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Jan 8, 2022 3:18 AM
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Like really. They can't take personal opinions. They verbally insult others in random threads out of nowhere. They criticize one for not writing "imo" in his/her reply.
Like wtf?
And if someone argues with them they will jut say "damn your english is so broken.Fix it first"" or find some ignorable typing mistakes and run away
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Jan 8, 2022 3:20 AM
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there are 4 kinds of people

the idiot

the bum

the arrogant douche

and the thug/bully
Jan 8, 2022 3:21 AM
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It's because their shit's all dame dame but don't worry man because everythings gonna be daizyobuu.
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Jan 8, 2022 3:26 AM
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The_Early_Bird said:
Like really. They can't take personal opinions. The verbally insult others in random threads out of nowhere. They criticize one for not writing "imo" in their reply.
Like wtf?
And when if someone argues with them they will jut say "damn your english is so broken or find some ignorable typing mistakes. Fix it first" and run away


Because many people in this site, IRL, is heart broken losers or NEET, disabled mentally or physically or both

But I always try to ignore if anyone here being rude


Jan 8, 2022 3:28 AM
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Cladocera said:
Well, isn't that just... the internet?

Also, with that title you're kind of making a statement that people on this site are arrogant, not just expressing your opinion. This is honestly the case with most threads about MAL started with "Why..." that I've come across. It provokes reactions.
i see now that i see from your point you are right
Jan 8, 2022 3:33 AM
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I don't think OP knows what arrogant means.

@philtecturophy You're a loser and you're in relationships. Neets because they want to be or because their parent hold them back? I honestly can't.
Jan 8, 2022 3:52 AM
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I want to write a proper reply, but yet again, I cannot take people with bad punctuation seriously. Like, please. <--- This is the proper way to write this sentence, by the way. There is a comma after the word "like." <--- Here, there is a period, and it goes inside the quotation marks. Notice the comma before "and"? (The question mark doesn't follow the above rule, by the way). Yes, I am not listing in this case.

But anyway, I think you are generalizing.
Jan 8, 2022 4:10 AM
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Some users have a superiority complex but those are few. You are generalizing only because people were mean online.
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Jan 8, 2022 4:16 AM
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So.. Welcome to the Internet I guess.
Jan 8, 2022 4:27 AM

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149597871 said:
I want to write a proper reply, but yet again, I cannot take people with bad punctuation seriously. Like, please. <--- This is the proper way to write this sentence, by the way. There is a comma after the word "like." <--- Here, there is a period, and it goes inside the quotation marks. Notice the comma before "and"? (The question mark doesn't follow the above rule, by the way). Yes, I am not listing in this case.

But anyway, I think you are generalizing.
live and most recent example of my thread. literally an epitome of my thread.
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Jan 8, 2022 4:36 AM

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AmityBlight said:
I don't think OP knows what arrogant means.

@philtecturophy You're a loser and you're in relationships. Neets because they want to be or because their parent hold them back? I honestly can't.


I copy paste my response from other thread:

I understand you doubt how can a guy like me have gf at all.
I'm not normal and I have chronic pain tailbone.
But I have other positive aspects in my life: my look is above average (was voted the cutest boy in my school, and Im tall as well), I can play classical piano (more than 12 years: chopin's works, debussy, beethoven, etc.), I play drum as well, I study both civil (structural engineering) and architecture (pretty expert in computational design), and am pretty good at computer programming (I can develop my own FEA and optimization software), so I guess I'm intellectual as well



Jan 8, 2022 4:44 AM

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Only on this site? Lol, the internet in general is a pretty arrogant place, as anonymity creates the illusion that any behavior cannot be punished.
Jan 8, 2022 4:46 AM
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damn your english is so broken.Fix it first
Jan 8, 2022 4:52 AM
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philtecturophy said:
AmityBlight said:
I don't think OP knows what arrogant means.

@philtecturophy You're a loser and you're in relationships. Neets because they want to be or because their parent hold them back? I honestly can't.


I copy paste my response from other thread:

I understand you doubt how can a guy like me have gf at all.
I'm not normal and I have chronic pain tailbone.
But I have other positive aspects in my life: my look is above average (was voted the cutest boy in my school, and Im tall as well), I can play classical piano (more than 12 years: chopin's works, debussy, beethoven, etc.), I play drum as well, I study both civil (structural engineering) and architecture (pretty expert in computational design), and am pretty good at computer programming (I can develop my own FEA and optimization software), so I guess I'm intellectual as well



Congratulations that had nothing to do with anything lol.
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Jan 8, 2022 4:54 AM
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try to not take anything on the internet too seriously, OP. it's only going to make you feel worse.
Jan 8, 2022 5:00 AM

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Ummm, welcome to the internet I guess?

Jan 8, 2022 5:14 AM

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pretty sure there are arrogant peoples everywhere.
And like usual, idiots and douchebags are often the most vocal part of a community, or at the very least the part that stands out the most, no matter which community we're talking about.
Also this community has a lots of kids, who simply lack the maturity to act otherwise. Some of them may be quite ashamed of the behaviour they had in their teen in 10 years lmao.
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@AmityBlight I think you are trolling, so I will just ignore


Jan 8, 2022 5:29 AM

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Anonymity brings out the worst in people.
Jan 8, 2022 5:43 AM

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that's why i always says im not too good to english.
im not too good to speak english

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Jan 8, 2022 6:09 AM

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Logical_ said:
that's why i always says im not too good to english.
yo
i definitely won't say that
never ever
i am not scared of them that i will confess if have a bad english
i ill do my usual job
Jan 8, 2022 6:10 AM

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Gutsfanboy said:
damn your english is so broken.Fix it first
lol
thanks for making my day.
he he..
Jan 8, 2022 6:16 AM

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The_Early_Bird said:
Logical_ said:
that's why i always says im not too good to english.
yo
i definitely won't say that
never ever
i am not scared of them that i will confess if have a bad english
i ill do my usual job
That's good for you bro, I do that because i tired so many people tell me my english is broken.
im not too good to speak english

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Jan 8, 2022 6:18 AM

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Congrats, you're on Internet. A place where a victim can become a bully too.

Anime fans in general are toxic. Many of them aren't only arrogant but ignorant too.
Jan 8, 2022 7:09 AM

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Because most of us are losers who never had friends in real life, nor any agency when talking to people, so now that we can hide behind our screens and be heard/being paid attention to, our arrogance and over-confidence grow. And with anime having become so trendy all of a sudden, the anime community has gotten even worse.
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Jan 8, 2022 7:11 AM
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I don't know. A lot of people are wannabe writers. I honestly find a lot of people's criticisms about anime on this site to be dumb.
Jan 8, 2022 7:19 AM
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philtecturophy said:
@AmityBlight I think you are trolling, so I will just ignore


Yup I am trolling LMFAO. No.
I find hilarious you had nerve to call people losers, yet all do cry like baby and self pity.
Jan 8, 2022 7:34 AM

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it's the internet, it shouldn't even be surprising anymore. i mean look at twitter
Jan 8, 2022 7:42 AM

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Pride may come before a fall, but smugness comes with being the greatest.

Jan 8, 2022 8:44 AM

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You have all my sympathy fam, but bear in mind that you're on MAL, lotta folks here just aren't pleasant people to talk to lol.
Jan 8, 2022 9:15 AM

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Kinda ironic coming from you lol...

Jan 8, 2022 9:34 AM
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Haven't met that here personally sorry to hear that, even if it happens perhaps I don't even see it after experiencing the roasting on call of duty voice chats and other video games multiplayer text/voice chats x)
Jan 8, 2022 9:38 AM

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Don't worry, buddy. I balance out their collective arrogance with my tremendous humility.
Jan 8, 2022 9:48 AM

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The_Early_Bird said:
Like really. They can't take personal opinions. They verbally insult others in random threads out of nowhere. They criticize one for not writing "imo" in his/her reply.
Like wtf?
And if someone argues with them they will jut say "damn your english is so broken.Fix it first"" or find some ignorable typing mistakes and run away


Not sure I would call this arrogance. It smacks more of insecurity or the inability to control ones emotions or some combination of the above. Also people troll or just want to be edgy. I will say too many people take the internet too seriously. Better to be cool and chilled out and not let stupid stuff get to you!
Jan 8, 2022 9:56 AM
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'Cause those kind of people are insecure and emotionally immature lol. They can't disagree reasonably or respectfully so they resort to insults or mockery.

They also feel emboldened to do so 'cause they have the safety of a keyboard and the chances of any physical consequences are slim to none
Jan 8, 2022 10:07 AM
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What do you expect from people that barely know how to articulate themselves. You are not going to get civil discussions from those people.
Jan 8, 2022 10:08 AM

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darrenkbenn said:
Kinda ironic coming from you lol...
lol you got me there.
i was a little cautious to prevent people who already know me.
but well i am damned
Jan 8, 2022 9:30 PM
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I really never met arrogant people on this website. All the people I met here are cool C:
Jan 8, 2022 10:29 PM

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MilkMonster said:
AmityBlight said:


Yup I am trolling LMFAO. No.
I find hilarious you had nerve to call people losers, yet all do cry like baby and self pity.
he thinks he's special lol in his head the world is a rosy place.

What do you know about it? The man is suffering 24/7 he has chronic tailbone pain.

AmityBlight said:
philtecturophy said:
@AmityBlight I think you are trolling, so I will just ignore


Yup I am trolling LMFAO. No.
I find hilarious you had nerve to call people losers, yet all do cry like baby and self pity.

He said heartbroken losers. You should know what that feels like since you just had a break up because you were insecure that the girl still feels something for her ex and your ego couldn’t take it.
Jan 8, 2022 11:16 PM

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Arrogance isn't so much a problem, it's when arrogance leads to total disrespect towards others.

I have met a lot of arrogant people in real life and sometimes that is just how some people are. Where they draw the line is when they bluntly have a total disregard for anyone else around them and/or a complete lack of respect towards any peers.

I feel bad for people like this because they try to be apart of a community by joining conversations that they constantly denigrate, disparage, and sometimes down right act disrespectfully to others when participating without any self awareness of how most view them collectively.

Sometimes these people don't even care which makes it even more difficult to interact with. Unless you are at least some what of a pseudo-keyboard jockey, it's hardly worth the time or energy to reply back to an antagonistic post even if it's personally directed towards you specifically.

The easiest solution to deal with such behavior is simply just ignoring them.
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Jan 9, 2022 12:41 AM
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Yes, I recently joined and i saw one post where people are continuously trying to prove each other wrong.
Jan 9, 2022 12:45 AM

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This video explains it all:



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We are just so powerful ahHHHHhh!!!
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SemillaMinoria said:
MilkMonster said:
he thinks he's special lol in his head the world is a rosy place.

What do you know about it? The man is suffering 24/7 he has chronic tailbone pain.


Nah, I have to jump on the hate train and agree with them, Akko. I have three slipped discs in my back, and I haven't mentioned it even once despite having 5k+ posts. His comments are full of self-pity, which some people indeed find annoying. Reminds me of Seiya.
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149597871 said:
SemillaMinoria said:

What do you know about it? The man is suffering 24/7 he has chronic tailbone pain.


Nah, I have to jump on the hate train and agree with them, Akko. I have three slipped discs in my back, and I haven't mentioned it even once despite having 5k+ posts. His comments are full of self-pity, which some people indeed find annoying. Reminds me of Seiya.

My father had a couple of slipped disks too which caused him 24/7 pain especially in the limbs and he couldn’t find a working treatment either. . I can sympathise. I’m surprised that you don’t. What is your experience with it? You are the only person that hasn’t complained about it.
Jan 9, 2022 7:21 AM

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I assume it's the same reason most people are arrogant anywhere: men who have become possessed by their own neckbeards.
Jan 9, 2022 7:28 AM

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The_Early_Bird said:
Like really. They can't take personal opinions. They verbally insult others in random threads out of nowhere. They criticize one for not writing "imo" in his/her reply.
Like wtf?
And if someone argues with them they will jut say "damn your english is so broken.Fix it first"" or find some ignorable typing mistakes and run away


As one person once said "Oh cutie, was someone not nice to you on the internet?".

Just stay based you giga chad, don't let them non-sigmas take you off the grind king.
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SemillaMinoria said:
149597871 said:


Nah, I have to jump on the hate train and agree with them, Akko. I have three slipped discs in my back, and I haven't mentioned it even once despite having 5k+ posts. His comments are full of self-pity, which some people indeed find annoying. Reminds me of Seiya.

My father had a couple of slipped disks too which caused him 24/7 pain especially in the limbs and he couldn’t find a working treatment either. . I can sympathise. I’m surprised that you don’t. What is your experience with it? You are the only person that hasn’t complained about it.


Oh... My situation is not that bad. At first, I thought my life was over and was a bit depressed, but I pretty much returned to doing my everyday activities after a few weeks, and most of the pain disappeared over the next several months or so. Now I just avoid heavy squats, deadlifts, and similar exercises. I also use a special bed/futon and keep a pillow between my legs when sleeping. There is no pain in the limbs for me, but my leg may go numb every now and then.

I guess I was a bit lucky, and being young definitely helps too. I haven't told anyone in real life either, and I refused all treatments and medications since I don't think the doctors have my best interest in mind. They often resort to unnecessary surgeries so they can squeeze some money out of the healthcare system and people's pockets.

Of course, I can sympathize with those who have similar problems, but some young people don't have the correct mentality that can help them get better.
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because eat my wiener, that's why =))))))
Jan 9, 2022 10:51 AM
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That's an interesting question. I always found it strange how western anime fans are so die hard in the sense they are so adamant on their favorite show being the best and rarely put it up to discussion. Along with the a lot of users think they're professional critiques and think how they rate shows is perfect and never faulty. You don't really see this die hard behavior as much in western media.
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