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Sep 20, 2017 6:25 AM

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someone know where to start read manga after anime?

116 chapter?
Sep 20, 2017 6:45 AM
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so situation at the end, all three love each other and want to protect each other and all be together.
Solution: they all get married and let it be a perpetual 3some, or just never get married like they said in the beginning and have an open relationship with each other...problem solved XD
Sep 20, 2017 6:56 AM

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maaaaaan how am i supposed to rate this anime after this kind of ending x_x and earlier episodes been so good too.
Sep 20, 2017 8:23 AM

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Was expecting an open ending, but this was disappointing. I knew that no girl would win since I'm guessing that in the manga, he hasn't picked which girl yet.

Overall, an okay anime. Okay characters, meh story, good animation, OP and ED. 5/10
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Sep 20, 2017 8:34 AM

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Am i the only one super upset that he gets to fuck two girls while his friend is alone to watch him be happy?
Sep 20, 2017 8:44 AM

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Remind me not to watch any more uncertain-ending-from-a-love-triangle-anime.

So unfulfilling as f.
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Sep 20, 2017 9:52 AM

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Nisaka deserved better than this, in the end he was the only one who was upset T_T
Sep 20, 2017 9:56 AM

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A good ending wouldn't have saved this anyway so I guess it doesn't matter. 5/10
Sep 20, 2017 10:56 AM
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did someone notice ririna said "tsuki ga kirei" which means i love you?
Sep 20, 2017 12:18 PM

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Comparing to Misaki, I like Ririna a lot more from this show especially in these latest episodes including this one. She's selfless and isn't too afraid to speak out her mind.

About time Nejima let his own feelings out...
To be honest, I think he's an unremarkable main male protagonist that holds the show back but from this episode, he did manage to speak out with his mind more. Also compared to the other kisses between him and Ririna, this episode's had more impact imo. The wedding dresses looked pretty on the girls in this finale.

Eh, I think it was a fine show overall. Story needs a bit more work and I got mixed feelings about Nejima's character overall. 6/10.



Same rating, and agreed.
It was a bit of a let down, but I do hope they would continue.
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Sep 20, 2017 12:43 PM
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The first 5 episode has got me hooked that I decided to continue watching. But finishing the last 7 episodes is a bit of a torture for me. Had I known I should have skipped most of the part like the last episode. The anime and manga might have a different storyline due to the manga still in serialization so what I'm going to comment is just on the anime part.

First, the MC, Yukari. Oh God! He was such a weak-willed MC(?) somewhat like his opinions could be easily influenced and that throughout the series he is always going back and forth between the girls. I like that the relationship plot kinda makes it a bit complicated between all of them but when he is so undecided and going back and forth between the two girls it made me feel so uncomfortable that feels like he's cheating on both of them (although both girls know the situation).

Second, the Yukari Law, while it is the main reason as to why there is this whole adaptation but I hope to God no matter how desperate the government is about children and everything they would not use 'science compatibility' to wed all of us off. For singles it might be an efficient method. But for those who are already in love with each other better let them off. I feel uncomfortable in this subject as well as to how everyone seems to be in agreement that the Yukari Law is the best method to wed all of them off. For those who think it's a good result then that's good for them. But what about people like our MCs or that the government people who is watching over Yukari and Ririna? Where do they stand? And is it really that effective? I can't help but think how the 'suggestion' that the government tells to the couple made the couple 'unconsciously think' that they are indeed fit for each other.

I was supposed to have a good night sleep but thanks to this series all I get is headache. Though on the positive side since I still have lots of anime of this season to catch up and should I find them boring/giving me headache I could always just skip right till the end just like what I did for this episode.

6/10
Sep 20, 2017 12:45 PM
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I wanted him to choose Ririna but expected him to chose Misaki... The ending was a punch in the boobs in my opinion
Sep 20, 2017 2:27 PM

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The finale was exceedingly anticlimactic. I was hoping that the season would be wrapped up in a more conclusive manner.
Sep 20, 2017 3:44 PM
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I honestly liked it from the first seven weeks. Then it got pretty dull with all the come and go between Ririna and Misaki. Nejima didn't help because he's a wimp, and I can't take that from an anime MC character anyway.

Disappointed with the end because a threesome ending is what I had realized from episode 10 onwards. I would've hoped a surprise, at least no threesome end. I know I am a salty Misaki / HanaKana fan that just wanted her to win, but that's how it is.

5/10


Felt the same way in the second half. MC can't decide, so he gets a harem ending? He's too lame to get a prize like that.

I've decided this manga's story is written the way it is because the author isn't smart enough to explain it. They created a system of marriage that isn't really practical, but if they tried to make this story halfway serious, they'd be on the hook to explain things like how the government deals with homosexuals, why there isn't a higher incidence of spousal abuse from people stuck in bad matches, how the initial generation (people who actually have some understanding of romance) dealt with the new system, etc.

Honestly I don't know how this system would work without the country functioning as a police state with actual brainwashing. That was even the vibe the show had at times. All these high-schoolers asking what love is... and not in the philosophical searching-their-feelings way, but -- thinking you're in love because of a shared eraser? That sounds like literal "you guys have such low emotional development I don't think you understand this feeling at a dictionary level".

Muuuuuch easier to just go full-derp by only focusing on a shallow love triangle (and pretend that third "wife" doesn't exist in the story now that we've baited the fujoshis enough).

Thank you very much! I'm so glad someone had the same thoughts. It would have been different for both, if they were friends for five years, but he had to introduce himself in the first episode. XD Few seconds later they were like: I want to be with you forever!

The end felt like what they wanted to do for the "horny teenage boy audience". Why are they never really jealous? I thought the whole series long that they behave so... inhuman by behaving too good to each other. But LUCKILY, the girls also love each other - learn the difference between romance and friendship... and learn the difference between love and a child crush over a girl you shared an eraser with! XD It felt so forced and like they made the dream for a horny teenage boy haha.
Poor Nisaka also didn't get a proper end. I think, he just has to deal with it or something? =(

There were also so many open questions and some things just aren't believable. x.x some soft porno in class isn't enough to make two people feeling something for each other. XD Okay, they are meant to like each other by those genetical tests and surveys etc..., but I thought that it's dumb that so many are okay with it and with their new partner.

Tbh I don't know how the manga continues it and deals with these questions ... or with poor Nisaka XD I WANTED to think that this wasn't Fujoshi-bait, but they ignored his problems then, so...

Btw, I'm #teamNisakashouldmovetoanothercountry XD and #teameverybodyshoulddothis.
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Sep 20, 2017 4:30 PM

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Just let all 3 of them marry eachother. Then they'll be a trio. They fucking deserve it.

...and the world needs to be liberated from that utterly irrational arbitrary ruling of only pairs getting together.

Why is polygamy illegal? Religion.
Can polyamory/polygamy work? Sometimes, not always. This is an example of a case it would work, because they all love eachother, even the girls love eachother.

At any rate, i guess it's been a while since we've had a classic open ending love triangle series.
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Sep 20, 2017 4:39 PM

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This anime was a total waste of time, this main is to ....i cant put in words, well honestly i would pick Ririna but thats me, i will give it a 7/10 cuse Ririna and Nisaka are good characters the rest is a let down, oh and that Yajima guy pretty decent too, overall this anime was a letdown,

7/10 .. The End
Sep 20, 2017 5:32 PM

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Great ending, they managed to do the Ririna's part well and the wedding dress scene wasn't bad either, if bit cheesy. The last two episodes were actually probably the best in this series, together with episode 5.

But... there were way too many flaws in this series:
a) open ending (obvious one cause manga is still ongoing but bad thing for anime)
b) bad VA directing / sound editing - this was really the bad one. man, it gets even worse when they forced actors to have high pitched voices and in turn changing character's behavior a lot. The only one who was great was HanaKana I guess, even though it got better in the end. The weird high volume out of place music sometimes still bothers me a lot though.
c) inclusion of some optional tankobon extra chapters was nice but it totally bombed proper story developement as viewers were shown (and spoilered) some things beforehand and didn't have to guess their motives in some scenes (Nisaka's gayness for example).
d) very static animation even though the art was nice. no use of angles or clever camera shots to portray emotions to the point it some scenes were devoid of it. The only exception to this point was great ep11 which was directed by someone really skillful and was very emotional.
e) a lot of skipping and rushingtowards the end. As I said, the last two eps were probably the best but then what was the point of watching this series if there was lack of proper character motivation and some kind of punch line/bottom line and theme for whole the series. Not even predetermined marriages were questioned and the rest was like your ordinary romance story with no real difference.
The lack of final choice is even worse in this case and it would be a lot better if he choose one in the end.
f) rush. some scenes were omitted while others didn't have proper depth. this one is pretty obvious. Shuu is one example of that as her role in this anime was pretty pointless but we didn't even get Nisaka's brother and his wife backstory or some other important even. It wasn't too bad but it wasn't good either.

6/10 (would be five if not for good the last two episodes) The manga is a lot better in comparison with anime so I recommend reading that instead (but yeah, still really naive at times). The only thing that could save this series is proper season 2 sometimes but seeing as the manga is just advertisement for Mangabox app and its tempo is hellish I can't see that happening for another two years or so.
Sep 20, 2017 7:20 PM

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yeah idk about this ending. I know anime is created to sell the manga but this ending was just so half-assed, kinda felt cheesy.

however Ririna getting more development was good.


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Sep 20, 2017 8:11 PM

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WTF?!
Ugh, I had such high hopes for this show, but that ending just crushed them all. Not only was there no resolution as to who will end up with who, but so many things were left unanswered. What were all of Misaki's lies? Why did it seem like Misaki and Nisaka knew each other? Why did they even bother including the fact that Nisaka had feelings for Yukari, just for more drama?
Sep 20, 2017 8:28 PM

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SOOOOO MUUUUUCH KISSIIIIIING... Kind of awkwardly... Must be hard to love two people at the same time.

Anyway, with that, this anime reaches it's conclusion and I'm... kind of disappointed but also happy at the same time. I mean, I love happy endings and all, but... I wanted more drama, I wanted him to have to really pick one of them, and he didn't, he just went with both of them and I feel like thats a very cheap way to end it, but still, I did enjoy it. 6/10.
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Sep 20, 2017 9:26 PM

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Nisaka best bro because he isn't a pos of shit like the rest of the cast.

This was still entertaining to watch because the actual romance was very warm and the drama was tugging. The ending was terrible.

Romance fans will love and hate this.
Sep 20, 2017 10:11 PM
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Maneki-Mew said:

Thank you very much! I'm so glad someone had the same thoughts. It would have been different for both, if they were friends for five years, but he had to introduce himself in the first episode. XD Few seconds later they were like: I want to be with you forever!

Ironically, the yaoi Negima x Nisaka pairing is the most realistic of the show. The two of them had been friends and were much closer than Negima was to either of the girls.

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Just let all 3 of them marry eachother. Then they'll be a trio. They fucking deserve it.

No, dude. This is not White Album 2.
In this case, a threesome ending is not the the one I can support. The MC is too naive. I can almost get behind a yuri Misaki x Ririna thing, but in the end I don't think any of these kids is developed enough in the head to be dating.
Sep 20, 2017 11:32 PM

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I really enjoyed this, it was a wall done romance anime. But this ending is terrible, one of the worst endings i ever seen das far.



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Sep 20, 2017 11:48 PM

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Ririna was a nice girl - selfless, caring, and loving.
...and that's about the only thing I liked about Koi to Uso.

Meh ending to a meh show overall. It had such an interesting premise, but the writing stayed at this very shallow level. It focused on the love triangle, when there were so many other avenues with potential to explore. I remember the show touched on some things when it talked about the red-head girl and that one guy, but it never went further with it. In fact, seemed like that point was dropped altogether. And when it comes to Nisaka, as people in this thread have already pointed out - well, talk about potential being squandered. Why not go into what it's like for a gay man or woman being forced to marry a person of the opposite sex? Explore that. But, nope. Instead, the show continued to focus on the love triangle.

Speaking of which, I still cannot understand for the life of me why the MC has three people in love with him. Dude's a dweeb. And he's annoying. He was mostly indecisive throughout the entire series, and it almost felt like he was playing both girls because of how indecisive he was.

Open endings are frustrating, but considering how many manga adaptations are doomed to this, it's basically par for the course. Quite frankly, that's the least of Koi to Uso's problems.
Sep 20, 2017 11:59 PM

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Never seen a more piece of shit character than this son of a rabbit nejima. 1/10
Sep 21, 2017 12:50 AM

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Not a bad episode, I don't know why everyone is hating it.

Welp, this show could've definitely been a really different romance story, but it seems halfway they decided to play safe and go the cliché and dull route. Not to mention that Nisaka's romance was completely left out unexplored as if it didn't matter at all. 4/10.
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Sep 21, 2017 1:07 AM
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Would have preferred it to have a proper ending but then again this opens up to a possible second season
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Sep 21, 2017 1:08 AM

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Eh, first romance series to not bore me to tears in a while. I liked both of the girls but Yukari was such a passive, annoying excuse of an MC.

6/10
Sep 21, 2017 1:08 AM

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I don't see why all three of them can't be together? They all love each other. Literally Ririna and Misaki love each too so why not?
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Maneki-Mew said:

Thank you very much! I'm so glad someone had the same thoughts. It would have been different for both, if they were friends for five years, but he had to introduce himself in the first episode. XD Few seconds later they were like: I want to be with you forever!

Ironically, the yaoi Negima x Nisaka pairing is the most realistic of the show. The two of them had been friends and were much closer than Negima was to either of the girls.

Thought the same, but when prota isn't bi or gay, he will never see him in that way. And, you see, he isn't able to make decisions anyway. XD
I don't understand why Nisaka didn't get "his own romance" with a side character. Why must three people fall for that guy. ^^" He's kinda okay, but... he is just there. I like the calmer and quirkier MCs especially in romances, but he has not so much personality on his own imo.
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nx6 said:
No, dude. This is not White Album 2.
In this case, a threesome ending is not the the one I can support. The MC is too naive. I can almost get behind a yuri Misaki x Ririna thing, but in the end I don't think any of these kids is developed enough in the head to be dating.

I cannot describe how much i disagree with this. This entire series has been almost completely unprecedented for mature open understanding of relationship and acceptance of partner sharing. The entire time there was not one spout of stupid jealousy or other nonsensical irrational drama. They were all very clear and open with eachother, and were able to tackle the problem very logically and maturely, whilst not neglecting the emotional factors to contend with.

I think you need a few lessons on interpersonal psychology. This is the first romance anime i can recall (and i've seen a hell of a lot) where the triangle could genuinely work as a mutual 3-way polyamory. Any studied into polyamory will always discuss these topic in extent, such as how to make things work, how to help those with higher jealousy reactance to meld in etc, elements of compersion (which was shown a lot here) and so on.
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People are complaining about the train wreck that is Netsuzou Trap, but I honestly don't think Koi to Uso is any better. Especially the ending annoyed the crap out me.
Yukari and Ririna just talked about how they won't be together anymore and right then she suggests to let them practice kissing. My eyes nearly rolled out of my head tbh. Though I'm incredibly biased because I can't stand love triangles.

I was actually thinking Miskai and Ririna would end up having feelings for each other because I got some serious yuri vibes from them, but I would be really surprised if we got another non-hetero character. Speaking of Yuusuke - I'm disappointed nothing came out of his feelings.

All in all I found it really disappointing. I actually had the manga on my PTR list even before the anime started, but after watching the anime I won't touch the manga.

edit: Just read the idea of having it end up as poly relationship. I would honestly be down with that. It might even change my whole opinion of this anime because it would be something really unique.
Sep 21, 2017 7:22 AM

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Yukari: I love them both...
Nisaka: You suck

damn yukari with 2 brides!!!

so possible sequel, when?
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Yukari: I love them both...
Nisaka: You suck
Nisaka is just jelly. Not a comment of moral superiority.
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Sep 21, 2017 8:47 AM

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Grrr. I liked the idea but this ending is just unsatisfying. :(
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Poor Nisaka. What an anticlimax.
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nx6 said:
No, dude. This is not White Album 2.
In this case, a threesome ending is not the the one I can support. The MC is too naive. I can almost get behind a yuri Misaki x Ririna thing, but in the end I don't think any of these kids is developed enough in the head to be dating.

I cannot describe how much i disagree with this. This entire series has been almost completely unprecedented for mature open understanding of relationship and acceptance of partner sharing. The entire time there was not one spout of stupid jealousy or other nonsensical irrational drama. They were all very clear and open with eachother, and were able to tackle the problem very logically and maturely, whilst not neglecting the emotional factors to contend with.

I think you need a few lessons on interpersonal psychology. This is the first romance anime i can recall (and i've seen a hell of a lot) where the triangle could genuinely work as a mutual 3-way polyamory. Any studied into polyamory will always discuss these topic in extent, such as how to make things work, how to help those with higher jealousy reactance to meld in etc, elements of compersion (which was shown a lot here) and so on.

And I absolutely can't understand why you think that. ^^" The first statement alone is not comprehensible to me.

- having a crush over an eraser; never spoke to her before, never spoke to her again for five years: the anime doesn't know the difference between a child crush and love for a person you really know. Or between attraction and love. Misaki doesn't really know him in the first epiosde and vice versa.
- there were very shallow questions of "what is love?", but IMO none of the girls were close to. A crush he never spoke to before and a girl from a dating agency aka the state. XD At least, Nisaka has feelings for him, because he knows him and actually befriended with him quite a long time ago. (Years, I think? ^^")
- the whole system: it just doesn't work that way. Just because two people would make a good match in theory... that doesn't mean that you have to get along. There have to be more break-ups and people, who just don't like the system for different reasons. Not homosexuality alone. Some people don't want to have children and some others shouldn't get a partner per se, because they are maybe violent etc...

For the characters:
- the confession in the first episode, as I said. That's insta love per it's finest and I thought the very opposite; that's very immature.
- not enough jealousy there. There are many different reasons why such things don't work and you don't need religion to be jealous and to think that it goes against your pride or something similar.
- It has nothing to do with maturity. To speak of "lessons on interpersonal psychology": You can't shut down such feelings of (especially justified) jealousy, but none of the characters has any / not enough. Of course, Nisaka was a little bit jealous in the middle and in the end. That was one of the most natural thing a character has done in this series imo. XD Therefore, the characters feel very inhuman or just unbelievable to me personally.
- The "girls love each other"-solution was imo just there to avoid any of those fights.
- and the last thing: they are just unbelievable. ^^" This guy holds three strings in the OP from the two girls and Nisaka... and I still don't know why.

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The entire time there was not one spout of stupid jealousy or other nonsensical irrational drama. They were all very clear and open with eachother, and were able to tackle the problem very logically and maturely, whilst not neglecting the emotional factors to contend with.

Srsly, but it should have been. ^^" Acting on emotions and being irrational too (or irrational emotions per se) is imo a big part of what makes characters to people. They are acting in the best ways possible... but that's imo the worst way to show them. Having bad communication skills and issues, jealousy, just not accepting, getting into fights etc... everything of that is more believable.
... You don't need to make a rip-off of the unpopular School Days and being so over-dramatical to show such things. XD
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the ending would've be better if he ended up with nisaka
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so Yukari choose to be muslim. 2 better than 1. well played!
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A harem is fine too, I guess. At least it didn't become another Toradora.
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@Maneki-Mew
You seem to have some false impression of fairytale magic here, so let me mutilate your response...

Maneki-Mew said:
- having a crush over an eraser;
That's now how that works.

Maneki-Mew said:
never spoke to her again for five years: the anime doesn't know the difference between a child crush and love for a person you really know. Or between attraction and love. Misaki doesn't really know him in the first epiosde and vice versa.
So? It's an extreme case but it's not impossible or even improbable. You have a strange conditional impression of love.

Maneki-Mew said:
- there were very shallow questions of "what is love?"
They're a bunch of overly pure kids that ask cliche philosophical questions, so what?

Maneki-Mew said:
- the whole system: it just doesn't work that way. Just because two people would make a good match in theory... that doesn't mean that you have to get along. There have to be more break-ups and people, who just don't like the system for different reasons. Not homosexuality alone. Some people don't want to have children and some others shouldn't get a partner per se, because they are maybe violent etc...
The system is wrong for reasons completely unrelated to what you think. Such a system is possible to make work as it does, as it's based on full indepth psychological profiling based on a system of interpersonal relationship knowledge that is clearly wiser than current mainstream psychiatry. Again you're assuming fairytale due to it being outside your scope of knowledge.


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- the confession in the first episode, as I said. That's insta love per it's finest and I thought the very opposite; that's very immature.
That's got nothing to do with maturity. Being honest in the moment is more mature than wandering around like an idiot asking yourself stupid questions and getting depressed over nothing. I didn't say Yukari was particularly mature or grown up, but he wasn't a bumbling self-destructive idiot.

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- not enough jealousy there. There are many different reasons why such things don't work and you don't need religion to be jealous and to think that it goes against your pride or something similar.
- It has nothing to do with maturity. To speak of "lessons on interpersonal psychology": You can't shut down such feelings of (especially justified) jealousy, but none of the characters has any / not enough. Of course, Nisaka was a little bit jealous in the middle and in the end. That was one of the most natural thing a character has done in this series imo. XD Therefore, the characters feel very inhuman or just unbelievable to me personally.
Clearly you have no clue what compersion is. One of the most important elements of polyamory is compersion, which is the obverse of jealosy, joy that your partner is enjoying another partner. People like to look down on that because they think of cuckolding and how it's somehow demeaning and pathetic, but there is no stronger emotion in relationships than compersion. It's not inhuman, it's not magical, it's not unrealistic. Not everyone is plagued with jealousy in polygonal relationships. They're something the media thrives off of, and alternative subjects ignored in favour of the 1-on-1 belief system. Jealousy is something that can be mastered, and those who naturally experience compersion instead of jealousy, have nothing to worry about. People in strong and stable polyamorous relationships can attest to all of this with ease.

Maneki-Mew said:
- The "girls love each other"-solution was imo just there to avoid any of those fights.
This is not a standard love triangle, the expressed their love (with less depth than with yukari mind you) for eachother plenty of times. They're both afraid of the LAW and SOCIETY disallowing them both marrying him. Their struggle, and depicted with this weird mating system, is that their struggle is with society, not with eachother. They all WANT to be together, and are more than able to do so, but in japan, you're not allowed to marry more than one person.

Maneki-Mew said:
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The entire time there was not one spout of stupid jealousy or other nonsensical irrational drama. They were all very clear and open with eachother, and were able to tackle the problem very logically and maturely, whilst not neglecting the emotional factors to contend with.
Srsly, but it should have been. ^^" Acting on emotions and being irrational too (or irrational emotions per se) is imo a big part of what makes characters to people. They are acting in the best ways possible... but that's imo the worst way to show them. Having bad communication skills and issues, jealousy, just not accepting, getting into fights etc... everything of that is more believable.
... You don't need to make a rip-off of the unpopular School Days and being so over-dramatical to show such things. XD
As i said, you can't make these claims of unrealistic relationships in your own ignorance. I personally am the type of person who joys from seeing a loved one enjoy the intimate company of another, so long as i know that they don't intend to sabotage anything with it and are also capable of being open honest and true. If i'm not into having sex, but the other is, that's cool, go there for your sex this time, i'll be here to embrace when my company is wanted, or if i get the longing for it and i go ask for it sooner.

Maturity is in that they were able to go through their relationships, understanding eachothers' feelings, angles, positions, interest and joy at them... Being able to sit down and try and figure out what to do, because they know the law won't let them all 3 marry (not even something they need to bring up because it's obvious to them), hence trying to seek solutions with honest feelings. They attempted to use lies to solve the marriage problem, but it didn't work because they couldn't let themselves be dishonest when it mattered. They couldn't live the lie of loving but not being together. This reminds me, another important factor of polyamory, is no lies or deceit or failing to mention important things; everyone has to be open, honest, and understanding to prevent any turbulence. Rationality, honesty, sincerity, understanding, are traits of a mature individual.

Inability to actualize or problem-solve emotional difficulties and instead lashing out in various ways or lashing at self, is immaturity.

So yeah, you don't know enough about interpersonal dynamics with different kinds of people and situations you are unaware of, hence you have much to learn. If you still don't get it, then i can't help you.
(forgive all the edits, afterthoughts)
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- having a crush over an eraser;

That's now how that works.

THAT'S exactly what I'm saying. :D

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never spoke to her again for five years: the anime doesn't know the difference between a child crush and love for a person you really know. Or between attraction and love. Misaki doesn't really know him in the first epiosde and vice versa.

So? It's an extreme case but it's not impossible or even improbable. You have a strange conditional impression of love.

You can't go beyond "I think she seems nice and looks good" at your first impression and having a crush from watching them going to your school isn't so much more. You need to, you know, actually talk and bond for a long time, at least a few months imo.
Ririna is also "Oh, I like this girl, go and get her and I think I could like her too" after meeting her once. That's not how it works either.

GenesisAria said:
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- there were very shallow questions of "what is love?"
They're a bunch of overly pure kids that ask cliche philosophical questions, so what?

It's not the question per se...

GenesisAria said:
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- the whole system: it just doesn't work that way. Just because two people would make a good match in theory... that doesn't mean that you have to get along. There have to be more break-ups and people, who just don't like the system for different reasons. Not homosexuality alone. Some people don't want to have children and some others shouldn't get a partner per se, because they are maybe violent etc...

The system is wrong for reasons completely unrelated to what you think. Such a system is possible to make work as it does, as it's based on full indepth psychological profiling based on a system of interpersonal relationship knowledge that is clearly wiser than current mainstream psychiatry. Again you're assuming fairytale due to it being outside your scope of knowledge.

So, you are telling me that you believe that cheesy crush-story, but you assume I have this view? ^^"
(And I'm very sceptical about the term "mainstream psychiatry" and I don't even want to ask)

and the rest...
Srsly, I don't like this moralizing and holier than thou-attitude either. I'm fine and don't want your help. Thank you very much. ;)
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That's now how that works.
THAT'S exactly what I'm saying. :D
Uh, no, your entire thinking here is flawed. People don't fall in love with erasers NOR DID THEY in the anime. The eraser is just a random moment that can serve as a moment of realization. Love is not something you fabricate or necessarily grow, it hits you like a ton of bricks completely unexpecting. I've even had a friend who fell victim to this as well, it's not a matter of infatuation, the fulling force of that love is very powerful. You make love, you fall in love.
Love is gravity.

Maneki-Mew said:
You can't go beyond "I think she seems nice and looks good" at your first impression and having a crush from watching them going to your school isn't so much more. You need to, you know, actually talk and bond for a long time, at least a few months imo.
Says who? You? You're the resident love expert, not knowing anything about polyamory eh?

Maneki-Mew said:
Ririna is also "Oh, I like this girl, go and get her and I think I could like her too" after meeting her once. That's not how it works either.
That's not even what happened LOL. She ws fascinated with Misaki's love story, so she talked to her and they became friends.


Maneki-Mew said:
GenesisAria said:

The system is wrong for reasons completely unrelated to what you think. Such a system is possible to make work as it does, as it's based on full indepth psychological profiling based on a system of interpersonal relationship knowledge that is clearly wiser than current mainstream psychiatry. Again you're assuming fairytale due to it being outside your scope of knowledge.
So, you are telling me that you believe that cheesy crush-story, but you assume I have this view? ^^"
Them getting loving eachother to start with is a cheesy crush story, everythign after that is very wise and mature.

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(And I'm very sceptical about the term "mainstream psychiatry" and I don't even want to ask)
Inexperienced textbook claptrap, current consensus theories, is what i mean. And i said modern, aka still constrained by today's society, but prone to future change and improvement.

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Srsly, I don't like this moralizing and holier than thou-attitude either. I'm fine and don't want your help. Thank you very much. ;)
There is no holier-than-thou, you just haven't any idea what you're talking about. I'm not fond of your false sense of certainty and self-righteousness either... you are the one who came to me demoralizing the story, and making a lot of opinionated claims against my statements, and spreading misinformation.

Mind my edits in previous post, i clarified a number of things.
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An open ending.... Why???????? :(

Overall the shows tries too much to demonstrate the love and lies but it's unclear and mixed up so it ruined the show. I wished that ririna could win though.

Overall 6.5/10
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Uh, no, your entire thinking here is flawed. People don't fall in love with erasers NOR DID THEY in the anime. The eraser is just a random moment that can serve as a moment of realization. Love is not something you fabricate or necessarily grow, it hits you like a ton of bricks completely unexpecting. I've even had a friend who fell victim to this as well, it's not a matter of infatuation, the fulling force of that love is very powerful. You make love, you fall in love.
Love is gravity.

[...]

Says who? You? You're the resident love expert, not knowing anything about polyamory eh?

I think you don't understand me either. ^^" I think, you don't have some real gravity (except for a shallow - not judgemental - and cute crush), when you just have that one moment and being in awe for that girl from a safe distance.
Because, to look more in a more realistic way at it: You can't know that. Maybe you end detesting the person you thought you would love, when you get to know them ... and the only thing that were hit you, were your hormones and sexual drive.
There is always this possibility that you don't even like each other.

Btw. he had more deeper moments to Ririna, while he had just a crush over Misaki.
And as I said, I think Nisaka has the best bond to him, just because he knows him haha. ^^"

That point of view completely not understandable for me. Nothing hit me ever with a ton of bricks. It was in a talk like: Oh, I like her and she indeed does look good, let's spend much time together and look where this is going.
Sorry, I think that's a very old-fashioned way of thinking (and storytelling too). There isn't something like love at first sight. There is something like having a first, sometimes strong sympathy for someone and sexual gravitation at first sight and nothing more. Everything else is just what hormones are trying to tell you.
And yes, I think, you need much time and many talks, especially bonding talks and more specific and deeper memories to grow love and trust.

People don't say without a good cause that their partner is also their best friend / one of their best friends and is growing to be a part of your origin family too, when you introduce them. A deeper friendship and understanding are the basics of love imo and you can't have the basics without really knowing someone.
(I mean, I also like more "dark romances" in fiction, but you know...)

Btw. they did the Romeo x Juliet-play: They were like 13 years old hormone driven teenagers, who knew each other for less than a day. ^^" They met at the party and were dying before the next sunset.

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The governmental system on the other hand: Even IF this would work, people want to protect their personal freedom and their personal own free will from a "higher force". Maybe I'm just too European and the societies here are far more individualistic, but I can't believe that either.

GenesisAria said:
There is no holier-than-thou, you just haven't any idea what you're talking about. I'm not fond of your false sense of certainty and self-righteousness either... you are the one who came to me demoralizing the story, and making a lot of opinionated claims against my statements, and spreading misinformation.

Oh well, I think I do. ;)

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Them getting loving eachother to start with is a cheesy crush story, everythign after that is very wise and mature.

... Or the wish fullfilment? ^^
And I really can't take the "wise and mature"-part... btw it isn't. I just want to act them like a little bit (- a little bit -) more like real people and srsly, you can't tell me otherwise.
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I wanted more Nisaka tbh... He's better than both girls imo, just why did you have to be a boy -.-

besides that , The only thing I'd remember about this show is the Ending song
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Even by the end Misaki's assigned husband is still unknown, though it's obvious who it will be to make everything work out.
No good resolution, just a complicated love triangle.
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Well, I have mixed feelings after this... I enjoyed some parts of this show, but at the same time there were various moments when I got really annoyed.

I completely fell in love with Ririna. She deserves more than Yukari... she's doing all she can, she wants to help everybody and... well, she's perfect.
At the same time I don't know why exactly but I can't stand Misaki. She's got too much attention and she doesn't deserve it. She didn't do much apart from being popular and loving Yukari. IDK, it's weird but I don't like her.

BTW, poor Nisaka :S he's the most affected by all this situation abd doesn't get any love lol (well, almost)

I'll set 7/10 because I loved Ririna, but it would be 5-6/10.
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Meh..... a last episode sprint when our wimpy MC realizes he loves both same but just went with the flow of modeling without confessing, I wasted my time. Average show 5/10
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Because, to look more in a more realistic way at it: You can't know that. Maybe you end detesting the person you thought you would love, when you get to know them ... and the only thing that were hit you, were your hormones and sexual drive.
There is always this possibility that you don't even like each other.
Again, it's not convenient and logical like that.

Maneki-Mew said:
That point of view completely not understandable for me. Nothing hit me ever with a ton of bricks. It was in a talk like: Oh, I like her and she indeed does look good, let's spend much time together and look where this is going.
That is you not everyone. There are 2 ways to fall in love: it either hits you in the face unexpectedly and without warning (not to someone you've never met before though), or you are in love before you even realize it (as you've known them or seen them enough. You don't cultivate love, you cultivate bonds and kinship to strengthen relationship.

As someone who's been involved in a number of these situations, having friends fall victim to the emotional hardship of unexpected love, or having people care so deeply for me that they'll sacrifice even though they don't know very well, etc, i cannot accept your bs ignorant replies that show little to no experience on the subject in question.

Liking someone as a partner, hanging out with them, getting closer, and then being together for a long time, that's not what love is, and why relationships break so easily. Real love is something that flips your world upside down: it hurts, it brings joys like nothing before, it confuses, it empowers you, it's not something that can be explained, and countless geniuses over the ages have attempted to no avail. If you can explain it, it's not love, because there's no way you understand it more than countless people throughout the ages.

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Sorry, I think that's a very old-fashioned way of thinking (and storytelling too). There isn't something like love at first sight. There is something like having a first, sometimes strong sympathy for someone and sexual gravitation at first sight and nothing more. Everything else is just what hormones are trying to tell you.
Oh, you're a materialist, think it's all chemicals lul. There is no love at "first sight", and IT DIN'T HAPPEN HERE EITHER. He'd had his eye on her a long time before the scene you seem to think was magical first sight love, that is what you aren't getting.

You're too caught up in the dichotomy between two fairy tales: the storybook magical fantasy one, and the pseudo-realism one. Both are wrong, because neither are reality.

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The governmental system on the other hand: Even IF this would work, people want to protect their personal freedom and their personal own free will from a "higher force". Maybe I'm just too European and the societies here are far more individualistic, but I can't believe that either.
See, people aren't actually obsessed with freedom, people don't care about being free, they just don't want to to be forced to do things they don't want to do. If a system obliged them to do what they wanted to do anyways, they wouldn't complain. It's not freedom people want, it's oppression they don't want. If a system like this was employed idealistically, then nobody would complain, because nobody would be dissatisfied with the results. That said, it should be something you can opt out of after a test period, and put back into the system for reevaluation.

Sorry, but you're the type of person that's damaging human decency with your dogmatic narrow-minded views.
ps: none of this is personal attacks; there's merely refutes to your ill-founded beliefs.
pps: i don't believe anything, i just go by what i know or don't know or hypothesize.

I stand by my original statement: they're more than capable of being a very stable and happy threesome because of mutual love and compersion.
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