| If I could choose? Staying the fuck home, hell yes. Fuck working all my damn life. But I doubt life will be so kind as to give me that choice.. |
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| Who would actually choose to go to work? |
| Being at home all day is boring as hell, I'd rather have a career. |
| Bread winner cause that's what manly men do. |
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| Bread winner, naturally. I can't have someone else pulling my weight. Korrvo said: Only if they're confined to misandrist gender roles.Bread winner cause that's what manly men do. How does it feel to be societies toilet? |
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YorozuyaGinSan said: ManlyBread winner, naturally. I can't have someone else pulling my weight. Korrvo said: Only if they're confined to misandrist gender roles.Bread winner cause that's what manly men do. How does it feel to be societies toilet? |
☕ Truth be told, I'm quite proud of my house blend. To attain my flavor and fragrance, I use five different types of coffee beans. ☕ |
| Any self-respecting man would be a bread winner, and not one who relies on his female counterpart to pull his ass. Too bad the modernized way of living has completely reversed many natural conventions. |
RyukatsukaJun 22, 2014 9:56 PM
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| neither since i wouldn't have kids |
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| I'm pretty sure there are plenty of parents that wouldn't want to be stuck with their kids 24/7. |
| If I ever get married, doubt I would want to stay home with the kitties all day. |
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| I want to be the stay at home parent, but in this day and age does that even exist anymore? |
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| I would rather stay at home and look after the kiddies and clean, because I like that stuff anyway. :D |
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Ryukatsuka said: Any self-respecting man would be a bread winner, and not one who relies on his female counterpart to pull his ass. Too bad the modernized way of living has completely reversed many natural conventions. Those conventions are stupid & 1s who champions them are retarded & they're not natural, if you believe that simply because of birthing roles then you are a moron. |
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| Id pick working since i hate kids :/ |
| How about me and my wife live as equals? The whole 'busy man and quiet housewife' model is archaic to me and I don't exactly feel comfortable with the idea of being a stay-at-home dad either. I'd rather we both work and do something interesting with our lives. |
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| It would be nice to both work part time. As in, 25-30 hours per week. That would be my ideal life. But if I'd had to make a choice between being a houseman or a bread winner I'd go for the latter one. I don't mind working and if I wouldn't all my studying would have been for nothing. |
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| I'd definitely want to be the bread-winner. I don't know, I'd just imagine myself feeling odd and too dependent if I rode off the finances of my partner. I could never imagine myself as a stay-at-home parent; I've just been working towards the idea of building my future career for way too long to write it off anytime soon. Then again, I think it'd feel a bit unsettling if I had a husband who acted as the stay-home-parent while I went off to work every day. Realistically, there doesn't have to be a stay-at-home parent/bread-winner duo. A lot of parents these days both work. |
| At this point of my life I rather have a career. I don't like kids and I could not imagine being at home with them all day, everyday. Also, I like to make my own money. :) |
PoeticJustice said: nigga i am black, do you think my ass would fit in? "Oh look it is negro kun." Hell no. |
Nestala said: And it's not like you're stuck with the kiddos all day, they'll have to attend kindergarten, school, high school... Maybe even extracurricular activities too, that leaves oneself plenty of time.Stay at home, relax and watch anime. Seriously, why would I stress myself and go to work if I don't have to? |
| Lol @ people saying stay at home as if it's simply a day off everyday Lol @ people saying it's archaic and why not both work? Lol @ people thinking that it's not possible for one to stay at home while the other works? whut I'd do whatever it takes to make sure my children have a place to sleep, food, and a suitable environment to play and grow up. |
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| Neither because I have no plans on having kids. |
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| How does one win bread? Is there a competition for this kind of thing? |
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Lime_ said: How isnt it a day off everyday? All you need to do is make sure none of your kids die or do anything stupid. Oh also cook and clean, but still thats remotely easy.Lol @ people saying stay at home as if it's simply a day off everyday |
| neither and both :/ |
| Considering my girlfriend is at work right now while my sorry unemployed ass is here on MAL... I would definitely be a stay at home dad |
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| I spent too damn long IN the house. Time for a career. |
| My Manga List My Anime List Shabada shabadabadaba I am DjG545 aka Dj Fo Fo aka The Mutha Fkn Name I'm Usin Now |
| Breadwinner. There's only so much you can do around the house when the kids are at school, I'd be bored to death. I can see myself being one of those working mums, struggling to pay for a babysitter but working hard along with my partner to provide a good home for our kids. |
| I would be a breadwinner. My parents can help take care of the kids. The only reason i could think of being a stay at home parent, is if I wanted to go back to college and reeducate myself or something similar to further my career. |
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| I could be either, really. I'd only want to be the breadwinner for security, because if the relationship falls apart and I'm just staying at home, I'm probably fucked. |
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| I'd choose work but not because I like to work but I wouldn't want my waifu keeping the family afloat that's not what a manly man does. Manly men go earn some dough, make it rain at a club, then come back home before the wife notices. That's manly. |
| Work shifts and take turns. |
Lime_ said: Lol @ people thinking that it's not possible for one to stay at home while the other works? whut It's not impossible but most families would be more comfortable with more income I think. |
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| Hey look, the poster above me has a clue~! ReaperCreeper said: Lime_ said: Lol @ people thinking that it's not possible for one to stay at home while the other works? whut It's not impossible but most families would be more comfortable with more income I think. What? Couldn't you say that about anything. . . Would it be worth the trade? So you're going to get a job and put your child in daycare instead (Can you make enough money that it covers the cost and justifies putting your child in daycare?) It's not cheap... and then would you want to? So what, you make a little extra money now, but who's even raising your child? You don't even see them! Do you want to hear about his/her first steps from someone else? Their first words to be someone elses name? Their drawings to be of someone elses house? Why'd you even have a kid to begin with if you're just going to shove them off to be raised by a different person? dragonlight said: Lime_ said: How isnt it a day off everyday? All you need to do is make sure none of your kids die or do anything stupid. Oh also cook and clean, but still thats remotely easy.Lol @ people saying stay at home as if it's simply a day off everyday Yeah, welcome to never increasing your skill set and relying on someone, hope you don't get a divorce 10yrs down the road and now you're old and have the same experience as someone fresh out of high school! Welcome to lack of social interaction, hope that internet treats you as well as you think - if you work you at least get to converse with coworkers, you get to gossip, you get to bond; enjoy the company of your own annoying children Still have to wake up early, I mean, the kids have to be gotten ready for school, they need a lunch made, they need to be picked up afterwards - oh, one isn't in school? Well then he/she needs constant attention throughout the day. .. don't even mention or google colic, wouldn't wish that on anyone Then the easy stuff, laundry/dishes/gotta go shopping/what's for dinner?/Do I know how to cook? I mean I guess I'd agree, once all your kids are finally in school then it might be a bit easier - just gotta drop them off, enjoy 6hrs of peace and then pick them up. . but before they're in school? There's no way you could consider that a day off in a long shot - if so, you're doing your 'days off' wrong |
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| Bread winner, I'm not really great with kids. Plus, I don't want my wife working to feed us, my pride wouldn't allow it. |
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| Bread winner, i don't even like kids. But seriously i'd feel like a total dirt bag if i stayed at home jackin it while my spouse worked to put food on the table, at the very least i'd have to sell drugs from the house so i can contribute something. |
| If I get married, I'd like us both to be bread-winners and contribute to the home somewhat equally. Though if my partner wants to stay-home, I won't mind, but I don't know why anyone would want such a grueling task. |
Red_Keys said: If I could choose? Staying the fuck home, hell yes. Fuck working all my damn life. But I doubt life will be so kind as to give me that choice.. What if you had to stay home all the time cuzyou were quadruplegic? Now life doesn't seem so unkind for allowing you to work, does it #StandTallYuiNyan! OMG I am so mentally drunk right now. Anyway, I wanna work, earn my keep |
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Lime_ said: ReaperCreeper said: It's not impossible but most families would be more comfortable with more income I think. What? Couldn't you say that about anything. . . Would it be worth the trade? So you're going to get a job and put your child in daycare instead (Can you make enough money that it covers the cost and justifies putting your child in daycare?) It's not cheap... and then would you want to? So what, you make a little extra money now, but who's even raising your child? You don't even see them! Do you want to hear about his/her first steps from someone else? Their first words to be someone elses name? Their drawings to be of someone elses house? Why'd you even have a kid to begin with if you're just going to shove them off to be raised by a different person? They could do what my parents did, one parent works day and the other night, and before there's an argument of the parents never seeing each other brought up I'll say that they still have time to see each other when one's home before the other has to go, which is about 3 hours, and there's also days off. Besides it's not exactly different to them only being able to spend time together a couple hours before sleep after a long day at the office and a long day of dealing with the kiddos. |
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| Depends on the Job. If I could go out and be a Game Tester and just play video games all day, and get payed a shit ton of money doing it. Then fuck yeah Id be the money maker. If its some job I dont really enjoy and doing just to support myself, then nah Ill stay at home and just enjoy myself. |
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| Bread winner because I'm not great with kids. Ideally, my husband would be a stay-at-home dad and I'd work. I doubt that's going to be possible though. Probably both of us will work. |
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