| I personally like someone who challenges me and can be aggressive. Thinks for themselves. I don't want to make all decisions. I don't want you to do everything I ask. |
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| I assume you mean overall not sexually. I'd rather have someone on similar grounds as m more or less what would put about as much work into the relationship as i do. Too much pressure to be making all the decisions and holding up the relationship by yourself. |
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| If you're dominant you want a submissive partner If you're submissive you want a dominant partner And some people adapt depending on who they're with |
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| Probably the desire to make them happy, if it's coming from a positive emotion. Or you know... just cause you really want a gf or something :P |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| have you heard of whats called a control freak? like the opposite controlled freak |
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| Yea i guess it could be a bit of the 'opposites attract' thing. But sometimes submissive could be just over cautious, like from growing up having to always walk on egg shells and being careful not to flare anyone elses emotions.. losing self importance because all that. My GF has a bit of submissiveness and it's a real Lovely side to be able to care for and it's soooo affectionate, she's also beautifully stubborn as heck and knows when things aren't right and can push me back in line lol. But yea there is Lovely parts of submissiveness if you look deeply into it |
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| I've tried to be dominant but it didn't work quite well. It was too exhausting both physically and mentally. That's why being submissive is much better as long as you can find a decent dominant partner. It improves your quality of life and greatly reduces your stress level. |
| I like girls that are dominant, but I wouldn't necessarily describe myself as a particularly submissive type. Although I only rarely take the lead, I do have the capacity to do so if I feel the need. |
| I'd rather be friends with a submissive person because I am controlling. |
  WORK IN PROGRESS ~The frog leapt forth to my lilypad memory.~ I was indoctrinated by an inamorata rabbit, Adenomata affronted. It was the verecund, dismissed creatures That I jubilated in most. This rabbit I would nurture, At the aiguille of esse, The anneal of noblesse. ❤️ Birdie ❤️ |
| Opposites attract each other's needs |
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They are aesthetically pleasing, when properly dressed. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Serious answer, maybe people who obsess over submissives, have the need of being in control of at least something in their lives. |
SatanOct 13, 2017 4:02 AM
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Lux_Lucis said: I almost fell in love once when a girl asked me "Do you want me to help or should I not interfere?". I stood there dumbfounded with my heart racing. She did not shy away from helping but did not rush in, guns blazing, to ruin my plans. Sounds like "I respect you and know you're capable, but I'm here if you need me." Aka: The perfect type of friend/partner. I would not consider it as submission, though. |
Ｍｅｎ Ａｒｅ Ｆｒｏｍ Ｍａｒｓ， Ｗｏｍｅｎ Ａｒｅ Ｆｒｏｍ Ｖｅｎｕｓ ａｎｄ Ｇａｙｓ Ａｒｅ Ｆｒｏｍ Ｕｒａｎｕｓ |
| Personally no idea, I would be bored to death. But some people like to feel in charge and powerful - so guessing that.. |
| "In this world, evil can arise from the best of intentions. And there is good which can come from evil intentions" |
| Go and try to ask @tragedydesu he knows. |
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| I hate aggressive people I love calm kind caring people I never found them boring because I can relate to them |
tragedydesuOct 13, 2017 5:26 AM
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tragedydesu said: I hate aggressive people I love calm kind caring people I never found them boring because I can relate to them same really, but just because someone is more submissive or dom doesn't necessarily mean they are aggressive or kind. Like sweet doms personally. |
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| I'm submissive, but it's hard to find dominant people on a weaboo site...ya know. |
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tell me whether or not pineapple pizza is good or not daddy. like that? If so, quality kink to all y'all |
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| I used to like assertive women when I was a kid/teen, not so much as an adult. Not that I'm all "It's my way or the highway," but I rather be the one to take charge. |
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| Having someone that rely on you, that NEED you, can be pleasing. Some ppl are looking for submissive girl who would make them feel a bit less worthless. Being useful for someone, something is cool, having a purpose, being needed. I can understand that feeling. Having a dominant one can be pleasing as you would rely on her to make decision and be free of responsibilities. It's cool to have someone to rely on, someone you can count on! So to each their own, I guess |
BanhCanhOct 14, 2017 5:27 PM
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| As a submissive male, this thread will be an interesting read. |
It's only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come. And when the sun shines it will shine out the clearer. |
| Interesting comments here. Interesting comments, indeed. |
 Three things cannot be long hidden.. ...the s u n, the m oo n, and the tr u th. |
| Here's what I think: Having a submissive BF/GF is something I would "reserve" for a first time lover. In other words, when you don't have any other experiences to base yourself on. A relationship is a 50/50 giving (talking from my POV). When I enter a relationship, I except that both of [us] would equally follow and command the other. Meaning, both me and my partner would be in a position of organizing activities, provide, and love. The concept of submission blocks that equality, since there's a dominant/submissive relation that forms. In short, having someone submissive as a partner turns me off, since it means it'll be constantly waiting for my approval before taking action in our relation. Again, that was all from my POV and in a romantic scenario. Having a submissive partner also have cons and, obviously, there's always the possibility of a sexual fetish attached to the matter. |
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| someone who shuts the fuck up and doesn't bitch about their problems 24/7 sounds nice. There a name for that? |
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| Thread so nice i had to post twice. Actually I feel that two subs and or two doms even could be in a relationship. It just depends where your head is at. Because people in a relationship can be friends first and foremost... to me that would be the most fun, actually. Personally I have bot ha dom and sub side. |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| A subby boi is what every dommy mommy wants. |
| My girlfriend is my equal in our relationship. She makes decisions and I challenge them or vice versa. It's not always me going out and making sure she steps all over me, likewise it's not like I have her on a leash either. Honestly I think that's how it should be, a perfect 50/50 balance between the two. That said, I did date a couple submissive and extremely assertive girls before her. I see why submissive is nice, because you hold all the power and therefore have control over someone (kinda lame when you wanna get to know her). That said, assertive is also nice because it means she knows what she wants (also lame because she wouldn't be considerate of you). Neither one is preferable to me because I hate one-sided relationships, but I can see a certain demographic of otherwise questionable individuals who either love to dominate or get whipped. I guess that's their thing. Okay. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
| I'm not a power hungry creep, but I kind of want to be. I just want to have things my way. I'm too used to being around people who do just whatever the heck they want, so I never tried to be dominant over anyone. It'll probably be hard for me to ever get into that mindset. Maybe that's where I'm stuck. I don't want to be told what to do and I don't want to tell others what to do. |
| I love some missiles and gas because im an apache helicopter. |
"When you made this thread, I cried and screamed" -Swagernator 2017 |
| I don't mind at all having a girl take the lead...in fact I welcome it. |
koolkai123 said: tell me whether or not pineapple pizza is good or not daddy. like that? If so, quality kink to all y'all you ever seen that video of the girl shovin the pineapple up her ass now that's what i call domination ps: is very good for daddy |
Close this World .txEn eht nepO you are happy 24/7, that is a lie, that is bullshit and i refuse to have somebody tell me bullshit i wanna have an honest  |
| from my last 2 relationship i conclude that everything would be end when i start to show how serious i am in the relationship. i don't have any trouble with a submissive one. it just some people wanting more than they can take and when their partner start to give them more than they asked, they feel burdened by it and fly away :) i think the fascination of having a submissive partner is they try to keep you on track. the question is on which track? yours or theirs? that's it :) |
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| I'm not attracted to people who are submissive at all. I'm the one who's bottom. |
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You said you weren't posting anymore. |
I say a lot of things. That being said, I'm only posting once every blue moon. |
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i member  maybe hes so submissive hes submissive to himself hmmm |
Close this World .txEn eht nepO you are happy 24/7, that is a lie, that is bullshit and i refuse to have somebody tell me bullshit i wanna have an honest |
| This ride we're all on, it's a rollercoaster that aint stopping untill we're dead. Some people wanna grasp at any tiny bit of control they can find in the intimate details of theirs. Some people succumb to the flow and learn to love being taken on theirs. The only fascinating thing about that is that outside their desires, some try and mold to fit someone else's preferences or the weird standards of society. I mean they say not everyone fits in the same box, doesn't really matter what you're talking about. But more or less these days I feel like sometimes we try and put ourselves into boxes. That probably didn't make like any sense at all. |
| I have seen people who are so submissive that their personality changed because of the dominant person. I guess its more about the extremes... Overly submissive and overly dominating people are big turn-offs.. |
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| I think that the desire and fascination with having a submissive partner is steeped in selfishness, and the human craving for power. Most of us have taken shit from someone at some point in our lives, and those who haven't usually end up being entitled brats anyway. For some humans, the idea of finally being in control of something/someone is practically mouth-watering. I wouldn't want a submissive guy, because that would be boring, and the idea of my boyfriend being a dough-spine wuss with no opinions has no appeal to me. I myself am a little on the masochistic side, though only sexually. Being either too dominant or too submissive is unhealthy. Sometimes, overly submissive people can become empty shells after they've had their old personalities and desires sucked out by a narcissistic and domineering person. |
sobanoodleOct 17, 2017 9:24 AM
| You are now breathing manually. |
| Can someone give a non-sexual example of "dominant" and "submissive" people? I associate those terms with sex so I can't really imagine those terms being used to describe someone in a non-sexual way.. |
 ♔ caught in the wonder ♔ |
| Some people want their partner to cook and clean for them, you know. Too bad I can make a sandwich than most women so cooking is out and I'm better off doing it myself. |
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