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Mar 19, 2021 11:46 AM
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Keep seeing people deleted my comments mid conversation and or after and I just wanted to see if other people do it and if you do why


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Mar 19, 2021 12:26 PM
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I never delete my comments. People delete mine like wtf. Bitch dont comment on my page lol.
Mar 19, 2021 1:08 PM
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Only if it's spoilers or weird spam.


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Mar 19, 2021 1:33 PM
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same as ^only if they're spam or jokes from strangers.

I don't even delete insult comments.

But I really hate when others delete the comments I both write to them and they write to me, and I have no trouble in letting them know that bothers me.
Mar 19, 2021 1:35 PM
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No I keep all of mine up. I don't reply to all the comments I get though, even though I don't get many in the first place lol
Mar 19, 2021 1:41 PM
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Only bots who spam stupid jojo or attack on titan shit.
Mar 19, 2021 1:43 PM
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MsNewWonder said:
Only bots who spam stupid jojo or attack on titan shit.

Yup same with me. I only delete them when it is a picture of like a list of who dies in animes or stuff like that
Mar 19, 2021 8:12 PM
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The only comments that I delete are spoiler comments from spambots, I don't delete any comments other than that.

And same, I saw some users who deleted my comments on their profile. I don't know the reason why.
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Mar 19, 2021 8:39 PM
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Only if it's a spoiler bot. I don't delete them otherwise




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Mar 20, 2021 12:16 AM

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As some have mentioned, I only delete comments if there is a spoiler bot. Though I reserve the right to delete comments if they are similar obnoxious

Stephen_MK said:
I don't delete comments, but some people delete theirs, and mine. Like wtf??? If you were going to delete it anyway, why bother writing it in the first place??? And why also delete mine???
There are lots of people on MAL with mental issues and/or who can't control themselves or who are very insecure even when they give themselves as confident and positive people. The best thing was how someone created a new account under the exact same name
Or how supposedly much more successful people still don't seem to feel happy with their lives and end up deleting because they want to hide the past
In any case, it's best to not get too invested in the comments and in the people. I used to write up to 5+ pages with hours writing on a single comment a day, but it's not really worth

AmityBlight said:
I never delete my comments. People delete mine like wtf. Bitch dont comment on my page lol.
Some may want to hide their link from your page or your link from theirs. Could be insecurity
Mar 20, 2021 9:46 AM

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I deleted very old comments from ppl who used to be friends with me.
And of cause from bots and spam acc!
Mar 20, 2021 9:50 AM
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Only for spoiler bots. Cause they're mad annoying.
Mar 20, 2021 2:01 PM

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KazumaNagato said:
And same, I saw some users who deleted my comments on their profile. I don't know the reason why.
Did they reply to your comments? Also, did you ask them?
They might reply something like how they would generally delete comments to mark them as answered, but the real reason is most-likely that they wish to delete the link to your profile from their comments, possibly, because they do not want others to read their profile conversation with you

Ichigo-BunBun said:
I deleted very old comments from ppl who used to be friends with me.
To hide the past?
Mar 20, 2021 2:13 PM

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I stopped deleting spoiler bots because they started spamming hard afterwards and the comments were eventually getting deleted, but normal profile comments I couldn't care less about, after all it's just MAL.
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Mar 20, 2021 5:41 PM
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Noboru said:


AmityBlight said:
I never delete my comments. People delete mine like wtf. Bitch dont comment on my page lol.
Some may want to hide their link from your page or your link from theirs. Could be insecurity


It's stupid either way. Anime site no one knows your name why does it matter?
Mar 20, 2021 5:45 PM

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I didn't come across comments that I should delete yet.
Except for the spoilers which means I can't scroll down to profile comments or delete any
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Mar 20, 2021 7:40 PM

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Noboru said:
Did they reply to your comments? Also, did you ask them?
I did reply to their comments. I want to know the reason, but I also don't want to ask.
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Mar 21, 2021 3:13 AM

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AmityBlight said:
It's stupid either way. Anime site no one knows your name why does it matter?
Actually, you can get to know the name of others if you get really close. Some are even married with other users here. But I agree that it's stupid. I think, they might want to protect the reputation of their online persona

KazumaNagato said:
Noboru said:
Did they reply to your comments? Also, did you ask them?
I did reply to their comments. I want to know the reason, but I also don't want to ask.
I've asked if they responded, not if you responded xD
Because, it's a major difference if they at least continue to respond back or if you seem to nag them by continuing to respond to them when they haven't responded back, yet
Mar 21, 2021 3:24 AM

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Noboru said:

KazumaNagato said:
I did reply to their comments. I want to know the reason, but I also don't want to ask.
I've asked if they responded, not if you responded xD
Because, it's a major difference if they at least continue to respond back or if you seem to nag them by continuing to respond to them when they haven't responded back, yet
Oops sorry lol, I was quite in a hurry while reading it. And yeah, they did.
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Mar 21, 2021 3:41 AM

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Only if they post spoilers that I didn't even ask for.

And assholes.
Mar 21, 2021 5:32 AM

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Ichigo-BunBun said:
I deleted very old comments from ppl who used to be friends with me.
To hide the past?[/quote]

Kinda and don't be reminded of these persons anymore. I got used a lot from my friends, either as a emotional trash can or as a wallet on legs. So its kinda more a self protection to get ride of every trace from them in my life.
Mar 21, 2021 5:59 AM

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One time there was spoiler bot commented on my profile on Attack on titans. I don't care about AOT, I just don't want people to get spoiled for my own will.
Mar 21, 2021 6:07 AM

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only if they are spammy or has some type of spoilers that could affect other friends.
Mar 21, 2021 6:28 AM
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Here? I don't delete comments here. There's no time for that in my life.

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Mar 21, 2021 9:49 AM

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KazumaNagato said:
Oops sorry lol, I was quite in a hurry while reading it. And yeah, they did.
Don't sweat it, you can take your time ^^
And that's fine that they at least respond back
But if you really want to know the reason, you can ask, otherwise, you can only guess. Which requires observation and experience

Ichigo-BunBun said:
Kinda and don't be reminded of these persons anymore. I got used a lot from my friends, either as a emotional trash can or as a wallet on legs. So its kinda more a self protection to get ride of every trace from them in my life.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I see why you want to not have anything to do with them any longer, even when I still find it an extreme measure to delete the conversation.
This sounds like a clearly one-sided relationship, something that I do not wish to get into again as well.
With "emotional trash can" you mean that they come to you with their problems, but are never there for you or even outright deny you the option to vent to them, in turn?
Mar 21, 2021 10:30 AM

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Noboru said:

Ichigo-BunBun said:
Kinda and don't be reminded of these persons anymore. I got used a lot from my friends, either as a emotional trash can or as a wallet on legs. So its kinda more a self protection to get ride of every trace from them in my life.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I see why you want to not have anything to do with them any longer, even when I still find it an extreme measure to delete the conversation.
This sounds like a clearly one-sided relationship, something that I do not wish to get into again as well.
With "emotional trash can" you mean that they come to you with their problems, but are never there for you or even outright deny you the option to vent to them, in turn?


It's my way to find peace. I know it sounds childish to erase them out of my life, but it's the only way I can find peace myself. Or at least I thought so.
Indeed I was always someone they turned to when they have problems or wanted to cry their heart out. If I needed someone I was hitting a wall or got stupid comments. At the moment I stop every connversation with toxic ppl in my life. It's better to breath when you know the only people in your life really try to like and support you the way you are and not use you for their personal advantage. I just lost another friendship last year and gosh I really spend a lot of money for her. I was just plain stupid back then but now I know better and I don't want to get used again like this.
Mar 21, 2021 10:48 AM

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I wouldn't delete a comment unless it was spam.
Mar 21, 2021 6:27 PM

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Ichigo-BunBun said:
It's my way to find peace. I know it sounds childish to erase them out of my life, but it's the only way I can find peace myself. Or at least I thought so.
Indeed I was always someone they turned to when they have problems or wanted to cry their heart out. If I needed someone I was hitting a wall or got stupid comments. At the moment I stop every connversation with toxic ppl in my life. It's better to breath when you know the only people in your life really try to like and support you the way you are and not use you for their personal advantage. I just lost another friendship last year and gosh I really spend a lot of money for her. I was just plain stupid back then but now I know better and I don't want to get used again like this.

If you thought so, does it mean you have found a better way to deal with such things?

I agree that it's better to have mutual and healthy relationships with others. But there may be more options than to outright cutting people off. Like detaching yourself emotionally, rather than getting emotionally attached. And keeping conversation on a limited, but polite note if possible. And focusing your precious time on the people you enjoy being with and/or the things you like to do.

It feels bad to get used, but at least, you have learned your lesson. Never get emotionally invested unless there is someone who at least gives you the impression that they would actually care about you.
Mar 21, 2021 6:29 PM

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I delete tweets on Twitter sometimes it depends.
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Mar 22, 2021 2:54 AM
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I feel like I've been tested since posting here. Now folks are posting spoilers on my profile page. :C I think they're the spoiler bots people mentioned.

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Mar 22, 2021 2:57 AM

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yeah at the end of conversations usually
no reason to keep them

also fuck essay convos, as a side note

Mar 22, 2021 4:26 AM

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I only delete spam and bots, not like I get any comments tho xd

Mar 22, 2021 4:28 AM
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There aren't any on my page, lol, except for some weird asshole shitposting spoilers. These are to be deleted, sure.
Mar 22, 2021 4:54 AM
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if they are spam i delete them obviously
Mar 22, 2021 4:59 AM
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I used to do that when I was 12 and I took this place with a very toxic point of view, I don't do it anymore because it's rude and I'd rather treasure the conversations I have with other people

ofc I delete the bots ones but that's an exception
Mar 22, 2021 8:17 AM
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i do not delete my comments. though, people have deleted mine in the past, don't know why. if i was a nuisance then tell me lol.
Mar 22, 2021 8:20 AM

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Only comments I bothered deleting were incomprehensible spam

Feels kinda rude to erase a conversation that's why, hm








Mar 22, 2021 11:54 AM

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Rarely. I delete if it's someone self-promoing themselves or trying to get me to draw/give them something (but that isn't a huge problem on MAL so I don't think i've deleted any here)

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Mar 22, 2021 11:58 AM
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I only delete bot-spam comments or comments that don't make any sense / other spam.

Otherwise, if there are comments from MAL users, I leave them be. I always try to keep in touch with those who wish to message and converse.
Mar 22, 2021 12:09 PM

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I have deleted botted comments and comments that come off as rude.
Mar 23, 2021 9:04 AM

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I delete only spam messages from bots.
Mar 23, 2021 9:29 AM

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Never deleted them but someone deleted them.
Mar 23, 2021 3:56 PM

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Bloomberry said:
I have deleted botted comments and comments that come off as rude.
how the fuck do u have 15k forum posts and u joined in 2020


Mar 27, 2021 10:16 PM

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Never deleted any comments yet tbh.
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Mar 27, 2021 10:52 PM

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I'm usually a huge disappointment to anything I comment on so people delete mine but I won't delete others...
Mar 28, 2021 1:50 AM

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I only delete bot comments, they're spoilers
Mar 28, 2021 3:06 AM

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Only did 2 times when people posted spoiler pics
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Mar 28, 2021 12:39 PM

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I only delete comments that have trolls and insults.

I can't deal with that kind of bullshit.

Mar 28, 2021 10:41 PM

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I deleted about 100 comments on my previous account and all of my blog posts. I overshared a bit too much family stuff.

I haven't had any spoiler bots come my way as yet. Here's hoping it stays that way.
Mar 29, 2021 2:03 PM

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No? what's the point of doing that, I only delete comments if it's some weird shit or a bot spam


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