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Nov 9, 2017 10:37 PM

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Just to make things interesting, let's double down on the dere, and use the list of TRUE followers of the moe.



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Nov 9, 2017 11:13 PM
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(|=====3 its a dick and i like tsundere because they ussually cute and hide their shy deep down... ;)
Nov 9, 2017 11:24 PM
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all of the above except for the more hardcore yandere(i'd be ok with a little softcore psychobitch like ako from netoge lol) and a kuudere... i don't really get along well with people who take themselves too seriously .
Nov 10, 2017 7:26 AM
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As a kurumi fan boy u know my awnser no think to ad.

Nov 11, 2017 7:02 PM

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Individual personality and identity is vastly more important than how someone fits into a 'type', to me, and it weirds me out a little how the anime community has this whole 'fetishizatioion of archetypes' thing going on.

I guess if I absolutely HAD to pick, I'd go with a Kuudere. Dating a hyper-stoic person presents a sort of fun challenge; what kind of outrageous thing will have I to do or say to actually get a reaction out of them? It's pretty fun, really. Plus, I'd probably do well with someone emotionally stable enough to balance out my spazziness.
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Nov 11, 2017 7:39 PM

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if we're talking long-term relationships, then regardless of gender, the only type i can really see myself with is a dandere.

personally, i'd have Big Issues with a hime/oujidere, yandere, tsundere, or sadodere (all for probably obvious reasons); the deredere's affection might feel kinda smothering after a point and i'd feel guilty that i couldn't respond to the same degree as them, but on the flipside, the kuudere's attitude would probably lead to misunderstandings and miscommunications - they're probably most likely the sort of s/o that you eventually just drift away from n you end up breaking up without actually saying anything. not to say that it wouldn't be the same with the dandere re: issues, but at least with them you'd have better luck sorting things out and you Know that they care about you.
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Nov 11, 2017 9:07 PM

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Deredere cause you can easily get along with them
Nov 11, 2017 9:13 PM

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I don't know who I'd date, but I just realized I'm technically a "kuudere" irl. I guess I'd date the deredere because polar opposites and shit.





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Nov 13, 2017 2:44 AM

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I would definitely date a male Tsundere.


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Nov 13, 2017 7:38 AM
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Tsundere, himedere and deredere..
Nov 23, 2018 1:14 PM
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Tsundere and Deredere males are the best.
Nov 23, 2018 1:17 PM

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Kuudere, could also be a dandere.....

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Nov 23, 2018 1:21 PM
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I don't wanna get killed or tortured by some Yandere or slapped by some tsundere for being jealous for nothing so the best way is to choose Kuudere!
Nov 23, 2018 1:42 PM

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The problem with these stereo-types is that they're way overdone in anime, taken to extremes that would be intolerable in a real life setting. Taking very mild versions, I'd probably settle for a deredere or a dandere. Maybe even a mild tsundere, if the tsun part was kept to just playful teasing (more as in a role-play thing rather than being really mean).
Nov 23, 2018 2:50 PM
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Literally any of them but a yandere. I haven't any desire to be stabbed or accidentally get someone else stabbed. And with Sadodere... Like I'm all for sadists, but only if it was lowkey or kept strictly in the bedroom.

Other than that though, hell yeah. Gimme all them dere types.
Nov 23, 2018 3:29 PM

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Milennin said:
The problem with these stereo-types is that they're way overdone in anime, taken to extremes that would be intolerable in a real life setting. Taking very mild versions, I'd probably settle for a deredere or a dandere. Maybe even a mild tsundere, if the tsun part was kept to just playful teasing (more as in a role-play thing rather than being really mean).

It's not that they are just overdone.

Many Deres don't add other unique/interesting traits to their Characters.
Why do they not add more things like PTSD, Selfishness and etc to these Characters?

Danderes are the best for a long long relationship because Shy ppl tend to be Loyal towards/appreciative off their friends and Lover. They do not Betray the Trust.
Dec 2, 2018 5:33 PM
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I would date a dandere girl, they're just too sweet.
May 20, 2020 8:25 AM
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Dandere because you can spot the emotional cues easily when they like you, but you need to be aware if you do something to hurt them because usually quite passive so you may have to observe to figure out the problem. I'm more jealous (kuudere) so a deredere is quite annoying to me. kamidere's are interesting too because they've a fragile breakeven point that can be easy to exploit if you pay attention, I just like to humour their 'tsundere' side (as I believe the archetypes overlap to a certain degree).
Jun 13, 2020 11:52 PM
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I have no idea, I think what I like is too different from any of the “main categories” I see. Can I have help?
Jun 13, 2020 11:53 PM
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I don’t know what kind I like cause every one I see is different from what I like, can I have some help?
Jun 14, 2020 12:11 AM
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Deredere. Deredere deredere deredere deredere deredere deredere I will not choose anything else this is the only type that I can and will. Amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing!!

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Jun 14, 2020 12:39 AM

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Even tho I hate Tsundere girls with a burning passion, I would choose a Tsundere guy! I guess because its interesting to see them act like that.
Jun 14, 2020 12:46 AM
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Nothing better than a kuudere guy - other deres simply don't stand a chance XDXD
Jun 14, 2020 12:48 AM

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Tbh I'd date any type although Yandere seems to be a bit scary
If I had to choose then probably Dandere
Jun 14, 2020 12:50 AM

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A yandere, I don't like being kicked whenever or I want my girl to have an actual personality. A yandere would be pretty fun until it kills you.
Jun 14, 2020 1:10 AM

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I would date a yandere female (Mikasa Ackerman). Or a male (shotakon).

Mikasa contrary to popular opinion is not a kuudere. Her jealousy reveals her true personality. Even I wouldn't date a girl that picks between killing me because she loves me, or staying glued to me and smothering me mentally.

As for my second choice. I am conflicted, since I am attracted to both sadodere and kuudere shotakon boys. So my two choices to date would be:

Hanako-kun (Jibaku Shounen Hanako-kun)
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Jun 14, 2020 8:23 AM

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Out of the types listed here certainly Himedere. I also like Danderes, Kuuderes and Sadoderes (as long as it's not going too far that is). I also like cuteness so Deredere is nice too.







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Jun 14, 2020 9:03 AM

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Deredere > every other dere-type
Period
Jun 14, 2020 9:21 AM

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Yandere. it's all doki doki and daisuke until someone slits your throat and laughs at you while losing a lot of blood.


Jun 14, 2020 9:37 AM
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I guess a deredere would be most suitable for me. They would be easier for me to talk to since they're upbeat and affectionate to those they're close to. Their also pretty assertive when their attracted to someone they like. Tsunderes would be a little hard for me to talk to since they take a little while to warm up to people.
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Since I am a bit on the masochistic side, I will choose a sadodere girl. But if her sadism is at an extreme level, then I would have to pass. (Looks like it's an unpopular choice, huh?)
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Jun 14, 2020 10:07 AM

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Definitely a deredere. They're the ones who are the easiest to get along with.
Jun 14, 2020 6:40 PM
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The one I’d like the most is a DereDere, but in reality all of these deres would be way too awkward if used in an extreme in real life.
Jun 14, 2020 7:09 PM

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I'd probably go with the Kuudere, I have a thing for emotionless or stoic women. Though, I'm not picky and would be okay with any of them except for the Sadodere or the Yandere.
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Definitely dandere. Danderes are the epitome of cuteness and that's all that needs to be said.
Jun 24, 2020 1:37 PM

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Deredere OBVIOUSLY, she's gotta be one of the nicest characters in an anime I have ever known LOL
Jun 24, 2020 2:00 PM

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I would date any female Kuudere or deredere all fucking day. I just love those type of characters so much.

Yandere is basically the same as saying your life is on the edge so no.

Tsundere..ain't that big of a fan tbh.

Himedere ain't my thingy since i kinda hate the 'iam from a royal family so yall better respect me' attitude.

Dandere...Honestly these are the best ones to date. But i have seen enough hentai about them so my point of view about them is kinda messed up.

Sadodere would just piss me off.

Jun 24, 2020 4:31 PM

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I dont know really, I imagine that all of these would be as annoying as fuck in real life... I just want to date a normal person I would think. None of this dere shit please
Jun 24, 2020 4:37 PM

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Deredere for the sake of being straight-forward, but I can work with yandere because I'm monogamous.

Jun 24, 2020 4:39 PM
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Assertiveness is more attractive to me than most traits, so himedere over dandere seems almost like a non-question in my eyes. I'm not against dandere to the point where I can't/don't like them, per se, but the lack of forthrightness and general stammery-ness isn't a personality I could stand for too long unless there were some sort of specific circumstances leading to me appreciating it with that specific one, which is why dandere don't tend to be the ones I'm the most fond of. Himedere could be obnoxious with the arrogance and high-and-mightyness, but at least they'd be less falling all over themselves and more able to stand proud and tall, which in a general sense would make a Himedere seem like the superior choice for me.

I think that having a spine > soft and gentle, basically. That's something I tend to appreciate across the board, not just with females, and himedere are infinitely more likely to have that than dandere.

Why the fuck did I strike through the whole post?

Also, Deredere is the answer I'd go with today.

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An himedere, Teasedere, bakadere,bocchandere and Kanedere. A set of these, I love these 'dere types. 😍
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