| This is NOT an advice thread. Dating has been on my mind. i've been sorta considering dating again but frankly it just seems annoying. I've had a crazy life, made many mistakes, have a WIDE array of interests and experiences - and I just feel like there is no fucking way i could possibly find someone that could even slightly understand where I'm coming from or how I got here. I don't think I'm special, just complicated. So dating just seems like a chore. I'm slim, not unattractive, i have lots of shit to share, but i guess i just feel like i am so different from the guys i meet i couldn't even give two shits about pursuing a relationship. it's like i'm on a fucking island. If you are single and annoyed by the whole idea of dating (like me), what keeps you from getting back out there?? Do you feel like you are somehow missing out? Do you harbor hopes that you could connect with someone, someday? OR, are you in a relationship? are you happy with it? is it serious? what bonds you to this person? Sigh. |
| To be honest, after my share of dating experience, I'd have to say.... ....No. There's no way I'm dating another crazy bitch. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
| I'm in a committed relationship with my waifu. |
JD2411 said: I'm in a committed relationship with my waifu. No. Just no. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
daintybiscuit said: This is NOT an advice thread. Dating has been on my mind. i've been sorta considering dating again but frankly it just seems annoying. I've had a crazy life, made many mistakes, have a WIDE array of interests and experiences - and I just feel like there is no fucking way i could possibly find someone that could even slightly understand where I'm coming from or how I got here. I don't think I'm special, just complicated. So dating just seems like a chore. I'm slim, not unattractive, i have lots of shit to share, but i guess i just feel like i am so different from the guys i meet i couldn't even give two shits about pursuing a relationship. it's like i'm on a fucking island. If you are single and annoyed by the whole idea of dating (like me), what keeps you from getting back out there?? Do you feel like you are somehow missing out? Do you harbor hopes that you could connect with someone, someday? OR, are you in a relationship? are you happy with it? is it serious? what bonds you to this person? Sigh. Trust me mate solitary life is way better, No money worries No arguments No pain in the ass cleaning after someone No remembering special occasions , It's better to be single, It sounds to.me you could use a friend or someone to understand you and get chummy with |
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aurorain said: i dated one guy online i dated one guy dated You said you dated. How does it feel like to have an ex? |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
iSheep said: JD2411 said: I'm in a committed relationship with my waifu. No. Just no. h8rs cnt c me cuz da $$$ in da way |
| I'm in a relationship with a girl I was too chicken shit to confess to for roughly 3 years. shes not my first girlfriend, i had this one psycho bitch i dated in middle school and i dated this one girl for a short time in high school whom we separated on good terms cause she wasnt a fucking psychopath |
Immahnoob said: Jizzy, I know you have no idea how to argue for shit, tokiyashiro said: Jizzy as you would call yourself because youre a dick The most butthurt award goes to you And clearly you havent watched that many shows thats why you cant determine if a show is unique or not Or maybe you're just a child who likes common stuffs where hero saves the day and guys gets all the girls. Sad taste you have there kid you came up to me in the first place making you look more like a kid who got slapped without me even knowing it and start crying about it to me |
| They are a drag. I don't want to be in one. |
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aurorain said: it was horrible, he suffered from severe depression and all he ever did was self pity himself and criticize me Sounds like my ex's new boyfriend. And after all this time she's still trying to find ways to leech off me. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
JizzyHitler said: I'm in a relationship with a girl I was too chicken shit to confess to for roughly 3 years. That's actually pretty beautiful. |
aurorain said: i feel like i can't be in a relationship unless i can support myself and be fully committed you feel me?? Yeah, I TOTALLY know how you feel tee-hee ;-) Wanna go out? |
كنت تهدر وقتك عن طريق ترجمة هذه. mattbenz99 said: Christians and Satanists are technically the same thing |
aurorain said: yeah i just idk i feel like i can't be in a relationship unless i can support myself and be fully committed you feel me?? I get what you mean. Otherwise, don't go for online relationships next time. You say you're attractive, use it to your advantage. Online relationships are pretty stupid, to be honest. Then again, so were most of my past relationships. Never mind. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
aurorain said: it was horrible, he suffered from severe depression and all he ever did was self pity himself and criticize me Well yeah, people with depression are usually disgusted by themselves and throw what people call a pity party. The criticism on the other hand, not so much. As for me, dating seems like it could be a nice experience. I just need to find someone that could handle the romantic and overly clingy personality I've been bottling up over the years. |
peeyaj said: Fueille is a deconstruction of a decent human being. |
| Relationships rarely last.. I've "dated" a few guys and pft, I wouldn't want to go through a relationship again. Most people take relationships for granted. |
| huehuheh |
JD2411 said: Well let me rephrase that to make it more angsty and mellodramaticJizzyHitler said: I'm in a relationship with a girl I was too chicken shit to confess to for roughly 3 years. That's actually pretty beautiful. She was actually dating a friend of mine when i started to like her, so i held off on ever telling her, then they break up on good terms and THEN i was too chickenshit to confess....so she got itno another relationship with someone that didnt last more than i think a year or a year and half, then finally I....didnt confess again cause i didnt want to fuck up a good friendship, But i ended up accidentally saying i liked her to her without thinking and she gave me a shot (I shit you not i was hanging out with friends, and one of them was playing league with her on skype when we got into talking about something related to girls and i said I liked her and she heard me over skype, best fuck up ever) Romance in real life is really anticlimactic and far from beautiful, |
Immahnoob said: Jizzy, I know you have no idea how to argue for shit, tokiyashiro said: Jizzy as you would call yourself because youre a dick The most butthurt award goes to you And clearly you havent watched that many shows thats why you cant determine if a show is unique or not Or maybe you're just a child who likes common stuffs where hero saves the day and guys gets all the girls. Sad taste you have there kid you came up to me in the first place making you look more like a kid who got slapped without me even knowing it and start crying about it to me |
| Hmm I don't actually know how to answer this. I guess I seem pretty desperate for a relationship to most people (including myself), but when I think about it, I don't really want one? I don't know how to explain what I'm trying to say because I don't really get it either. I guess it really depends on my mood? I could definitely have a relationship if it was pretty laid back because I genuinely don't have enough time for a person who would expect to see me all the time (+I'm not into that kinda stuff anyway), but there actually aren't that many people who aren't clingy. So there's that. I guess I'm not in the right state for a relationship right now. But I still want one. You see what I mean? I do feel like I'm missing out. But I mostly feel that way cause I've never been in love before (I've dated people, but yeah) and the teenage years are the time when most people go a bit crazy when it comes to romance. I don't know. I really wish I would fall in love to see what it's like, but on the other hand I can't help blocking myself out from that stuff cause I have other things to think about. Meh. I guess I mostly want to date someone so I would stop acting pathetic every time I get drunk hahah edit: I just realised this post makes no sense. I don't think anyone will actually really get what I'm trying to say. oh man |
kawaiiyurisNov 9, 2013 2:16 PM
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| Can't say I'm not thinking about it, but in the past 1-2 years I've had some experiences that made me realise two things: - I need to get over my depression before I date anyone. Can't love anyone unless you love yourself or something like that. It's not just a phrase, it's my experience. - I will never date for the sake of not being alone. If I fall in love again and meet the girl of dreams I'd definitely go there, but I'm not gonna start dating girls just to find out if we're compatible or just to have someone there with me. To escape the few moments of loneliness I don't want to lose my precious alone-time or my hobbies. I quickly get annoyed if I have to spend much time with one and the same person even if that person doesn't do anything particularly annoying. So my approach is that I only consider relationships with girls I already know quite well to some degree. That I have already spent time together, that I'm already interested in. It usually takes about the same amount of time for me to fall for a girl that it takes for them to store me in the friendzone. Out of frustration (happened every single time I fall for someone) I tried leaving my comfort zone 2 years ago and it turned out bad and gave me some realizations (see above). Now I've stopped giving much of a shit, if it's ever gonna happen it will be 'on my terms', so someone I'm already friends with or at least have known for a while. If not, so be it, I'll just do the same thing I've ever done - try to find activities that bring me happiness that don't rely on other people and just generally fighting my depression. Progress in that department will also make me more balanced and less unhappy which again is more attractive to women (I'd assume) so it's really the best thing I can do. |
| I probably regret this post by now. |
| Last time I was in a relationship was 2 years ago. I do miss that feeling of having someone special sometimes. I'm not one of those people who feels they HAVE to be in a relationship to be happy. I'm quite shy/introverted. I don't really go out looking for someone, so if I ever did happen to get into a relationship again, the other person would have to make the first move. I'm too much of a pussy to express how I feel as well. There is actually someone I'm rather fond of right now, but like I said, no way in hell am I telling that person. So yeah, if I get into a relationship, i'll be happy, if not, then I'll still be happy. |
| I have been in a relationship once, it ended in the beginning of this year. But OT: sometimes I feel that I want somebody beside me then I fap and everything is good again. And I'm more happy when I can use my time how I want. Also: If you are in relationship → No money If you are single → Money! $$$ |
| ᵖᵉʷ ᵖᵉʷ 🔫 |
| Dainty, I ship you and my oldest brother. You're both fucked up, he's not actually bipolar, but might as well be, and he used to be a hardcore raver when he was younger. I think you'd be great friends, at the very least. |
| Konbu is important |
| I'm inexperienced when it comes to dating, I'm 19 and I had only 2 girlfriends so far. They weren't exactly the best thing on my life and I don't think I'm interested in having another girlfriend. I can't have what I want from the relationship which is why I lack motivation to even consider it. |
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| I've had so much shit in past relationships that to be honest I'm not too bothered about being in one any more. Once you've dated a few guys it just isn't a big deal like it was when you were in your early teens.. Doesn't help that some guys can suddenly turn into bastards.. I was with my ex for a year when he suddenly called me and broke up with me on my birthday. People are never who you think they are. However, most of my best friends are guys. I'd rather have an uncomplicated friendship than a complicated relationship. |
| I've dated a few girls, but right now I simply don't have the time to build a solid relationship so I stopped trying. |
"Rejoice! We are humans— we are the most talented people! Precisely because we were born without any ability— we can achieve anything— this is the will of the weakest race!" – Sora, ‘No game No life Vol.01’ |
| To.be honest iv never trusted anyone because of how cruel I was treated in school, and I never had the courage to ask anyone but girls would ask me out and I'd say no I'm not interested, you all thinking * he's got a big ego saying that he's talking g shit * trust me I'm not making this up, iv never been one to be able to trust or try to get to know others because I'm afraid of getting hurt or abandoned, biscuit I understand, listen this is what you should do. First off don't try and go out with anyone, try and make some dude friends and and be friends with them for at least 6 months or a year and if a guy comes to you checking you out don't go out with him he's only after one thing, but try and asking one of them out first |
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| I have yet to meet someone I would want to get into a relationship with. I prefer women that are quiet, shy and caring, all of which is sadly something that I have yet to see except for in anime. So for dating and relationships, I guess you could say I'd rather wait for that special person than to convince myself that I'm okay with someone. So until then I don't care. Aim for the stars or fail trying. |
| Too much energy, drama, and commitment. Life is more relaxing single. My last relationship almost resulted in a death and to be honest I just can't deal with people's mindbogglingly pointless shit anymore. It was two years ago with a Latina girl that I almost fell for, but then it escalated into unnecessarily stupid drama that ended up turning into a pattern of her saying: Even Days - "I love you, do you love me? Please stay with me forever. I need you. I can't live without you. You're the only one for me." Odd Days - "You're just like every other guy, you probably don't even care. I want to break it off with you, I'm tired of this. You're terrible, get out of my life. I'm done." All over the most frivolous reasons like "oh you talked to a girl I don't like I'm a jealous controlling Romance Nazi" or "you went to help orphans receive proper meals and shelter instead of going on a date with me? Clearly I'm not important enough!" Edit: And with that said, this is one of many examples as to why I prefer 2D personalities. |
ZekkenshinNov 9, 2013 4:39 PM
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| I was riding single for a long time because I didn't want to deal with a relationship and I am a very picky guy. I have been seeing a girl now though I wouldn't quite put it at relationship status yet. It is a nice change of pace and I like her. I think everyone needs their time to be single, but ultimately we are meant to find a partner. A relationship is a commitment and like with any commitment there are ups and downs. Being single also has its ups and downs. I would be open-minded about getting into a relationship, but you don't have to be actively seeking one or trying to avoid it. If the right guy comes around, in your case, then go for it. The odds will tell you it will end bad, which is true, however it could also be a very positive experience. Life is about taking risks. |
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| I'll be your boyfriend if you need one. Now, seriously, OT: I don't give a shit about relationships, indeed, but I like kissing girls and things. |
I luv u |
| I put a great deal of importance on dating and relationships. Although all 6+ that I have engaged in failed, it's still one of the most important things to me. But I am a very lonely and terribly romantic person, which isn't normal. |
| Want to talk? Club! "Would you like an anti-psychotic?" *Bonus points if you leave a comment about the meaning of my signature.* |
| i never want to be in a romantic relationship so i dont give a shit about being in one |
| RRRRRRRRRR |
| These past 4-5 years I haven't bothered with the dating scene. I'm not particularly popular with women anyway, so it's not like it was a chore to fight them off. I made the conscious decision to back off maybe twice, when things seemed like they were heading in that direction. I'm reluctant to date because I don't feel ready for the time commitment. I'm really bad at time management, so I know that it would eat into the time I spend on my hobbies. That doesn't sound too appealing at the moment, so I'm content with singledom. Of course, "if it happens, it happens," etc. I don't go out of my way to not socialize or anything like that. |
JoshNov 9, 2013 6:49 PM
LoneWolf said: @Josh makes me sad to call myself Canadian. |
| I don't have much in common with many folks my age, so I can't say I'm currently interested. I don't think relationships are worthless, but most likely just not for me. Even I can't say for certain yet. |
DragonCactusNov 9, 2013 7:05 PM
| "Your argument is like a naked banana--it simply lacks appeal." |
| It's much easier to just have a pornhub subscription. But yeah, I give many shits, it's worth it, well for me anyway. Although splitting the fat, crazy, stupid and/or ugly ones from the datable is a pain in the rectum tbh, but hey, at least traps don't exist irl. |
daintybiscuit said: it's like i'm on a fucking island. I am on a fucking island. And no, I don't give a hoot about relationships and dating, that's why I'm alone right now.... |
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| I don't really want a relationship. I just wanna have sex.....lots and lots of sex. |
| ITT: People trying to justify their loneliness. |
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