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Oct 29, 2017 2:14 PM
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Yeah, you know where I'm getting.
Basically I love American Pop and stuff, but lately I've been dying over K-pop 100x more than that.
Why I ask is it "weird" to like it is because I'm referring specifically to those boy groups. (In my case: BTS)
Even though I'm 100% sure I'm not gay... (I'm pretty sure ok?)... I still can't seem to stop watching their music videos, following them on every social media, etc. etc.
I'd really frkin die RN if some guy doesn't tell me that it's normal to be shtin over them or smthn.
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Oct 29, 2017 2:30 PM
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Of course it's weird.
But if you like it then just listen to it and don't worry about what others think.
Oct 29, 2017 5:33 PM
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Inazuma-sama said:
Of course it's weird.
But if you like it then just listen to it and don't worry about what others think.
Violymph said:
nah, i know a very big fanboy of bts and he's straight. i find a lot of people in girl groups really really pretty

if you enjoy the genre just listen to it and pay no mind to everyone else

It's not really about what anyone else says,
I just thought for myself that it's weird.
Oct 29, 2017 5:39 PM
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I'm female and I mostly like girl groups. 'Cept in my case there's probably some gayness involved.

There are much more embarrassing things out there to like than male kpop groups.
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Oct 29, 2017 5:42 PM
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Sarim-kun said:
Yeah, you know where I'm getting.
Basically I love American Pop and stuff, but lately I've been dying over K-pop 100x more than that.
Why I ask is it "weird" to like it is because I'm referring specifically to those boy groups. (In my case: BTS)
Even though I'm 100% sure I'm not gay... (I'm pretty sure ok?)... I still can't seem to stop watching their music videos, following them on every social media, etc. etc.
I'd really frkin die RN if some guy doesn't tell me that it's normal to be shtin over them or smthn.


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Oct 29, 2017 5:42 PM
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Maybe you're bisexual???
Oct 29, 2017 6:21 PM
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yea, it is weird territory and uncool








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Oct 29, 2017 7:17 PM
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No it's not weird, boy groups have some nice songs too
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Oct 29, 2017 7:37 PM
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Yes, your eyes should be glued to 2D anime girls only fam
Oct 29, 2017 8:08 PM
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Not really. What is this, Yahoo Answers?
Oct 29, 2017 8:22 PM

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No, but you could be a Saesang.


Oct 29, 2017 8:33 PM

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No, you should feel bad to like K-Pop because it's bad.

All that aside, like what you want and care not what others think. Best way to live, by far.
Oct 29, 2017 8:58 PM

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Protaku said:
Yes, your eyes should be glued to 2D anime girls only fam

Give this guy a medal.
Oct 29, 2017 11:01 PM

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Depends on what kinda kpop, there's a lot of variety.
BTS is normal, it's popular and has nice beats, etc. gets you motivated, as long as you're not someone like me who listen to depressing sad/mellow songs/love ballads, you're fine.
Oct 30, 2017 4:48 AM

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not at all.

i freaking adore kpop and koreans in general


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Oct 30, 2017 4:56 AM
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it makes you gay and it means that the korean nationalism is getting to you.
Oct 30, 2017 5:55 AM
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It's not weird to like K-Pop at all. I used to listen to K-Pop music back in 2010/2011 and haven't listened to K-Pop since as my music variety got wider.
Oct 30, 2017 5:56 AM

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Not at all but I feel a bit shocked when I discover some K-pop fans are guy..you know majority of K-pop fans are girl that's why I feel like that..
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Oct 30, 2017 7:40 AM

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You can try to get your full potential and get to know kpop lover girls then. Not that bad but still I preder 2d>3d
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Oct 30, 2017 8:03 AM

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Nah, I don't think it's weird, but most K-pop fans are girls, so that's why other people might think it's weird.

If you like it, then you like it, I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
Oct 30, 2017 8:06 AM

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There's nothing wrong about what a person like. Just ignore those the one who badmouthing you. They're not the boss of you anyway.

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Oct 30, 2017 9:22 AM

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Another thread with toxic replies from butthurted people who don't know how to start a debate without making fun of someone

Back to topic , i think it is totally normal .. kpop boy bands are way better than girls bands .. when we talk about the songs .. exo and bts have decent songs so I won't be surprised if I hear they have fanboys .. liking boy bands doesn't mean you are gay or bi , it's because you like their songs.


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Oct 30, 2017 9:26 AM
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I mean I was totally obsessed with K-pop when I was younger but I exclusively listened to girl groups
Oct 30, 2017 9:55 AM

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The thing is, everyone is still misunderstanding me.
What I said was: "I think it may be weird" but people are telling me not to worry about what others say.
Nobody has ever even told me it's weird (until this thread of which I could care less) so I just wanted to know how to change my own opinion.
Oct 30, 2017 1:21 PM

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It isn't, I find it awesome. Many guys don't like it because they think it's ''too gay'', because they have makeup, weird hair colors, pretty clothes and find their attitude ''femenine''. Liking BTS as a guy it's not so common because people, and maybe you, have prejucides against kpop and Asian men in general. They think they'd be less manly or gay if they listened or liked them, and that's so stupid if you ask me.
Btw, I also love BTS since 2015 and I'm as obsessed as you, don't worry about that, it's the idol culture effect lol.
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Oct 30, 2017 1:22 PM

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not at all. like what you wanna like.
Oct 30, 2017 1:53 PM

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No, it's not weird at all. As long as you don't overdo it.

I respect your opinion as long as you respect mine.
Oct 30, 2017 2:11 PM
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nah who do you think girlgroups are marketed towards
hint: not only girls
Oct 30, 2017 2:12 PM

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it's not weird, i'm a girl and i love hyuna
Oct 30, 2017 2:27 PM

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K-Pop is actually a very popular genre amongst Professional Starcraft players. I'm not too into it though.
Oct 30, 2017 3:10 PM
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Your gender doesn't determine what you like. Plus, ignore the stupid haters.
Nov 5, 2017 2:45 PM

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You do you, why should you care what other people think about you; for doing something you enjoy especially.
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Nov 5, 2017 3:32 PM

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Sarim-kun said:
Yeah, you know where I'm getting.
Basically I love American Pop and stuff, but lately I've been dying over K-pop 100x more than that.
Why I ask is it "weird" to like it is because I'm referring specifically to those boy groups. (In my case: BTS)
Even though I'm 100% sure I'm not gay... (I'm pretty sure ok?)... I still can't seem to stop watching their music videos, following them on every social media, etc. etc.
I'd really frkin die RN if some guy doesn't tell me that it's normal to be shtin over them or smthn.


Listening to some genre of music is never wrong or gay. But your other activities are pretty borderline. Following them on every social media and watching their videos like a madman? Hmm.

I for example like a lot of rock/metal music, but then I have better things to do than following some bearded, long-haired guys on social media. I like the music, thats it.

Nov 5, 2017 5:12 PM
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I like Kpop and im a guy so hell no!


I recommend SS501 Obsess! i love that song.
Nov 6, 2017 11:18 AM

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No it's not weird, why would it be? o_O
If it has good rhythm, or whatever else you search for in music; go for it!
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Nov 7, 2017 11:30 AM
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Yes, that's weird. It's on the same level as liking J-idols. Just listen to something normal instead.
Nov 7, 2017 11:34 AM

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yes that's weird, omg get away from me see a therapist, what the fuck, like seriously jesus fucking christ go leaveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee


if you can't tell that was sarcasm. Sarcasm, according to Meriam Webster, means "a sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain". In my context I was using it to convey the fact that nobody cares what you like and talking about it like it's a big deal is idiotic. Thank you, and good night.


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Nov 7, 2017 11:45 AM

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If you think it's weird then it is. I like k-pop and I don't really care what others think about it.
Nov 7, 2017 3:45 PM

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At the end of the day what matters is how you feel about it. If you like it, then you should be at peace and enjoy it. Simple as that imo.
Nov 7, 2017 4:03 PM
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Obviously liking K-Pop as a guy is literally worse than Hitler OP. What are you talking about?

Nov 7, 2017 7:10 PM

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I don't think so; you're not alone OP. Ngl, before, when it comes to K-pop, I would easily dismiss and wouldn't even give it a second thought because it's foreign to my general music taste, but recently, a certain user on MAL introduced me to a song, which kinda opened up my eyes to the whole k-pop genre.. so currently, I'm also starting to listen to BTS lool. I'm surprised because I found this type of stuff to be kinda weird, but I can understand where you're coming from, OP, because most of the people I know, who listen to K-pop, are females lol, but you're not alone. Whether it's weird for a 'guy' to like this or not, uhh I don't think so, but nonetheless, even if it is weird, I like what I like and nothing can rly change that :p


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Nov 7, 2017 8:02 PM

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Who cares if it's weird? People who like the same thing have no unique attributes anyways.
Nov 8, 2017 12:35 AM

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when i think of kpop i think of boy bands/girl bands which i'm not particularly fond of
BTS has some decent songs tho

does korean hip hop fall under kpop too bc i listen to that more than i do kpop


Nov 8, 2017 1:47 AM

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No it's not weird i also know guys who like Kpop and they are cool. I don't know why people will think it's weird i mean it's music it doesn't matter what gender you are

Nov 12, 2017 11:03 PM

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Nah not really just don't be over by it, I know some of my friend who got into kpop just became..... I dunno different than they used to be?. You know what do what ever you want XD.

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Nov 12, 2017 11:08 PM

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Its weird and you're probably gay.

Nov 14, 2017 12:21 PM

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nah it's cool, there are more and more kpop fanboys nowadays
Nov 16, 2017 1:54 PM

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No. Like whatever you want.
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Nov 17, 2017 1:47 AM

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I don't think so. I personally only listen to BoA but even if you like boy groups it's not gay or weird. Like what you like.

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Touka said:
No. Like whatever you want.


Meh liking bts as a male is KINDA gay
but who am I to say this.
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