific places in the South where people tend to add those into their sentences whenever they refer to the person they're talking too (even men from these places often do it). Now if someone's calling you gorgeous or cutie or muffin or whatever THEN you can pretty safely interpret it as them hitting on you lol. |
| Nice humblebragging you got there sweaty cochon. But have I encountered this before? No, never, no one has ever called me that, not my aunts, cousins EVEN my mother, so pretty much everyone from the opposite gender has neglected me. But at least I can talk to animals who call me all kinda names. |
| Excluding the girls which are really close friends with me from childhood the only times i experienced that was in online video-chat or messages chat or from my ex gf. |
| I got this alot from older ladies and older men when I was working. Its just them being friendly. |
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| I really love this, I liked being sweet talked too, even if it's by some old hag! |
| It's just a politeness thing, not flirting. And if it's meant to be received in any flirtatious way, then it's typically not genuine affection, but more to seem warm and welcoming to get a tip, like a waitress at a restaurant or someone working at a hotel. I've gotten it fairly often over the years and I'm an average-looking not-finely dressed guy nothing about whose look and demeanor in carrying myself says "receptive to flirting". It's fine, if they say it or not. I'm completely neutral on it. It doesn't bother me at all, nor does it do anything for me. I guess I'd rather them be polite than rude and abrupt, even if for superficial reasons like company policy or courting money. |
| when people call you that they're either old and adorable, or they're condescendingly fucking with you what you think they're flirting? hah |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
| They're either old or condescending pricks lol. I kinda wish that this OP's post is ironic because otherwise it's too sad. |
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Orhunaa said: you know they say that great minds think alikeThey're either old or condescending pricks lol. I kinda wish that this OP's post is ironic because otherwise it's too sad. |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
Railey2 said: Orhunaa said: you know they say that great minds think alikeThey're either old or condescending pricks lol. I kinda wish that this OP's post is ironic because otherwise it's too sad. Ah you're flattering me but in the process also yourself so I guess it's fair lol. I humbly accept it. Are you thinking of creating any new threads btw? I was that guy who kept pestering you to do so after the tiger one if you don't remember it. |
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Orhunaa said: ah shit yeah i remember.Railey2 said: you know they say that great minds think alike Ah you're flattering me but in the process also yourself so I guess it's fair lol. I humbly accept it. Are you thinking of creating any new threads btw? I was that guy who kept pestering you to do so after the tiger one if you don't remember it. I dunno, I feel less like baiting people nowadays, but if the opportunity presents itself, I probably will. |
| *lampoons inwardly* |
| I'd watch out, she wants to eat you b r o |
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| I only ever call people sweetie in a dominant way, if you catch my drift. But I'm only 20. If I call someone sweetie, I am actively flirting with them and trying to let them know that I'm in charge. |
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