| I don't get it why girls tend to reply for about, I don't know, 4-10 minutes (sometimes more). Are they playing hard to get or they're just playing the waiting game or something? (Besides that I'm ugly which is not debatable) |
 If God exists, then he should try extending my deadline right now! ~ Kobayashi, Kobayashi-san chi no Maid Dragon - Episode 12 |
| and also why should guys always start conversation this is why u stick to your waifu |
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| That isn't universal nor is it exclusive to females. |
| Because they have a life that doesn't involve being on their phone 24/7. |
| B-e-c-a-u-s-e p-u-t-t-i-n-g h-y-p-h-e-n-s b-e-t-w-e-e-n e-a-c-h l-e-t-t-e-r i-s e-x-t-r-e-m-e-l-y t-i-m-e c-o-n-s-u-m-i-n-g |
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Bobby2Hands said: B-e-c-a-u-s-e p-u-t-t-i-n-g h-y-p-h-e-n-s b-e-t-w-e-e-n e-a-c-h l-e-t-t-e-r i-s e-x-t-r-e-m-e-l-y t-i-m-e c-o-n-s-u-m-i-n-g N-o-t t-o m-e-n-t-i-o-n g-r-a-m-m-a-t-i-c-a-l-l-y c-o-r-r-e-c-t s-t-r-u-c-t-u-r-e-s...x-D ImTheJuggernaut said: I don't get it why girls tend to reply for about, I don't know, 4-10 minutes (sometimes more). Are they playing hard to get or they're just playing the waiting game or something? (Besides that I'm ugly which is not debatable) T-h-e-r-e a-r-e t-i-m-e-s w-h-e-n t-h-a-t'-s t-h-e h-i-n-t t-h-a-t "I d-o-n-'t w-a-n-t t-o t-a-l-k a-b-o-u-t y-o-u." |
| I often reply after a day or more. Should I cut my balls and grow tits? |
| They reply to the 10 other guys they find more interesting in the meantime. |
| I probably regret this post by now. |
| Maybe you're uninteresting. Well, I find most people are slow at replies, regardless of gender. I happen to be one of the faster ones, myself, though I'm better at it on Discord. |
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| It's pretty simple: people-- both women and men-- are busy, and have more going on in their lives than a single conversation. I often don't reply for hours or days at a time on Facebook, Skype, Tinder and the like, and sometimes I forget to do so altogether. Unless I'm really close with the person, or they have something pressing they need to talk about, I prioritise doing other stuff first. If that sort of behaviour bothers you, you should probably distance yourself from them a bit and think about your own hobbies or responsibilities. |
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Terkhev said: I often reply after a day or more. Should I cut my balls and grow tits? Yes, but...but not for the reasons you think. |
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| She's probably uninterested in the conversation. What are you guys even talking about? The weather? |
 Three things cannot be long hidden.. ...the s u n, the m oo n, and the tr u th. |
| if they are anything like my imoutos then they are probably surrounded by 20 other girls constantly talking about absolutely nothing important and occassionally singing disney songs |
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| Probably that they're either not very interested in the conversation or like others have said, they're busy with important things. |
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| I don't think I see this happening, they also usually type faster lol |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| Generally, the female friends I talk to like to type in paragraphs and generally I don't want to read it so I postpone it for a different time period. At that point they pretty much text you back in 30 seconds or more. Or sometimes they just text back 3 word replies and expect a substantial response to that. Then they'll text you back in 3 days. Not really any safe middle. In short, women are weird. |
ImTheJuggernaut said: I don't get it why girls tend to reply for about, I don't know, 4-10 minutes days (sometimes more). Fixed that for you, fam. It's not like she really wants to talk to you or anything. B-B-BAKA!!! |
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| Because they have better things to do |
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| I thought everyone waited five minutes before responding to a text or snapchat from certain people... guess it's only a girl thing. It's so we don't appear desperate and clingy. |
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| My problem atm is just that she's not even checking my messages. Don't know if she just generally doesn't check her messages very often though. |
 Anime is good, fucking deal with it. |
| I rarely respond to anyone these days even in hours let alone minutes. If I do I really want to have that conversation. But like people have said here there's so much other stuff to do and I like my alone time too and don't feel like having any uninteresting chats during. There are so few real conversations nowadays... chitchatting is very draining so me not likey. |
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| They're trying to control you dude. OMG!!!!!!!!! |
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| Remember, girls don't exist on the internet! No, ok, seriously. It's because we aren't online all the time. We don't continue to reload the page waiting the answers of other people. We answer when we want. (sorry for the grammar, google translate is a piece of shit) Mod edit: Combined double posts |
ArdanazFeb 8, 2017 2:51 PM
| some people have, you know, lives they live |
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| You know, there's people out there that have priorities and other important things to do besides chatting right? and this goes for both parties. |
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Hachiko75 said: Because they have a life that doesn't involve being on their phone 24/7. Pretty much this. Just because you're on your phone every moment doesn't mean they are as well. |
| 4-10 minutes really isn't long. Sometimes I've unintentionally gone a few days without replying. |
ImTheJuggernaut said: I don't get it why girls tend to reply for about, I don't know, 4-10 minutes (sometimes more). Are they playing hard to get or they're just playing the waiting game or something? (Besides that I'm ugly which is not debatable) I'm a guy and it could take me ages to reply to girls. I just have shit going on in life or I could be juggling multiple conversations. If it goes into days then yeah, that's taking the piss. I prefer face to face though. I generally prefer it to texting. |
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| Because they touch their boobs in the meanwhile. |
| "Now, come here. So long as we hold hands, we won't be separated." |
| She's not interested OP. Take a hint. |
| Shoot first, think never. |
| Why don't you ask her? She'd probably be happy to reply ;) |
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| 1) you don't make them thirsty enough 2) they don't think you can quench that thirst 3) talking to people is effort 4) wanting to talk to people is effort 5) pretending to want to talk to people is a fuckload of effort |
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| Honestly people have different reasons. Don't make any assumptions is all I can say. |
| I've been here way too long... |
| Last year the opposite happened to me: A girl I liked thought I was not interested in her because she answered me as quickly as possible while I answered after a while. Without letting out the fact that I was reeeeeally into her too, I tried to explain her that I didn't answer because I was busy studying or practicing or exercising outside, and that only led to some kind of "so you are saying I'm not busy too?! I AM BUSY TOO YOU KNOW" and it all went downhill from there lol |
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| Or maybe, just maybe, they're just busy doing something else? |
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| Yeah, she's probably multitasking simultaneously. Or she doesn't give a crap with what you're typing in. |
Terkhev said: I often reply after a day or more. Should I cut my balls and grow tits? No cause the pain of growing breast is not something men can handle. The moment they start to grown breast, men would just play with them and wonder why it hurt's! lol Use to have a Transgender friend back in the US who was on Female hormones. The moment she started to grown breast she would play with them and make them hurt. Would hear her fuss to her female friends like me, about how growing breast really hurts. Would just laugh and tell her, welcome to growing breast as a female, enjoy that pain why they grow. XD Dimethylanime said: I thought everyone waited five minutes before responding to a text or snapchat from certain people... guess it's only a girl thing. It's so we don't appear desperate and clingy. Well you see what they sent and you spend five minutes looking at it just thinking about what you might reply to them, after them five minutes if you don't think of anything you just leave it there for later. Is what I do sometimes. lol |
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| 4-10 mins isn't even that long lol, I've made girls much longer. Are we talking skype messages or text messages or what? |
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
| Yeah 4 to 10 minutes isn't long at all, be glad it isn't hours :c |
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| You're not giving her enough love, OP. |
| Because we take joy in wasting your time |
| The too busy to reply excuse doesn't fly with me. If a woman keeps me waiting for days, I'll keep her waiting a lifetime. Gotta find people more worthy of your time. 5-10 minutes is normal. Sometimes people can't think of things to say, but making you wait that long in the middle of a conversation is a bit rude. |
| Is SLOW an acronym? Anyway, I don't message many girls so I wouldn't know. |
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