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Jan 3, 2015 9:08 AM
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I had this crush on my older male cousin since 4th grade. I'm second year college now, what am I doing still having a crush on him like this!? Ugh, I really want to forget about him because I don't think it's right for me to feel this. He doesn't know how I really feel about him but I feel like he noticed it already since I was really acting weird around him, feeling so embarrassed, can't look at him in the eyes, I was so nervous whenever he's around way back then. I'm pretty sure he knows it by now and just hasn't said a thing .

He's a family so we always meet every now and then. I thought I really have forgotten about him but every time I see him, why is it coming back?
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Jan 3, 2015 9:11 AM
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Go get his D and enjoy the wincest, keeping it all bundled up will end in your misery.


Jan 3, 2015 9:14 AM
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Try to avoid him whenever he shows up
Jan 3, 2015 9:14 AM
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Oh btw, it's one-sided.
Jan 3, 2015 9:14 AM
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You can't. Deal with it.
Jan 3, 2015 9:15 AM
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Let your heart do the talking.
Jan 3, 2015 9:16 AM
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Just fantasize about him in your mind. Do you want to risk fucking up your relationship with him and your family?

He might take it like


And then his dad would be like



And then it would come back to your mum and she would be like

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KaiwaiikillahJan 3, 2015 9:25 AM
'The way of the wang is long...and hard'
Jan 3, 2015 9:16 AM
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eyrahsama said:
Oh btw, it's one-sided.
Is it really? Or are you just assuming it is out of insecurities?
Jan 3, 2015 9:21 AM
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traed said:
eyrahsama said:
Oh btw, it's one-sided.
Is it really? Or are you just assuming it is out of insecurities?


It's one-sided, no doubt about it. He has a girlfriend already, that simply proves it.
Jan 3, 2015 9:23 AM

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trip and knock over your cousin, resulting in you landing with his penis in your mouth. Works every time.
Jan 3, 2015 9:32 AM

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My (female) cousin is also super hot. I like her but I'm only physically attracted to her. Not that she's not nice or something. I wouldn't want to date her but fuck her would be nice.
I suppose this isn't the same as love. but what is love? Baby don't hurt me, dont hurt me

I think you shouldn't try to think about him, try to forget him. Try to tell yourself you don't like him. Try to put things that remind you of him away or out of sight.
If you think you have a chance with him, don't do these things above.

Remember, incest is fun but do it with a condom. You don't want to get those fucked up handicap kids.

You could also in a morning sneak inside his house in to his room, tie him up and get kinky. I always dream about those things happening to me. He should be delighted.
Jan 3, 2015 9:33 AM

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yogashi said:
My (female) cousin is also super hot. I like her but I'm only physically attracted to her. Not that she's not nice or something. I wouldn't want to date her but fuck her would be nice.


Yogashi you have such good morals...

Anyways, OT, I used to infatuate on a guy who also had a girlfriend already (though it was like, back in middle school) and you just need to like accept the fact lol. Think with your brain and not with the heart, you can use your heart for something else.
Jan 3, 2015 9:45 AM

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I'm sorta in the same situation as you. But like he also has a crush on me so it's not a one sided thing. We did kiss ONCE but it was like when we were 8 and since then we've never taken it any further. Also we don't really see each other that much anymore, but we do slightly flirt with one another when there's like a big family get together but it's all harmless fun. We've both realised that nothing will EVER happen between us since we're related cause if it did, that would just be weird.

just try not to think about him so much
Jan 3, 2015 9:46 AM

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MAL is not the right place to ask this kind of question. Wincest rules, go seduce him.
Jan 3, 2015 9:50 AM

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Try to find someone else and then maybe you might forget him. Distancing yourself away is good too
Jan 3, 2015 9:52 AM

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Move together to Japan. Problem solved.
Jan 3, 2015 9:52 AM

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Find someone that looks like him. Good luck mate.

Behold of my awesomeness~
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But my feels.
Jan 3, 2015 9:53 AM

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Nanet said:
yogashi said:
My (female) cousin is also super hot. I like her but I'm only physically attracted to her. Not that she's not nice or something. I wouldn't want to date her but fuck her would be nice.


Yogashi you have such good morals...

Anyways, OT, I used to infatuate on a guy who also had a girlfriend already (though it was like, back in middle school) and you just need to like accept the fact lol. Think with your brain and not with the heart, you can use your heart for something else.


Arigato! even though it was sarcasm
Yes that was what I was doing. If I'd think with my heart I'd date her and fuck her and get retarded children. But because I used my brain I realised that I should only fuck her (with condom).
I'm such a good guy

You had a guy you liked? You want to talk about it? (on profile comment section)
Jan 3, 2015 9:57 AM

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AmberRose said:
I'm sorta in the same situation as you. But like he also has a crush on me so it's not a one sided thing. We did kiss ONCE but it was like when we were 8 and since then we've never taken it any further. Also we don't really see each other that much anymore, but we do slightly flirt with one another when there's like a big family get together but it's all harmless fun. We've both realised that nothing will EVER happen between us since we're related cause if it did, that would just be weird.

just try not to think about him so much


My advice to you:

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITSSSS!!!

perfect scenariooo!!

(also dont forget about birth control)
Read some incest doujins to get things started they always work
Jan 3, 2015 9:59 AM

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yogashi said:
Yes that was what I was doing. If I'd think with my heart I'd date her and fuck her and get retarded children. But because I used my brain I realised that I should only fuck her (with condom).
I'm such a good guy


Jan 3, 2015 10:03 AM

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yogashi said:
AmberRose said:
I'm sorta in the same situation as you. But like he also has a crush on me so it's not a one sided thing. We did kiss ONCE but it was like when we were 8 and since then we've never taken it any further. Also we don't really see each other that much anymore, but we do slightly flirt with one another when there's like a big family get together but it's all harmless fun. We've both realised that nothing will EVER happen between us since we're related cause if it did, that would just be weird.

just try not to think about him so much


My advice to you:

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITSSSS!!!

perfect scenariooo!!

(also dont forget about birth control)
Read some incest doujins to get things started they always work


LOL!!!
yeah no, not really a fan of incest irl. plus I already have a boyfriend
Jan 3, 2015 10:08 AM

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I think this is a problem on my part. I think I'm in the right age to start a relationship with somebody so I could try forgetting about my cousin but I'm having trust issues. I don't think I could trust somebody (especially a stranger) that easily. Also, I haven't been in a relationship before so I didn't have any experience with guys. I thought maybe I'm just confused because we were always together.

Probably this just needs more time before I could completely forget him.

Thank you everybody for your comments. I appreciate it :)
Jan 3, 2015 10:16 AM

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If its not first cousins its okay, become a yandere, give in to your feelings, strike down any that would stand in your way.
Jan 3, 2015 10:17 AM

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Everything you've learned from hentai wincests were all for this moment.
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Jan 3, 2015 10:22 AM

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I hope you can forget about him and move on soon. Good luck!


Jan 3, 2015 10:25 AM

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Even better!!! Threesome that is!
Jan 3, 2015 10:41 AM

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If I were you I would tell him. That way you can have some closure. If he rejects you than it will hurt, but it will be better in the long run so you can move on. If he says he likes you too... actually that probably wouldn't work out. I would also maybe spend some time watching depressing movies so you can be like 'oh well at my life doesn't suck as much as theirs.' Or get really obsessed with an anime and only think about that. Or try and find him a nice girl/boyfriend that you know he can be happy with and get a girl/boyfriend too... Ummm it will probably always sting a little bit to be with him but instead think about your own happiness. Get a hobby and throw yourself into that. PS. If it's that he's your cousin, maybe try getting him into anime and make him watch some incest discreetly so maybe he gets more open to the idea.. Then at least you could be together secretly. And if he is unable to think of you only in a platonic way, he wasn't good enough for you. But, who knows maybe he likes you too, but hasn't told you because you're cousins and he doesn't think you like him that way. Seriously, don't let it be like those dumb romcoms where they NEVER GET TOGETHER... I hope my advice wasn't too terrible.
Jan 3, 2015 10:43 AM

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Possible endings:
You tell him - He tells family, everyone knows, nothing really happens because of that but you have to deal with family.
You don't tell him - Might be a case of bottled up feelings that will explode one day, might not, you might be totally okay.

Other scenario's:
You tell him when he doesn't have a gf or he then breaks up with her to be with you for the rest of your lives - society doesn't respect either one of you.
He rejects you and doesn't tell anyone but you probably won't be able to talk to him the same way ever again - You'll hit depression but move on probably.


Pick one.


Personally I wouldn't tell him since it won't realistically work out anyways. Thus all current respect for you remains intact. Move on.
Jan 3, 2015 10:44 AM

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Ryanium said:
Just tell him and your parents how you really feel and get some help. It's not good to keep everything to yourself, which might end up worse than you think. Trust me on this, I'm the expert here.


Not what I'd do,
she doesn't need help there's nothing wrong with her. Maybe it's good to talk about it with someone but your parents will only be awkward for you. I'd suggest she'd talk with friends.
Jan 3, 2015 10:45 AM

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Play some MMO. You might find some cool guy there.
Jan 3, 2015 10:46 AM
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Seduce and fuck him. If you are compatible in sex, fuck him some more until you get bored. And of course, don;t forget to use protection.
Jan 3, 2015 10:47 AM

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get him drunk, fuck him, and then say he fucked you

Jan 3, 2015 10:51 AM
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Are you first cousins? Can't that be... ...complicated?


Jan 3, 2015 10:55 AM

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Rarusu-sama said:
Are you first cousins? Can't that be... ...complicated?


rarusu-kun, you haven't read enough incest hentai.
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You may be right. Depends on the friends and family you have.
Tip for the day: don't tell your christian parents you're in love with your cousin.
Jan 3, 2015 11:01 AM

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yogashi said:
Yes that was what I was doing. If I'd think with my heart I'd date her and fuck her and get retarded children. But because I used my brain I realised that I should only fuck her (with condom).
I'm such a good guy



+1
Jan 3, 2015 11:15 AM
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yogashi said:
Rarusu-sama said:
Are you first cousins? Can't that be... ...complicated?


rarusu-kun, you haven't read enough incest hentai.


Apparently not

Couldn't it wait one generation?


Jan 3, 2015 11:45 AM

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Just get over it
Jan 3, 2015 12:06 PM

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Leave him alone, you'll fuck yourself and him over.
Jan 3, 2015 12:14 PM

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In most countries this isn't even illegal, also, why would this be wrong?




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Hitler was good, objectively.
Jan 3, 2015 12:17 PM

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Wyzdm said:
eyrahsama said:
Oh btw, it's one-sided.

Slip viagra in his drink and then fuck him.


I'll give you your script?
you: Are you getting hard from your own cousin? You pervert! *slowly crouch over him
him: N-no it's not what you think!!! I *he is now laying on his back on the ground, you sit on his legs right before his hard dick
you: *bow over him with you face just a few inches of his* *grab his dick and start massaging it trough his pants* see how you are enjoying it, you are disgusting getting so turned on by your cousin
him: paints and moans

If you reached this far it's childs play
Jan 3, 2015 12:19 PM

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Lol, these things happen. I had a crush on my female french cousin (since i've uncles there) when i was young. I was around 8 if i remember correctly.
Jan 3, 2015 1:11 PM

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yogashi said:
Nanet said:


Yogashi you have such good morals...

Anyways, OT, I used to infatuate on a guy who also had a girlfriend already (though it was like, back in middle school) and you just need to like accept the fact lol. Think with your brain and not with the heart, you can use your heart for something else.


Arigato! even though it was sarcasm
Yes that was what I was doing. If I'd think with my heart I'd date her and fuck her and get retarded children. But because I used my brain I realised that I should only fuck her (with condom).
I'm such a good guy

You had a guy you liked? You want to talk about it? (on profile comment section)


Your children won't be retarded...
Jan 3, 2015 1:14 PM

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Thank god my cousins are either all too ugly or too young. I don't have to deal with this shit.
Jan 3, 2015 1:19 PM

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I can make you forget all about him, hmu in PMs..
Jan 3, 2015 1:22 PM

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High chance is that they will be handicaped
Jan 3, 2015 2:24 PM

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Immahnoob said:
In most countries this isn't even illegal, also, why would this be wrong?
if youre just replying to the OP, they didnt say it was wrong, just unrequited and bothersome.
Jan 3, 2015 2:33 PM

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eyrahsama said:
I really want to forget about him because I don't think it's right for me to feel this.
The OP claims that it's not "right", so it must be "wrong".

So I can ask "Why is it wrong?". If it's unrequited and bothersome, that's an enough reason.




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Hitler was good, objectively.
Jan 3, 2015 7:19 PM
Jan 3, 2015 7:32 PM

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write him a love letter and put it under his pillow. > u <

actually, no
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