| Does anyone users on MAL really want themselves to get married and have children. If not, then that your choice. |
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| No, I don't want marriage nor children. Heck, I don't even want romance. A sex friend is a interesting prospect tho, unlikely as it might be. |
| You are not your body, you are your brain, the "self" that emerges from within it. |
| heck no, that's way too much commitment and effort |
| omae wa mou shindeiru. |
hotsushikun said: Does anyone users on MAL really want themselves to get married and have children. If not, then that your choice. Are you in a romance relationship? ..... |
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ProGoddess said: hotsushikun said: Does anyone users on MAL really want themselves to get married and have children. If not, then that your choice. Are you in a romance relationship? ..... No i am not, just wanting to know to the users on MAL. |
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| No marriage is dead. With divorce rate that we currently have and with anti-men feminist courts and laws it would be like playing russian roulette with too many bullets. The only sensible thing to do is to walk away. |
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Ahh... I thought you already have a partner that you are thinking of getting married. You missed something else in your poll. I believe some of the forum members may be married. Hmm.. What about those married and wish to be out of it? I know it's kinda bad to say this but it just occur to me. Treat it as a tease then.. ;) |
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| I want a romantic relationship with a guy, but I don't know if marriage is necessary these days, as it tends to cause more harm than good. And I definitely don't want children, ever. |
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| Less free time, monogamy, less sex, more responsibilities, the possibility of getting screwed or screwing someone after a divorce. What kind of a person would even accept that offer. Well, for some reason I would. Having children is kinda obvious, mankind has made it that far because of all the effort our ancestors made to make sure their genes will stay in the gene pool. |
149597871 said: Less free time, monogamy, less sex, more responsibilities, the possibility of getting screwed or screwing someone after a divorce. What kind of a person would even accept that offer. Well, for some reason I would. Having children is kinda obvious, mankind has made it that far because of all the effort our ancestors made to make sure their genes will stay in the gene pool. I agree with some of what you said, but what's wrong with monogamy? |
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| I want to have a family of my own, marriage or not. kind of more of giving an unconditional love and not a romantic one |
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| It's largel Seiya said: Imagine a man so controlling that he would surrender his freedom for the ultimate prize of taking that of another.149597871 said: Less free time, monogamy, less sex, more responsibilities, the possibility of getting screwed or screwing someone after a divorce. What kind of a person would even accept that offer. Well, for some reason I would. Having children is kinda obvious, mankind has made it that far because of all the effort our ancestors made to make sure their genes will stay in the gene pool. I agree with some of what you said, but what's wrong with monogamy? |
 It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate". — Bertrand Russell |
Sphinxter said: It's largelImagine a man so controlling that he would surrender his freedom for the ultimate prize of taking that of another. What? Sorry, but open relationships and polyamory are wrong. Relationships are built around trust, and these "open people" cannot be trusted. |
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| I don't wanna ever get Married, I don’t like the idea of being on a contract with someone indefinitely besides I enjoy my free time too much & being in a relationship would take that away from me. |
 It’s okay to look back at the past, just don’t stare too long |
| I'd be fine with getting married or not. No way in hell am I having kids though |
Seiya said: 149597871 said: Less free time, monogamy, less sex, more responsibilities, the possibility of getting screwed or screwing someone after a divorce. What kind of a person would even accept that offer. Well, for some reason I would. Having children is kinda obvious, mankind has made it that far because of all the effort our ancestors made to make sure their genes will stay in the gene pool. I agree with some of what you said, but what's wrong with monogamy? Absolutely nothing. It is a good thing from a certain point of view. It isn't the "relationship with only one other person at a time" that bothers me, more like "from now on I'm supposed to have sex with that person only and no one else". I'm not saying that I need more than one person at a time and if they are the right person we may be together for years and it wouldn't bother me. However, the fact that I'll never be able to have sex or any form of an intimate relationship with a certain someone because I made a promise to another long ago in order to fulfill the expectations of the public giving up my freedom and having to pretend I've achieved some sort of a life-sustaining happiness, suppressing my true feelings with some fabricated morality... Sorry, it probably doesn't make much sense to you. I wouldn't blame you. |
Seiya said: The only instance you'd need to "trust" a man is if he have surrendered control to you. Trust fundamentally relies on control and a promise to keep within said control.Sphinxter said: It's largelImagine a man so controlling that he would surrender his freedom for the ultimate prize of taking that of another. What? Sorry, but open relationships and polyamory are wrong. Relationships are built around trust, and these "open people" cannot be trusted. What you call "trust" is another word for "keeping one's promise to be controlled"; in freedom, the concept of "trust" because irrelevant; a man that is free to do as he pleases and bound by no agreement is neither trustworthy nor untrustworthy as the concept ceases to exist. |
SphinxterJun 18, 2019 9:09 AM
It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate". — Bertrand Russell |
| If its vanilla love where I fall deeply in love with someone and so does my partner and thus we use the "Marriage" system to simply have documentation of being together in the world then sure...until death parts . Just enjoy each others company..fulfill each other and so on. Then of course. If "marriage" as how it's in our typical real world.. a cancerous disease where most families are broken or abused. Or marriage is done simply for money reasons. When divorces are made systematically in order to scam out money out of partner... then no. Short variant. True love = everything is yes. "pseudo modern attempt of being love" = I rather say no to everything. |
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| Getting married: It's nothing more but a contract with the state to give up your half your shit and your entire dignity if you're male. No thanks. Childern: We're already overpopulated causing a mass extnction. Plants and animals are all rapidly dying out because some parasic bipedal monkey and it will not stop untill we also go extinct which will happen. I don't want to put yet another parasite that's going to be forced to be a slave on this dying planet. Still, somewhere deep inside I want to raise a kid of my own because that's my biology, but in this environment, yeah, no thanks. |
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Sphinxter said: Seiya said: The only instance you'd need to "trust" a man is if he have surrendered control to you. Trust fundamentally relies on control and a promise to keep within said control.What? Sorry, but open relationships and polyamory are wrong. Relationships are built around trust, and these "open people" cannot be trusted. What you call "trust" is another word for "keeping one's promise to be controlled"; in freedom, the concept of "trust" because irrelevant; a man that is free to do as he pleases and bound by no agreement is neither trustworthy nor untrustworthy as the concept ceases to exist. This is the most absurd thing I've ever heard. |
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| i want to get married, even though living alone is kinda bearable for me atm but not with dying, dying alone is scary ._. having children is optional but preferable. children could help me to comfort my partner coz i'm not very good at doing that romantic things ._. |
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| Sorry, but I believe marriage to be a bit too cultural. Besides it would mean a relationship requiring me to be faithful, plus it would mean a too great commitment with someone I may never grow so close to... And children, I don't believe our species requires more individuals out there for a while, I'm a bit malthusian myself, and I'd hate with a passion dealing with kids all day long. |
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| I can't even imagine having to live with a stranger for the rest of my life so no I won't get married. Even if I wanted to I would need to find a guy who is also asexual like me and doesn't want to have kids which would be extremely hard if not impossible for where I'm currently living. |
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| I think getting married is pointless and i really don't want kids. Having said that, when i was in a relationship the person i was with wanted both these things and i found myself wanting them too. I guess that's what love does to you. If i end up with someone who wants to get married, i'd be okay with it, but having kids is a big no. |
| nah im out of the gene pool until science do not find a way to cheaply remove this hereditary diseases i have both physical and mental and besides im NEET and not a responsible person |
| No, I've seen my parents and this was good enough for me to decide to never do the same mistake, besides I really don't understand the concept behind it |
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| Hell yea, brotha. But it's all contingent on whether I find a worthy specimen or not. Gotta spread my spawns over the Earth so that our future generation is less cringey and retarded than all the people who responded 'no'. |
| finally someone mention biological purpose as a response, nature/evolution/darwinism thinks the meaning of life is to spread our genes no matter how faulty it is to some |
Thanakos said: Hell yea, brotha. But it's all contingent on whether I find a worthy specimen or not. Gotta spread my spawns over the Earth so that our future generation is less cringey and retarded than all the people who responded 'no'. Lol. Some of us don't really care if the world stops turning after we're gone, you know. |
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Seiya said: Thanakos said: Hell yea, brotha. But it's all contingent on whether I find a worthy specimen or not. Gotta spread my spawns over the Earth so that our future generation is less cringey and retarded than all the people who responded 'no'. Lol. Some of us don't really care if the world stops turning after we're gone, you know. That's exactly why I call you retarded. Depression, apathy, and pessimism are so trite and uninteresting. |
Seiya said: Thanakos said: Hell yea, brotha. But it's all contingent on whether I find a worthy specimen or not. Gotta spread my spawns over the Earth so that our future generation is less cringey and retarded than all the people who responded 'no'. Lol. Some of us don't really care if the world stops turning after we're gone, you know. also those who decided to be out of the gene pool is kinda indirectly doing sacrifice for the sake of eugenics to make humanity evolve better anyway if we go by that logic of some sort of appeal to nature |
Thanakos said: Seiya said: Lol. Some of us don't really care if the world stops turning after we're gone, you know. That's exactly why I call you retarded. Depression, apathy, and pessimism are so trite and uninteresting. Lol, let's see if you still have that mindset a decade from now, once you've lived for as long as I have. |
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Seiya said: Thanakos said: That's exactly why I call you retarded. Depression, apathy, and pessimism are so trite and uninteresting. Lol, let's see if you still have that mindset a decade from now, once you've lived for as long as I have. I was of your mindset when I was 16. Seems I run through life twice as fast as you. By now, I should practically be at your level and I'm still of this opinion. BallistikJuice said: Come back after you'll that, and succeed. Until then, your words are nothing but a bunch of hot air. Good Luck! Lulz Legit point. But until I've done that, your pessimism regarding myself is nothing but hot air too. |
Thanakos said: Seiya said: Lol, let's see if you still have that mindset a decade from now, once you've lived for as long as I have. I was of your mindset when I was 16. Seems I run through life twice as fast as you. By now, I should practically be at your level and I'm still of this opinion. Lol, no. Most people who want to "spread offspring" are generally conservative. I am not. |
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Seiya said: Thanakos said: I was of your mindset when I was 16. Seems I run through life twice as fast as you. By now, I should practically be at your level and I'm still of this opinion. Lol, no. Most people who want to "spread offspring" are generally conservative. I am not. What a coincidence. I used to be more liberal during my teens when I was of your mindset. But you know, liberals that lean too far left love misery. They don't really have any rational reasons for their opinions, just varying sorts of 'grapes are sour' rants. Luckily, I'm more conservative now. Grapes are no longer sour for me. |
Thanakos said: Seiya said: Lol, no. Most people who want to "spread offspring" are generally conservative. I am not. What a coincidence. I used to be more liberal during my teens when I was of your mindset. But you know, liberals that lean too far left love misery. They don't really have any rational reasons for their opinions, just varying sorts of 'grapes are sour' rants. Luckily, I'm more conservative now. Grapes are no longer sour for me. I'm a centrist. I'm neither liberal or conservative. Anyway, this conversation is over. Enjoy your life. |
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| I want to be in a deep meaningful lasting relationship but I don't feel marriage is an absolute necessity to have that. I mean if I really love someone I do not need such a formal arrangement to prove it. I am not totally opposed to it though since some ceremonies seem fun so I can't fully say no but can't say yes either. Marriage seems to have lost any meaning if it ever had one due to all the abusive relationships, empty meaningless marriages, and divorces. The only advantage of marriage over a lasting relationship is legal rights. I believe the legal rights associated with marriage should be detached from the ritual of marriage and given to anyone who fills out the right forms and meets intended qualifications. |
BallistikJuice said: Oh, youth, inspiration, and sperm boiling between your ears. How am I supposed to be optimistic about you?! By avoiding the error of thinking that cynicism is wisdom and that your experience can be projected to everyone else's too. Simple tips, I know they are too damn hard to implement but you can try a heuristic: try to find happy families. You might've known one or two at least. I've known many. |
| I used to, but now that I see the risks I prefer not to. |
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BallistikJuice said: Thanakos said: By avoiding the error of thinking that cynicism is wisdom and that your experience can be projected to everyone else's too. Simple tips, I know they are too damn hard to implement but you can try a heuristic: try to find happy families. You might've known one or two at least. I've known many. I know some, but I also know families that are not happy, and there are way more of those than the happy ones. Great. Now consider the negative bias and adjust your observations accordingly. The ratio will look slightly more optimistic. Then apply the simple rule that success comes from emulating success (not a blind emulation ofc but no need to get into details). If you know the reasons why your marriage failed -- that is to say if you are ready to admit at all that there could be REASONS for your marriage's failure -- then you already know that there are ways to be successful in this venture too. Just rest assured with the knowledge that others, i.e yours truly, kind of knows those ways. Cheer up. |
Timz0r said: Getting married: It's nothing more but a contract with the state to give up your half your shit and your entire dignity if you're male. No thanks. Childern: We're already overpopulated causing a mass extnction. Plants and animals are all rapidly dying out because some parasic bipedal monkey and it will not stop untill we also go extinct which will happen. I don't want to put yet another parasite that's going to be forced to be a slave on this dying planet. Still, somewhere deep inside I want to raise a kid of my own because that's my biology, but in this environment, yeah, no thanks. This ^ And with current anti-male feminist courts and laws it would be a suicide. Marriage is now nothing more then a obsolete and dead religious/government institution, and it's slowly being replaced by a HOOKUP culture. |
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| If i was going to be married then it would have happen by now. Theres only been one or two partners that i've felt comfy with in my life and marriage has never been a i thought even then. |
| It's not something I plan to do, but if it happens to me to find someone and we both share the deserve of living together and getting married, why not. As for children, I want to adopt someone, despising getting married or not. |
| No thank you. I am already stressed out as it is, having to work for another person would just be tiresome and life changing for the worse. |
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