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Sep 18, 2014 6:41 PM
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Way back in the days, when I was early teenager (about 12-15 years), I watched quite a few animes that could be classified as harem, simply because this was before the days anime being over the internet, bit torrent, and just general popularity in america.

Such as Lova Hina, Tenchi Muyo, Maburaho, Mahoromatic, etc.

However as I got older and my taste more refined, I simply lost interests in these animes and can't really understand why I liked them in the first place (besides Tenchi Muyo maybe).

What is the appeal to these kind of shows? Without exception, the MC is ALWAYS some wimp who is either "eww get your hands off me" to a bunch of hot chicks who are tripping over themselves to bob on his knob, or who can't decide who/what he wants and chooses to be with no one, or is just a complete wimp and runs off scared when the girl starts to unbutton her bra.

It's just really dumb to watch, and I spend each episode annoyed at the MC. Not fun to watch at all.
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Sep 18, 2014 6:46 PM
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You are as guilty as those who you are trying to condemn. Your taste for anime did not "refine" but only have gotten wider. At some point in your life you have liked harem animes, then you should know full well the feeling of liking the genre.
Sep 18, 2014 6:47 PM
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I seriously don't understand why people watch things that doesn't appeal to them or complain about them instead of just avoiding them.
Sep 18, 2014 6:48 PM
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Yup, just avoid em like me. I can see the appeal for people like harems. Maybe it turns them on. Maybe they like imagining girls are all over them. Maybe some other reason. Who knows. All I know is that I don't enjoy them nor the idea of them, so I typically steer clear of them.
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You are as guilty as those who you are trying to condemn. Your taste for anime did not "refine" but only have gotten wider. At some point in your life you have liked harem animes, then you should know full well the feeling of liking the genre.


No, there are people that long ago enjoyed harem and still enjoy it.

I enjoyed it for a brief period (a few years) out of my total anime career (20 years or so).

So again, I don't understand, maybe besides being new to anime or general immaturity how people can continue to watch that genre.
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Because every guy would wants hoards of sexy slutty girls around them
Sep 18, 2014 6:50 PM
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Praland said:
I seriously don't understand why people watch things that doesn't appeal to them or complain about them instead of just avoiding them.


I do avoid them... but this is anime discussion forum, maybe someone can enlighten me on the appeal?
Sep 18, 2014 6:50 PM
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Well, in the case of some, like Boku wa Tomodachi ga Sukunai or GJ-bu, they can be really great comedies where the harem aspect is secondary.

I can agree that the majority of harem shows have little redeeming value however.
Sep 18, 2014 6:50 PM
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Why do some people on MAL keep watching shit they dont like instead of dropping? lol
Sep 18, 2014 6:51 PM

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Praland said:
I seriously don't understand why people watch things that doesn't appeal to them or complain about them instead of just avoiding them.
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and then feel the need to boast about it like they are better than the people who do like them.

MrOtakuSan said:

What is the appeal to these kind of shows? Without exception, the MC is ALWAYS some wimp who is either "eww get your hands off me" to a bunch of hot chicks who are tripping over themselves to bob on his knob, or who can't decide who/what he wants and chooses to be with no one, or is just a complete wimp and runs off scared when the girl starts to unbutton her bra.

It's just really dumb to watch, and I spend each episode annoyed at the MC. Not fun to watch at all.
Then you're watching the wrong harems lol.
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Sep 18, 2014 6:52 PM
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dperolio said:
Yup, just avoid em like me. I can see the appeal for people like harems. Maybe it turns them on. Maybe they like imagining girls are all over them. Maybe some other reason. Who knows. All I know is that I don't enjoy them nor the idea of them, so I typically steer clear of them.


I can definitely understand the appeal of H-Harem... but regular Harem? Who wants to see a 16 year old guy scream "ew cooties get away!!" to 10 different hot chicks with small waists and huge racks chasing him for 24 episodes straight?
Sep 18, 2014 6:55 PM

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I mostly watch otome, but it suffers the same problems with flat/whiny/doormat MCs except surrounded by hot guys. There are a couple exceptions though.
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Sep 18, 2014 6:56 PM

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You are as guilty as those who you are trying to condemn. Your taste for anime did not "refine" but only have gotten wider. At some point in your life you have liked harem animes, then you should know full well the feeling of liking the genre.
No, there are people that long ago enjoyed harem and still enjoy it.
I enjoyed it for a brief period (a few years) out of my total anime career (20 years or so).
So again, I don't understand, maybe besides being new to anime or general immaturity how people can continue to watch that genre.
You have to realize that to each his own. Yes you might find it immature, but in the end of the day, people does not care whether you find them immature or not, they will simply continue watching it because it entertains them. Perhaps some people didn't bother watching animes with different genre or perhaps they just find harem anime suitable for their taste. Not all people are as "mature" as you say you are and then you have to know that anime is made mostly for entertainment. Your only choice is to stay away from it and don't bitch about it either just because people have different taste. Makes you look like a whiny beta bitch.
Sep 18, 2014 6:57 PM

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You answered your own question people like harem because they are still 12-15 years old or there tastes haven't changed.
Sep 18, 2014 7:00 PM

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More choice between romantic interests, fanservice, what else?
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Nisekoi wasn't so bad for a while and it's definitely a harem. It's been getting milked for 100+ chapters and tbh I think I've figured out exactly what they're going to do with the story. It wasn't amazing or great though and had a bit of cringe. I think if any harems come along with a funny MC like the one from Clannad or Kanon who isn't a total mess around women it could be pretty great so long as there is witty banter and good dialogue.

I don't think I hate any genre. It just depends on the individual quality of that show. Well, unless there's a genre for "moeblow loli ecchi". That'd be pretty fucking annoying because it would be anti-witty banter and no good dialogue.

As for Nisekoi I think...
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You are as guilty as those who you are trying to condemn. Your taste for anime did not "refine" but only have gotten wider. At some point in your life you have liked harem animes, then you should know full well the feeling of liking the genre.


This^

I cannot watch sports, music (I don't even like when a character randomly starts to sing lol) or shojo anime because my taste is not wide enough, yet I don't mind if others like it. It is all about tastes.
Sep 18, 2014 7:11 PM

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"Harem" is such a broad genre to completely write off. There are plenty of harem shows that are enjoyable and plenty that are not. One harem show can be completely different from another. I don't seek out harem shows, but I don't avoid them either. Right now, I'm really enjoying Rokujouma no Shinryakusha!? It's not breaking any barriers or changing my life, but all the girls are really cute, the MC is likeable, the comedy is good and the interactions between the characters is entertaining. It's as simple as that.
Sep 18, 2014 7:13 PM

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>OP complains about harems
>continues to watch harems.
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Sep 18, 2014 7:17 PM

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>OP complains about harems
>continues to watch harems.


Maybe they watch them to try and critically analyze them to figure out why people like them...that's totally it.
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I cannot watch sports

You can always ask us forum lurkers for recommendations. There are plenty of sports series that are gateaways into the genre, like Kuroko no Basuke (battle shounen fans), One Outs (fans of thriller and mindtwists like Deah Note/CG) and Cross Game (fans of feels anime like Clannad)
Sep 18, 2014 7:25 PM

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Praland said:
I seriously don't understand why people watch things that doesn't appeal to them or complain about them instead of just avoiding them.

Because it's everywhere and it's being shit out like diarrhea.
Sep 18, 2014 7:30 PM

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Because harems aren't meant to be rational coming of age stories and serve as harmless fun.

But I'd say if you're in it for the girls, cute girls doing cute things is superior. Most harem shows would be worth an easy bonus point without any guys.
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mayukachan said:
LegnaOnFire said:
I cannot watch sports

You can always ask us forum lurkers for recommendations. There are plenty of sports series that are gateaways into the genre, like Kuroko no Basuke (battle shounen fans), One Outs (fans of thriller and mindtwists like Deah Note/CG) and Cross Game (fans of feels anime like Clannad)


in what way are you possibly a lurker?

Also, Harem anime is meant to be funny.

If you think anime only exists to validate your inner desires to be an edgy super genius then harem isnt for you.
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_Ultima_ said:
>OP complains about harems
>continues to watch harems.


I disagree. Needs meme form

Sep 18, 2014 8:36 PM

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in what way are you possibly a lurker?

Iunno, I've been using MAL (and its forums) every day since I joined two years ago.
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Sep 18, 2014 8:48 PM

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I seriously do'nt understand the point of this thread
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Just watch TLR Darkness, you'll immediately see the appeal.
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I watch it when my CB1/CB2 receptors are overstimulated.
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Sep 19, 2014 4:46 PM
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It's obvious what the appeal is:

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Why continue watching something you clearly do not like? That is the peak of stupidity, young man.
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ara ara.
Aren't you a cute, OP?

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i like harem hentai because... well, its hentai
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Sep 19, 2014 6:15 PM

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I hate certain harems, but I also like some. I think you should to separate styles, because I think you're putting his amorous failures over a non-existent universe.
Sep 19, 2014 6:21 PM

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Because people like to imagine themselves being able to get chicks.
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Sep 19, 2014 6:23 PM

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I like Harem Time.
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Sep 19, 2014 6:26 PM

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BlueXRam said:
Because people like to imagine themselves being able to get chicks.


With little to no effort and for no apparent reason.
Sep 19, 2014 6:26 PM

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type-beta said:
To be fair, that's not a harem and Himawari is best girl.
Sep 19, 2014 6:36 PM

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i think a guy on youtube said it best.

"FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY"
Sep 19, 2014 8:01 PM

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I just find harem animes extremely hilarious (since they're often used in the comedic genre). Maga Tsuki, Tsuki Tsuki, TWGOK, Maken-Ki are all extremely funny despite being the cancer known as harem.

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SolviteSekai said:
i think a guy on youtube said it best.

"FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY"


but its harem so u mean ?

"FUCK THEM RIGHT IN THE PUSSIES"
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HAREM IS GREAT IF THEY HAVE NICE ASSES

OTHERWISE WHATS THE POINT


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SolviteSekai said:
i think a guy on youtube said it best.

"FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY"

If only they did that.
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FloatsBoats said:
SolviteSekai said:
i think a guy on youtube said it best.

"FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY"

If only they did that.


cause school days was awesome right?

why dont people on mal realize you dont have to fuck someone to love them
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MrOtakuSan said:
Way back in the days, when I was early teenager (about 12-15 years), I watched quite a few animes that could be classified as harem, simply because this was before the days anime being over the internet, bit torrent, and just general popularity in america.

Such as Lova Hina, Tenchi Muyo, Maburaho, Mahoromatic, etc.

However as I got older and my taste more refined, I simply lost interests in these animes and can't really understand why I liked them in the first place (besides Tenchi Muyo maybe).

What is the appeal to these kind of shows? Without exception, the MC is ALWAYS some wimp who is either "eww get your hands off me" to a bunch of hot chicks who are tripping over themselves to bob on his knob, or who can't decide who/what he wants and chooses to be with no one, or is just a complete wimp and runs off scared when the girl starts to unbutton her bra.

It's just really dumb to watch, and I spend each episode annoyed at the MC. Not fun to watch at all.

Sounds like your Man Card was revoked. I prescribe red meat, beer, and internet porn to recover from low T, then you should try reapplying.
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Great, you're better than most anime fans. Basically wish fulfillment for thirsty nerds who never got past the first step with no merit otherwise. Very rare to find some actually self-aware, funny ones, or ones that actually take their characters seriously instead of simply making a beta surrounded by deres
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Daily remind that KyoAni redemption animu to the male audience is coming out this season with KYOANI sexualized female MCs.
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Daily remind that KyoAni redemption animu to the male audience is coming out this season with KYOANI sexualized female MCs.
Namely: Dem Thighs Brilliant Park.


you sound pretty upset about it.

you know, all you people who rage about cute girls in anime make it obvious that you are over compensating and trying to sound mature.

its disgusting.
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