 Are they not the scum of the Earth? Casual relationship with older women in her early 30s. She was the one who insisted it be more of a fling than me. Do this for months on end with the occasional dates once in a blue moon but slowly lost interest due to her neediness. Saturday night she wanted to go to the bar with me but I decided to watch Kekkai Sensen, Ballroom, Mahoutsukai no Yome and Dragon Ball Super then finish the night off with some Rick and Morty season 3. She hates anime and hates cartoons in general but really wanted to go out. We got into a heated argument and I told her to fuck off. Today I get this, I rush over to her apartment and she was happy to see me, hugged me and said I was happy to make it. Fucking batshit insane bitch. Now I can't leave in fear she actually does commit suicide and blames me for it. She told me she would blame me and make bruises if I ever left her. This is getting fucked up. |
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| Yes, they should all die. Oh wait, what was your question again? Now seriously, you're in quite a shitty situation. It's pretty risky to just assume she's not serious about it. When it happens, it's too late. I don't even know what you should do. Good luck. |
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| I have a friend in a similar situation currently. Every time they get in a fight her partner threatens suicide. Real shitty thing to do. Also threatening to “make bruises” and blame you for it? Damn op. try to get out as cleanly as possible. Easier said than done I know. Good luck with everything |
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| try the po mother fucking lice my dude |
| Just break up with her. If she threatens that again, just call the police and get it over with. You have screenshots anyway, so there's some proof. |
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Zelev said: Just break up with her. If she threatens that again, just call the police and get it over with. You have screenshots anyway, so there's some proof. The problem comes when he breaks up with her and she actually kills herself. It's pretty delicate, it ends up being pretty hard to know when someone is serious about it, or just doing it for attention. Even tho this time it was probably just for attention, there's still a high chance she does have suicidal thoughts (she wouldnt mention it if she didnt afterall). |
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Daddy-O said: try the po mother fucking lice my dude Zelev said: Just break up with her. If she threatens that again, just call the police and get it over with. You have screenshots anyway, so there's some proof. She told me she would make bruising on her arms and neck to simulate abuse to have me land in prison. Not only that but I have told her to kill herself for insulting my mother and family. Azeew said: The problem comes when he breaks up with her and she actually kills herself. It's pretty delicate, it ends up being pretty hard to know when someone is serious about it, or just doing it for attention. Even tho this time it was probably just for attention, there's still a high chance she does have suicidal thoughts (she wouldnt mention it if she didnt afterall). Thank you for summarizing the dilemma. |
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Eylandos said: Daddy-O said: try the po mother fucking lice my dude Zelev said: Just break up with her. If she threatens that again, just call the police and get it over with. You have screenshots anyway, so there's some proof. She told me she would make bruising on her arms and neck to simulate abuse to have me land in prison. Not only that but I have told her to kill herself for insulting my mother and family. Azeew said: The problem comes when he breaks up with her and she actually kills herself. It's pretty delicate, it ends up being pretty hard to know when someone is serious about it, or just doing it for attention. Even tho this time it was probably just for attention, there's still a high chance she does have suicidal thoughts (she wouldnt mention it if she didnt afterall). Thank you for summarizing the dilemma. Oh, it's that obnoxious already? Well, bait her into proof. Text her asking why she said she would incriminate you, obviously in a subtle way. And there you go, enough proof to never go to jail. |
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Azeew said: Zelev said: Just break up with her. If she threatens that again, just call the police and get it over with. You have screenshots anyway, so there's some proof. The problem comes when he breaks up with her and she actually kills herself. It's pretty delicate, it ends up being pretty hard to know when someone is serious about it, or just doing it for attention. Even tho this time it was probably just for attention, there's still a high chance she does have suicidal thoughts (she wouldnt mention it if she didnt afterall). People call the police all the time because they think their friend is going to commit suicide. That's why I said to call the police, so they can check on her, and maybe she'll snap out of her craziness. |
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Eylandos said: Daddy-O said: try the po mother fucking lice my dude Zelev said: Just break up with her. If she threatens that again, just call the police and get it over with. You have screenshots anyway, so there's some proof. She told me she would make bruising on her arms and neck to simulate abuse to have me land in prison. Not only that but I have told her to kill herself for insulting my mother and family. Azeew said: The problem comes when he breaks up with her and she actually kills herself. It's pretty delicate, it ends up being pretty hard to know when someone is serious about it, or just doing it for attention. Even tho this time it was probably just for attention, there's still a high chance she does have suicidal thoughts (she wouldnt mention it if she didnt afterall). Thank you for summarizing the dilemma. Call the police anyway. She literally threatened you. Like someone else said, bait her into admitting it on text. |
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Zelev said: Eylandos said: She told me she would make bruising on her arms and neck to simulate abuse to have me land in prison. Not only that but I have told her to kill herself for insulting my mother and family. Thank you for summarizing the dilemma. Call the police anyway. She literally threatened you. Like someone else said, bait her into admitting it on text. Or just bait her into admitting it period, you can record her with a phone app |
SpadesofAce said: Zelev said: Call the police anyway. She literally threatened you. Like someone else said, bait her into admitting it on text. Or just bait her into admitting it period, you can record her with a phone app That's so Hollywood lol.. Does anyone actually fall for that irl, tho? |
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| It's a tough situation cause you never wanna assume someone isn't serious about it, but it's also a dick move to pin the blame on someone cause all that accomplishes is making that person feel like shit. |
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Azeew said: Oh, it's that obnoxious already? Well, bait her into proof. Text her asking why she said she would incriminate you, obviously in a subtle way. And there you go, enough proof to never go to jail. She is probably lying. She has a good job but is alone with a slew of terrible relationships. I know she was abused as a child and so she has abandonment problems. Thank you for your advice but it seems I need to get rid of her via the cops. I thought of doing this initially but was too scared of getting arrested. Might just say fuck it and do it. Zelev said: People call the police all the time because they think their friend is going to commit suicide. That's why I said to call the police, so they can check on her, and maybe she'll snap out of her craziness. Going to be doing that when I get home tonight and have a phone call with her one last time. |
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| That is one toxic relationship you're in, threatening to kill herself or frame you for abuse..like what Zelev said, you need to tell the Police without letting her know, then they can come in between before anything dangerous happens and you can avoid getting yourself framed for anything she does to herself in attempt to blame you. At least then, if she's trying to frame you, maybe she can get help psychologically, or you can sue her for defamation/blackmail if it gets too extreme. |
They both can work, depending on the target's stupidity levels. You'd honestly have to be dumber to admit such a thing on text than in person Imo because anyone can read your texts |
| If they don't kill themselves it doesn't mean it's fake. If they try and survive it doesn't mean it's fake. Many successful suicides follow past failed suicides or talks of suicide. She might have Borderline Personality Disorder or something. People with BPD threaten suicide a lot in the way she does and tend to have really unstable relationships. She is taking it more seriously than you are and is just using manipulative ways to try to keep you around. Looking at some things you said in this thread you really don't know what you're doing. Just nicely try to convince her to get to some therapist. Don't totally ditch her but act more like a friend. Avoid only paying attention to her when she is like that because it will just encourage her to do that but don't totally ignore her either. Also don't be calling her an insane bitch and telling her to kill herself. |
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traed said: If they don't kill themselves it doesn't mean it's fake. If they try and survive it doesn't mean it's fake. Many successful suicides follow past failed suicides or talks of suicide. She might have Borderline Personality Disorder or something. People with BPD threaten suicide a lot in the way she does and tend to have really unstable relationships. She is taking it more seriously than you are and is just using manipulative ways to try to keep you around. Looking at some things you said in this thread you really don't know what you're doing. Just nicely try to convince her to get to some therapist. Don't totally ditch her but act more like a friend. Avoid only paying attention to her when she is like that because it will just encourage her to do that but don't totally ignore her either. Also don't be calling her an insane bitch and telling her to kill herself. When a woman I let in my life wishes death on my mother and hopes my siblings get buthered...damn right I will call her an insane bitch. She thought she could control my time and have me do whatever she wanted but it doesn't work like that. Let me remind everyone this was all her idea and she was the one who initiated the first conversation. On the outside she looks like a pleasent woman. Smart, capable, ambitious, friendly and socialable but when she was with me and got angry....boy oh boy did that change. Every small thing I did was nitpicked and critqued, to the point where I felt like she was my wife. The point is this, this gets resolved tonight. |
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| My ex also threatened suicide... yeah it actually seems like a pretty common thing. She also cut herself... regularly. I think people just change with time tbh, neither me or my ex are the same people we were as teenagers and I think when you're young emotions and shit just feel so much more important than they actually are. It doesn't help when you have these retarded shows like 13 reasons why that glamorize suicide and make it seem like some revenge fantasy against all the people that wronged you. |
LoneWolfNov 13, 2017 6:00 PM
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Eylandos said: traed said: If they don't kill themselves it doesn't mean it's fake. If they try and survive it doesn't mean it's fake. Many successful suicides follow past failed suicides or talks of suicide. She might have Borderline Personality Disorder or something. People with BPD threaten suicide a lot in the way she does and tend to have really unstable relationships. She is taking it more seriously than you are and is just using manipulative ways to try to keep you around. Looking at some things you said in this thread you really don't know what you're doing. Just nicely try to convince her to get to some therapist. Don't totally ditch her but act more like a friend. Avoid only paying attention to her when she is like that because it will just encourage her to do that but don't totally ignore her either. Also don't be calling her an insane bitch and telling her to kill herself. When a woman I let in my life wishes death on my mother and hopes my siblings get buthered...damn right I will call her an insane bitch. She thought she could control my time and have me do whatever she wanted but it doesn't work like that. Let me remind everyone this was all her idea and she was the one who initiated the first conversation. On the outside she looks like a pleasent woman. Smart, capable, ambitious, friendly and socialable but when she was with me and got angry....boy oh boy did that change. Every small thing I did was nitpicked and critqued, to the point where I felt like she was my wife. The point is this, this gets resolved tonight. And what happened before then that lead up to that? I'm just saying you wouldnt be helping if you were to say that to her. Does she one moment act like youre the best person out there then if you do one thing bad she acts like you're the worst? That's part of what BPD is. |
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| that's so manipulative and emotionally draining. if i were you get her some professional help and inform her friends and relatives about what she's on. take it carefully and find the right moment to break up with her. good luck. |
| @Eylandos - That's actually emotional abuse. From the sounds of it you're not super invested in this woman anyway, and she's pushed the relationship to the current commitment level without you really wanting that, so I'd say break the fuck up with her. If she threatens suicide, give her the number of a helpline, call the emergency services and say "Hi, my ex girlfriend is not mentally stable, she has just threatened suicide and I have reason to believe she's taken action to end her own life. This is her address." When it turns out she was full of shit, she'll be the one who has to clean up the mess. This situation isn't going to get any better. She's going to keep using that threat of suicide to make you do what she wants you to (whether you like it or not) and it's not something you should or indeed do have to put up with. I repeat: Wielding the threat of suicide against someone whenever things do not go your way is abuse, she is abusing you. When women abuse their partners (or children) it is often largely mental and emotional abuse rather than physical, which is one of the reasons it can fly under the radar for so long. Leave her. Azeew said: The problem comes when he breaks up with her and she actually kills herself. It's pretty delicate, it ends up being pretty hard to know when someone is serious about it, or just doing it for attention. Even tho this time it was probably just for attention, there's still a high chance she does have suicidal thoughts (she wouldnt mention it if she didnt afterall). That isn't OP's responsibility, and nobody has to stay in a relationship that isn't healthy or even something they want just because their partner threatens suicide every time they try to leave. Unless OP is a licensed psychiatrist or this woman's therapist (in which case there'd be some concerning conflict of interests lmao) her mental health is not his responsibility. As for "she wouldn't mention it if she didn't actually have suicidal ideation to begin with"; yeah, she would. Loads of people do it. It's called emotional abuse, and people do it all the time. There's a possibility she's genuinely unstable, which is why OP should call an ambulance immediately after breaking up with her and send it over to her place, but from the things that have been said in this post I'd put every penny I have on this woman being an emotional abuser who threatens suicide because it works. |
| That's a terrible situation. It's worse when it's someone you know (I've had people threaten me that they're going to kill themselves when I don't even know them... that's some pure attention-seeking) since you care about her to some degree. You should definitely try and get her some professional help; make sure she doesn't have access to suicide in case she actually tries. |
| I've been called out to a lot of these types of situations where someone has threatened suicide and made a deliberately poor attempt to hurt themselves enough to manipulate others into meeting their wishes. Doing this is symptomatic of a much larger issue and I really do feel for those who are caught up in it. These things must be taken seriously each time though because whether people like it or not, they're clearly in need of help and some people do indeed end up dying without intending to. In your case, I'd run run run. |
 Bölvat es okkr, bróðir, bani em ek þinn orðinn; þat mun æ uppi; illr er dómr norna. -Hlöðskviða (The Battle of the Goths and Huns) |
| Something else I should say. You probably should avoid meeting up with her in private areas. If you had to talk to her again in person it should be a public space so she won't be as able to hurt herself or try ti claim you did something to her because you will have witnesses and there wont be as mant objects around |
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einonymous said: make sure she doesn't have access to suicide in case she actually tries. thats easier said than done. if someone really wants to all they need is a piece of wooden furniture to break for a stake or a toothbrush and a brick. but yeah taking the quick, and less painful ways away can be a huge demotivationalizer. the safest place for her is in a mental facility, talking from experience here. |
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| Suicide is a thing that has happened within my circles. Trust me, the quieter ones are those that you should take care of more. They go with no sign. That woman of yours can be ignored. That said, receiving a message before someone's suicide isn't uncommon. However NEVER feel bad for it. Suicide is their personal choice, and while it might shock me a little, I move on easier because I know that they ended everything themselves. But in your case, be very careful with women in their 30s asking for casual relationships. They've likely been living through a decade or more of "dating" and have learnt fuck all from it. They are past their prime, desperate and their "casual relationship" is bullshit to get you trapped in their lives. |
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Can you be blamed for someone's suicide? The answer is: No. I don't even know how can suicide be a threat, is not like it is your problem. And to me, it sounds like she would be doing you a favour. Anyway, call the police and pretend you care but prefer to let it to professionals, just in case anyone asks. |
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| I'd suggest you record the crazy shit she says with your phone so if she ever accuses you of something you have some kind of recourse. Just be careful and make sure she doesn't know you're doing it. |
| Actually did that in the seventh grade. I was a fucked up kid. |
Take care of yourself |
| wow that sucks. i have a friend whos ex would threaten suicide every time he wanted to break up with her so ended up going out with her for a extra year because he didn't want her to suicide as he still cared about her but after he got the balls to finally do it she told everyone in our school he raped her beat her etc |
| Crazy bitches have the best vagina tho.. |
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| And I thought I'd seen some fucked up people... |
| Be thankful for the wisdom granted to you. |
| Well time for an update. I called the police. They came to her house, the police and paramedics came and took her to get evaluated. Even if this was for attention best believe she will have the bill in her name to be paid and so she will not get out scott free. Before this happened I called her up and asked her how she would have me arrested for manslaughter. She was drunk but had enough brain power to deduce that the coroners can differentiate between self harm and physical abuse by someone else. So she just vented and let out all her frustrations to me for 40 minutes. Explained to her how blessed she was in almost all aspects of her life but she snapped and insulted me. I was done after that. Now we wait. |
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| Ok someone write me a summary of this. So that i can provide serious response. |
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Eylandos said: Are they not the scum of the Earth? Casual relationship with older women in her early 30s. She was the one who insisted it be more of a fling than me. Do this for months on end with the occasional dates once in a blue moon but slowly lost interest due to her neediness. Saturday night she wanted to go to the bar with me but I decided to watch Kekkai Sensen, Ballroom, Mahoutsukai no Yome and Dragon Ball Super then finish the night off with some Rick and Morty season 3. She hates anime and hates cartoons in general but really wanted to go out. We got into a heated argument and I told her to fuck off. Today I get this, I rush over to her apartment and she was happy to see me, hugged me and said I was happy to make it. Fucking batshit insane bitch. Now I can't leave in fear she actually does commit suicide and blames me for it. She told me she would blame me and make bruises if I ever left her. This is getting fucked up. Don't let this woman trap you. Even if you still have feelings for her, you need to love and respect yourself enough to move on and be free. That's what I think at least, but I don't have much place to tell you how to carry out your relationship. I just think if she has to resort to that to keep you around, you're better off leaving and being apart. I've never had anyone do that to me though. I can't imagine what that's like. |
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| Its a pretty fucked up world, an this shit happens all the time every day. Its just used mostly as a weapon more than anything |
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| So is this a yandere in real life? OP dont take the bait or you'll end up in a nice boat. |
"When you made this thread, I cried and screamed" -Swagernator 2017 |
| If someone threatens with his life, he/she should just end it straight away. Someone as worthless doesn't deserve to waste oxygen. EDIT: 1k shitposts hype!1! |
| Kill yourself first and show her who wears the noose in the relationship. |
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Eylandos said: I called the police. They came to her house, the police and paramedics came and took her to get evaluated. Even if this was for attention best believe she will have the bill in her name to be paid and so she will not get out scott free. You really did a good job with taking care of here and removing yourself from such a toxic relationship. I hope you recorded that rant as proof tho. Anyway, congratulations OP. Whatever happens after here isn't your problem anymore. |
  “If you live for yourself you’ve only got yourself to blame. So I can’t really blame anyone else and I don’t have any regrets.” list |
| Why does it look like the first suicide threat was sent from OPs phone? |
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| I highly doubt she will, but you gotta call a mental health center, or a law enforcement agency. Let them know she is suicidal. Also recommend you contact a lawyer about this, since you situation might go to court. |
| Your fault for getting into a retarded relationship like that |
| I don't see a reason for your shitty attitude and act like suicidal people are just doing it for attention. And even if they were, it's a clear sign of mental instability. Your anger is understandable, but it's not right to blame or demonize people who probably just need professional help. |
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| that's why you don't give crazy people the dick even if your dicking is casual |
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