| Your first date you got invited too or someone inv you too |
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| I was 17 when I went on my first date. How about you? |
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| I will tell you once that happens... |
| Funny enough, I haven't been on a date. Will I ever go on one is something I like to avoid thinking about. |
 "You fought to the end. You survived. That's why you're here now. I think that's something you should be more proud of." - Vladilena Milizé |
| TBA™ If anyone here would like to help me practice by pretending to be my bgf, I'm down for it |
| As a sub five guy that will never happen. Lol This comment section is surprisingly accurate to my theory that 36% of men ever date. |
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| Eighteen I believe, basically once I got a job and had money to actually go places lol. |
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| I don’t remember but a good guess is 16 |
| Define "date"... rohan121 said: As a sub five guy that will never happen. Lol This comment section is surprisingly accurate to my theory that 36% of men ever date. Just post pics already. |
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| At least 22. Maybe 23, 24, 35, 47. IDK it's hard to tell. |
I haven't been on a date yet. I am very awkward for dates. What will i talk about? The cosmos?  |
| "How old were you when you went on ur first date?" 18. |
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| 2-5, hardly to categorise it as a date but well hand-holding, walkin etc. I guess it counts? 10-13 - hardly to categorise as by myself I wasn't thinking about it as a date, although the feelings were there 17-18 - when we speak about 100% serious date. |
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I haven't been on a date yet. I am very awkward for dates. What will i talk about? The cosmos?
| @My-T I mean... I would love to talk about the cosmos on dates. Find the right person for that conversation and if they are a decent person overall, marry someone, who would talk about the cosmos on dates. Once I was on a date with a woman, it was the second one, and I showed her to an orrery, my favorite orrery here, and she was like: "to be honest, that was a bit boring." Shook. :( |
| I was 15 with my first girlfriend on highschool. We ate at a restaurant. It was the most awkward shit ever LMAO |
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| I was 17 and it was with my first boyfriend at the time. He asked me out before we went on an actual date <__<;; |
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| I was 18 with my first girlfriend/ex-wife. But like... There wasn't really a first date. She lives in a different country, so I flew there to meet her the first time and we immediately lived together for 2 months xD But yeah during that time we often went on walks, sat by the river, got tattoos, ate ice cream, played video games etc. |
If life ain't just a joke Then why are we laughing? If life ain't just a joke Then why am I dead? |
| Never had a girlfriend. I hope that answers the question. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time.  |
| Eighteen. Maybe it was nineteen, but it was around that time. |
 This ground is soiled by those before me and their lies. I dare not look up for on me I feel their eyes |
| 14, She asked me out to a summer festival thing next to my locker. I was really shocked ngl didn't really register at first. Didn't take too many more dates to find out I was aroace lmao. |
| I've never been on a date. As much as I want to date and such, I'm beginning to highly doubt that it'll ever happen. |
    Summertime days, passing gentlySunlight, leading to an encounter; Dreams that don't want to end Continue onwards toward the next day While she waits in the air. |
| Went with a girl to my matric dance (or "prom" as the Americans call it) when I was 18 but I'm not sure if that can technically be called a date or not since it was purely platonic and she had a boyfriend. My first real date only happened when I was 20. |
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| 18. Haven't been on a date since then and I'm 29 now. |
| Maybe a bit late, maybe not, but at 21yo. Was it good? It was exciting, but also scary as hell and I couldn't be myself... She felt it all too well and bailed soon after xD Now I'm better with my own fear and people in general, but also old and tired... |
• あきらめないで • slice of life / drama / mystery / supernatural / fantasy / sci-fi / comedy |
| What kind of answers were you expecting asking this on a site full of anime fans? |
Some of you never watched Bakugan Battle Brawlers on TeleToon in 2008 and it shows. |
| 24 and never been on one yet, my time will come 🙏🙏 |
| I think I was sixteen, led into one relationship after the next 'til about a year ago. Always been a hermit but especially so the last year. It's been good to have space to process by myself and not jump into situations I know are bad for me! |
| BOY HOWDY! |
| 15, but we see each other anyway so... to quote the words of the fboy from back in the day "every moment I spend with her counts as a date" |
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| Idk, but all I can say is that I'll be at least 24 years old when I'm having my first date, because I've never been in one. |
| Dating... lol. "However", a very remotely similar thing sort of happened, crashed and burned hard in less than a hour in the summer of 2008 at 22 years old. Even taking for granted, to begin with, that no romance at all was going to happen because of distance (1 hour and 1/2 train trip) and it was just meeting a person from a Inuyasha forum that attended the same anime conventions and showed some sympathy for a few months when a lot of other users were ganging up against me for very petty reasons, it still was an unmitigated disaster. Borrowing from previous posts, "It was the most awkward sh.t ever", "Hated every fuck.n' minute of it", "scary as hell... She felt it all too well and bailed soon after". Even Shouko Komi would have talked more, not gonna lie (yes, i went there). All that happened was entering a mall, waiting in annoyance for her checking out music albums from singers i disliked, buying the DVD box collection of the Futurama seasons i hadn't purchased yet, and sitting above a fountain for a couple of minutes before i finally found the guts to coldly inform like a robot "i'm returning home". Yeah. The travel to the city alone (either back or forth, no difference) was longer than the """""""date""""""", and after a final MSN peaceful but still bitter confrontation one or two days later, nothing else happened after. Oh, well, in 2021 i found by accident a new social media account belonging to her posting Slam Dunk and Ranma 1/2 fanarts and apologized for my 2008 behavior, she accepted, and that was the end of all of it. It is EXTREMELY remotely technically possible that two freshly-former coworkers from my second job at McDonald's tried to ask for one in the spring of 2013 and in the summer of 2017, but all i could think about was that they were trying to pull off some cruel pranks, aware of my forever-alone-ugly-virgin status, and never liked them as people anyway. The former was infamous at the workplace for being into weird sexualised things, wasn't neither pretty nor likable or hard working, and i straight up gave her on purpose a wrong phone number when she asked mine at the end of a dinner at a oriental restaurant with co-workers that were all girls / women except for me. The latter was prettier but also very unladylike in behavior (and meanwhile, i cleaned up my act back then after i finally returned in service into my previous joint) so, once again, i ignored her texts exactly to - ironically - send a clear message that i had no interest in dating at all, and nothing happened. There was never hope for someone like me, but it's fine. i will choose watching fictional dating by Tadano x Komi, Izumi x Shikimori, Jun x Tomo, Harima x Tenma etc. etc. any goddamn day rather than rethinking about it myself. i'm almost 40 and done with mankind in general especially for more serious reasons, it's also my fault obviously for very poor choices in the past... but there's no do-over. All hope is gone. |
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| Like 22 or 23 maybe. it was shite. nothing to write home about. |
| I never cared for dating, but my first girlfriend loved me the way a real woman should love me. We spent more time communicating than dating. We didn't have to go to a restaurant or move anywhere to get to know each other. Riley Freeman kind of has a point about dating. I also agree with him suggesting that dating doesn't necessarily make women love you, but your money. Sometimes, women use dating as an excuse for validation and for exploitation a man's budget. Average women often use dating to stuff their faces like they're eating in an all you can eat buffet. Again, I'm glad that my first girlfriend and I never bothered with dating. I would take a woman out on a picnic anytime, but not on an actual date. Dating definitely sounds like a non-factor and there are better ways to get to know a real woman. If a girlfriend of mine wants to be entertained, then we could just play video games, ride bikes together or pop firecrackers someplace alone. |
Kurt_IrvingDec 24, 2023 7:51 PM
| was a year ago... i was so socially awkward because of anime and valorant and it didn't end well for me lol |
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| Not been on one yet, people are afraid to approach me because they're afraid of rejection |
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| 0 - I've never been one. Never confessed to anyone I liked and nobody ever liked me. |
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| I was 18, almost 19. It was ok, I guess. |
| Location: Turin, Italy Hobby: Music, karate, manga Favourite food: Hey, why are still interested in my stuff? |
| I was 14. I was really nervous so the date sucked. |
| Has not happened yet, and I'm not into anyone currently. |
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| I was 18 years old and it was at a mcdonalds. |
| This thread would have been more helpful if each person not only said their age, but also their gender It wouldnt surprise me if the girls here said a very early age when they had their first date, and the guys here said a very late age when they had their first date. |
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