Prox1mately said:
There's also Diabolik Lovers, though it has been some time since it aired. I mean, there are plenty of mean men in anime. Then, of course, you also have constantly sexualized women and the harems for the overpowered men, never-ending seas of loli-ecchi type stuff, uh... and so forth. I've seen my fair share and I can't say you have a reason to complain in terms of sheer content that's available.
That being said, in And, I mean... you have Redo of Healer, so... like... it's getting cancelled by those repulsed by it but to my understanding it's still ongoing. I mean, I didn't continue watching that revenge rape porn for more than five minutes, I prefer when the porn I watch is straight with me about what it is and isn't trying to normalize rape porn in conventional media. And I favor whatever porn that doesn't actually involve hurting people (emotionally, traumatizing etc.) in production, I've definitely seen other forms of porn as well but it's not like I'd be mad if that shit got banned on porn sites.
All of this being said, I don't think neither Top-kun or Yugesai are helping the convesation by belittling each-other. I don't care who started. Feminism is about bringing women to the forefront since they are actively belittled by plenty of people in power, we wouldn't be as close to equal opportunity as we are today if not for those that literally risked their lives and careers to fight for a just cause.
If you're for humanitarian support, all the respect to you. But any feminist that tries to convince you that men aren't worthy of self-respect or to be loved, or any such thing, is not a feminist. So you don't have to buy it when they say they are, find people who really are and simply stick to the definition. If people change the definition in the future, that's cool, but we still have a pretty big difference in power dynamics between men and women in the workforce. That shit hurts to change, you better believe it, because people have been taught differently, they project their sexual insecurities onto the whole other sex, and a whole bunch of other things to avoid engaging with better intentions (because who knows, maybe the one you're talking to isn't being honest, you might better hide who you are right now lest the whole world explodes when you utter a sentence). To say something sexist (goes both ways, obviously) is always wrong, but you can't act with the fear of doing that wrong as a baseline. But, you can accept that it's wrong and simply stick to doing better and offer a proper apology. That's pretty rough, but it's the only safe line you have to connect authentically with another person.