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Aug 2, 2017 2:30 PM
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I was just watching a video that gave me the idea to ask a few questions.
Do your parents know that you are watching hentai, yaoi, yuri? This question is just for the ones that watch those genres. Or read them if they are manga and not anime.
For the crazy fujoshi and fudanshi, do your parents know you watch and read yaoi? Do they know about your yaoi shipping? Do they know what you are hiding on your phone/laptop/PC/whatever? I mean photos and gifs, don't get me wrong hahaha. Just to know, I am a fudanshi too, so no hate towards me on the yaoi topic please.
How many parents know what they children do on the internet?
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Aug 2, 2017 2:36 PM
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My mother knows everything about what I watch and read, and it doesn't bother her at all. She also watches Anime, but she doesn't watch Hentai.

Lol, there was a time about a couple of weeks ago, where I changed my mom's desktop background to a picture of a naked bishounen with a hard-on, but she didn't like it for some reason, and changed it. Oh well.

Aug 2, 2017 2:38 PM
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My parents probably know I watch hentai since I'm not smooth at all.

"CatSoul, what have you been doing in the bathroom for the past hour?"
"Oh, uh...showered, fixed my hair, took a dump..."
"Why was there some Japanese bitch moaning 'onii-chan'?"
"..."
"No, son, you may not have your body pillow at the dinner table!"
Aug 2, 2017 2:39 PM
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I don't think so, and I really don't want them to know that I am watching 2D characters having sex.
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Aug 2, 2017 2:39 PM
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Seiya said:
My mother knows everything about what I watch and read, and it doesn't bother her at all. She also watches Anime, but she doesn't watch Hentai.

Lol, there was a time about a couple of weeks ago, where I changed my mom's desktop background to a picture of a naked bishounen with a hard-on, but she didn't like it for some reason, and changed it. Oh well.


Lucky you, my mom doesn't know about me being a fudanshi, but I'm lucky I have a sister fujoshi. My parents don't even know those terms or what they mean, but whatever hahaha.
Aug 2, 2017 2:41 PM
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CatSoul said:
My parents probably know I watch hentai since I'm not smooth at all.

"CatSoul, what have you been doing in the bathroom for the past hour?"
"Oh, uh...showered, fixed my hair, took a dump..."
"Why was there some Japanese bitch moaning 'onii-chan'?"
"..."


O.o What? You are watching hentai in the bathroom? Hahahaha.
Aug 2, 2017 2:41 PM
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If you ever go up to one of your parents and tell them "Hey mom/dad, I'm watching this great show. Tentacles spring up from the ground and just rape this girl" You should take yourself out from the gene pool right now.
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Aug 2, 2017 2:43 PM
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I used to buy a lot of yaoi manga back when I was a fujoshi and I was never hiding it, I was just casually putting it on my shelf. Still not sure if my parents ever found out.
Aug 2, 2017 2:44 PM
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Yeah my mother knows I watch hentai and porn. I'm too old to keep secrets like that.
Aug 2, 2017 2:46 PM

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I'm pretty sure everyone watches porn. Not gonna sit my mom down and tell her in depth my enjoyment of exhibitionism and lesbian porn.


Why? because I have enough common sense to know that's gonna be an awkward conversation that doesn't need to be had. There is only one person you should, keyword, should not have to, share your sexual preferences with. That's your partner.

So no, i'm not gonna walk to my family yelling I love yuri or some dumb shit like that.


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Aug 2, 2017 2:48 PM

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Keeping your sexuality a secret from your parents is a waste of time, they've been there and done that, nobody is without kinks so it would be rather hypocritical if your parents lashed out at you for yours, no matter how much they try to hide theirs.

That being said my parents have no idea what I fap to, no more than they know what games I play or what music I listen to, it's just not relevant information to share with them.
Aug 2, 2017 2:49 PM

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Probably. When I was a teenager I've had conversations along the lines of:

"Yeah I'm on the computer"
"What are you doing on there?"
"Do you really wanna know?"
"Not really"
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Ellert0 said:
Keeping your sexuality a secret from your parents is a waste of time, they've been there and done that, nobody is without kinks so it would be rather hypocritical if your parents lashed out at you for yours, no matter how much they try to hide theirs.

That being said my parents have no idea what I fap to, no more than they know what games I play or what music I listen to, it's just not relevant information to share with them.


there's a difference between keeping it a secret and realizing it would be an awkward conversation and thus avoiding it.

There's a difference between coming out and telling your family you wank to drawings of japanese school girls fingering each other.


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Aug 2, 2017 2:54 PM

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Prettty sure they know I watch porn, joked about porn with my dad regularly enough.

And yeah usually people avoid the topic because its awkward to randomly mention for both parties.
Aug 2, 2017 2:55 PM

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Prettty sure they know I watch porn, joked about porn with my dad regularly enough.

And yeah usually people avoid the topic because its awkward to randomly mention for both parties.


looool

dads. they are pretty great. They like are bros that are old and have shitty jokes


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Aug 2, 2017 2:56 PM

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i cant take this thread seriously bc you keep saying " does they know" when it's supposed to say do they know.

sry

but no my parents would flip a shit if they found out i've watched hentai lol
Aug 2, 2017 2:56 PM

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TheRandom said:
Ellert0 said:
Keeping your sexuality a secret from your parents is a waste of time, they've been there and done that, nobody is without kinks so it would be rather hypocritical if your parents lashed out at you for yours, no matter how much they try to hide theirs.

That being said my parents have no idea what I fap to, no more than they know what games I play or what music I listen to, it's just not relevant information to share with them.


there's a difference between keeping it a secret and realizing it would be an awkward conversation and thus avoiding it.

There's a difference between coming out and telling your family you wank to drawings of japanese school girls fingering each other.


Yes, I don't see how I ever suggested anyone should come out and go share their fetishes with their parents. I'm simply saying that in most cases you are never going to talk about it precisely because it's not a relevant topic that is ever really going to come up in normal conversation but if you were asked it would be pointless to lie about it out of some sort of shame because your parents are not going to be on any higher level than you are.

In fact looking at this thread you've already first hand without any prodding shared some of your fetishes while I have not. :P But that is only because I haven't been asked so I've felt no need to share.
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Ellert0 said:
TheRandom said:


there's a difference between keeping it a secret and realizing it would be an awkward conversation and thus avoiding it.

There's a difference between coming out and telling your family you wank to drawings of japanese school girls fingering each other.


Yes, I don't see how I ever suggested anyone should come out and go share their fetishes with their parents. I'm simply saying that in most cases you are never going to talk about it precisely because it's not a relevant topic that is ever really going to come up in normal conversation but if you were asked it would be pointless to lie about it out of some sort of shame because your parents are not going to be on any higher level than you are.

In fact looking at this thread you've already first hand without any prodding shared some of your fetishes while I have not. :P But that is only because I haven't been asked so I've felt no need to share.


i was making an example. I like making tangible points to illustrate just how awkward it would be to have said conversation. But yes I agree, the point to avoiding these conversations is because they are not needed and are extremely awkward. I feel like OP would ask his parents how frequently they do it.


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Aug 2, 2017 3:01 PM
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maiko_june said:
i cant take this thread seriously bc you keep saying " does they know" when it's supposed to say do they know.

sry

but no my parents would flip a shit if they found out i've watched hentai lol


I'm not an english native speaker, so I might have some mistakes. I corrected them, thanks for telling me.
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Kuroko-chan said:
maiko_june said:
i cant take this thread seriously bc you keep saying " does they know" when it's supposed to say do they know.

sry

but no my parents would flip a shit if they found out i've watched hentai lol


I'm not an english native speaker, so I might have some mistakes. I corrected them, thanks for telling me.


oh, that makes me feel bad. im sorry. but if i had a second language, i would def want ppl to correct me as well, so i hope it helps some.
Aug 2, 2017 3:18 PM

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YayaChibi said:
Kuroko-chan said:

Do your parents know that you are watching hentai, yaoi, yuri?

My parents know I'm a huge fujoshi, and love yuri, and they are against it lol. But they are fine with finding my gay shipping in my sketch books lol
Hentai, no they don't know lol. It's literally telling your parents you watch porn. anime porn, which is worse to explain.

For the crazy fujoshi and fudanshi, do your parents know you watch and read yaoi? Do they know about your yaoi shipping?

No, they don't lol. Yes they know about my yaoi shippings lol

Do they know what you are hiding on your phone/laptop/PC/whatever? I mean photos and gifs, don't get me wrong hahaha.

Yeh, my mom found a crapton when finding my computer running out of space because of it lol
Just to know, I am a fudanshi too, so no hate towards me on the yaoi topic please.

Yay! Fudanshi's lol!

How many parents know what they children do on the internet?

My mom because fuck, why not she monitors all the internet searches and everything lol
lol but she doesn't know the magic known as incognito mode if anything so lol


lool

you need your own computer fam.


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Aug 2, 2017 3:40 PM

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No, because I don't watch weird shit in the first place lmao
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I don't think they give too much of a fuck about that. Like I think my father knows about the hentai (like no shit everyone who watches anime has seen those things at some point) but idk about the lesbian stuff. I mean I do not feel the need to share my sexual prefs/fetishes. I'm not deleting my history or trying to hide anything, but if someone is interested it will be much easier for him to just ask me.
Aug 2, 2017 3:51 PM

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They know I watch anime but thats it.
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who do you think brought me up with anime in the first place?
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Aug 2, 2017 4:03 PM

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The closest thing regarding anime my mom touched was some random episodes of Natsume Yuujinchou. She liked Nyanko Sensei from what i remember.
Aug 2, 2017 4:06 PM

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my parents do not know lol because it's never been a subject of importance, like yaoi yuri hentai exists but not that significant
Aug 2, 2017 5:03 PM

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No, and If i had children i wouldn't like to know their fetiches or porn preferences
Aug 2, 2017 5:25 PM

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Why would they? I'm 24 years old and live by myself on the opposite side of the planet.
Aug 2, 2017 5:34 PM

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"Do your parents know that you are watching hentai, yaoi, yuri?"

Uh... no. I don't watch yaoi or yuri but regardless, no. My mom doesn't know...

Not exactly something that comes up in conversation and I don't get caught... so...

When I was younger I think I got caught watching regular porn but it wasn't a big fuss. Not sure how different it'd be with hentai. I don't watch that much hentai anymore though. Got kinda bored with it. (Or porn just in general pretty much)

"Do they know what you are hiding on your phone/laptop/PC/whatever? I mean photos and gifs, don't get me wrong hahaha. "

No... and my mom wouldn't know how to find it. So... yeah, I guess. lol
Although the stuff on my phone you need a password, so even if you do find the right area, you can't get in without my password... no way around that. >:]

Either way, not really worried about it. I don't see my mom making a fuss about it. My eldest sister on the other hand... she hates me watching anime and considers it to be porn. I'd rather her not know about actual porn, lol.

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Kuroko-chan said:
I was just watching a video that gave me the idea to ask a few questions.
Do your parents know that you are watching hentai, yaoi, yuri? This question is just for the ones that watch those genres. Or read them if they are manga and not anime.
For the crazy fujoshi and fudanshi, do your parents know you watch and read yaoi? Do they know about your yaoi shipping? Do they know what you are hiding on your phone/laptop/PC/whatever? I mean photos and gifs, don't get me wrong hahaha. Just to know, I am a fudanshi too, so no hate towards me on the yaoi topic please.
How many parents know what they children do on the internet?


Why would my parents know what porn I watch at 24?

So, no.
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Well, I usually talk to all people I know very well about almost everything and so I always have talked to my mother what I already watch, what I like about it, what I ship etc... like to everyone else. I also suddenly said when I was younger: "That actor / actress is hot!" or when I read a manga: "I ship that so much!" and such things. XD
But with more private things ehhh... I don't feel like I have to anybody about the smut I read?
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I can tell interesting stuff about manga during our tea together sometimes, and that includes some facts about the -ai genres too. And considering that they know I read manga extensively, they could connect two and two, but it's not something that would be said aloud by me or them. From time to time thay think that they still have to give out some guidance, so if I am teasing saying "gonna go read some indecent comics" they may say "maybe something else", but I am old enough for the attitude to be hands-off, and I don't read much of hentai, yaoi/yuri and shoujo-ai, shounen-ai manga anyway.
...I say "they", but honestly it's just my father, my only family.

I think that most parents assume their children would watch porn/erotic materials like they did at their time or even still do, but it probably shouldn't come up in conversation in normal circumstances? When it isn't a problem.
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They don't as far as I know. ..

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Aug 5, 2017 11:10 AM

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Hell no my obligatory Hentai/anime/yuri folders are like 10 layers deep so they'd have to like actively search for it as I'm definitely not telling them about it
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Why would anyone tell their parents they watch hentai? I don't care if you tell them you watch anime, but why even mention hentai lol. That's dumb as f. It's not like my parents have to know what I watch when I'm jerking it.
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Pretty sure they have some idea that I watch hentai and read doujinshi but I don't
think they care since I have skimpy anime girls as my wallpapers for everything for all to see
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Why even tell them about stuff like that? Its common sense to avoid topics like that..
Aug 16, 2017 5:33 AM

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Pretty much everything I do my parents knew. Getting drunk, getting high, watching porno. No biggie though! :)
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No, why would they? Who here watches porn with their parents? My parents dont know what hentai, yaoi, and yuri mean even. I dont think they know animated porn is an actual thing.
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Of course not. I don't plan on telling them either. I don't think letting your parents know about the, uh, more interesting things you watch is a good idea anyway
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Hentai: Yes, and they've told me they wish they didn't know.
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They most probably dont know what hentai is so. Same goes for Yaoi and Yuri.
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UNPOPULAR OPINION:

I like anime and manga, but I can't understand how people prefer hentai to porn or even sex.
And I guess all or most of parents know their "kids" watch porn.
Aug 16, 2017 8:28 AM

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No, I just read yaoi tho. But just a few plp know about that and they are all friends.

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My mom knows I used to really like yaoi, and she knows there's sexual content in that, but she never thought much of it. I guess for her, it's not considered like porn or anything of the sort. As for hentai well I have mentioned it in front of her but I don't think she understood that I watch that xd ( cool mum )

My dad would blow up all of my devices if he found out what I watch. fuk.
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I live with my mother only(With sister too) and I'm pretty sure they know I'm watching/reading porn stuff.

Heck, one time when I was watching hentai and my mother saw it, she doesn't really care. She's more interested on real deal stuff, basically if I had sex with someone.


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Nocturn3 said:
UNPOPULAR OPINION:

I like anime and manga, but I can't understand how people prefer hentai to porn or even sex.
And I guess all or most of parents know their "kids" watch porn.


That being an unpopular opinion around here is criminal.
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I don't think they saw me but I guess they assume, and why should they care? It's just hentai. Everyone's got a fetish.
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