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Dec 29, 2023 5:51 AM
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I 23M want to find a girlfriend on tiktok, how?
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None as that's in my honest opinion the worst place in the internet to even search for, Discord, Tinder, Badoo, Youtube, Forums, Video Games there's plenty of places in which the users age is most likely to be closer to mature/"legal", while on TikTok there's so many children that even when I am seeing some comments under a normal clips, I am instantly rejecting from commenting as explaining something even so basic to someone who's 8 and will just insult you is absurd.

Just don't do any plans there, don't find a partner as most likely the user won't be 18+ and you can end up as a suspect for being a pedophile/predator [even if you're not, a user can just collect random messages, as a proof show her/his old tiktok in which the user says that his/her age is 12 which was a year before you even started texting, and with thisyou're fucked] just go to Tinder which is for only adults [in theory, personally I haven't met any person who wasn't 20+] or any other dating or any kind of platform.

Spare yourself any potential problems and even go for escort just not tiktok. Tiktok as for relaxation/browsing vids is fine, not for god damn texting with others
Dec 29, 2023 6:03 AM
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Wait for the implementation of Sibyl System, though you may lose your freedom of movement when that happens.
Dec 29, 2023 8:36 AM
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Why would you want someone with the maturity and intellect of a lobotomized toddler as a partner? Find a woman you actually respect instead of settling for the closest dog turd.
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Dec 29, 2023 10:04 AM
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Why would you want someone with the maturity and intellect of a lobotomized toddler as a partner? Find a woman you actually respect instead of settling for the closest dog turd.
that is a complete waste of time, better to find a few waifus, and enjoy your time with them. they are cute with no attitude, unless you are into that sort of thing.
Dec 29, 2023 11:23 AM
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Find a tiktok with a girl you like, see if their profile has an instragram account, then shoot your shot on there
Dec 29, 2023 11:33 AM
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i think that works just like any other social media, u just gotta have a cool account and be cool and u dm
idk i met a bunch of my friends just randomly dming on insta
u just gotta be interesting
Dec 29, 2023 11:54 AM
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Zettaiken said:
None as that's in my honest opinion the worst place in the internet to even search for, Discord, Tinder, Badoo, Youtube, Forums, Video Games there's plenty of places in which the users age is most likely to be closer to mature/"legal", while on TikTok there's so many children that even when I am seeing some comments under a normal clips, I am instantly rejecting from commenting as explaining something even so basic to someone who's 8 and will just insult you is absurd.
It seems you're over-exaggerating. Also, the latter part is not just a question of age, but rather of personal maturity. There are more than enough people in their 20s, 30s and older who will turn to insults and react too much where it is questionable if they have ever managed to learn how to control their emotions. Maybe they have been told that it's "cool" or "manly" to have some fits for the right causes, but unless that feeling is actively used in improving a situation or person it is a complete waste of energy

I'd rather be worried about the mental health of people who overly focus on being online, rather than socializing only or mostly with people in person and keeping their profiles private (though not having any personal profile about yourself is better) to friends or at least: good acquaintances whom only they know first, preferably in person. That being said, it is very well possible to find people around your age on any online platform, but it's not advisable to get overly invested in them before you haven't met in person at least once.
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Dec 29, 2023 12:22 PM
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Zettaiken said:
None as that's in my honest opinion the worst place in the internet to even search for, Discord, Tinder, Badoo, Youtube, Forums, Video Games there's plenty of places in which the users age is most likely to be closer to mature/"legal", while on TikTok there's so many children that even when I am seeing some comments under a normal clips, I am instantly rejecting from commenting as explaining something even so basic to someone who's 8 and will just insult you is absurd.
It seems you're over-exaggerating. Also, the latter part is not just a question of age, but rather of personal maturity. There are more than enough people in their 20s, 30s and older who will turn to insults and react too much where it is questionable if they have ever managed to learn how to control their emotions. Maybe they have been told that it's "cool" or "manly" to have some fits for the right causes, but unless that feeling is actively used in improving a situation or person it is a complete waste of energy

I'd rather be worried about the mental health of people who overly focus on being online, rather than socializing only or mostly with people in person and keeping their profiles private (though not having any personal profile about yourself is better) to friends or at least: good acquaintances whom only they know first, preferably in person. That being said, it is very well possible to find people around your age on any online platform, but it's not advisable to get overly invested in them before you haven't met in person at least once.
@Noboru I am actually real here, I spend daily around an hour in Tik Tok from completely brainless content till the one which tries to be "educational"/educational [in quote as some stuff are obvious, but not for everyone], literally everywhere I can spot either dumb comments [I have nothing wrong with them] or comments coming from literal minors.
The insult part is just to put it in simpler words as that's how they act in video games [no idea in tik tok as I never interacted there], so it was just as an example not as a generalisation of all of their behaviour, as I always do, a single example not thing which happens 24/7.

If I would be full honest here, it is better to be on Facebook/Twitter comments which also shines in these aspects than on Tik Tok.

edit - it is all about looking for partner as op wanted, for friendship you might find them everywhere and the approach is different so for that topic I wasn't even going to
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Dec 29, 2023 12:26 PM

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Bruh

1.) Why ask for dating advice on the internet?
2.) Why ask for dating advice on MAL?
3.) Why would you want to find one on TikTok of all places?

Do some serious soul searching, then you can get a girlfriend

But please remember life isn't about dating, love yourself first
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Dec 29, 2023 12:28 PM

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Dating websites are the current reality if you can land a gf. If you get 0 matches it likely means it's over.
To answer your question
-be tall
-have pretty boy face
-don't be fat
Dec 29, 2023 12:46 PM

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@Noboru I am actually real here, I spend daily around an hour in Tik Tok from completely brainless content till the one which tries to be "educational"/educational [in quote as some stuff are obvious, but not for everyone], literally everywhere I can spot either dumb comments [I have nothing wrong with them] or comments coming from literal minors.
The insult part is just to put it in simpler words as that's how they act in video games [no idea in tik tok as I never interacted there], so it was just as an example not as a generalisation of all of their behaviour, as I always do, a single example not thing which happens 24/7.

If I would be full honest here, it is better to be on Facebook/Twitter comments which also shines in these aspects than on Tik Tok.

edit - it is all about looking for partner as op wanted, for friendship you might find them everywhere and the approach is different so for that topic I wasn't even going to
@Zettaiken It seems you have your strong convictions, but I'm not interested in hearing about them now.

Also, I don't see why there would be a difference for finding a friend or girlfriend when it both cases, it would be about getting to know the other person first and only after a while deciding on the relationship rather than going to someone's bedroom right away. If only the latter is the goal, then an escort or hitting on people in clubs, bars, etc. will be far more efficient. However, if someone actually wants to find another person as their soulmate, then every online platform is as good or bad as others and it depends more whether both are willing to meet up and if they do: if they end up liking each other enough for a romantic relationship
Dec 29, 2023 1:01 PM
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TikTok is full of retarded teenagers, and adult infants. It's the last place anyone should strive to pick up someone.

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Dec 29, 2023 1:04 PM

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Man! CD topics degenerated so much to that level of Disney’s woke quality.

No wonder I don’t see anything interesting to discuss here.

This is a new low, or it has been this way since I dunno when.
Dec 29, 2023 1:12 PM

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Out of all places on the Internet, if you don't want to search for a girlfriend in a traditional way aka in real life, TikTok is one of the last ones to search for a partner, if you ask me.
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3miL said:
Bruh

1.) Why ask for dating advice on the internet?
2.) Why ask for dating advice on MAL?
3.) Why would you want to find one on TikTok of all places?

Do some serious soul searching, then you can get a girlfriend

But please remember life isn't about dating, love yourself first

A large portion of relationships start on the internet these days.

rohan121 said:
Dating websites are the current reality if you can land a gf. If you get 0 matches it likely means it's over.
To answer your question
-be tall
-have pretty boy face
-don't be fat

Only certain types of girls use dating sites and different ones will use different sites which is a selection bias where they may not at all represent the general public.
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Dec 29, 2023 2:03 PM

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3miL said:
Bruh

1.) Why ask for dating advice on the internet?
2.) Why ask for dating advice on MAL?
3.) Why would you want to find one on TikTok of all places?

Do some serious soul searching, then you can get a girlfriend

But please remember life isn't about dating, love yourself first

A large portion of relationships start on the internet these days.

rohan121 said:
Dating websites are the current reality if you can land a gf. If you get 0 matches it likely means it's over.
To answer your question
-be tall
-have pretty boy face
-don't be fat

Only certain types of girls use dating sites and different ones will use different sites which is a selection bias where they may not at all represent the general public.
traed said:
A large portion of relationships start on the internet these days.

Exactly, that's the problem I'm trying to pinpoint
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Dec 29, 2023 2:44 PM
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If you've ever seen a girl's tiktok, she's not interested in you, she just wants you to click follow. Chad and Tyrone have never seen her tiktok in their lives, they don't know her "icks" or astrology sign, but they smash it on the regular.
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Social media are not dating sites. Many people just want to kill time there having fun and maintain the contacts they already have. They want to be entertained and not looking for partners. Social media are a showcase where you sell yourself, you expose all the most beautiful things in your life and the best aspects of your personality. It is a deception, a lure. People end up being attracted to all this and not the reality that covers you, when knowing each other deepens and goes beyond all the bad things emerge and the relationship is destined to end or at least encounter problems because it was based on illusions and expectations. If you are a superficial person you don't care of having deep relations and you like a reality of mirrors and acting, go ahead, otherwise it's not a good idea. Finding someone being true on social media showing even the bad and the darkest sides of himself/herself is pretty rare. You may be mature and knowing and understanding all of this still willing to go for it accepting and facing all the negative aspects but will the other part also do the same?
Dec 30, 2023 1:26 AM

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I think you're a bit too old for tiktok girls. Maybe try instagram or facebook if you're into gilfs.
Dec 30, 2023 8:07 AM
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well then you just go to tiktok and start tiktoking and tiktok a tiktok girl, maybe share a tictac or play tictactoe. Just get to toking and you'll get a tiktok girl on tictok :^)
Dec 30, 2023 8:44 AM

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well then you just go to tiktok and start tiktoking and tiktok a tiktok girl, maybe share a tictac or play tictactoe. Just get to toking and you'll get a tiktok girl on tictok :^)
Don't forget to listen together to Tic Tac Toe with "Spiegel" (lyrics with translations) to be best prepared of what potential issues you might be encountering, though not as extreme as those examples in the song
Dec 30, 2023 8:57 AM
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well then you just go to tiktok and start tiktoking and tiktok a tiktok girl, maybe share a tictac or play tictactoe. Just get to toking and you'll get a tiktok girl on tictok :^)
Don't forget to listen together to Tic Tac Toe with "Spiegel" (lyrics with translations) to be best prepared of what potential issues you might be encountering, though not as extreme as those examples in the song
@Noboru Sure! Maybe even exchange some X and Os too!
Dec 30, 2023 9:27 AM

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@Noboru Sure! Maybe even exchange some X and Os too!
@My-T That sounds like some awesome tactic XO Just be aware of tics when you tickle the fancy of a TikTok gurl
Dec 30, 2023 9:30 AM
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@My-T That sounds like some awesome tactic XO Just be aware of tics when you tickle the fancy of a TikTok gurl
@Noboru hehhe maybe i should post this on tiktok
Dec 30, 2023 10:10 AM
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See that's the thing, you don't. You really don't want to pick up ANYONE on TikTok, it is like the sewers of social media.



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Dec 30, 2023 10:15 AM
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Just virtue signal about {current thing} and give the standard Tiktok-brain zoomer response.
Dec 30, 2023 10:15 AM
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afaik tiktok is full of teenagers and kids and majority of the world is disgusted by pedophilia unless youre young yourself but if youre old then try instagram or even facebook instead
Dec 30, 2023 10:39 AM

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@Noboru hehhe maybe i should post this on tiktok
@My-T lol, I can see your future child already asking you how you and their mother met. You: "it all started from a thread on MAL. I've got the inspiration to do a TikTok where I stitched a video with a girl from TikTok to share some tictacs while playing tic tac toe and listening to Tic Tac Toe. She tickled my fancy and before long, we started exchanging some X and Os and one thing led to the other"
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Dating websites are the current reality if you can land a gf. If you get 0 matches it likely means it's over.
To answer your question
-be tall
-have pretty boy face
-don't be fat
rohan121 said:
Dating websites are the current reality if you can land a gf. If you get 0 matches it likely means it's over.
To answer your question
-be tall
-have pretty boy face
-don't be fat


Owari da...

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If you want to get a gf, why would you use TikTok? Use a dating app or (better) go outside and meet people. Someone will come
Dec 30, 2023 4:44 PM

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its over its fucking over never began
done gone over
Dec 30, 2023 4:59 PM

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Finding love in tiktok is the same as searching for a pretzel in a haunted house.

Dec 30, 2023 7:33 PM
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@My-T lol, I can see your future child already asking you how you and their mother met. You: "it all started from a thread on MAL. I've got the inspiration to do a TikTok where I stitched a video with a girl from TikTok to share some tictacs while playing tic tac toe and listening to Tic Tac Toe. She tickled my fancy and before long, we started exchanging some X and Os and one thing led to the other"
@Noboru hehe It would be very unreal if i get a girlfriend on mal or tiktok. Not that i am searching for a gf on either. I am just using the lists, toking and goofing around :^)
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Why would you want someone with the maturity and intellect of a lobotomized toddler as a partner? Find a woman you actually respect instead of settling for the closest dog turd.
@Kamikaze_404 lmao, 10/10 comment
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well a couple of acquitances of mine found love on tiktok ive trie tinder and other apps but there isnt my type of women there and my preference are vietnamese women since im vietnamese myself, introverted, around my age, shares my love for anime
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people so antisocial nowadays... we only meet on social media and stuff

gl anyway, and I hope you find a soulmate and you live happily together ever after
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I would recommend dating sites instead of general social media like tiktok
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that is a complete waste of time, better to find a few waifus, and enjoy your time with them. they are cute with no attitude, unless you are into that sort of thing.
@AnimeFreak-San In another era you would've argued in favour of marrying chicken because women dislike your body odour.
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go get her with you "rizz" or something
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Don't. That's my advice. Literally the most shallow place on the internet, even more so than Instagram.
Take care of yourself

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Do not search girls on the internet. People lie about their age. Especially teen girls, who always lie about their age online. You don't want to go to jail, and meeting Tyrone.

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