| Have you ever told someone or even hid your love for BL? I mean as an avid BL reader and watcher I've actually never told my parents that I like what you call "gay love" or "boys love" My friends think it's weird or they love it too |
| I don't think it makes for a very good conversation topic among friends or family. I just don't talk about it. Everyone around me just has this secret agreement on it that they all love it but will not talk about it. |
| I am neither. I love mah waifu and despise the MC because it ain't me. And, I call it BL yaoi, like any other... |
| I don't have an interest in BL one way or another, it's Girls' Love for me. But to clarify, fudanshi is just a synonym for fujoshi, right? |
"I'd take rampant lesbianism over nuclear armageddon or a supervolcano any day." ~nikiforova |
InsaneLeader13 said: I don't have an interest in BL one way or another, it's Girls' Love for me. But to clarify, fudanshi is just a synonym for fujoshi, right? Yeah, It means a guy who likes BL. I'm kind of open about it but I don't tell everyone because they'll think I'm weird. |
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Thanakos said: I don't think it makes for a very good conversation topic among friends or family. I just don't talk about it. Everyone around me just has this secret agreement on it that they all love it but will not talk about it. Same with me I feel like that if you tell your parents their reactions will vary from sour to I don't really mind if you like it or not |
minaroyu said: Thanakos said: I don't think it makes for a very good conversation topic among friends or family. I just don't talk about it. Everyone around me just has this secret agreement on it that they all love it but will not talk about it. Same with me I feel like that if you tell your parents their reactions will vary from sour to I don't really mind if you like it or not I once brought it up in front of my older cousin and she reacted negatively. I only said, 'It's better than the alternative of being into girls, isn't it?', and that was enough to shut her up lol. Oh and yes homosexuality is still a bit of a taboo around here. |
| I'm open about it, but like most of my interests I don't actually actively talk about it with people outside of my friends and family. I don't treat my love for BL/GL any differently than I do my love for a TV show, so even if the people around me react negatively about it I don't particularly care. Homosexuality is a bit frowned upon around where I live as well but I really just don't care enough to hide something I'm interested in lol. |
| I'm open about being a fujoshi, be it anyone a stranger, a friend or a family member. Being homophobic is a no go, I mean I can understand people dislike homosexuals for some reason, find them disgusting or ill, but they are humans aswell. I have no one around who would be homophobic so no one really minded me letting open a tab with a yaoi manga or me reading yaoi in public where even strangers could see it. Else I wouldn't care much either. |
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| As a straight male, I guess I borderline what one would call a "Fudanshi." I don't tell people about it, but if someone asked me, maybe I would, or maybe I wouldn't. I don't read Yaoi Manga though, I'd rather just look at solo pictures of girly Anime boys. Mazjojo draws some pretty "Interesting" stuff. |
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Seiya said: Mazjojo draws some pretty "Interesting" stuff. I couldn't agree more, that stuff is a gem :> |
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| i dont really go up to anyone and say ''I LOVE GAY THINGS'' because its never a subject i talk about |
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| I enjoy straight, yaoi, yuri, futanari, the occasional bestiality (Is there an anime term for that?)... It's all good. But I don't know anyone who would be interested in my sexual interests, so I don't share them IRL. |
| Im open fujoshi/fudanshi hater, does that count as well ? |
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| I'm an open fujoshi, obviously :3 No reason to be closet about it |
| Pretty open about it. But I don't like the term fujoshi. There is a clear cut connotation for that label and it doesn't fit or suit me in anyway. Also don't like the negative implications of it. I don't like stuff because it's two males / females. I love it because of the chemistry and representation. |
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| What's the point of telling other people that you like BL? Why would you want to scream your fetish at your family ? |
  buy mochi at the mochi store and friends at the friend store |
| I'm open about being a fujoshi online, but I'd never go up to my mother and go "I love looking at anime men fucking each other" lol. |
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| Gay pairing or not, I don't hide what I like lol. Tbh, I have enjoyed BL and yaoi titles in the past but I've grown a bit wary of the bad portrayals of gay couples. |
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| I guess I would be a closeted fudanshi. not and overly obsessed though just intriging. Its deffinately not something to talk about around fam and friends. even yuri. embarrassing 😳 |
| whats the point of a closeted fujoshi? because youre a woman who fetishizes gay men's relationships, and youre too scared to admit you cant appreciate m/m couples like a normal human being? id consider myself fudanshi only considering my interest in m/m content. |
| If people bring it up, I will say that I appreciate any sort of relationship. I am not into any of those terms, however. I am not obsessive about it as I once was. |
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| Nope. I appreciate the cause but I don't worship the cause. I'm not one into shipping, and I treat yaoi/yuri like any other straight couple. |
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| I don't know about that but when I do, I revive thread. |
| I'm just the OG Bulgarian. I'm not down with that Yaoi thang |
| ~ Nas, The "OG Bulgarian"~ Formerly known as: ~ Gokuvich, The "OG Bulgarian"~  |
 I am a fan of yaoi. And also open to yuri.Guys loves yuri and they hate yaoi.  |
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| I'm pretty open about it, I love yaoi and BL with all my heart. I watch a lot of LGBT themed movies and used to read plenty of doujins. People think it's kinda weird for boys to be into BL butt fuck it. |
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| Why would I be closet about it :> Nothing to be ashamed of. |
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| I am a closeted fudanshi. Fudanshi Koukou Seikatsu made me realize that. |
 "No matter how far you travel, you can never get away from yourself." -- Murakami Haruki |
| I don't like boy's love-period. Girl's love? Yeah, I can get behind that. |
| Life Is Short But Intense. |
| Why would I go around bragging about my lemon fic preferences IRL? Sorry but that's just stupid |
 Nico- said: Conversations with people pinging/quoting me to argue about some old post I wrote years ago will not be entertained@Comic_Sans oh no y arnt ppl dieing i need more ppl dieing rly gud plot avansement jus liek tokyo ghoul if erbudy dies amirite |
| I keep my bara men's love to myself when it comes to family. Now when it comes anyone outside them, I don't care but I don't really go out of my way to talk about it unless my friends want me to. I read bara in public before too without any shame, hell, I got a random woman into the genre too. I couldn't believe it either. |
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Nemurasan said: YusakuGodai said: I am a closeted fudanshi. Fudanshi Koukou Seikatsu made me realize that. welcome to club fudanshi-kun!!! how is it now that u like yaoi!!! Haha, thanks I guess? Nothing's changed in particular actually. I just freak out sometimes like Gucchi :P That's all. |
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