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Jan 17, 2014 6:57 PM
#1
So, with the threads floating around about attraction to others, I figured I'd try my hand at making one a tad different. I'm in the mood to type, so this'll be a decent length... What do people typically find attractive about you? What don't people find attractive about you? This obviously can be about your personality or your looks. This can even be about how hot people think that you smell. You can think that you're the sexiest person around, but what do others tend to do when you walk by? Are you easy on the eyes but ugly to the core? What kind of people normally compliment you or hit on you? Put out compliments that you've received, or insults that you've gotten. Let's be honest here, and do a bit of thinking. Try to spare everyone the sad replies about nobody finding you attractive because you look like a hideous troll or that you're a shut-in that's never around people to know. My contribution... I'm usually complimented on my smile, hair, smell, and how kind I tend to be. I've had people say that they really liked me because I'm easy to be around, and am always making someone laugh or smile. When someone wants to be really nice, I usually hear that I'm beautiful, cute or maybe even the occasional "you're gorgeous". When someone wants be rude, I normally get that I have a nice ass or more often recently, that I'm "fuckable". Or am just stared at. Which is disturbing because I look way younger than most girls my age because I'm small... Believe it or not, I've never been called ugly, unattractive, or ever really been insulted physically. To my face, within earshot, or over the net. That I know of, at least. The people that normally hit on me are older white guys, but I've gotten some kind of honest compliment from guys and girls of just about every age and every skin color. And to sort of kill the chances of anyone curious asking, I'm mixed. My mother is Mexican and my father is black. Let's do this. |
ItamiJan 17, 2014 7:26 PM
Jan 17, 2014 6:58 PM
#2
I can name an anime for every letter of the alphabet. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:01 PM
#3
What do people typically find attractive about you? My...dry...wit? I don't really know to be honest, I asked someone who confessed to me, but wasn't really given a good answer. What don't people find attractive about you? *cough* That's a long list, lack of social skills and looks probably. |
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Jan 17, 2014 7:03 PM
#4
Aint fact that im guy just enough? :/ |
Jan 17, 2014 7:03 PM
#5
My beautiful blue eyes and my large penis. |
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Jan 17, 2014 7:05 PM
#8
Ckan said: I can name an anime for every letter of the alphabet. Really? |
Jan 17, 2014 7:06 PM
#9
Personality wise: how passionate I get over things/people I like how much of a "smart airhead" I can be how I will insist on helping them out if they need it and I am able to how I can treat the concept of sex so lightly, makes it easier for other people to be open about it around me how "sweet" I can be how optimistic I can be how tolerant I can be how I can usually say the right things to make someone else feel better my league skillz my varying tastes in everything Physically wise: People love me for my eyes, height, length (;p), cheekbones, and on a good day, hair. I'm above average in terms of looks. As for what people don't like about me/may not like about me: I can have a bit of an ego sometimes When I do rage, I rage hard, and people get hurt It's hard for me to keep my opinion to myself sometimes. I tend to swear a lot |
KorrvoJan 17, 2014 7:11 PM
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Jan 17, 2014 7:08 PM
#10
I have always thought being complimented for your smell is a rather intense compliment. Saying "I like the smell of your perfume" is fine, pretty standard, but "I love your smell" to me has a very different connotation. Compliments paid to me are pretty standard, the usual compliments that would come to mind of anyone complimenting another I've been criticised for being too pale (since I rarely see the sun at uni because the 24/7 cloud cover". I am waiting for my sunny holiday. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:10 PM
#11
In real life, I'm usually quiet and reserved, somewhat emotionless. Some people like that about me. I am capable in stressful situations. I don't try to look good so I'm usually considered average looking. I've been told that if I dressed better and got a good nights rest (beauty sleep) I am quite attractive. I have a dry sense of humor that people seem to like and usually have a witty comeback for just about any situation. I guess I smell good and have soft hair (girls like to touch it). I've also been told that I have a very nice butt for a guy. People seem to have trouble guessing how old I am too they've said everything from 15-25. The girls who show interest in me are usually outgoing and extroverted the opposite of me. Also for some reason I attract older women (like 3-10 years older). It also seems that girls don't have an initial attraction to me and just want to be friends but the more we hang out and the more I open up they start like me as more than a friend. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:12 PM
#12
The fact I don't generally say much as strange as it sounds. A lot of girls have told me (after I got to know them) that they were originally interested because they knew nothing about me but saw me around (mostly through mutual friends). I found that odd tbh. What they don't find attractive? My attitude toward fashion. I really don't give a shit when it comes to clothes and I dress like a cartoon character but with different colours. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:12 PM
#13
Jan 17, 2014 7:14 PM
#14
So this is about physical appearance right? Well, people say I have nice big eyes and a fine body...But I believe my personality is my strong point, I'm a pretty easy-going and friendly person...I'm a bit nerdy so other nerdy people are the ones who are mostly attracted to me because we have the same interests I guess. Things that people might dislike about me: I'm kinda moody and I get angry quite easily but I try not to show it...People who know me well are aware of my flaws though. I'm also sometimes overconfident and sometimes completely insecure...I generally tend to change my view on my self image a lot. I easily find friends but it is difficult for me to keep them because once most people get to know me well they think I'm a weirdo , I guess it's because of my anger issues and my insecurities.Appearance-wise there's nothing to dislike! (yep my narcissistic side has striked again) |
QueenOfHeroesJan 17, 2014 7:33 PM
Jan 17, 2014 7:18 PM
#15
Personality wise people usually compliment me about: My ability to listen. give helpful advice and be there for them when they really need it. How sweet and nice I can be. Sense of humor. Silly innuendo remarks. Physically would mostly be stuff like my eyes, hair, voice and tits often get complimented on. I guess the types of people who compliment me are pretty normal. I've had my fair share of creeps just stare at me or say something weird like "hey baby can I have yo number?" Most of the compliments I get are from work from guys usually teenagers to 20 year olds since I work at Gamestop. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:21 PM
#16
my looks |
Jan 17, 2014 7:21 PM
#17
Kobapo said: Personality wise people usually compliment me about: My ability to listen. give helpful advice and be there for them when they really need it. How sweet and nice I can be. Sense of humor. Silly innuendo remarks. Physically would mostly be stuff like my eyes, hair, voice and tits often get complimented on. I guess the types of people who compliment me are pretty normal. I've had my fair share of creeps just stare at me or say something weird like "hey baby can I have yo number?" Most of the compliments I get are from work from guys usually teenagers to 20 year olds since I work at Gamestop. Don't forget that sweet sweet voice. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:23 PM
#18
-I'm apparently easily approachable. If somebody is lost or something, and they need to ask for directions, more often than not, they'll single me out and ask for help. - I look younger than I am, so that might be attractive to some people. I've been called cute in a positive way. - People have complimented my body, (especially my ass) but.. that was in an environment outside of typical day to day interaction.. so I'm not sure if it counts. - People say I have a good smile, but I hate my own smile. - I have blue eyes, which people (including me) seem to really like. - People call me funny all the time, I guess both online and in the real world. - I'm really patient and nice irl, even if I don't necessarily want to be (which probably explains why I'm so confrontational on here) - I play the piano, and am damn good for a non-professional, if I don't say so myself. What do people find unattractive about me? I don't give people in real life reasons to dislike me. I don't think I've actually met a single person who has expressed dislike for me.. at least that I've been made aware of. Same thing with my physical appearance. I guess I'm kind of skinny.. but that goes both ways. I've gotten compliments about me being slim. On MAL though, there's tons of people that dislike me. I'm sure they can give you their own reasons for disliking me if I ask. In fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) Devastation123 said: No.Aint fact that im guy just enough? :/ |
Jan 17, 2014 7:24 PM
#19
My rock hard abs |
Immahnoob said: Jizzy, I know you have no idea how to argue for shit, tokiyashiro said: Jizzy as you would call yourself because youre a dick The most butthurt award goes to you And clearly you havent watched that many shows thats why you cant determine if a show is unique or not Or maybe you're just a child who likes common stuffs where hero saves the day and guys gets all the girls. Sad taste you have there kid you came up to me in the first place making you look more like a kid who got slapped without me even knowing it and start crying about it to me |
Jan 17, 2014 7:25 PM
#20
Infinite said: Oooh, you mean THAT voice? ;DKobapo said: Personality wise people usually compliment me about: My ability to listen. give helpful advice and be there for them when they really need it. How sweet and nice I can be. Sense of humor. Silly innuendo remarks. Physically would mostly be stuff like my eyes, hair, voice and tits often get complimented on. I guess the types of people who compliment me are pretty normal. I've had my fair share of creeps just stare at me or say something weird like "hey baby can I have yo number?" Most of the compliments I get are from work from guys usually teenagers to 20 year olds since I work at Gamestop. Don't forget that sweet sweet voice. Huehue. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:29 PM
#21
Red_Keys said: Well, I feel like if I called you and said I loved you, you would be really nice about it.In fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) And then never call back. That's just the vibe I'm getting.You nice yet heartless seductor you! |
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Jan 17, 2014 7:31 PM
#22
Red_Keys said: Same here, I'm a very neutral person with opinions (for the most part) that most people find intelligent and respectable. I'm really easy going and able to be friends with anyone since I have a wide variety of hobbies/interests.I don't give people in real life reasons to dislike me. I don't think I've actually met a single person who has expressed dislike for me.. at least that I've been made aware of. To answer your question, I like that you have beliefs that you support and will fight for but on the other hand sometimes you take things to the extremes like in my alpha thread with regards to the guy who didn't want to play football. You seem nice enough but you also sometimes look like you're trying to pick a fight on the forums for no reason other than for the sake of arguing. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:32 PM
#23
I don't want to sound arrogant by answering, so they like me for who I am. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:32 PM
#24
Kobapo said: So many damn similarities lolPersonality wise people usually compliment me about: My ability to listen. give helpful advice and be there for them when they really need it. How sweet and nice I can be. Sense of humor. Silly innuendo remarks. Physically would mostly be stuff like my eyes, hair, voice and tits often get complimented on. I guess the types of people who compliment me are pretty normal. I've had my fair share of creeps just stare at me or say something weird like "hey baby can I have yo number?" Most of the compliments I get are from work from guys usually teenagers to 20 year olds since I work at Gamestop. Red_Keys said: For me, I like how you don't take shit from people and say it how it is. That's the kinda guy I can look up to.In fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) Only thing I can say I dislike is that there a few times here and there where you seem to be looking for fights, but not too often from what Ive seen. |
☕ Truth be told, I'm quite proud of my house blend. To attain my flavor and fragrance, I use five different types of coffee beans. ☕ |
Jan 17, 2014 7:36 PM
#25
Jesus_Kristus said: My beautiful blue eyes and my large penis. You aren't even subtle. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:37 PM
#26
- My voice - That I'm patient - That I don't try to be too nice, but neither too cold - Ability to listen - My male appearance looks older than I actually am - My smile Bad sides: - My humor sucks, although I don't have trouble to understand. - I'm not anti-social, but neither try to socialise. Within the time, I became a not-talkative type. |
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Jan 17, 2014 7:38 PM
#27
NotJizzyHitler said: Hmu.My rock hard abs |
Jan 17, 2014 7:41 PM
#28
:/ people in high school liked me because i shouted retarded stuff and random times, and i was good at pissing teachers off. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:42 PM
#29
Korrvo said: You get complimented on your tits as well!??!Kobapo said: So many damn similarities lolPersonality wise people usually compliment me about: My ability to listen. give helpful advice and be there for them when they really need it. How sweet and nice I can be. Sense of humor. Silly innuendo remarks. Physically would mostly be stuff like my eyes, hair, voice and tits often get complimented on. I guess the types of people who compliment me are pretty normal. I've had my fair share of creeps just stare at me or say something weird like "hey baby can I have yo number?" Most of the compliments I get are from work from guys usually teenagers to 20 year olds since I work at Gamestop. |
Jan 17, 2014 7:42 PM
#30
Mogu-sama said: This is so relatable to events that are happening in my life right now that it's actually creepy.Red_Keys said: Well, I feel like if I called you and said I loved you, you would be really nice about it.In fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) And then never call back. That's just the vibe I'm getting.You nice yet heartless seductor you! |
Jan 17, 2014 8:07 PM
#31
Kobapo said: huhu Ur so funyKorrvo said: You get complimented on your tits as well!??!Kobapo said: So many damn similarities lolPersonality wise people usually compliment me about: My ability to listen. give helpful advice and be there for them when they really need it. How sweet and nice I can be. Sense of humor. Silly innuendo remarks. Physically would mostly be stuff like my eyes, hair, voice and tits often get complimented on. I guess the types of people who compliment me are pretty normal. I've had my fair share of creeps just stare at me or say something weird like "hey baby can I have yo number?" Most of the compliments I get are from work from guys usually teenagers to 20 year olds since I work at Gamestop. |
☕ Truth be told, I'm quite proud of my house blend. To attain my flavor and fragrance, I use five different types of coffee beans. ☕ |
Jan 17, 2014 8:09 PM
#32
Not a damn thing. |
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Jan 17, 2014 8:12 PM
#33
UnculturedWhitey said: Not a damn thing. There's got to be something. Anything. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:15 PM
#34
Jan 17, 2014 8:15 PM
#35
Itami-chan said: There's got to be something. Anything. My lack of self-esteem makes me extremely moe. *shrug* |
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Jan 17, 2014 8:15 PM
#36
Jan 17, 2014 8:16 PM
#37
Red_Keys said: Metal. \m/This might not help very much, but I picture you to resemble your avatar :/ |
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Jan 17, 2014 8:19 PM
#38
Red_Keys said: You're an asshole. And you use it too much in all the wrong places 8DIn fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) You're also pretty likable for whatever reason I can't put my finger on but has nothing to do with your ass. ======= As for me... I'd rather not boast about myself too much, so just a few things. I'm "funny", because apparently not everyone's funny if they use the same joke. I listen to people about their problems (mostly out of having nothing to talk about on my end) Way too damn independent for my own good. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:24 PM
#39
MellowJello said: Don't forget your moans. Everyone loved those.Red_Keys said: You're an asshole. And you use it too much in all the wrong places 8DIn fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) You're also pretty likable for whatever reason I can't put my finger on but has nothing to do with your ass. ======= As for me... I'd rather not boast about myself too much, so just a few things. I'm "funny", because apparently not everyone's funny if they use the same joke. I listen to people about their problems (mostly out of having nothing to talk about on my end) Way too damn independent for my own good. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:24 PM
#40
Kobapo said: Definitely can't forget about that...MellowJello said: Don't forget your moans. Everyone loved those.Red_Keys said: You're an asshole. And you use it too much in all the wrong places 8DIn fact, I will ask. MAL, what do you dislike about me? And what do you like about me too, just to keep it even :) You're also pretty likable for whatever reason I can't put my finger on but has nothing to do with your ass. ======= As for me... I'd rather not boast about myself too much, so just a few things. I'm "funny", because apparently not everyone's funny if they use the same joke. I listen to people about their problems (mostly out of having nothing to talk about on my end) Way too damn independent for my own good. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:27 PM
#41
UnculturedWhitey said: That's something. Some people are actually attracted to that.Itami-chan said: There's got to be something. Anything. My lack of self-esteem makes me extremely moe. *shrug* UnculturedWhitey said: I can think of a few people that find those that enjoy metal attractive as well. You should keep that chin up.Red_Keys said: Metal. \m/This might not help very much, but I picture you to resemble your avatar :/ |
Jan 17, 2014 8:27 PM
#42
There are a lot of characteristics of mine that people find attractive or unattractive depending on the person. It also depends on my level of familiarity with people, since I act wildly different in front of people I'm more acquainted with from how I usually act in front of less familiar people. But as a general list, I guess... Attractive: I'm frequently told that I'm cute, particularly in my mannerisms People often say I'm good-looking or "gorgeous", but that might partly be because I'm a girl in an almost all-male school People tend to say that I'm really smart and sensible (I think most people think I'm smarter than I really am, but I think I'm at least decently intelligent in some regards) I'm nice and polite to pretty much everybody I know in person (involuntarily though) Unattractive: I sometimes have a crude sense of humor, especially around people I know well (some people find it entertaining, but it's off-putting to some) I can get loud and obnoxious, mostly around people I know well I'm often painfully shy around new people (probably the most off-putting thing about me) I don't party, and I come off as boring to some people, especially to people I'm less familiar with |
Jan 17, 2014 8:34 PM
#43
I couldn't find a way to make this not shamefully boastful, so I'm just gonna say that I get compliments for various reasons quite often. However I am aware that I am very flawed, and a cleaning lady in a public toilet called me downright ugly once, just out of nowhere. Not even to insult me, I think she felt genuinely sorry for me. I don't know what to think about that. I am more inclined to believe her than the flatterers. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:35 PM
#44
nauticalblue said: There are a lot of characteristics of mine that people find attractive or unattractive depending on the person. It also depends on my level of familiarity with people, since I act wildly different in front of people I'm more acquainted with from how I usually act in front of less familiar people. But as a general list, I guess... Attractive: I'm frequently told that I'm cute, particularly in my mannerisms People often say I'm good-looking or "gorgeous", but that might partly be because I'm a girl in an almost all-male school People tend to say that I'm really smart and sensible (I think most people think I'm smarter than I really am, but I think I'm at least decently intelligent in some regards) I'm nice and polite to pretty much everybody I know in person (involuntarily though) Unattractive: I sometimes have a crude sense of humor, especially around people I know well (some people find it entertaining, but it's off-putting to some) I can get loud and obnoxious, mostly around people I know well I'm often painfully shy around new people (probably the most off-putting thing about me) I don't party, and I come off as boring to some people, especially to people I'm less familiar with By the way, is the crude sense of humor on purpose and how do you want people to react to it...? Often when someone says these kinds of jokes, it's really hard to respond and keep the conversations especially when it's in bad taste. This is coming from an extreme extrovert who loves socializing. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:37 PM
#45
I'm loving and won't cheat on people or betray them. I also have some sweet fucking hair apparently. |
*Cringey anime weeb stuff* |
Jan 17, 2014 8:38 PM
#46
FreakyTy said: Do you ever feel weird when people are randomly like "Wow, your hair is so pretty/nice/soft/beautiful!"I also have some sweet fucking hair apparently. And then you look in the mirror and get confused. |
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Jan 17, 2014 8:44 PM
#47
TaiyoToTsuki said: nauticalblue said: There are a lot of characteristics of mine that people find attractive or unattractive depending on the person. It also depends on my level of familiarity with people, since I act wildly different in front of people I'm more acquainted with from how I usually act in front of less familiar people. But as a general list, I guess... Attractive: I'm frequently told that I'm cute, particularly in my mannerisms People often say I'm good-looking or "gorgeous", but that might partly be because I'm a girl in an almost all-male school People tend to say that I'm really smart and sensible (I think most people think I'm smarter than I really am, but I think I'm at least decently intelligent in some regards) I'm nice and polite to pretty much everybody I know in person (involuntarily though) Unattractive: I sometimes have a crude sense of humor, especially around people I know well (some people find it entertaining, but it's off-putting to some) I can get loud and obnoxious, mostly around people I know well I'm often painfully shy around new people (probably the most off-putting thing about me) I don't party, and I come off as boring to some people, especially to people I'm less familiar with By the way, is the crude sense of humor on purpose and how do you want people to react to it...? Often when someone says these kinds of jokes, it's really hard to respond and keep the conversations especially when it's in bad taste. This is coming from an extreme extrovert who loves socializing. It's kind of ingrained in me to some degree because of the sense of humor that some of my closest friends in high school had. I'm personally annoyed when some people flaunt around ridiculously immature jokes 24/7 with no other source of humor and no sense of wit, but I don't think I go too distasteful. I sometimes make sexual jokes or references when I'm around people I'm comfortable with and won't be offended by them. Some people are just put off by it when they overhear me or see my behavior around my closer friends. It seems kind of unladylike, I guess. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:52 PM
#48
People seem to think -- perhaps incorrectly -- that I'm considerate, helpful, and a good listener. Some people find it attractive that I like reading/am in grad school/am interested in climate change/insert others things associated with being "intellectual." A few people have complimented me on my beard over the years. Those are all the only things that immediately come to mind. zoknimanogatari said: That is incredibly weird.However I am aware that I am very flawed, and a cleaning lady in a public toilet called me downright ugly once, just out of nowhere. Not even to insult me, I think she felt genuinely sorry for me. I don't know what to think about that. I am more inclined to believe her than the flatterers. |
JoshJan 17, 2014 8:55 PM
LoneWolf said: @Josh makes me sad to call myself Canadian. |
Jan 17, 2014 8:53 PM
#49
People usually come around because I'm a tough bastard. I've run a few small time gangs years ago and am always good to have around in a fight. I'm funny as hell and know how to flirt with the ladies. On the other hand people also think I'm an arrogant fucking asshole. |
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