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May 15, 2015 1:05 AM
*hug noises*

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Always aim for the harem ending
May 15, 2015 1:20 AM
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Just fuck your girlfriend silly.
May 15, 2015 2:06 AM

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Some of the comments in this thread are quite amusing. Being in love does not mean some switch gets flipped where you no longer are sexually attracted to other people. Monogamy is a societal construct, not a biological one, so there's nothing wrong with being attracted to other people, even sexually.

@OP Being sexually aroused by other women is not alarming and perfectly natural. There's nothing to feel guilty about or wonder if somethings wrong in your relationship. As far as what yo do, well that's up to you. Honestly, you are quite capable of not acting on arousal and have been doing so since puberty whether you've recognized it or not.
May 15, 2015 2:10 AM

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Bambi_ said:
If you can't stayloyal tro one person then just fool areound wqith many.. TRhen if the rigfht person comes around that makes you forget about themn all, then go out with her!! But until then, get with as many ppl as possible. Eaven carry a notepad around and list all the ppl you have fucked. It will almnost be litke a game, tehee.
need some help there?

May 15, 2015 2:34 AM

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Sorry, i'm wearing gloves and it's hard tro trype.
May 15, 2015 2:41 AM

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You don't love her

CookieGawd said:
if you truly love her than you don't need anyone else
May 15, 2015 2:47 AM

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If anything I feel as if having a girlfriend means more chicks like you lol
May 15, 2015 3:18 AM

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Rydias said:
that type of guy deserve to be punch
Fruit punch? mmmmm
May 15, 2015 3:24 AM

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That's natural because relationships are socially constructed and incompatible with human instincts.

Go for the open relationship route if you aren't a super jealous person. You could even do threesomes with your girlfriend lady in that situation. Sex is for fun and does not need to be exclusive to the relationship.
May 15, 2015 3:26 AM

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traed said:
Rydias said:
that type of guy deserve to be punch
Fruit punch? mmmmm


with out present technology of saving grapes it should be possible
All credit goes to Sacred.
May 15, 2015 3:48 AM

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Well, I think it depends on what you're thinking. It's kinda natural to have some urges towards others as well, but not in any way so strong that you're considering doing something about them. If they're that strong, you need to break up.
May 15, 2015 5:58 AM

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Having a GF is lucky in itself. And you go around lusting for other women? Buncha sleazy-ass polygamous mofos...
May 15, 2015 6:01 AM

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express yourself openly
May 15, 2015 8:11 AM

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Rumanshi said:
start a harem.

Like my plan.



That's my plan too! Love my harems!
Add me because I'm a cosplayer of lewd actions! XD
May 15, 2015 8:16 AM

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Bambi_ said:
Sorry, i'm wearing gloves and it's hard tro trype.
maybe he meant help with getting with as many people as possible
May 15, 2015 8:18 AM

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"Male animal instincts?" Gross, op.
May 15, 2015 8:30 AM

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damastah said:
Having a GF is lucky in itself. And you go around lusting for other women? Buncha sleazy-ass polygamous mofos...


thinking the same as well - don't be like be Makoto in School days :D
All credit goes to Sacred.
May 15, 2015 8:34 AM

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ooo333 said:
Yeah, what to do if you have one, but your male animal instinct wants other chicks. But you dont want to break up with your gf because you love her.

What to do?

my head hurts

May 15, 2015 4:22 PM

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If you truly love someone, the last thing that'll come to mind is betraying them via sexual relations with another, even if it's just the one time.

You need to consider your current relationship: Do you have unresolved issues with your other half? Are you feeling the relationship is going downhill?

Acting on impulse upon a sexual thought for another is a no-go. Everyone has their fantasies, and everyone's entitled to them; but keep them to yourself. If you want to act upon your fantasies, leave your other half, as you maybe are not ready for a committed relationship
May 15, 2015 4:25 PM

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you will never have rl harem. break up w that gf of yours, since you're already thinking of breaking up.
save all the cute girls from ntr manga
May 15, 2015 5:37 PM

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If you want other girls instead of your girlfriend you should dump her
huh
May 15, 2015 5:41 PM
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ooo333 said:
Yeah, what to do if you have one, but your male animal instinct wants other chicks. But you dont want to break up with your gf because you love her.

What to do?
Chances are that you don't actually love her. Just dump her.
May 15, 2015 5:43 PM

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Rydias said:
that type of guy deserve to be punch


A very very gentle one over and over to the dick
May 15, 2015 5:55 PM

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HaXXspetten said:
Always aim for the harem ending
May 15, 2015 5:59 PM

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Kill yourself, OP.
May 15, 2015 6:00 PM

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You should go watch more porn.
May 15, 2015 9:29 PM

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Dump her ass and go fulfill that "male animal instinct" of yours.

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
-Friedrich Nietzsche
May 16, 2015 8:30 AM

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Stalker-tan said:
Repress your damn lusting feelings, it's not that hard.
Jun 14, 2015 10:34 PM
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Contrary to the popular answer in forums to this question, I would suggest you to experiment while you are still young and go with as many chicks as you can. I assume your relationship with that girl is not built on love ( that grows in the years ), but on lust ( like most adolescents' and adults' relationships in the first months). Do it now that you can because when you 'll be 60 you ain't sure the pipe works
Jun 14, 2015 10:35 PM

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just ask her if she wants a threesome
Jun 14, 2015 10:39 PM

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Polygamy is not unheard of, and às long as all the involved parties accept it there's no real harm in it. If you can't control it, don't and talk it through she might call you a horny monkey buy hey you earned the "at least I tried" medal.
Jun 14, 2015 11:58 PM
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Its no crime if you don't get caught.
Jun 15, 2015 12:50 AM

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You could talk to your girlfriend about having an open relationship.
Jun 15, 2015 1:00 AM

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RedTie47 said:
Its no crime if you don't get caught.


This man would know.
Jun 15, 2015 1:00 AM

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Make your girlfrind the target of your "male animal instinct". Have sex so good that you won't need to look at other girls ever again.
Jun 15, 2015 4:00 AM

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Break up before you hurt you start hurting your gf. You don't deserve her.
Jun 15, 2015 4:09 AM

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God this shit scares me. I'm in a relationship and my ex left me because he couldn't resist the urge to be with other women (not to mention he was cheating on me behind my back).

Is this "male instinct" bs real or wut???


Nate ©
Jun 15, 2015 4:16 AM
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1. Get Rich
2. Convert to Islam
3. Travel to Saudi
4. Buy yourself four beautiful wives.

Np OP, you can thank me whenever.
Jun 15, 2015 4:20 AM

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Ask ur bestfriend to fuck ur gf in front of u
Jun 15, 2015 8:38 AM

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If you lust about other women it's because you're disatisfied of the one you're currently with but perhaps you are the problem.

You should focus on her pleasure in bed. A satisfied woman is much more likely to then do whatever you ask ;) Being a giving and generous lover is a win-win, really.
Jun 15, 2015 8:43 AM

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moonbox said:
God this shit scares me. I'm in a relationship and my ex left me because he couldn't resist the urge to be with other women (not to mention he was cheating on me behind my back).

Is this "male instinct" bs real or wut???

OP isn't serious and if he is, I doubt most decent guys think this way.
Jun 15, 2015 8:47 AM

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mayukachan said:
moonbox said:
God this shit scares me. I'm in a relationship and my ex left me because he couldn't resist the urge to be with other women (not to mention he was cheating on me behind my back).

Is this "male instinct" bs real or wut???

OP isn't serious and if he is, I doubt most decent guys think this way.


"b-b-bu-but mah sexual freedom!"
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
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Jun 15, 2015 8:48 AM

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SakurasouBusters said:
Just control your urges, if you can't do that you're not ready for a relationship


^ Cheating can be devastating to your partner if you haven't made any agreements to be open. If you care for your partner, you shouldn't do that to them.
Jun 15, 2015 8:53 AM

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Smetsys said:
RedTie47 said:
Its no crime if you don't get caught.


This man would know.


Shit that was great made my ribs hurt.
Jun 15, 2015 9:11 AM

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if it's real love, the urge to go out with other people disappears automatically.
that's because no one else could be better than the one you're already with.

if you're not sure you love your girlfriend/boyfriend, spare them the pain and don't get together with them in the first place.
if you realize you don't really love them later on in the relationship, leave.
but for their and your own sake, don't stay together with them and stretch the unsure situation more than necessary.
If life ain't just a joke
Then why are we laughing?

If life ain't just a joke
Then why am I dead?
Jun 15, 2015 10:31 AM

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MrHawkeye said:
Smetsys said:


This man would know.


Shit that was great made my ribs hurt.


well played
All credit goes to Sacred.
Jun 16, 2015 12:00 AM

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Have a real girlfriend
and the other is

ANIME WAIFU.
Jun 16, 2015 3:23 AM

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Just because your in a relationship doesn't mean you can't be sexually attracted to others, wanting to have sex with others would stem from that naturally - your attracted to them so you'll want them.

I think you'd need to have really good communication with your gf and sit down and talk to her. It's not really that unusual these days to be in a polygamous relationship but you have to take into account how your gf feels about this.

If your going to go behind your gfs back to do this then perhaps your not ready for a relationship, if you want a exclusive relationship maybe now is just not the right time, see other people. Settle down later. But if you really love your gf be up front with her.
Jun 16, 2015 4:34 AM

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Never happened to me. You need to learn how to control yourself.
Jun 16, 2015 4:54 AM

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Harem ending is the only ending.
"I am the Bone of my Sword
Steel is my Body and Fire is my Blood
I have created over a Thousand Blades
Unaware of Loss,
Nor aware of Gain.
Withstood Pain to create Weapons, Waiting for one’s Arrival
I have no Regrets. This is the only Path
My whole life was Unlimited Blade Works"
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