Daedric said: My life in a nutshell. http://www.datfeel.com/drupal/sites/default/files/field/image/uWrOR.png Been single my whole life lol *crying forever alone face* |
MurauDec 4, 2014 11:57 AM
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| I can't make that big of a commitment, at least not at the moment. I have a personality type that enjoys pursuing personal goals and isn't interested in making sacrifices for others. I just want to do my own thing for now, and the fact that being in a relationship will undoubtedly coax me into sacrificing my own interests or goals for the sake of someone else terrifies me. They don't say "relationships are all about compromise" for nothing. |
Fiction-S said: Lol this is the thread that has posts of mine in pink. Too lazy to fix that. I'm still single. Haven't found a significant other and I chased away and destroyed my last ex's ego. I wish to.. ah never mind you'll laugh at what I'll have to say. lol Does it really matter if I laugh? I probably won't anyways. |
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| Relationships are too much work for me -_- I've dated about 7 different girls since I entered college and all of them are too active, I don't plan on having another relationship until I know they wont drag me outside every single day just to waste time, when I could be at home watching anime, I mean don't get me wrong I enjoy seeing them and hanging out with them but being with them almost 24-7 just makes me get bored |
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Fiction-S said: Soren333 said: Does it really matter if I laugh? I probably won't anyways. It's a ridiculous fantasy. It probably might or might not come true. I'm interested. Let's hear it. |
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| Yes and always will be. |
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| Not single. In a relationship. I don't like going to clubs or parties. I usually let love come to me, but if I realize I like a gal for sure, I'll go out of my way to talk to her and see more of what she's like. Usually in this stage I can get a feel for whether they like me or not. Thus far anytime I've asked to go out on a date 2/3 became my girlfriend. |
"Be the change you wish to see in the world."  |
| Don't know if 'single' is the right word but I don't have a official relationship either. We've been hanging out for 5 months already, but even if he did confessed, i haven't do so yet. I'm not good with serious relationships, but I like this guy so I might tell him how I feel at some point. All the relationships I've had before ended up mostly because of me. Hear guys saying "You don't care at all", "you're too cold" and "you act like you don't like me" was pretty normal for me before. It was not like that though. I just didn't know how to express my feelings correctly, my mind was always blank. So it came a moment where I stopped having serious relationships, because I just couldn't love anyone how they wished to be loved. I used to hang out with guys and have fun, but that was it. Now it's different, because I truly like the guy i'm dating. Now I only can hope things keep going smoothly between us. |
| Yes, Yes I am *cuts wrists while typing* |
| I've been here way too long... |
| I'm not, i've been in a relationship for a couple of years, and I'm currently pregnant. He left his country to come and stay near me, so he has me pretty much in love now. |
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| 19 years.Never had a girlfriend.Too ugly and no money. |
yukishiromei said: All the relationships I've had before ended up mostly because of me. Hear guys saying "You don't care at all", "you're too cold" and "you act like you don't like me" was pretty normal for me before. It was not like that though. I just didn't know how to express my feelings correctly, my mind was always blank. So it came a moment where I stopped having serious relationships, because I just couldn't love anyone how they wished to be loved. Depends on the types you dated a lot of people want that lovey dovy shit but there are people out there that prefer their partner to be more independent and not clingy. |
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| Why spend the rest of my life making one woman miserable when I can make all of them happy? |
| No Im Double (Precision Floating Point) |
NTAD said: Why spend the rest of my life making one woman miserable when I can make all the rest of them happy? Why make yourself miserable Men don't do what they want Steve, they get wives and jobs to keep them from the things they enjoy - Stan smith |
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yukishiromei said: All the relationships I've had before ended up mostly because of me. Hear guys saying "You don't care at all", "you're too cold" and "you act like you don't like me" was pretty normal for me before. It was not like that though. I just didn't know how to express my feelings correctly, my mind was always blank. So it came a moment where I stopped having serious relationships, because I just couldn't love anyone how they wished to be loved. I used to hang out with guys and have fun, but that was it. Youd be my perfect girlfriend. I dont think Id be able to invest too much in a relationship anyway, so Id be totally happy with a gf that doesnt need my attention 24/7. You know just be there for the occasional bonding not necesarily live the same life. |
Spooks_McBones said: Huh?NTAD said: Why spend the rest of my life making one woman miserable when I can make all the rest of them happy? Why make yourself miserable |
baki502 said: Youd be my perfect girlfriend. I dont think Id be able to invest too much in a relationship anyway, so Id be totally happy with a gf that doesnt need my attention 24/7. You know just be there for the occasional bonding not necesarily live the same life. Man we are on the same page. That why I'd prefer a professional wife, someone who has their own lives going on but can spare the on off few hours to relationship time so we can both still do our own thing. Not to mention watching her crush a smaller business to expand and destroy the hopes of dreams of the people who worked there would be such a turn on. NTAD said: Spooks_McBones said: Huh?Why make yourself miserable Been trapped in a relationship, having your emotions tied to someone else. Someone having a hold over your feelings, how can you not be miserable. |
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Spooks_McBones said: That's.....basically what I said. It's called wordplay. Guess it's not for everyone.NTAD said: Huh? Been trapped in a relationship, having your emotions tied to someone else. Someone having a hold over your feelings, how can you not be miserable. |
Spooks_McBones said: baki502 said: Youd be my perfect girlfriend. I dont think Id be able to invest too much in a relationship anyway, so Id be totally happy with a gf that doesnt need my attention 24/7. You know just be there for the occasional bonding not necesarily live the same life. Man we are on the same page. That why I'd prefer a professional wife, someone who has their own lives going on but can spare the on off few hours to relationship time so we can both still do our own thing. Not to mention watching her crush a smaller business to expand and destroy the hopes of dreams of the people who worked their would be such a turn on. Oh my god yes, thinking of all the people that wont be able to survive winter and feed their families cause they lost their jobs cause theri company has been crushed by my wife. Such a huge turn on. |
baki502 said: Oh my god yes, thinking of all the people that wont be able to survive winter and feed their families cause they lost their jobs cause theri company has been crushed by my wife. Such a huge turn on. Yup. Shes a predator not some weak victim waiting to be saved. |
SpooksDec 4, 2014 2:46 PM
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baki502 said: yukishiromei said: All the relationships I've had before ended up mostly because of me. Hear guys saying "You don't care at all", "you're too cold" and "you act like you don't like me" was pretty normal for me before. It was not like that though. I just didn't know how to express my feelings correctly, my mind was always blank. So it came a moment where I stopped having serious relationships, because I just couldn't love anyone how they wished to be loved. I used to hang out with guys and have fun, but that was it. Youd be my perfect girlfriend. I dont think Id be able to invest too much in a relationship anyway, so Id be totally happy with a gf that doesnt need my attention 24/7. You know just be there for the occasional bonding not necesarily live the same life. That was exactly always my point. The 'lovey-dovey' thing might be incompatible with me. I like giving space, and receive space as well in return. I don't control my partners because it is not my nature. I suppose they always saw that as 'cold' and 'heartless'. |
| Idk, ask me again in a week or two. |
☕ Truth be told, I'm quite proud of my house blend. To attain my flavor and fragrance, I use five different types of coffee beans. ☕ |
yukishiromei said: baki502 said: Youd be my perfect girlfriend. I dont think Id be able to invest too much in a relationship anyway, so Id be totally happy with a gf that doesnt need my attention 24/7. You know just be there for the occasional bonding not necesarily live the same life. That was exactly always my point. The 'lovey-dovey' thing might be incompatible with me. I like giving space, and receive space as well in return. I don't control my partners because it is not my nature. I suppose they always saw that as 'cold' and 'heartless'. I would rather call it 'lukewarm'. The most pleasant temperature. You only get burnt by those that are full of flaming passion all the time. |
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yukishiromei said: That was exactly always my point. The 'lovey-dovey' thing might be incompatible with me. I like giving space, and receive space as well in return. I don't control my partners because it is not my nature. I suppose they always saw that as 'cold' and 'heartless'. maybe they thought you didn't love them or didn't like spending time with them |
baki502 said: I would rather call it 'lukewarm'. The most pleasant temperature. You only get burnt by those that are full of flaming passion all the time. Yeah but you get food poisoning from lukewarm food :p suppose that could be some kind of relationship metaphor. |
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aidafairbairn said: yukishiromei said: That was exactly always my point. The 'lovey-dovey' thing might be incompatible with me. I like giving space, and receive space as well in return. I don't control my partners because it is not my nature. I suppose they always saw that as 'cold' and 'heartless'. maybe they thought you didn't love them or didn't like spending time with them Liking someone, or love someone, doesn't mean sticking to him/her 24/7. Being able to be an independent person even if you have a lover, also counts as personal development and growing as a couple. |
Spooks_McBones said: baki502 said: I would rather call it 'lukewarm'. The most pleasant temperature. You only get burnt by those that are full of flaming passion all the time. Yeah but you get food poisoning from lukewarm food :p suppose that could be some kind of relationship metaphor. Every poison is also a medicine, the amount is that makes it. - I dont even know what kind of bloody metaphor I could turn this into. |
Soren333 said: I'm single, and I have been for my whole life. Love seems to be something magical to me, to share your life with someone who accepts your flaws and loves you for who you are. Sadly, I doubt that I will love in my lifetime. I'm a fair bit socially awkward, stay at home all the time and I am terrible at making conversation. ^ Same for me ! I don't think i even want to fall in love with someone. |
| Its not a straight answer but I have no exclusive monogomous girlfriend so yes. But I have someone I care for and I have someone who I am close to in some kind of relation just not sure what id call it. |
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KawaiiWeeabz said: Soren333 said: I'm single, and I have been for my whole life. Love seems to be something magical to me, to share your life with someone who accepts your flaws and loves you for who you are. Sadly, I doubt that I will love in my lifetime. I'm a fair bit socially awkward, stay at home all the time and I am terrible at making conversation. ^ Same for me ! I don't think i even want to fall in love with someone. ^ |
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Soren333 said: I'm single, and I have been for my whole life. Love seems to be something magical to me, to share your life with someone who accepts your flaws and loves you for who you are. Sadly, I doubt that I will love in my lifetime. I'm a fair bit socially awkward, stay at home all the time and I am terrible at making conversation. Same here except that I'm apathetic, and my best friend says I'm also an anarchist. So yeah, forever alone. |
| I'm not single. Love and dating is fun to me. I love getting to know people on an intimate level, to see sides of a person that not many others have seen. This makes it hard to stay in relationships since once I know someone, I want to experience another unique personality. But I've never cheated and I understand that what I have is too important to leave. But, it's safe to say my views of love and dating create inner conflicts for me, occasionally. |
| I'm single and I'm not sure how I feel about that. I want to have love, but I'm not sure I can really trust women anymore. |
| 30 yrs old and have been single for the past 4 years. Do I mind it, well- not so much, now. It used to bug me when I was younger, but at this point I'm comfy with my hobbies: Gaming, Music, Figures, Manga, Comics, Film, and other things that fill up my day-to-day that I really don't feel lacking. To be honest, I'm happy to have experienced the years that I have when I was in a relationship because all things being said, I shouldn't have been allowed to experience that. But, I did. So I just look at it now as a really hype period of my existence and I'm content. |
| My watch list for anime: http://myanimelist.net/animelist/Stonedtanuki "Let be be finale of seem. The only emperor is the emperor of ice-cream." - Wallace Stevens |
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