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Aug 6, 2021 11:43 PM
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I made an account here just to ask a question!!!

I’m not a regularly anime fan. But was introduced to “The Duke of Death and his Maid” by friends cos “3D and CG”.... *BIG MISTAKE* I became fricking smitten with Alice Lendrott from the show. I then watched everything went on to devour the manga as well.

Something about her mannerisms, her looks, and the mood of the artist’s drawing style just get to me and it is totally my type... I mean how gorgeous is this?? https://i.imgur.com/DsNFVOz.jpg

I feel so jealous of the MC! How does a scrawny bum like him get a girl like that devoted to him??

I sadly know that someone like that (Alice) can never exist in real life, and she is just a figment of the authors imagination. In such romance stories the author is kinda akin to playing barbie and ken dolls and creating perfect make believe scenarios. But I am just in love with her based on the way she acts and looks. I just cant help it!!!! What is this sorcery?!?!?

For the past few days everything in life just seems so bleak and disappointing once you tasted perfection in a fantasy… My friends created a monster!! This is the first time something like this has happened and I don’t understand this! Im desperate and I’m begging on my knees for help! I don’t wanna become and otaku! I don’t wanna buy body pillows!

Does anyone here know how to break an anime crush/waifu? How do regular anime watcher deal with this issue if it even happens to you at all? Like what do you honestly tell yourself to dissociate from the fantasy back into reality. And yes yes.. I don’t have a girlfriend so please don’t tell me to go find one or get a life or seek help as a solution. Such answers are demeaning and frankly useless.

Thank you.
Aug 6, 2021 11:49 PM
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They are created as the "perfect waifu" character to draw in viewers.
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Aqu_a said:
Does anyone here know how to break an anime crush/waifu? How do regular anime watcher deal with this issue if it even happens to you at all? Like what do you honestly tell yourself to dissociate from the fantasy back into reality. And yes yes.. I don’t have a girlfriend so please don’t tell me to go find one or get a life or seek help as a solution. Such answers are demeaning and frankly useless.

Thank you.
Read some mind break, r*pe or NTR doujin of Alice. It might help break your crush literally.
Aug 7, 2021 12:03 AM
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Aug 7, 2021 12:07 AM
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well that is one of the goals many wish to achieve in creating art
Aug 7, 2021 12:15 AM
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I don't particularly like characters who are written to be perfect. Rather my favourites are mostly characters with flaws and issues (that's how we all are)
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mr_modest said:
Aqu_a said:
Does anyone here know how to break an anime crush/waifu? How do regular anime watcher deal with this issue if it even happens to you at all? Like what do you honestly tell yourself to dissociate from the fantasy back into reality. And yes yes.. I don’t have a girlfriend so please don’t tell me to go find one or get a life or seek help as a solution. Such answers are demeaning and frankly useless.

Thank you.
Read some mind break, r*pe or NTR doujin of Alice. It might help break your crush literally.

There are none . Anime only released few weeks ago so it'll take a few months for someone to make a doujin
Aug 7, 2021 12:54 AM
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They aren't perfect, they're just made in a way to cater to virgin male teens wild fantasies, no more, no less, and the opposite is true for the female audience.
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Why are anime girls so perfect?
Aqu_a said:

.. I became fricking smitten with Alice Lendrott...

I feel so jealous of the MC! ...

I sadly know that someone like that (Alice) can never exist in real life, and she is just a figment of the authors imagination....
But I am just in love with her based on the way she acts and looks. I just cant help it!!!! What is this sorcery?!?!?

For the past few days everything in life just seems so bleak and disappointing once you tasted perfection in a fantasy…
This is the first time something like this has happened and I don’t understand this! Im desperate and I’m begging on my knees for help! ...

Does anyone here know how to break an anime crush/waifu? How do regular anime watcher deal with this issue if it even happens to you at all? Like what do you honestly tell yourself to dissociate from the fantasy back into reality. And yes yes.. I don’t have a girlfriend so please don’t tell me to go find one or get a life or seek help as a solution. Such answers are demeaning and frankly useless.

Thank you.


I trimmed down your post to the more relevant parts...

#1 Anime girls are often the author's/artist's idealized version of a female.
Many are made to be perfect in some way, sometimes in many ways. Visually, personality, mannerisms, etc. are all things that are used to draw in viewers/readers.
In this case, I'd say it worked on you.

#2 Your idea of "perfection" is pretty limited if you've only seen a small number of shows. Watch more. There is a pretty good chance that you'll find another character that could put Alice to shame.

#3 With enough shows under your belt, I'm certain you'll find multiple characters that you'll really like.
Get enough of those girls and you'll find it harder to pick just one. Not impossible, but likely harder.
There are many characters I like, but despite how nearly perfect one may be, there's always going to be another character that is more perfect in one trait or another.
So I don't/can't pick just one. Having more than one you really like makes it so much easier to not obsess over the first one that really caught your eye.

#4 Fantasize all you like about anime girls, but don't lose sight of reality. As appealing as they can be, anime characters will never curl up with you at night, they won't make you your favorite meals, they won't give you a massage after a long day of work/school, etc, etc.
Escaping to their world to hang out with them is nice, but it's only 1 episode at a time, and eventually the series ends.
Bear that in mind and it can help keep you from "going off the deep end" as some might say.

I hope that helps.

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PurplePants said:
mr_modest said:
Read some mind break, r*pe or NTR doujin of Alice. It might help break your crush literally.

There are none . Anime only released few weeks ago so it'll take a few months for someone to make a doujin

I hope that there will never be any.​
Aug 7, 2021 1:33 AM
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PiyushSan said:
PurplePants said:

There are none . Anime only released few weeks ago so it'll take a few months for someone to make a doujin

I hope that there will never be any.​
I don't know about you but I definitely want one . I like her and I think she got really cute face and an amazing set of tits . She'll make a perfect fap material .
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PurplePants said:
PiyushSan said:

I hope that there will never be any.​
I don't know about you but I definitely want one . I like her and I think she got really cute face and an amazing set of tits . She'll make a perfect fap material .

I'm talking about​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
mind break, r*pe or NTR doujin of Alice
Aug 7, 2021 1:47 AM
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Anime girls are perfect because they open a gateway for the soul, a gateway that can lead you to everlasting prosperity, if only, you will embrace it. I know that you might scoff at the notion, but the fact that you are having these feelings, is proof enough, that you already feel it in your heart.

The distress you feel right now is cognitive dissonance. It's normal, when confronted with new information that conflicts with your worldview. Your mind is simply trying to protect you from things that are unfamiliar. What you need to do is cast that feeling aside, and accept anime girls as a part of your new life. Once you do, you can achieve self-actualization, and you will live in peace for the rest of time.

But of course, it will come with sacrifice. Your mortal self will no longer exist in the way it does now, and the transition to your spirit form can be tricky, if you are not prepared. But I can show you how to make your transition as smooth as it can possibly be, so long as you will grant me the liberty to do so. If you are interested, all I ask is that you fill out the form below.


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Aug 7, 2021 2:31 AM
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well that is one of the goals many wish to achieve in creating art


What do you mean? The goal is to have the reader crush on the character you designed?
Aug 7, 2021 2:32 AM
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Older_than_dirt said:
Why are anime girls so perfect?
Aqu_a said:

.. I became fricking smitten with Alice Lendrott...

I feel so jealous of the MC! ...

I sadly know that someone like that (Alice) can never exist in real life, and she is just a figment of the authors imagination....
But I am just in love with her based on the way she acts and looks. I just cant help it!!!! What is this sorcery?!?!?

For the past few days everything in life just seems so bleak and disappointing once you tasted perfection in a fantasy…
This is the first time something like this has happened and I don’t understand this! Im desperate and I’m begging on my knees for help! ...

Does anyone here know how to break an anime crush/waifu? How do regular anime watcher deal with this issue if it even happens to you at all? Like what do you honestly tell yourself to dissociate from the fantasy back into reality. And yes yes.. I don’t have a girlfriend so please don’t tell me to go find one or get a life or seek help as a solution. Such answers are demeaning and frankly useless.

Thank you.


I trimmed down your post to the more relevant parts...

#1 Anime girls are often the author's/artist's idealized version of a female.
Many are made to be perfect in some way, sometimes in many ways. Visually, personality, mannerisms, etc. are all things that are used to draw in viewers/readers.
In this case, I'd say it worked on you.

#2 Your idea of "perfection" is pretty limited if you've only seen a small number of shows. Watch more. There is a pretty good chance that you'll find another character that could put Alice to shame.

#3 With enough shows under your belt, I'm certain you'll find multiple characters that you'll really like.
Get enough of those girls and you'll find it harder to pick just one. Not impossible, but likely harder.
There are many characters I like, but despite how nearly perfect one may be, there's always going to be another character that is more perfect in one trait or another.
So I don't/can't pick just one. Having more than one you really like makes it so much easier to not obsess over the first one that really caught your eye.

#4 Fantasize all you like about anime girls, but don't lose sight of reality. As appealing as they can be, anime characters will never curl up with you at night, they won't make you your favorite meals, they won't give you a massage after a long day of work/school, etc, etc.
Escaping to their world to hang out with them is nice, but it's only 1 episode at a time, and eventually the series ends.
Bear that in mind and it can help keep you from "going off the deep end" as some might say.

I hope that helps.



Thanks for taking the time to write that out. Really appreciate it
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PurplePants said:
PiyushSan said:

I hope that there will never be any.​
I don't know about you but I definitely want one . I like her and I think she got really cute face and an amazing set of tits . She'll make a perfect fap material .


Wha.. This aint helping guys! Im really asking for advice here!
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because they are written by men. -----------------
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Anime girls' faces look extremely stupid. They have the facial proportions of a baby, except even more exaggerated. Tiny mouth, huge eyes, a tiny curve for a nose. They all make the same stupid expressions that no one really makes. They also dont smell like anything and look like they are coated in some kind of laminant. Tbh I find them and the fact that their designs are meant to be sexually appealing fucking disturbing if I actively think about it at all, so I try not to think about it. The most appealing thing about anime characters is that they cannot reject you. Other than that they lack a large portion of the actual qualities that make a person appealing. Anime girls are just eerily shiny boobs tacked on a sanitized body with a cartoon baby head and stupid impossible hair.
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Anime girls are perfect because they open a gateway for the soul, a gateway that can lead you to everlasting prosperity, if only, you will embrace it. I know that you might scoff at the notion, but the fact that you are having these feelings, is proof enough, that you already feel it in your heart.

The distress you feel right now is cognitive dissonance. It's normal, when confronted with new information that conflicts with your worldview. Your mind is simply trying to protect you from things that are unfamiliar. What you need to do is cast that feeling aside, and accept anime girls as a part of your new life. Once you do, you can achieve self-actualization, and you will live in peace for the rest of time.

But of course, it will come with sacrifice. Your mortal self will no longer exist in the way it does now, and the transition to your spirit form can be tricky, if you are not prepared. But I can show you how to make your transition as smooth as it can possibly be, so long as you will grant me the liberty to do so. If you are interested, all I ask is that you fill out the form below.



Wow... Just wow.... What did I just read.... Nuuuu I dont wanna fall off the deep end!! D: Come on guys....
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PiyushSan said:
PurplePants said:
I don't know about you but I definitely want one . I like her and I think she got really cute face and an amazing set of tits . She'll make a perfect fap material .

I'm talking about​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
mind break, r*pe or NTR doujin of Alice

Ahh.. sorry I forgot to mention those . believe it or not , I mostly fap to ntr doujins because the art in those is far better than vanilla ones . The quality of tits and pussy in Ntr doujins is really amazing .
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Cuz they are designed for that. Attracting readers or viewers like us.
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If real life girls would be like 2D girls, there would be less men watching anime :P Their loss, tho.
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PurplePants said:
PiyushSan said:

I'm talking about​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Ahh.. sorry I forgot to mention those . believe it or not , I mostly fap to ntr doujins because the art in those is far better than vanilla ones . The quality of tits and pussy in Ntr doujins is really amazing .

I find NTR disgusting. And art quality is usually the same. Or maybe NTR doujins with good art just stand out more?
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Find a a girl-friend or boy friend or a trans friend or just a lover , and get a life. You can alos try "brothels if you are just pervy man with no interest in serious relationship"

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PiyushSan said:
PurplePants said:

Ahh.. sorry I forgot to mention those . believe it or not , I mostly fap to ntr doujins because the art in those is far better than vanilla ones . The quality of tits and pussy in Ntr doujins is really amazing .

I find NTR disgusting. And art quality is usually the same. Or maybe NTR doujins with good art just stand out more?

Yea , I don't read ntrs with huge ass plot and mostly the person getting ntrd is dumb so I don't feel bad for the person . And also I find the art of Ntr better than other ones .
Aug 7, 2021 7:43 AM
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honeymoon phase will be over sooner or later lol so just enjoy the feeling while it last
Aug 7, 2021 7:46 AM

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Depends on the series not every anime girl is perfect.
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"Why are anime girls so perfect"
This is seriously some bad generalizing.
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I'm sure in about 20 years time. Artificial intelligence, Quantum physics and nanotechnology will allow us to create a real life anime girl. So you might want to hold onto your virginity and be pure for your real life anime girl waifu to finally take you to your promised land of anime pussy.
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spaesu said:
well that is one of the goals many wish to achieve in creating art


What do you mean? The goal is to have the reader crush on the character you designed?
no, well i guess maybe... but when you create art usually you'll want to make something beautiful, you'd make your dream girl if you knew how to right?
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The thread 404'ed. What was it about?
Aug 7, 2021 11:11 AM

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They're perfect because of two things:

1. They have bangs/a fringe.

2. They have shiny, white circles on their skin.

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Ask random women in the street to dress up as her and then marry them
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Dunno and don't care. I prefer realistic imperfect ones.
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I'm sure in about 20 years time. Artificial intelligence, Quantum physics and nanotechnology will allow us to create a real life anime girl. So you might want to hold onto your virginity and be pure for your real life anime girl waifu to finally take you to your promised land of anime pussy.


Ah but of course, quantum physics and real life anime girls 5Head
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They are the ideal girls. And ideality is impossible to achieve, hence something being ideal.
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Aqu_a said:
Does anyone here know how to break an anime crush/waifu? How do regular anime watcher deal with this issue if it even happens to you at all? Like what do you honestly tell yourself to dissociate from the fantasy back into reality. And yes yes.. I don’t have a girlfriend so please don’t tell me to go find one or get a life or seek help as a solution. Such answers are demeaning and frankly useless.

Thank you.
Read some mind break, r*pe or NTR doujin of Alice. It might help break your crush literally.


You're going to ruin this 'new account maker' LOL. Just DM him a couple codes here and there and chase him/her/they away from MAL.
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because a lot of anime girls are made made for men to simp for. male gaze and all that
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Because we will never meet such a person in real life, unless we get to know them first. Anime girls are get rid of the effort and reward us from the get go.
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Because they're made by mostly men.
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They are made to be liked so any flaws should not exist and if it does, it's nothing serious.


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Welcome to anime. Once you fall for the waifu trap, there's no way out. The only "cure" is even more waifus. Good luck.

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on top of the troll aspects of thee types of conversations, to be real here, it's all about femininity not perfection of fantasy, modern females simply put, lack femininity, grace, look at your average US big city girl, all drugged up, pierced up, all tattooed up, ran through by God knows how many men, mental issue, daddy issues, pet obsessed, victim olympian feminist, rude, masculine attitude, they're just not attractive at all from any point of view, physical, attitude, the way they carry themselves

not saying that all modern females are like that, there are still clean, pure, feminine women, but those know they are rare and a catch, they know this and use this as a selling point instead of being a natural thing, so they go for very rich guys, a regular person is unlikely to be with a person like that

now in anime, look at the average female, feminine, caring, hard working, clean, pure, graceful, prideful

just compare these two styles outside of the anime style vs real life





now to give an example of a real life woman that can compete 1:1 with an what an anime girl has the best to offer:





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they are flawed you probably just don't choose to notice. Alice Lendrott is very much a flawed character, but that's what's called good writing.

after all shes taking an irrational action that could lead to her own death.
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Those who undergo suffering and spread it to others. And those who undergo suffering and avoid giving it to others." -Alice
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all of yall need to seek professional therapy!!
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Cause japans has a high imagination that they can create an anime girls that was perfect, and it was beyond anybody expectacion.
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