| seeing as females often prefer older guys, and males prefer younger girls, would it be safe to assume that a younger female will have higher dating success than say older females, and an older male will have higher dating success than a younger male? basically, do preferences of ages of the genders lead to an advantage of being more likely to attract someone or attract a bigger pool of people? |
| Attractive people have an advantage Wealthy people have an advantage Famous people have an advantage Talented people have a advantage Smart people have an advantage Charming people have an advantage Seductive people have an advantage Fun people have an advantage Funny people have an advantage Considerate people have an advantage Socially skilled people have an advantage Does not have to do with age as much as other things. |
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| There are so many other reasons besides age (as per mentioned earlier by traed) I think it doesn't really matter. Also as stated above, that's quite a bit of generalisation stating that most younger women prefer older men and vice versa. |
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| Another point that hasn't been made yet is that "older" amd "younger" are both subjective. To a sixteen year old girl, the majority of men are "older", but she's most likely to be dating in the 15-19 age pool. To a 25 year old woman, the 19 year old males in the aforementioned age group are "younger", but that's largely irrelevant because her peers and the most eligible males are probably gonna be around 23-30. To a 78 year old man, both of those young women are practically children in comparison. (And all of this completely ignores the existence of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, and so forth, all of whom have the potential to be dating someone of the same sex and are even less likely to give a crap about whether their partner is older or younger.) |
| Yes older guys ( 40's) would have an advantage over young guys ( guys in their 20's) because they are more likely to be financially better off, stable and I guess more mature which women crave. Young women (women in their 20's) have an advantage over older women (women in their late 30's and women in their 40's) because they are more fertile, don't have wrinkles , cellulite etc. |
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DrGeroCreation said: Yes older guys ( 40's) would have an advantage over young guys ( guys in their 20's) because they are more likely to be financially better off, stable and I guess more mature which women crave. Young women (women in their 20's) have an advantage over older women (women in their late 30's and women in their 40's) because they are more fertile, don't have wrinkles , cellulite etc. Sounds like some redpill bullshit to me. |
Quoyan said: Nope that's reality. This guy presented the reasons already.DrGeroCreation said: Yes older guys ( 40's) would have an advantage over young guys ( guys in their 20's) because they are more likely to be financially better off, stable and I guess more mature which women crave. Young women (women in their 20's) have an advantage over older women (women in their late 30's and women in their 40's) because they are more fertile, don't have wrinkles , cellulite etc. Sounds like some redpill bullshit to me. Kalley said: Men like women who are younger and healthier because they are more likely to produce fertile offspring. Women like men who are older, wise and powerful for protection of the offspring. It's a generalization (I actually prefer older women) but gives you an overall idea. |
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DrGeroCreation said: Nope that's reality. This guy presented the reasons already. Kalley said: Men like women who are younger and healthier because they are more likely to produce fertile offspring. Women like men who are older, wise and powerful for protection of the offspring. It's a generalization (I actually prefer older women) but gives you an overall idea. "Reality". No. Human emotions are incredibly complex and can't be boiled down to "hurr durr babies". It can be one of various factors in attraction, but it's by no means the deciding factor. People are a (mostly) intelligent species and are not slaves to our instincts anymore. Which is why I will always dismiss this kind of thinking as "redpill bullshit". |
Quoyan said: Emotions plays a part yes but so do instincts as well when it comes to attraction.DrGeroCreation said: Nope that's reality. This guy presented the reasons already. It's a generalization (I actually prefer older women) but gives you an overall idea. "Reality". No. Human emotions are incredibly complex and can't be boiled down to "hurr durr babies". It can be one of various factors in attraction, but it's by no means the deciding factor. People are a (mostly) intelligent species and are not slaves to our instincts anymore. Which is why I will always dismiss this kind of thinking as "redpill bullshit". |
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| I personally prefer slightly younger men tbh. |
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DrGeroCreation said: Quoyan said: Emotions plays a part yes but so do extincts as well when it comes to attraction."Reality". No. Human emotions are incredibly complex and can't be boiled down to "hurr durr babies". It can be one of various factors in attraction, but it's by no means the deciding factor. People are a (mostly) intelligent species and are not slaves to our instincts anymore. Which is why I will always dismiss this kind of thinking as "redpill bullshit". Did you even read what I wrote? Also, *instincts. Extinct is something entirely different. |
Quoyan said: Yes and typo is obvious. ..................DrGeroCreation said: Emotions plays a part yes but so do extincts as well when it comes to attraction. Did you even read what I wrote? Also, *instincts. Extinct is something entirely different. |
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DrGeroCreation said: Quoyan said: Yes and typo is obvious.Did you even read what I wrote? Also, *instincts. Extinct is something entirely different. Done with the discussion at this point. You had no rebuttal, there's nothing more for me to say. |
Quoyan said: DrGeroCreation said: Emotions plays a part yes but so do extincts as well when it comes to attraction. Did you even read what I wrote? Also, *instincts. Extinct is something entirely different. Nature vs Nurture is a debate that sociologists have had for decades. Whether human behaviors are programmed by DNA, or whether they are programmed by society. my post was a nature argument Kalley said: Men like women who are younger and healthier because they are more likely to produce fertile offspring. Women like men who are older, wise and powerful for protection of the offspring. traed's post was a nurture argument traed said: Attractive people have an advantage Wealthy people have an advantage Famous people have an advantage Talented people have a advantage Smart people have an advantage Charming people have an advantage Seductive people have an advantage Fun people have an advantage Funny people have an advantage Considerate people have an advantage Socially skilled people have an advantage Does not have to do with age as much as other things. The true answer is likely a mix of both. |
Quoyan said: My rebuttal was that instincts also still play a part in attraction but whatever. If you are done you're done.DrGeroCreation said: Yes and typo is obvious. Done with the discussion at this point. You had no rebuttal, there's nothing more for me to say. |
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| traed's post wasn't really a nurture argument. Attractive / talented people isn't necessarily related to nurture. He's just listing anything that's advantageous and suggesting age is a confounding factor, which it probably is. |
Tachii said: traed's post wasn't really a nurture argument. Attractive / talented people isn't necessarily related to nurture. He's just listing anything that's advantageous and suggesting age is a confounding factor, which it probably is. Attractiveness isn't nurture? I'd argue not. Just look at fashion in different cultures across the world!  Also, being talented is more of nurture argument, because being talented awards you with social status and recognition. Trump is much older than his wife Melania. Is Melania Trump attracted to Donald Trump because Trump is a talented man, or because of the success and status he has received for being talented?  Donald Trump's Talent -> Success -> Social Recognition -> Attracts Melania Trump |
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DrGeroCreation said: Quoyan said: My rebuttal was that instincts also still play a part in attraction but whatever. If you are done you're done.Done with the discussion at this point. You had no rebuttal, there's nothing more for me to say. Which is exactly why I said you clearly didn't read my post. Either that, or you didn't comprehend it. |
Kalley said: Keyword: necessarily. Both talent and attractiveness is affected by what you're born with as well as how you're raised.Tachii said: traed's post wasn't really a nurture argument. Attractive / talented people isn't necessarily related to nurture. He's just listing anything that's advantageous and suggesting age is a confounding factor, which it probably is. Attractiveness isn't nurture? I'd argue not. Just look at fashion in different cultures across the world! Also, being talented is more of nurture argument, because being talented awards you with social status and recognition. Trump is much older than his wife Melania. Is Melania Trump attracted to Donald Trump because Trump is a talented man, or because of the success and status he has received for being talented? Donald Trump's Talent -> Success -> Social Recognition -> Attracts Melania Trump |
| I don't know about older guys having an advantage (unless it is strictly financially) but younger women sure do over older ones |
| No one has an advantage. And not everyone sees it as a game. |
traed said: Attractive people have an advantage Wealthy people have an advantage Famous people have an advantage Talented people have a advantage Smart people have an advantage Charming people have an advantage Seductive people have an advantage Fun people have an advantage Funny people have an advantage Considerate people have an advantage Socially skilled people have an advantage Does not have to do with age as much as other things. Age can affect attractiveness, depending on what limits the attractED puts. Some people get really turned on by older guys. Other will find it too creepy. |
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| Yeah, but that's not actually an age issue. A student girl prefers someone who already has some stability. On the other hand, bums can also attract young girls under 20, since they can provide them with alcohol, drugs and a place to hang out. I've seen both happen many times over. |
| For actual relationship material, people are usually attracted to those around their own age group. However as you get older whether you're male or female you will typically have less options as people get taken by others etc (settling down in relationships etc). |
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TheBrainintheJar said: Age can affect attractiveness, depending on what limits the attractED puts. Some people get really turned on by older guys. Other will find it too creepy. What is considered attractive depends on cultural cues, genetic predisposition, and personal preferences. Different people age different than others. A young person can look old and an older person can look young. |
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Tokis86 said: thisFor actual relationship material, people are usually attracted to those around their own age group. However as you get older whether you're male or female you will typically have less options as people get taken by others etc (settling down in relationships etc). and traed said: this Attractive people have an advantage Wealthy people have an advantage Famous people have an advantage Talented people have a advantage Smart people have an advantage Charming people have an advantage Seductive people have an advantage Fun people have an advantage Funny people have an advantage Considerate people have an advantage Socially skilled people have an advantage Does not have to do with age as much as other things. So yeah, once women are in their 20s and beyond, they wouldn't mind dating older people and vice versa with guys. It depends on the person though. I wouldn't go for someone THAT much older personally. |
Mayuka said: Age is just a number, bb. By the way, what's yours?I wouldn't go for someone THAT much older personally. |
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Notaneko said: I'm 19. And I prefer people my own age lolMayuka said: Age is just a number, bb. By the way, what's yours?I wouldn't go for someone THAT much older personally. |
| I would disagree, I think it all comes down to personal preference and the looks of someone as a whole. |
Deserada said: No. That's a pretty brash generalization. Pretty much this. Things aren't so simple as to say x has an advantage or y has an disadvantage. |
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HaXXspetten said: What can I say, lolis and Onii-chans go pretty well together Shotas and Onee-chans not so much though As a older female who likes shotacon, I would have to strongly disagree!  |
Zymf said: My current (and first) girlfriend is 15 and I'm 20. Age doesn't matter much, but I like being the dependable one and her being the one who is dependant... It does if it's illegal.. Plus your motives for dating a girl that young for those reasons sounds unhealthy. When I was that age we knew of a guy that dated a girl that young and we all thought he was super-lame ("He can't get a girlfriend who isn't a kid because all the ones in his own age group know better than to date him!" etc- that sort of thing). You date a girl that young when you're that age and you have issues. |
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Zymf said: My current (and first) girlfriend is 15 and I'm 20. Age doesn't matter much, but I like being the dependable one and her being the one who is dependant... What do her parents think? If I had a 15 year old daughter who was bringing home some creepy 20 year old dude I would lose it. |
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NasalShark said: What do her parents think? If I had a 15 year old daughter who was bringing home some creepy 20 year old dude I would lose it. I agree (I wouldn't be chuffed about the situation if I was her parent either etc). I wonder if this girls parents even know. (No bad blood about the other thread too BTW) |
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Tokis86 said: NasalShark said: What do her parents think? If I had a 15 year old daughter who was bringing home some creepy 20 year old dude I would lose it. I agree (I wouldn't be chuffed about the situation if I was her parent either etc). I wonder if this girls parents even know. (No bad blood about the other thread too BTW) I like how he used himself as an example of how age doesn't matter when in this case it definitely does. 15 is still pretty young. (I go by Vegas rules, what happens in the other thread stays in the other thread) |
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NasalShark said: Tokis86 said: I agree (I wouldn't be chuffed about the situation if I was her parent either etc). I wonder if this girls parents even know. (No bad blood about the other thread too BTW) I like how he used himself as an example of how age doesn't matter when in this case it definitely does. 15 is still pretty young. (I go by Vegas rules, what happens in the other thread stays in the other thread) I'd like to "like" this post but unfortunately there's no like button here so here's a "1+" instead :) . |
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Tokis86 said: I'd like to "like" this post but unfortunately there's no like button here so here's a "1+" instead :) . Thats pretty funny coming from someone who dislikes Facebook. :P |
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| oh holy shit people. traed said: thisAttractive people have an advantage Wealthy people have an advantage Famous people have an advantage Talented people have a advantage Smart people have an advantage Charming people have an advantage Seductive people have an advantage Fun people have an advantage Funny people have an advantage Considerate people have an advantage Socially skilled people have an advantage Does not have to do with age as much as other things. Quoyan said: glad someone said it so i didn't have toDrGeroCreation said: Yes older guys ( 40's) would have an advantage over young guys ( guys in their 20's) because they are more likely to be financially better off, stable and I guess more mature which women crave. Young women (women in their 20's) have an advantage over older women (women in their late 30's and women in their 40's) because they are more fertile, don't have wrinkles , cellulite etc. Sounds like some redpill bullshit to me. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
NasalShark said: Same here. Honestly don't think most would approve of their fifthteen year old daughter dating a twenty year old.If I had a 15 year old daughter who was bringing home some creepy 20 year old dude I would lose it. Fucking help me if I ever have daughter in my life time because I'm gonna be the most annoying parent ever if I do. |
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Zymf said: you're creepy as fuck, what are you even doing with a 15 year old? majorly gross.My current (and first) girlfriend is 15 and I'm 20. Age doesn't matter much, but I like being the dependable one and her being the one who is dependant... "but I like being the dependable one and her being the one who is dependant" just makes everything even creepier, but at least you're honest |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
crestofhonesty said: i wouldn't approve if my 20 year old son (or daughter) dated a 15 year oldNasalShark said: [If I had a 15 year old daughter who was bringing home some creepy 20 year old dude I would lose it. Same here. Honestly don't think most would approve of their fifthteen year old daughter dating a twenty year old. Fucking help me if I ever have daughter in my life time because I'm gonna be the most annoying parent ever if I do. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Tokis86 said: Well.. yea, ok maybe I didn't present my case very well :/ (actually, I should probably have expected this kind of feedback)Zymf said: My current (and first) girlfriend is 15 and I'm 20. Age doesn't matter much, but I like being the dependable one and her being the one who is dependant... It does if it's illegal.. Plus your motives for dating a girl that young for those reasons sounds unhealthy. When I was that age we knew of a guy that dated a girl that young and we all thought he was super-lame ("He can't get a girlfriend who isn't a kid because all the ones in his own age group know better than to date him!" etc- that sort of thing). You date a girl that young when you're that age and you have issues. First of all, we've been together for 4 months and I only just turned 20, so most of the time we have been together we have been 15 and 19 y/old (also, she is very mature of her age) I knew it was a big age difference, that's why I actually turned her down at first (and then i regretted it and invited her on a make-up date). Of course, I love her a lot! Sweet, beautifull and most important all, she is funny. Though, I am still completely head-over-heals with her, I think we both have noticed a few minor problems in our relationship, mostly due to her being very undecisive, slightly insecure and doesn't open up for her personal feelings so easily.. (understandable considering her age). When I made my previous post, I didn't really think it through much, but I still don't think age matters that much, because we still have a healthy relationship. What I meant about the second part is this: - I think one of the reasons I DO NOT have a problem dating a 15 y/old girl is that I actually don't mind being the one who is the most secure/relaxed and who can take her hand when times are tough. NasalShark said: She only lives with her mother and siblings, but they are all totally ok with it. Her family is really sweet and comfy ^^Zymf said: What do her parents think? If I had a 15 year old daughter who was bringing home some creepy 20 year old dude I would lose it.My current (and first) girlfriend is 15 and I'm 20. Age doesn't matter much, but I like being the dependable one and her being the one who is dependant... My family is also ok with it. (I often discuss things about her with my mom) |
ZymfFeb 15, 2016 4:36 PM
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