Gesu- said: plebster said: It's called compromising. There's a low chance that the person she likes right now is asexual. If you want a relationship with a non-asexual, you can't expect the relationship to last long if you're not willing to have sex. But wouldn't that be like a chore? Like taking out the garbage? Or doing the laundry? I think it really depends on the person and how they feel about sex. I know that some asexuals do feel that way. But even without sexual attraction, there's a chance that they will enjoy it. If not, they can still enjoy the intimacy and doing something that makes their partner happy. |
| If you're reading this, then you be should banana the one often to effectively die apples through convergence, autism plus unicorns. |
| Drake always seems down in all his songs because of a girl so I shunned myself away from the idea of getting a girlfriend. |
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| @Gesu- some asexuals do feel arousal and they can get turned on and enjoy the physical feelings or sex and intimacy with their partners, they just don't look at their partners and necessarily get turned on because of their sexiness. That probably finds weird because you don't experience it. I don't experience sexual desire towards people. Also, there's also a chance of dating other asexuals, like someone else said. It may be a chore for some asexuals, though or a compromise with their partners. This can also happen between sexual partners with different libidos. You can experience sexual attraction and still have low libido and you can be asexual and have a high libido. Regarding chores, I find doing the dishes incredibly relaxing, so not all chores are bad! I hate cooking though. |
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| My right hand was the only one who understood my feelings and my needs. No girlfriend yet, maybe one will find me until I die because I'm sure not going to find one myself. |
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| Only one and I thought it was serious but in the end it wasn't actually serious. Jealousy is a nasty thing. |
| none Im cool right? ok so this message is to short as for it to be posted so I have to make the joke unfunny by writing the message at the end of it, wait this is more than 30 characters, right? oh yeah it is |
| Zero, girlfriends cost money, time, and energy. But sadly I'm in desperate need of all three of those things and have none to spare. |
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| I desperately need one right now that's for certain. |
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| Nine in total. Some have been quite serious relationships (not saying others were jokes, but I mean as in planning on living together and such). None of them lasted several years. If I consider the last decade or so (I'm old by MAL standards), relationships (and dating) have usually ended because I don't feel as strongly as I "should", and I want to avoid hurting anyone's feelings. Unlike most of my exes I have spent the vast majority of my time being alone. I've always preferred not being single, but I'm starting to think of a good and meaningful romantical relationship as something on par with dreams of gaining magical powers and living in a fairytale castle. |
AburadakoMay 19, 2016 9:05 AM
| none dude. I had a crush and a girl crushing on me once though |
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tsuyokunaru said: @Mayuka I hope it goes well! @Gesu- even if an asexual person doesn't experience sexual attraction, it doesn't mean they won't enjoy having sex. Some asexuals feel aversion to sex but others actually like it because they have libidos, they just don't really connect sex with a person they like (this happens to me >.>) @Shaheen- having a strong friendship with someone is completely different from having a romantic relationship and sex is not the main denominator here. A lot of people have FWB and just because they're having sex, it doesn't make them a couple or mean they're even romantically interested in one another I've had 3 boyfriends and 2 girlfriends in the past (and in the ones with no sex involved, they also thought it was a real relationship and not a friendship), but I've been single for a while now and it's great. The one thing I hate here is the unnecessary inclusion of new concepts of 'asexual romantic relationships' when there is something we call 'extremely close platonic friendships'. That's all what they are. Or is there like, kissing involved but no sex? |
Shaheen- said: The one thing I hate here is the unnecessary inclusion of new concepts of 'asexual romantic relationships' when there is something we call 'extremely close platonic friendships'. That's all what they are. Or is there like, kissing involved but no sex? I see them as different things because I've experienced both, I guess. I have friends that I care deeply for and I love them but it's not romantic love associated with a partner and for me personally kissing has to happen. I'm sure different asexuals have their own preferences though? |
密室殺人はなぜ美しいのか。 |
| 1 when I was 12 so I don't think that counts. Dated a girl last summer but she ended things before they were official so that doesn't count either. Dated someone else earlier this year then I ended things after a few months so... 1 I guess. |
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ultravigo said: LoneWolf said: Hogwarts awaits Real talk, I've only had one "real" gf, it ended really badly and I don't want to remember or go through that shit again from which manga is that? you know i need to read that Gensou Gynaccoracy by Samura Hiraoki |
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
| I've never been in a serious relationship, but having one would be nice. I had two girls crush on me and a internet fuck buddy I used to have cyber sex with. |
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| 2 girl friends 200+ cumdumps. Tinder has made it so i have a harem of fucksluts |
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| eh, a ton. of bullshit dating when i was in high school. but only 2 serious/longer relationships (one was a guy, other was a girl). and this 3rd time was the only time out of all of them that i was in love, but the 'relationship' itself was kinda weird so i really don't know if i should even count it |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Gesu- said: no. it can feel nice cause you still have all the normal physical sensations. it's not like you can't have an orgasm just cause you're asexual.plebster said: It's called compromising. There's a low chance that the person she likes right now is asexual. If you want a relationship with a non-asexual, you can't expect the relationship to last long if you're not willing to have sex. But wouldn't that be like a chore? Like taking out the garbage? Or doing the laundry? it's just that you are not sexually attracted to the person/anyone. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Gesu- said: I love intimacy with friends/romantic partners, so I'm completely fine with going far with them.plebster said: It's called compromising. There's a low chance that the person she likes right now is asexual. If you want a relationship with a non-asexual, you can't expect the relationship to last long if you're not willing to have sex. But wouldn't that be like a chore? Like taking out the garbage? Or doing the laundry? Shaheen- said: The one thing I hate here is the unnecessary inclusion of new concepts of 'asexual romantic relationships' when there is something we call 'extremely close platonic friendships'. That's all what they are. Or is there like, kissing involved but no sex? It's not really called asexual romantic relationship. LOL I just call a relationship, a relationship. It's either platonic or romantic. Nothing else. Gesu- said: waitwaitwait.. So you're ready to have sex even if you don't feel like it or enjoy it? To each their own but if I were asexual I don't think I'd even try & if I happen to date someone asexual I don't think I'd do it even if she were to offer me.. I'm only ready if the relationship is strong enough. There's different types and levels of asexuality. I'm not sexphobic either... Shaheen- said: Yeah, I hope I'm demisexual. I would feel bad if the guy I end up with and I have have different views on sex.Your being a demisexual is more probable. Lack of belief in God = Aversion to religion. That's the usual norm. |
| I've had like 5 boyfriends and 1 girlfriend first boyfriend was a borderline predator, as I was 13 and he was 17 second boyfriend was long distance for a majority of it, terribly emotionally damaging but we're still great friends third boyfriend was a homeless russian guy and I only went out with him because sympathy fourth boyfriend had anger issues fifth boyfriend is current. he's cool so far the girlfriend I had was batshit crazy and every girl I dated after that was unbearable to a degree. I don't know if it's me or if it's the women I choose to date but the luck I have with women is terrible |
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| I've had plenty of opportunities, but none so far since my standards are too high :( |
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| None. Never took those steps towards asking a girl out and chose not to go out with those who asked me. |
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| No girlfriends :( just crushes so far. I am with my 3rd boyfriend these days. The first one was at 16 years old and although it didn't work out I look back fondly and wish we remained friends. the second one I am still suffering the consequences of. abusive.. angry.. awful. it sucks loving someone so damaging. the boyfriend now is an older guy and he's gentle and funny. if it didn't work out with this guy now, i'd probably hold out until I find the right girl. edit: i read through all that asexual chatter. i also am asexual. i'm a hopeless romantic, though. and i don't mind reading or watching smut or sexual scenes, but in my perfect ideal world it doesn't really play into romance. |
umicormMay 19, 2016 5:12 PM
| None for me. I'm just generally an unattractive person. |
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Make it 4 c; Best waifu ever. ------- |
| If you're reading this, then you be should banana the one often to effectively die apples through convergence, autism plus unicorns. |
| Only one, and she asked me out. But I'm 18 now, and I don't need one. |
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| Like two or three ? Apparently had more but wasen't even knowing it =.= |
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| How many girlfriend I've had... huh. 1942, we were invading Germany. The day was settled. We were ready to slaughter them. At that time, the bomb squad we just sent out had their heads split open; blood oozing from their bullet wounds, as their eyes lop out of their skulls. Two days later we found the German commander's body, lying there. It was a dead, faceless expression, almost if he had honed it. 1946. The Soviet Union. Those bastards put up one hell of a fight. One time, we caught one, he was squirming around like the king of worms. Fighter jets were scrambling, and chaos was slowly becoming even more resistant. But we all knew. We all knew that death was inevitable. Not from this point, but form the very start. Four hundred thousand more to die. To put it simply... a true man doesn't need girlfriends... brb going to cry to sleep. |
| 1. Years ago and I didn't even like him :') But tbh idc. |
| I don't have girlfriends. Girlfriends have me. |
| I've totally lost the count after 10 |
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| 3 serious relationships including the one with my current boyfriend. The ones in the past were pretty chaotic and left me pretty miserable in the end but I feel quite happy with the one I have right now. |
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| 1 in middle school and 4 in high school. None were serious, if I had to give a reason, I was bored and just wanted someone to hang out with for awhile. |
| 0. I've tried to break the duck, but I seem to have this thing where I just can't talk to females unless I'm extremely familiar with them and the only way that happens is when they talk to me first. I want to talk to them, but I just can't. |
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Dimethylanime said: Boyfriend? Is that an anime? Never heard of it. I believe the anime you're looking for is called Wyatt Mort? Wyatt-something? Sheesh, what was it...? Ah, I remember! |
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| What does the scouter say about my gf level? It's over NINETHOUSANDDDDDDD |
| Just 2. The first was my high school girlfriend we broke up because she had to move to another country after graduating from school and the long distance thing did not work out. I started dating my second girlfriend when I was in college and I am still in a relationship with her. We have been together for over 5 years and I am very happy with the relationship. |
How many have I had? Well.......................................................... |
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| I've had none but if waifu counts then lets just say it is a few figure number |
 Yahallo! Yatta! Baka! <!  "Humans, your existence was a mistake. Conflicts, lies, jealously, greed. You once caused me to lose everything and today I will devour everything... Because I am the Valkyrie Goddess"> |
| 0, never wanted one Still not really want one First get some stuff done before I start with that |
| Girlfriends are overrated. Waifu's are love, waifu's are life. |
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| technically 4 but one was just there because she thought I was cute and broke up with me after finding out my obsession with anime |
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| One online relationship. Sadly, like many, it didn't work out. |
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