| For the sake of continuing your blood line? Because it's the "norm" of what defines a complete life? Any preference to gender? If no, why? too much work? Personally for me, |
| Yes, because my lover wants them. But I personally did not want any. |
  WORK IN PROGRESS ~The frog leapt forth to my lilypad memory.~ I was indoctrinated by an inamorata rabbit, Adenomata affronted. It was the verecund, dismissed creatures That I jubilated in most. This rabbit I would nurture, At the aiguille of esse, The anneal of noblesse. ❤️ Birdie ❤️ |
YaoiMaster said: Yes, because my lover wants them. But I personally did not want any. rofl, that's kinda fucked up considering you have to bear the pain of child birth. |
jesteri said: Hm? No, I do not. I mean, due to certain circumstances. And there is always adoption. YaoiMaster said: Yes, because my lover wants them. But I personally did not want any. rofl, that's kinda fucked up considering you have to bear the pain of child birth. |
WORK IN PROGRESS ~The frog leapt forth to my lilypad memory.~ I was indoctrinated by an inamorata rabbit, Adenomata affronted. It was the verecund, dismissed creatures That I jubilated in most. This rabbit I would nurture, At the aiguille of esse, The anneal of noblesse. ❤️ Birdie ❤️ |
YaoiMaster said: Hm? No, I do not. I mean, due to certain circumstances. And there is always adoption. Ahhh, forgot about that. Still nonetheless is a big thing to take in, the time, the stress, zzz |
jesteri said: You're right, I find it overwhelming. But at least it will not be anytime soon. YaoiMaster said: Hm? No, I do not. I mean, due to certain circumstances. And there is always adoption. Ahhh, forgot about that. Still nonetheless is a big thing to take in, the time, the stress, zzz |
WORK IN PROGRESS ~The frog leapt forth to my lilypad memory.~ I was indoctrinated by an inamorata rabbit, Adenomata affronted. It was the verecund, dismissed creatures That I jubilated in most. This rabbit I would nurture, At the aiguille of esse, The anneal of noblesse. ❤️ Birdie ❤️ |
| Never... I feel like there are a lot of people in today's society that feel that both partners in a relationship can have dream careers and raise kids at the same time. That's not how it works. I don't want them because I am to impatient and am more suited for the career life then the house life. |
| Nope, because it's a big responsibility and I don't think I have the capacity to handle it. Maybe I would have if I grew up to be more mature, but I don't think I'll change much from what I am now. |
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| Hell no those littleturds suck the life put of you Waste of time and space Grow up to be a waste of investment and disappointment and drag u down |
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| Not really because not only are kids expensive and hard to deal with, I’ll probably be a terrible parent and name them cheeseburger and accidentally leave my baby on the roof |
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| i see it as a logical conclusion to a lot of my problems in life. and i think i'd make an amazing dad. |
 Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places But we're trash, you and me We're the litter on the breeze We're the lovers on the streets Just trash, me and you It's in everything we do It's in everything we do |
| I will never want kids, ever. They're annoying, and they have short attention spans. I would never want such as burdensome responsibility. I pity those who have children. |
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| Yes, I plan to have a child soon after my husband and I both start working full-time jobs. I planned to have two in the past, but now I think I would rather have one so we can do more for them financially. |
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| if i get lucky enough to have financial security then why not but i only prefer 1 child |
| Not really.. Seems like too much of a hassle :p |
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| I've never wanted children. Whenever it was brought up, I was always told "you'll change your mind when you're older" ... well I'm old now, and I still don't want any. I can't even stand babysitting. I'm not mean or rude to children I meet though, and if someone wants kids or has kids that's on them. I do me, you do you boo boo. |
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| i think so... my current bf does want kids in the future, but deep down i dont want them. if i don't have kids it's just going to suck when i'm really old that there will be no one to take care or look after me or my husband |
   ｡⋆｡˚☽˚｡⋆｡ from the days that i've lived those i had spent with you, seemed real 月光 |
Pewpewnathieboo said: I've never wanted children. Whenever it was brought up, I was always told "you'll change your mind when you're older" ... well I'm old now, and I still don't want any. Basically this for me too. I prefer to focus on my career and enjoy my own personal free time instead of accepting extra responsibility. |
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| My boyfriend and I joke about having mini me’s. Realistically... no. I don’t have the patience and I’d rather spend my money traveling. |
| I'm not planning to have kids, they really annoy me and I think I'd be a bad mother, but I can't exclude the possibility of meeting "the right person". |
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| No, the reason ? I dont want them to watch 999th season of their favorite battle shounen. |
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| 3 kids would be a good number, but I don't plan to have them for at least another 5 years. |
| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
| I'm afraid that decision is not for me to make unless I would adopt someone. But I won't do that. |
| Yes. I just want to. Not too much, 1-2 are enough. I don't like babysitting, but i kinda exicted to develop them and just see how they grow. |
| While I'm really not a fan of children, I guess I would be fine with two kids of both genders at most. But still I think it's too early for me to think about that tbh and I guess my future SO (if I find one) will also be an important factor of my final decision. |
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| I would definitely want to have kids in the future. Probably 1 girl and 1 boy. I'm currently trying to develop a good career before I even start to think about kids though. Being financially stable is the most important thing in my life right now. |
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| No i don't. I don't see myself as the mother type and i'm not the type of person who finds babies and kids cute. I could always have a change of heart in the future though. |
| Nope, never saw any good reason to have 'em. Whilst I love my niece to death, I know myself to know that I won't have the patience for raising a kid. I'll definitely make a great husband, but I don't feel I'm cut out to be a dad. I don't like the fact society has such a natalist attitude. 'Cause no one so far has given me a single non-selfish reason that justifies having a child. But it's always amusing when someone questions my decision or tries to guilt trip me. "What if you meet someone who wants to have kids?". That's why you meet someone who also doesn't want to have kids |
| Not at all, but things change, idk.,.,. |
| Not sure honestly but if I get married probably |
| yes, i want to make an ideal world by passing ideal to our kids... just like what the older generation did to the younger one... to us... looooool |
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| first of all I'd have to find a partner before making such a decision... yeah... ... uhmmm... ... ... yikes |
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| i believe the idea of children and the unexplainable love for your own children is beautiful, and is something i think about a lot. i also would love to see my children bond with their siblings as i have with my own. but then reality sets in and i am reminded of how utterly and annoyingly rebellious my sister is for absolutely no good reason and imagine that as being my own child and i cut the daydreaming short. so you could say in so many words, my sister is literally preventing me actually going through my idea and having real children. |
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| I'm in my mid 20s already, and even now, I can't imagine myself raising a child. I like spending time with my nephew and young cousins, but having a child be 100% reliant on me? I don't know. I might change my mind in the future if I meet the right woman. |
YaoiMaster said: jesteri said: You're right, I find it overwhelming. But at least it will not be anytime soon. Ahhh, forgot about that. Still nonetheless is a big thing to take in, the time, the stress, zzz -ding dong ditches a baby on your front door- |
| I want multiple kids in the future I practically raise my sister and sure it can be draining but it's very rewarding I'm all for adoption too |
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| mmmm... not really. i'm not fond of the idea. i mean i don't think i have enough patience to raise a child. plus, i don't even know if i will have enough money + time + maturity in the future (because hell no i'm not having a kid right now). |
 Ｓｗｅｅｔ♥I guess, as long as I have life, all I can do is fight with all my might. |
| I am open to it. However, it does not depend on what I want now but much rather about what will happen within the next 20-30 years at most. People can change their opinion on getting children multiple times. It wouldn't surprise me at all if at least some of those, answering that they would absolutely not want any children at all, would end up living happily with their children or those, not wanting to bring more people in the world to have biological children. Don't have a biological preference, because it wouldn't change anything about it being an exciting notion by itself to have offspring from yourself and the one you love. |
| Nope. They are a waste of money, time, and lead to you stressing tf out because they don't want to listen to you just because. |
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jesteri said: WOW .... cant wait for those things to grow up into retards or killers...... just so promisinges. I am inspired by the manga "The Promised Neverland" and how the mother is absolutely flawless. She raises her kids in a way that never impacts their psyche negatively, always encouraging and loving, maintaining a strong front, never allowing a bad side to show, maximizing human potential. Curious to see how it will play out in real life. |
KuroudoAkabane said: jesteri said: WOW .... cant wait for those things to grow up into retards or killers...... just so promisinges. I am inspired by the manga "The Promised Neverland" and how the mother is absolutely flawless. She raises her kids in a way that never impacts their psyche negatively, always encouraging and loving, maintaining a strong front, never allowing a bad side to show, maximizing human potential. Curious to see how it will play out in real life. i know right! honestly I have never seen any very strict controlled experiments of "the perfect environment for human growth" (probably because they can't control for how peers from school and such will hit them). Mostly every animal on the planet, when their babies are first born, they can walk and do a lot of stuff relatively quickly, like sensing when they're in danger, sticking with the group etc. BUT humans, anything less than 5 can't really do anything for itself. 5 year old dogs in comparison are already pretty damn huge. It is very perplexing that their minds are so fragile and dependent on an outside source, and for so long. I'm still scared for life about when my parents tore up my macaroni art. also will address the question of "natural born genius" vs "genius born from environment" in an interesting way, though it's hard to find natural born geniuses to compare to. |
jesteri said: just buy big house and compartmentalize it, 1 room for 1 kid, and make sure to have many inbred babies with yer sis/momKuroudoAkabane said: WOW .... cant wait for those things to grow up into retards or killers...... just so promising i know right! honestly I have never seen any very strict controlled experiments of "the perfect environment for human growth" (probably because they can't control for how peers from school and such will hit them). Mostly every animal on the planet, when their babies are first born, they can walk and do a lot of stuff relatively quickly, like sensing when they're in danger, sticking with the group etc. BUT humans, anything less than 5 can't really do anything for itself. 5 year old dogs in comparison are already pretty damn huge. It is very perplexing that their minds are so fragile and dependent on an outside source, and for so long. I'm still scared for life about when my parents tore up my macaroni art. also will address the question of "natural born genius" vs "genius born from environment" in an interesting way, though it's hard to find natural born geniuses to compare to. then you can experiment raising one kid each in 1 unique way cheers |
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