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Nov 20, 2018 8:03 AM
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Hey guys. Imagine that you are walking on the street and at some point you see a girl getting bullied by a guy. They both are the same age, and they are both highschoolers, but they are not relatives or a couple of ex-es. The guy is just a bully from that girl's school, and everytime he sees her, he starts to bully her for no reason. You hear him screaming at her, cussing at her, making fun of her, throwing her stuff and so on, and she just stands there and cry, because she is weak and can't do anything about it. She is too afraid of the guy.
What would you do in this kind of situation?
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Nov 20, 2018 8:08 AM
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Nothing cause it has nothing to do with me
Nov 20, 2018 8:15 AM
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Of course I would help the girl,but I would tell her after to always fight back.

A bullied person needs to do just one thing! Show you are not afraid,kick back even if you are weaker than the enemy,you need to show them you will defend yourself at all cause! This happens all the time, but if you counter-attack they will back away! This is very important to show that you are not afraid.People who bully others are nothing but cowards and weak people, who can't pick someone their own size.I say fight back.

Nov 20, 2018 8:17 AM
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I could not bear to see such a scene. Yes, I would try to defend it.
Nov 20, 2018 8:24 AM
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knowing myself, i might panic if i were a bystander to such a situation, not because i wouldn't know what
to do, but because i'm not sure i have the guts to confront the bully. ofc the best choice imo is to confront
him and help the girl out. i can't stand watching bitterness like this happen right in front of my eyes.
      
Nov 20, 2018 8:28 AM
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I'm totally against bullying, If I see someone being bullied I try to help them the best I can and stop the bully.
Nov 20, 2018 8:30 AM
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How so?
Are you not a weeb?
Have you never watching shounen?
You should interrupt him and hit him with a punch and after it saying a catchphrase to look cool.


"というわけで。待望の、体 操 服! でっあ~る。祭りであれば、余も着飾ってはいられぬと用意したが……うむ! 心身ともに軽くなったようだ。どうだ? 似合っているであろう、マスター?" - Random Quote From Internet by Saber Nero

Nov 20, 2018 8:35 AM
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MrBluee said:
Are you not a weeb?


This might seem shocking, but no, I'm not a weeb. Fortunately.
Nov 20, 2018 8:40 AM
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Nothing, don't see any reason for risking myself to get in trouble with the police for someone I don't know, more if they if are high schoolers, giving my age iI could be sued for the parents of the guy.

Nov 20, 2018 8:47 AM

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id try to confront him with words at first
if it doesnt work or begins to get physical i will call the cops on him
Nov 20, 2018 9:07 AM

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Kuroko-chan said:
Hey guys. Imagine that you are walking on the street and at some point you see a girl getting bullied by a guy. They both are the same age, and they are both highschoolers, but they are not relatives or a couple of ex-es. The guy is just a bully from that girl's school, and everytime he sees her, he starts to bully her for no reason. You hear him screaming at her, cussing at her, making fun of her, throwing her stuff and so on, and she just stands there and cry, because she is weak and can't do anything about it. She is too afraid of the guy.
What would you do in this kind of situation?
Walk over and punch him in his stupid face?

No, really. A little bit of violence goes a long way against bullies.
*lampoons inwardly*
Nov 20, 2018 9:13 AM

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Confront the guy and tell him he’s making a scene. Ignore the girl, she should learn to fight her own battles
Nov 20, 2018 9:23 AM

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Kuroko-chan said:
MrBluee said:
Are you not a weeb?


This might seem shocking, but no, I'm not a weeb. Fortunately.


After seeing your profile, it's not a shock... Now I can see you're a (wo)man of culture.


"というわけで。待望の、体 操 服! でっあ~る。祭りであれば、余も着飾ってはいられぬと用意したが……うむ! 心身ともに軽くなったようだ。どうだ? 似合っているであろう、マスター?" - Random Quote From Internet by Saber Nero

Nov 20, 2018 9:30 AM
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Be careful . In case of bad luck one of them might be in possession of gun or a knife .

Unless your are confident of your verbal and physical skills , don't even think of interfering .
Nov 20, 2018 9:34 AM

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I wouldn't do anything by myself cause I won't be risking my health for a random person, but if there's any basis to call the police then I wouldn't hesitate.
Nov 20, 2018 9:34 AM
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Wait for the bully to leave and then help the girl
Nov 20, 2018 1:22 PM
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It is dependent on multiple factors I guess, for example:

Location - is this happening in the middle of the street? is there no one else around? is there cameras?
The Bully - Are they a behemoth monster that would kill me if I tried to intervene? How extreme is this bullying? Are they potentially carrying a weapon?
What am I doing at the time - Am I going to a lecture? Have I to be at a meeting of some sort? Am I going to work? Or am I just going shopping?
Myself - Am I a suitable person to stop this? Do I want to risk what I have? Have I got a sprained ankle? Could I potentially get in to trouble with the police in this situation? What age am I?

There is more factors of course, but this is what came to my head.

In general though, I would most likely help if it was extreme. In this case, I guess I would because I think throwing the girls stuff around is too far. You can just walk away from shouting, but if they are throwing stuff around, that stuff has potential to valuable. Also, I am the same age as someone in their last year of high school here so it wouldn't look weird for me to intervene I think. If they're bullying a weak school girl, they most likely aren't that tough themselves even if they look it.
Nov 20, 2018 1:39 PM

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"Start fapping LOL"
now you got some weird fetish if you're actually going to do that lol

Anyways, I would just tell the bully to leave her alone.

And if he dare try doing something against me, I won't hesitate to teach him a lesson.
Nov 20, 2018 1:39 PM

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nothing. not my place to play white knight

doesn't involve me? not my problem
Nov 20, 2018 1:52 PM

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As expected, the meme answer is the most popular one. It's really kinda pointless to include them because they'll always win anyway.

On the actual topic though, I'd call the police/teachers.
Nov 20, 2018 2:06 PM
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I would not do anything because

1) I don't know the context of the situation'
2) If I get involved the guy would get even angrier
Nov 20, 2018 2:07 PM

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harshtruth said:
nothing. not my place to play white knight

doesn't involve me? not my problem
bullying a gurl in highschool?
dat sound too much of a faggotry brah
i mean why can da boi just be cool and be nice, think and act according to his dong's instinct. the last person i bullied in highschool was a boi, my retarded creepy looking classmate
this thread is a fault, the scenario would likely never gonna happen irl



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Nov 20, 2018 2:09 PM

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FruitPunchChinpo said:
harshtruth said:
nothing. not my place to play white knight

doesn't involve me? not my problem
bullying a gurl in highschool?
dat sound too much of a faggotry brah
i mean why can da boi just be cool and be nice, think and act according to his dong's instinct. the last person i bullied in highschool was a boi, my retarded creepy looking classmate
this thread is a fault, the scenario would likely never gonna happen irl
people are imagining anime scenarios where they save the damsel in distress and they slowly fall in love lol. i admire the stupid since they're truly happy
Nov 20, 2018 2:11 PM

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I would probably just gather other people to deal with it if it is bad enough. If it is just a verbal disagreement I would mind my own bussiness and move on.
Nov 20, 2018 2:12 PM

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To be honest, since I haven't been in such a situation, I cannot say for sure how I will react. But that depends on multiple factors, as @Taylor3112 stated above.


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"Start fapping LOL"
now you got some weird fetish if you're actually going to do that lol
I wonder, why the other answer that could be interpreted as a fetish as well, seems to be not popular. I mean, it could have some legit use as valuable proof. But then again, it depends on the laws of the respective country. Some may be more strict when it comes to violating the privacy of others through filming; others have good Samaritan laws in place where filming wouldn't be seen as helping out.
Nov 20, 2018 2:35 PM

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Kuroko-chan said:
MrBluee said:
Are you not a weeb?


This might seem shocking, but no, I'm not a weeb. Fortunately.

Koreaboo was it ? I think thats the correct term.
Nov 20, 2018 2:38 PM

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I always confronted bullies or potential bullies for their BS, I still would if I found out.
Nov 20, 2018 2:51 PM

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tell the dude ill stop selling him adderall if he keeps making scenes
Nov 20, 2018 5:14 PM

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The chances of me going outside is relatively non-existence than a girl being bullied outside.
Nov 20, 2018 5:25 PM

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This scenario is terribad. Why would you bully a weak girl like that for no gain? Like, at least take her lunch money or something. Obviously the correct answer is to pull out my .45 and mug both of them as my social obligations as a black knight to practice evil noblesse oblige is obliged. I do not want to, but the code demands I do so.
Nov 20, 2018 5:29 PM

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Railey2 said:
Walk over and punch him in his stupid face?

No, really. A little bit of violence goes a long way against bullies.

One time back in high school, this guy was hitting one of my friends (who had a broken leg...or something to that effect; at this point I don't recall) in the knee. I warned him to stop hitting her. He continued, so I picked him up and threw him on the ground. He was like, "Thanks, I needed that." lol. I was friends with him too. XD
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I don't really know. Would have to actually be in the situation. It really depends if it looks playfully mean or aggressive. Also how far away it is from me. Too much to account for. I would think I would talk to the girl at least.
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Nov 20, 2018 5:40 PM

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I'm very powerful so he'll definitely run once I get near him! In all seriousness though I would definitely go over there and tell him to stop and push him away. And if he actually starts to fight i'll just have beat his ass I guess? Luckily i'm pretty strong :) I HATE BULLYING!

Nov 20, 2018 5:43 PM

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um i would help her... who tf would just ignore it.
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Nov 20, 2018 9:48 PM

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Context matters... who am I exactly in this situation? A person of authority? A relative? A friend? Just some random passerby? As a 20 something guy it would be pretty odd to step into to some highschool drama.

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
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Nov 21, 2018 4:47 AM
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Call the police, if it's a violent or life-threatening situation I'll try to stop it myself but how did you know their story and the motive if you are just a stranger passing by? And what the fuck is this whole situation it's usually girls who bully girls to begin with, what's that fap-worthy scenario for hero wannabees who believe that the only way to get a girlfriend is doing some heroic and noble act in front of her? Like get real, you are already picturing having sex with a highschooler after "saving" her from the "bad' guy. If that's called justice I'd rather live in a complete anarchy. First we had guys who want to become fitness instructors so they can touch a girl's butt now it's on a whole new level and about beating a kid in order to get laid with another.
Nov 21, 2018 4:56 AM

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but they are not relatives or a couple of ex-es
How would I know, unless I somehow knew them?

and everytime he sees her, he starts to bully her for no reason
Without knowing them, that would be an assumption on my part.

What would you do in this kind of situation?
What is there to do? I don't know either of them, and unless the guy physically assaults her, I don't see a reason to get involved... High school isn't a pretty place, but it's where you go to learn things (and not just what the teachers tell you).
Nov 21, 2018 7:42 AM
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Swagernator said:
Kuroko-chan said:


This might seem shocking, but no, I'm not a weeb. Fortunately.

Koreaboo was it ? I think thats the correct term.


The term koreaboo doesn't bother me in the slightest. I actually like that term.
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"Start fapping LOL"
now you got some weird fetish if you're actually going to do that lol

Anyways, I would just tell the bully to leave her alone.

And if he dare try doing something against me, I won't hesitate to teach him a lesson.


Omg, that was just as a joke to lighten up the mood, but geeze, some people take it too seriously.
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Kuroko-chan said:
Swagernator said:

Koreaboo was it ? I think thats the correct term.


The term koreaboo doesn't bother me in the slightest. I actually like that term.

Yeah, we should accept what we are, i like that.

Im doing the same.
Nov 21, 2018 4:58 PM

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Honestly, I'm walking away. I'm sure if the girl can call the police like anyone else can.
Nov 21, 2018 5:03 PM

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I'd prob confront the guy if I had time to spare.

Like maybe a "this ain't it dude" or something, nothing too big because I don't know the context, but if I see it happening it often enough I'd be a bit more harsh on the dude.

Idk, I don't want to seem like someone who hasn't got the memo yet, for all I know the girls a masochist or something.


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Am I just standing around watching it unfold? Because I can't imagine a situation where the drama would play out long enough for me to grasp the context. If I just step in, I'm probably either a white knight or a pedophile, meddling with the affair of high schoolers. When people look at older men like they're creeps, these are the consequences.

If I walk past the situation and it's close enough for me to say, "Hey are you okay?", without deliberately going out of my way, then that's the only chance any action will happen. But if you're expecting me to cross the street, or if I'm going North, and all of a sudden turn around and walk 30 feet Southwest, forget about it.

If the bully was overt and indefensible i.e. he's flat out hitting her, then yeah probably. At that point it's a judgment call, and I don't always make the right one.
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I’ll react in defense of the one being bullied.
Honestly, the bully would probably be weirded out and leave if you said, "Hey guy, it looks like you're having fun. Can I join in?"
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It all depends on the age of the bully. If the bully looks 18+ I would finally have a reason to went out my dark urges and break some of his bones. If the bully is a kid I would tell him to get the hell away from her.
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As an adult it would be really of shitty of me to ignore a teen in trouble. I know that if I was in her place, I would be incredibly bitter and emotionally devastated if I saw people that could help in some way but just carried on with themselves. It would feel like I wasn't worth anything.

So yeah, I would confront the guy. And usually when a piece of shit like that is confronted, more people get the courage to join in and help so hopefully it wouldn't be just me after that point.

If it was just us, then I'd kick threaten to call the police and, worst case, kick him in the balls.



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Apotheosis-Chan said:
katsucats said:
Honestly, the bully would probably be weirded out and leave if you said, "Hey guy, it looks like you're having fun. Can I join in?"


Lol that’s exactly what I want, get this dude to feel awkward and uncomfortable and then he’ll get out


No way that's gonna happen. What happens is you two'll just fight, and the girl leaves while the chance...or stand there watching you two.
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Lol that’s exactly what I want, get this dude to feel awkward and uncomfortable and then he’ll get out


No way that's gonna happen. What happens is you two'll just fight, and the girl leaves while the chance...or stand there watching you two.


That is why I tried to tell yall the realest way of keeping it real earlier. You gotta show these kids there are bigger badder predators in the jungle. Like, I dunno, it might just be me walking around with my trusty XD Tactical .45 in my waistband, but for real. You gotta just whip that piece out on em. Then in your best Arnold voice scream "GET DOWN NAAAAOOOOOOWWWWW!!!!". I want both of yalls money, not your life, but if you make a move I won't think twice. I mean, I keep a trusty balaclava handy at all times also so you should prolly put that on first, just, you know, for posterity. It never hurts to be prepared. Even if they don't have any money take their shoes or clothes or something. Never leave empty handed when asserting dominance. it doesn't matter I can't wear your little bitch shoes, I am still taking them shits. They will be so grateful to you for doing this they will forget about their little high school squabbles.
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I dunno, I think it’s pretty variable. There’s not enough deets on the scenario to know what kind of person this is, what they’re willing to do, what the background is on this conflict. I think in most scenarios though, you can probably talk to them in a way that’ll get to them. You just have to use the right words. Bullies are humans like anyone else, they can be worked with.


Yeah that's generally true. I still believe high chance you'll fight before you could talk to them since bullying's on the work.


As for which action, I make records of the bullying and then confront the guy after that. Best having a proof it happened to back you up before you go straight to the guy. Helps the girl too. Just one action isn't enough. (Damn I'm the only one who choose that)
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Nothing cause it has nothing to do with me



Fucking awful way of doing it


Back in highschool i would barge into them and become the one who got beat up instead was worth it though .......if your not going to help someone in trouble do you really have worth as a person?
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