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Aug 11, 2017 2:38 PM
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like you walked in on them having sex with someone else

what would you do

or for single people, if you had a gf/bf and experienced this, what would u do?

edit: god damn most of you are soft, i only see three comments about threatening them with physical violence
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Aug 11, 2017 2:54 PM
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murder suicide

also
you're on a site with a bunch of single virgins
not many people are gonna have girlfriends or boyfriends
Aug 11, 2017 2:59 PM
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usually i just plot revenge then get over it 2 weeks later



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Aug 11, 2017 3:23 PM
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dump her and message someone else ;) pretty easy and simple stuff... no need to kys or beat her up that's just stupid lmao



Aug 11, 2017 3:24 PM
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If you get cheated on, you do your research better next time.
Aug 11, 2017 3:35 PM
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Cut all my connections to him. I don't want to associate myself to some lowly, filthy, maggot like him anymore.

Disgusting.


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Just don't make mistakes when lives are at stake."
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Aug 11, 2017 4:09 PM
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oh you know the deal


get it? DUMP him? No? Ok
Aug 11, 2017 6:05 PM
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Been cheated on before. Not something I would like to experience ever again. Infidelity is one thing I would never forgive. Physical and emotional cheating are the biggest deal breakers.

If it happened now, I'd be gone without hesitation.
Aug 11, 2017 6:50 PM
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Break up for sure ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ

Aug 11, 2017 6:59 PM

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i would feel stupid for not seeing signs in the first place
Aug 11, 2017 7:16 PM

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"I'm not angry, I'm just disappointed"
chill out
Aug 11, 2017 7:24 PM

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Break up with him of course, duh. Ain't nobody got time for cheaters.



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Aug 11, 2017 7:31 PM

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Rule #1: Don't get attached to anyone. Then you don't get hurt. :)
Rule #2: Never break rule #1.

To answer the question I'd probably be deeply hurt and cry right after I cut them out of my life.





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Aug 11, 2017 7:31 PM

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break up

what else? filling up space bc my answer is good enouhg
Aug 11, 2017 7:40 PM

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Surprised no one's said "join in" yet. What has happened to CD shitposting
Aug 11, 2017 7:43 PM

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NTR!!!!!!!!!
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Aug 11, 2017 7:54 PM

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Give me a few minutes, this won't take long.

Aug 11, 2017 8:12 PM

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Be shocked and suprised. End up breaking up with them. Don't care what they have to say, there's no alibis to be said and no forgiveness to be given. Especially if you hit the hay with them...

Clearly didn't care about me and my feelings... so hasta la vista. I'm after true love and clearly you can't provide that.

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Aug 11, 2017 8:20 PM

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It depends on the exact situation. If I like her enough and if she's sorry about it I'd just talk with her about it but id still feel really hurt. If I feel betrayed enough I'd probably just... idk what id do.
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Aug 11, 2017 8:21 PM

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just broke up right away like I don't care bout her/he anymore
Aug 11, 2017 9:20 PM

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Hard to say what I would do in that moment. Knowing myself, I'd probably just walk away and ignore my partner for a few days.

That being said, you never know how you might react in a high pressure situation and in the heat of the moment.


Ideally, I would want to talk to her and find out why she cheated, how long it has been going on, and try to see if we can work it out. Chances are, she found herself in a vulnerable moment and the temptation was too much to resist. I can see myself being a position to forgive it if the reasons are good enough.

It may be difficult to trust her ever again in the same way, but I won't immediately break up. Cheating is bad, I'm not trying to excuse it, but it's not just black and white, people don't cheat for no reason. Sometimes they are weak, sometimes they're frustrated, and sometimes it may be the other person's fault for putting in such a vulnerable state where they feel like they could use someone else's love.


Of course, for men, I don't know. The reasons why men cheat may be different and I feel as though men might be more susceptible to just sexual weakness and temptation.


Aug 11, 2017 9:31 PM

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And what would you do if you're the one that plays with a committed person?
Aug 11, 2017 10:01 PM

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See, here's the thing about me is that you only get once chance with me, if you mess up there is no second chances. So if I found my lover cheating, I would just walk away from the scene and cut off all of my connections. I don't care how many months/years we were dating, if you cheat there is no second chances. There is no such thing as "I didn't have a choice" when it comes to cheating, everyone has a choice its just that you didn't choose the right one. And I take this subject seriously, since I was once in a relationship with someone for three years and they decide to go to someone's else arms, so I'm like fine then. Yes I felt sad, very sad b/c three years of effort went towards nothing. But I believe that he lost a lot more things than I did and I was grateful to have my bestie with me to comfort me and within two weeks i got over it. And then irony happened and he broke up with girlfriend and tried to come back to me but I rejected him plain out, and from that moment on we were strangers.
Aug 11, 2017 10:26 PM
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I would break up with them in an instant.
Aug 11, 2017 10:42 PM

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Tsukihiko said:
And what would you do if you're the one that plays with a committed person?

i'm not that type of person, i only need one girl for gratification :)

penis lol
Aug 11, 2017 10:44 PM

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Well, double homicide comes to mind firstly. Depends on if I am pissed enough to consider a 20-25 year stretch in the slammer. Three meals a day and free health care to boot.

Barring that?

Use it as insider knowledge to drain her financially? Convince her to get a some loans or something. You would be surprised what you can talk people into as long as you keep up the facade of normalcy. Obviously you are just a clueless fool who doesn't know any better right? :3 Then find every woman she loathes and use that money to wine and dine them on exotic vacations at her expense. Make videos. Thank you ex for the wonderful life experiences. Control you emotions because revenge is a dish best served cold.

Or.

Just walk away if you aren't in the mood or above getting your hands dirty. Your call, life is short.
Aug 11, 2017 10:47 PM

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I'd just end the relationship. Sleeping around is fine normally but if you're in a relationship you gotta commit.
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Aug 11, 2017 11:49 PM

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desperation said:
Tsukihiko said:
And what would you do if you're the one that plays with a committed person?

i'm not that type of person, i only need one girl for gratification :)


Not this way, i meant to say " what if you're doing things with a person that's already commited"
Aug 11, 2017 11:58 PM
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Break up. They are unloyal so why stay with them?
Aug 11, 2017 11:58 PM

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Tsukihiko said:
desperation said:

i'm not that type of person, i only need one girl for gratification :)


Not this way, i meant to say " what if you're doing things with a person that's already commited"

oh

i'd be just as pissed as if it was a cheating scenario

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Aug 12, 2017 12:22 AM

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i'd bring a hose in and prank them good
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Aug 12, 2017 9:33 AM

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Break up and be sad for a good while, then I'd get over it eventually and just move on with my life. If a person does that to you, then they don't deserve any more of your attention, trying to screw them over in return doesn't help much in the grand scheme of things. Luckily my past relationships have never had this problem arise though (to my knowledge anywho).
Aug 12, 2017 9:37 AM

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Be upset, Find out with who and why.

Also when. because seriously we are around each other 24/7.

If partner male: invite for watching.

If partner female: Ask if she bisexual, if she think I am cute. (my husband and I share similar taste in women)


Mostly saying that last bit because we have talked about having a threesome for a while. He could say "interviewing people". Eh. Good for him. Would be mad he went ahead without me but screening people was probably for my safety. :P *trusts partner a lot*
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Aug 12, 2017 9:40 AM

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lols aw man we all got cheated on??? damn

Aug 12, 2017 9:43 AM
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Girlfriends are pointless my waifu is all I need
Aug 12, 2017 9:44 AM

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Yuichiro said:
Break up. They are unloyal so why stay with them?


I guess because I have had my husband cheat before, I can tell you from experience:

Because you love them. Because they were actually sorry. Because they confessed right away and didn't hide it from you. Because you have had a years long relationship that was at that moment in a lot of turmoil mostly because of you and your negligence as a partner.

There are a lot of reasons for cheating. Most of the time, it is a symptom of a bigger issue. To me, it depends on what that issue is. If it is even something that could be helped. Sure, I make jokes about it because I have been cheated on. And I even left.... but to be honest, I came back in the end now didn't I? And 8 years now. It is a pretty long time. And I think most people on this site couldn't imagine a relationship going on that long. And if there was cheating eh. whatever. I think I could handle cheating more than an actual affair you know?

Truth is, I know what I would do. Mostly cry. communicate better. Work it out. I couldn't imagine giving up on my husband unless he has actually given up on me.

(Also, my husband has really been there for me. saving me from suicide. cleaning my vomit. caring for me through and through. He forgives me for a lot of bad things I have done too. I forgive him too. It goes both ways trust me. Most people actually think he is the better partner. XD)
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Aug 12, 2017 10:24 AM

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If I had a bf, and if he had cheated on me with another man, threesome bro.
Aug 12, 2017 11:17 AM

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This is why sex friends are better...

Fuck this gf/bf bullshit.

Let's be honest....we just want to fuck.

And sometimes we want to fuck other people.

Problem solved.

Plus....fuck dating man!

Seriously, fuck that shit!!!

@Women, the only reason us guys put up with that shit is because we want to get laid, that's it, it's a waste of time and money.
Aug 12, 2017 2:16 PM

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Break up with them immediately and cut off all contact. Maybe cut up their clothes or throw some of their stuff around but I might get into legal troubles so just replay those scenarios in my head when I'm making my way home.
Aug 12, 2017 2:52 PM
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Just end the relationship and end contact. There is nothing you can do about it, just move on.
Aug 12, 2017 3:03 PM
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Luckily, my long-distance gf said she would never cheat on me (but I'll text her today just to make sure).




Aug 12, 2017 3:04 PM

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Get another one. Probably re-evaluate my taste in women if for some reason I was into girls who'd cheat on me.

Other than that who cares.
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Aug 12, 2017 3:06 PM

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1. be really angry
2. kick him out of the house
3. break up
4. cry and eat a lot of ice cream until satisfied
5. hate him and hope to never seen him again
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Aug 12, 2017 4:16 PM
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Rule #1: Don't get attached to anyone. Then you don't get hurt. :)
Rule #2: Never break rule #1.

To answer the question I'd probably be deeply hurt and cry right after I cut them out of my life.


Even though I'm a big advocate of that "life policy", I guess it's quite hard to live like that untill you die (if you live a long life I mean")
Aug 12, 2017 4:56 PM

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i wouldnt mind since we'd be in an open relationship. Just gotta make sure she's not getting STDs.
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Aug 12, 2017 8:33 PM

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It happened to me on my last relationship and I guess when you really like the person, the logical part of your brain just stops... at least for me.

I was young and stupid so I gave him a lot of chances thinking he'd change. Sadly, it just worsened. Thankfully, I used the depression and resentment I had to improve and finish my studies in college.


I was nothing until the moment I met you.

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iLya said:
I used the depression and resentment I had to improve and finish my studies in college.

hey um... how?
send help ha
how do you even bother to study depressed
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I would probably just go on living my life.
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Ikaros_42oh said:
iLya said:
I used the depression and resentment I had to improve and finish my studies in college.

hey um... how?
send help ha
how do you even bother to study depressed


It was a longg struggle before I was able to recover, not alone but with the help of my family and two of my closest friends. That was the time I decided to change my course to avoid him. It wasn't easy since the I had to retake some of my major subjects.

Just avoid the person at all cost and block them immediately from your social media accounts. You will gradually recover whether you like it or not~ treat them as a lesson to learn not just a bad memory.


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Visit one of her friends for some fucking.
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