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Jan 3, 2015 7:34 PM

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Bambi_ said:
write him a love letter and put it under his pillow. > u <

actually, no


She would had wished it was a rom com scenario, then this would had played out perfectly.
Jan 3, 2015 7:41 PM
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Do like my cousin did to me. Tell him how beautiful he is during a family gathering infront of everyone.


Jan 3, 2015 7:53 PM

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Stay away from him. Incest is a preversion.
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Jan 3, 2015 9:20 PM

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Immahnoob said:
In most countries this isn't even illegal, also, why would this be wrong?


No matter how you look at it, a relationship with a cousin is really wrong. You're both related by blood. People will judge. I can't live with that. But really, its just one-sided. I'm just bothered to have feelings for him all these years, I want to forget so badly yet it just keeps coming back.
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Jan 3, 2015 9:22 PM

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Watch some incest/wincest animes. I will suggest some.

Sword Art Online
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Jan 3, 2015 9:22 PM

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I feel the same way with certain family members of mine. :/
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Jan 3, 2015 9:22 PM
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Go watch Yosuga no Sora with him.
Jan 3, 2015 9:25 PM

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Haha btw, we don't do premarital sex here in Philippines. I'm really shock you guys suggesting condoms and all that. Women in our culture are expected to be reserved and conservative. We don't sex with somebody not until we get to finish studies first and get married. Well, it couldn't be denied that some are doing it, but it will bring disgrace to the family if you've done it. You become the talk of the town. If you have finished your studies, you already helped your parents in return for what they have done for you, you can then get married. You earn the right to do what you want after you have become successful. Sorry, that was OT.



Good idea but I don't think I'm brave enough to confess to my cousin. Getting hurt is okay, at least I could move on after that. But things might not be the same anymore I don't think I could sacrifice that. I think I might keep this for life, hopefully the feeling would just go away with time. I am surprised to have a 13-year old little girl give me an advice like an adult would. You seem like you have matured so early. I really appreciate your advice. Thank you. P.S. I really want to hug you right now T^T *hugs*
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Jan 3, 2015 9:30 PM

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Wow. Phillipino families are buzzkills.
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Jan 3, 2015 9:32 PM

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LucasRTS said:
Go watch Yosuga no Sora with him.
Don't think she will, but I will thanks for the rec m8
Jan 3, 2015 9:36 PM

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Holy shit a 13 year old girl knows about the prisoner's dilemma and the chinese room AND is so into anime?

God damn this world is amazing sometimes.
Jan 3, 2015 9:37 PM

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Find a real man and move on! -_-

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Jan 4, 2015 12:01 AM

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Incest is Wincest
Jan 4, 2015 12:10 AM

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lol wdf don't go for family that's just lazy

Sry to tell you this but it wud be best to forget about it incest is disgusting and aint right. Just try to see him as a regular family member or something idk just move on by trying to keep distance with him. Don't worry you'll find som1 better someday.
Jan 4, 2015 12:17 AM

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ill be the one guy who isnt a blatantly obvious virgin about this.

assuming this isnt shitposting (which it probably is) just wait it out until your hormones calm down.
Jan 4, 2015 3:15 AM

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Thrashinuva said:
Holy shit a 13 year old girl knows about the prisoner's dilemma and the chinese room AND is so into anime?

God damn this world is amazing sometimes.


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Jan 4, 2015 3:26 AM

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Damn I'm too young for this forum...
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Jan 4, 2015 3:30 AM

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Carry on living life with a broken heart. It's quite simple really. Wake up everyday with that person on your mind, your heart beating in pain that it'll never come to be and go about your day as if everything is normal. Then eventually you'll come to realise what a fool you were.

Trust me, it's the best way. Really, you do have to move on.
Jan 4, 2015 3:31 AM
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Put the head of a horse in his bed, he'll get the message.
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Jan 4, 2015 3:47 AM

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I also had a crush on my cousin when I was young. Don't worry you'll get over it.
Jan 4, 2015 3:48 AM

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eyrahsama said:
Immahnoob said:
In most countries this isn't even illegal, also, why would this be wrong?


No matter how you look at it, a relationship with a cousin is really wrong. You're both related by blood. People will judge. I can't live with that. But really, its just one-sided. I'm just bothered to have feelings for him all these years, I want to forget so badly yet it just keeps coming back.
It's not "just wrong", but as I said, if you don't like your current situation, then get rid of your feelings, or tell him, there's nothing else you can do.




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Jan 4, 2015 3:49 AM

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If your heart hurts, I suggest you see a doctor.

You could be showing symptoms of heart disease.
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Jan 4, 2015 11:07 AM

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pseudoenigma said:
trip and knock over your cousin, resulting in you landing with his penis in your mouth. Works every time.


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Jan 4, 2015 11:07 AM

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just like in my chinese cartoons
Jan 4, 2015 11:42 AM

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Ask him what porn he fappes to. Upon finding out that he likes doujinshi where old men rape little boys you will be so disgusted of him that you will move on.
Jan 4, 2015 11:43 AM

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I'm sure someone else looks like your cousin
Just find them and marry them.
I've been here way too long...
Jan 4, 2015 11:48 AM

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Ask SuperColin. He got over his family member fine. So we think....
Jan 4, 2015 12:41 PM

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Jan 4, 2015 8:41 PM

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I can be your cousin ;)
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Jan 4, 2015 9:02 PM

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If you really want to show that you have feelings for him, wake him up with a blowjob or something. :o

On a more serious note, just talk it over with family.
Jan 4, 2015 9:14 PM

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look for negative things about him then use that to turn you off
Jan 4, 2015 10:26 PM

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eyrahsama said:
Oh btw, it's one-sided.

How sure are you of this?
Jan 4, 2015 10:34 PM

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Please find Jesus. Amen.
Jan 4, 2015 10:38 PM

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-shotz said:
if i were you i'd just make a move on him. if you don't you could regret not doing it.
Jan 5, 2015 2:45 AM

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Wake up.
Jan 5, 2015 7:48 AM

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It's not gonna happen, get over it. (not judging you or anything)
Jan 5, 2015 7:51 AM

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''Move on''? Go seduce him immediately instead
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Jan 5, 2015 8:07 AM

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Move on or be drown in your infatuation and die.
jk.

Find the best qualities that you most love from your cousin.
Go outside and find them in other people. [STRIKE]Or anime characters. Or Hollywood celebs.[/STRIKE]
Distance yourself from your cousin for a while and focus more on your hobbies or that other people, until you get over him (at max. 1 year will do).
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How do you know it's one sided?

I would recommend coming out to someone about this, it sounds like it bothers you. And keeping it bottled up will only hurt you more.

Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with incest as long as it's consensual. But if your family and friends would be judgmental, I can understand wanting to be careful. But you need to find someone to talk to about it who you trust.

Is there a therapist or someone you can talk to? I'm afraid I don't know much about Philippines culture, and psychology and therapy there.
Jan 5, 2015 10:49 AM

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It sounds like you're just pent up with estrogen. Either masturbate to a picture of him or go get laid. Don't fuck things up with your family because of hormones
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Jan 5, 2015 11:35 AM
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try to look for someone else

the fastest way to get over somebody is meeting new people really
Jan 5, 2015 11:41 AM

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Move to Japan with him
Jan 5, 2015 11:44 AM

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Forget about him. Find someone else. As you said, the society you're in doesn't accept premarital sex as a "good" thing to do. And doing it with your cousin is even worse. Go look for someone else. You're better off that way.
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