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Oct 6, 5:40 AM
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If you are not a NEET, would you like to be one if given the chance? If you are a NEET, do you wish you could stop being one? I need to know!
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Oct 6, 6:17 AM
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When I first made this account, I was a NEET. But now I have a part-time job and in education.

For me personally, being a NEET wasn’t a nice feeling. As much as I complain about uni, I much prefer being productive. Saying that though, I would like a little break from everything rn (I don’t get much holiday time unfortunately 😭).
Oct 6, 6:20 AM
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Not a NEET.

To be honest, being a NEET for any substantial amount of time would probably drive me a bit crazy
Oct 6, 6:23 AM
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im a neet due to health problems obviously i want to be healthy again so that i can be social
Oct 6, 6:28 AM
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I've been for several months, since I do have a social life outside of my job and education, it wasn't that bad. The money has been the issue.
I'm working 25-30 h (aside studying) and I like it overall, but I also would do less, if the money wasn't a problem. I love writing, consuming media, cooking and baking and cuddling at home and also meeting up with people once a week or so.
Oct 6, 7:05 AM
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I am fully employed, only been a NEET for a short while after university before I found a job.
Having an income is nice.
Cucumber ice cream is the best!
Oct 6, 7:12 AM
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I am a debt slave to my student loans for 4 years so far. Not allowed to be neet, but I do heavily advise against getting student loans for manlets. Never become a debt slave like me.
Oct 6, 7:37 AM
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Not a NEET.

Ejrodiew said:
If you are not a NEET, would you like to be one if given the chance?


Nope and it's because I like to pay taxes and talk to people.
Oct 6, 8:04 AM
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I was a neet for a long time, but now I have a job and a stable income even though I still suck at socializing with other people. Would I want to go back to being a neet? Absolutely not, it was definetly a bad time in my life.
Oct 6, 8:10 AM

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I was one for a very long time until I got my recent job, although I still feel like a NEET considering how much freetime I still have.
I think my current job is the only one I could have considering my circumstances, and no, the extra income is much needed.
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Oct 6, 8:19 AM

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Not a NEET.

Ejrodiew said:
If you are not a NEET, would you like to be one if given the chance?


Nope and it's because I like to pay taxes and talk to people.
@MalchikRepaid I don't believe you, nobody likes to pay taxes.
Cucumber ice cream is the best!
Oct 6, 8:44 AM
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Nope after I graduate Collage I straight up working being a teacher.
Oct 6, 8:45 AM

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Oh wow, I currently am apparently. Recently I wasn't.

But, I would like to stop being one soon and then in the future return to being one.
ow + nw = 90-2000s


Oct 6, 8:56 AM

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I would not like to become a NEET one day, if I'm not doing anything then I'll be bored. Plus, being in work helps me improve my social skills.
"When clouds appear, wise men put on their cloaks;
When great leaves fall, the winter is at hand;
When the sun sets, who doth not look for night?
Untimely storms make men expect a dearth."

William Shakespeare
Oct 6, 11:14 AM

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I am, but only recently as of this year because my old job went out of business. I've decided to stay NEET for at least a full calendar year since losing my job before I think about the future.
Oct 6, 12:07 PM

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not a NEET, not sure where I would get the money to be one??? maybe if I have 6 kids the state would feed me
Oct 6, 8:17 PM

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So what if I am.. Income and money don't matter, the end of the world is coming soon
Oct 6, 8:25 PM
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After a year of an impromptu gap year, I've successfully graduated from being a NEET. Starting school tomorrow actually :D
Oct 6, 8:47 PM
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JaniSIr said:
@MalchikRepaid I don't believe you, nobody likes to pay taxes.


If one is a part of China's United Front human network, then yes. There is a sense of solace when paying taxes.
Oct 6, 9:09 PM

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JaniSIr said:
@MalchikRepaid I don't believe you, nobody likes to pay taxes.


If one is a part of China's United Front human network, then yes. There is a sense of solace when paying taxes.
@MalchikRepaid

I kinda understand in a way. I wouldn't like to take from the medical insurance without paying into the medical system. Since the whole percentage of medical and social insurance is 18 % of my salary, you can bet that I do.
The issiue is not trusting social and medical systems not functioning as they should and not trusting politicians to handle them as they should / taking themselves.
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Oct 6, 9:29 PM

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I'm not part of the city hipsters and their glamorous lifestyle (if that's what this thread is truly about then this is my answer).
Oct 6, 10:41 PM

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I'm a NEET because I have 7 years chronic sacrococcygeal pain

I only part time teaching in uni once per weak, and teaching piano
one day per week


Oct 7, 2:37 AM

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Yes. I'm only 21 but have been a NEET for a very long time now. I'm unsure if i'll ever change honestly...

Oct 7, 2:57 AM

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Wow, lots of NEETs, I have been a NEET for 4 months now after I quit my job and graduated high school.
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Oct 7, 4:19 AM
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Yes, against all odds and against all my enemies, I've succesfully become a NEET. I defeated the school and their brainwashing, I defeated my constantly nagging parents, and I defeated the job centre. I consider this one of the greatest victories of my life. There's people who don't take risks, people who let the merciless stream of society carry them wherever it wants, people who let themselves get manipulated and beat down and sacrifice everything for safety and conformity. but not me. I stand defiant, and I always will. I'll always take the big risks and I'll never forget who I am.
"It is better to die a NEET than to live as a wageslave" - ReadMe, 2024
Oct 7, 5:18 AM
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LittleOwlbear said:
@MalchikRepaid

I kinda understand in a way. I wouldn't like to take from the medical insurance without paying into the medical system. Since the whole percentage of medical and social insurance is 18 % of my salary, you can bet that I do.
The issiue is not trusting social and medical systems not functioning as they should and not trusting politicians to handle them as they should / taking themselves.


Pretty much what you said aligned with my interest. Not all people want wealth as the #1 priority and I'm saying this as a person who has super-rich (from my perspective) working parents, but rejected their money.

I earn my own money fair and square while not complaining as a working class individual.
Oct 7, 5:25 AM

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LittleOwlbear said:
@MalchikRepaid

I kinda understand in a way. I wouldn't like to take from the medical insurance without paying into the medical system. Since the whole percentage of medical and social insurance is 18 % of my salary, you can bet that I do.
The issiue is not trusting social and medical systems not functioning as they should and not trusting politicians to handle them as they should / taking themselves.


Pretty much what you said aligned with my interest. Not all people want wealth as the #1 priority and I'm saying this as a person who has super-rich (from my perspective) working parents, but rejected their money.

I earn my own money fair and square while not complaining as a working class individual.
@MalchikRepaid
I earn my own money fair and square while not complaining as a working class individual

good values, we need more people like this
Oct 7, 5:31 AM
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Commit_Crime said:
good values, we need more people like this


Well, yeah. I've been living in South Korea since last month in order to work for my relatives' company without any preferential treatments. This is to enforce strict professionalism. And I will soon get my ID card so that I can open a South Korean bank account in 2 weeks.

It's obvious that I'm starting my life from zero in the most literal sense. All I care is about getting used to my tasks and recreate my booze collection.
Oct 7, 5:45 AM
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MalchikRepaid said:
rejected their money

Was the money offered with conditions, or was it simply available for the taking?

Generally speaking, you should accept your parents' financial support. After all, they've worked hard to build that wealth for you and your siblings. It took me a while to come to this conclusion, longer than it should, I have to admit.

As a parent, I'd be happy if my children could manage my money well, that would be a great favor of them to recognize my efforts. So far, only the youngest seems capable of that, unfortunately.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Oct 7, 5:50 AM

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I'd say my inner nature is still a NEET but nah. im a teacher now and have made a lot of friends. so im not a neet anymore
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Oct 7, 5:57 AM
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LoveYourSmile said:
Was the money offered with conditions, or was it simply available for the taking?


Simply available for the taking. I already made a lot of money during my university years by introducing businesspeople in my homeland (free and beautiful Quebec) to my relatives who own successful businesses in China. Let's just say that the money kept flowing from my Chinese relatives until I graduated university.
Oct 7, 6:15 AM

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Yes, against all odds and against all my enemies, I've succesfully become a NEET. I defeated the school and their brainwashing, I defeated my constantly nagging parents, and I defeated the job centre. I consider this one of the greatest victories of my life. There's people who don't take risks, people who let the merciless stream of society carry them wherever it wants, people who let themselves get manipulated and beat down and sacrifice everything for safety and conformity. but not me. I stand defiant, and I always will. I'll always take the big risks and I'll never forget who I am.
"It is better to die a NEET than to live as a wageslave" - ReadMe, 2024
ReadMe? I think you meant to say DesuMaiden
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Nobody resembles me physically because I don't even physically exist.
Oct 7, 6:24 AM

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ReadMe? I think you meant to say DesuMaiden
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this is why you should never read the readme file
Oct 7, 7:37 PM
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I think that when it comes to the topic of being a NEET...
Oct 9, 10:08 AM

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I'm a NEET, and as somebody lacking in any reliable social connections or professional experience living in a 3rd world country with a >50% youth unemployment rate as a neurodivergent, I don't see that changing any time soon, as much as I'd want it to.
Oct 9, 11:06 AM

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Yes, but not by choice. I had once considered being an indie game dev but that dream was quickly shattered. Then I thought about making anime analysis/critique videos on YT, but while I enjoy watching those, actually making it is another story. I would still like to give it a try at some point, though, so I just need to practice my writing.
Oct 9, 3:34 PM

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What are all the long-term NEETs planning to do when they won't be able to mooch off their family anymore? 🤔 Finally digging up some motivation to work? Dying? Becoming homeless?
Oct 10, 8:43 AM

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I was a NEET for many years. There's a lot of mental health issues that played into it, but I wish I asked for help earlier. The time doesn't stop for you or anybody, I wish I wasn't a drain on my family and could have provided for them earlier. Like, my parents without grey hair will never come back. Started with therapy in 2019, started training in 2022. I got very lucky Covid didn't push me further back. Summer 2025 I will be officially rehabilitated and a regular worker.

I spent most of my NEET years gaming. Honestly I played every AAA game worth playing because the industry changed so much, good decisions are only made by indie and mid companies now. Point is that I beat my addiction at the right time, like I got it out of my system. Regardless, you can always get help and always turn your life around. 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, it doesn't matter. Sitting at home wasting away will only come with regrets.
Oct 10, 9:00 AM

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Not a NEET but I am autistic.

I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I didn't have some outward societal role to fulfill.
Oct 10, 9:16 AM

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I have a fulltime job but it's WFH so I stay at home the whole day and can't go outside due to a few medical issues I'm having.

If I had infinite supply of money then of course I'd become a NEET and enjoy myself instead of spending 8-9 hours on job everyday.





Oct 10, 9:32 AM
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I have a full-time job as a cryptozoologist.
Oct 10, 9:59 AM

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What are all the long-term NEETs planning to do when they won't be able to mooch off their family anymore? 🤔 Finally digging up some motivation to work? Dying? Becoming homeless?
@fleurbleue anyone can become NEET as illness can strike, mentally or physically. or you could get fired/laid off.

congrats to being invincible. that is an impressive feat.
Oct 10, 10:12 AM

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@fleurbleue anyone can become NEET as illness can strike, mentally or physically. or you could get fired/laid off.

congrats to being invincible. that is an impressive feat.
@AnimeFreak-San

If it's against their own control sure I'm not going to judge. But I definitely will if they deliberately decided their long-life plan was to become a leech so they could do nothing all year long.




Oct 10, 10:39 AM

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@AnimeFreak-San

If it's against their own control sure I'm not going to judge. But I definitely will if they deliberately decided their long-life plan was to become a leech so they could do nothing all year long.




@fleurbleue

Just because people don't earn money, that doesn't mean they don't do nothing all year long and leech on others.
A friend of mine took care of her dementia father, another stayed at home with their children for four years.

I think people are quite brainwashed by capitalism (not about you specifically), so they think only work that you get paid for, is actual work or a lifestyle worth respecting.
No healthy person got a long-life plan of doing nothing and I don't think laziness is real. Laziness is often a symptom of depression or of an underlying physical illness.
Oct 10, 10:42 AM

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@fleurbleue

Just because people don't earn money, that doesn't mean they don't do nothing all year long and leech on others.
A friend of mine took care of her dementia father, another stayed at home with their children for four years.

I think people are quite brainwashed by capitalism (not about you specifically), so they think only work that you get paid for, is actual work or a lifestyle worth respecting.
No healthy person got a long-life plan of doing nothing and I don't think laziness is real. Laziness is often a symptom of depression or of an underlying physical illness.
@LittleOwlbear

The examples you have mentioned are already referred by fleurblue as "If it's against their own control sure I'm not going to judge." so your response is kinda redundant
Oct 10, 10:53 AM

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I am not a NEET. I am obviously just a ninja, hacker (hired by the CIA) to bust people for porn.
Oct 10, 11:07 AM

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@LittleOwlbear

The examples you have mentioned are already referred by fleurblue as "If it's against their own control sure I'm not going to judge." so your response is kinda redundant
@JoeChip

I don't think so. At least most people do have other options like nursing homes (which is a valid option too) and parents don't need such a long parent leave, but lot of them want to do.

And even if people are just staying at home for whatever reasons, as long as they are contributing in some ways to the household they are living in, I don't think they are leeching. It should be a personal choice to work.
Attractive job offers don't need to force people into work. If the job is attractive enough and fulfilling, people would like to work in it. It's just the shit jobs with long working hours, an awful wage, etc... that force people into work or otherwise threatening them to become homeless or depending on the state.
Oct 10, 11:10 AM

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nah i'm studying rn actually, haven't had a job since may though
Oct 10, 11:25 AM

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@fleurbleue

Just because people don't earn money, that doesn't mean they don't do nothing all year long and leech on others.
A friend of mine took care of her dementia father, another stayed at home with their children for four years.

I think people are quite brainwashed by capitalism (not about you specifically), so they think only work that you get paid for, is actual work or a lifestyle worth respecting.
No healthy person got a long-life plan of doing nothing and I don't think laziness is real. Laziness is often a symptom of depression or of an underlying physical illness.
@LittleOwlbear

Sure yes, not having a job doesn't automatically imply that someone is lazy. Being a caregiver for a family member can be really harsh and it can hard psychologically to see them in a diminished state.

And yeah, I'm used to people telling me that gardening is useless since I don't get any money from doing it... so I get what you mean.
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@JoeChip

I don't think so. At least most people do have other options like nursing homes (which is a valid option too) and parents don't need such a long parent leave, but lot of them want to do.

And even if people are just staying at home for whatever reasons, as long as they are contributing in some ways to the household they are living in, I don't think they are leeching. It should be a personal choice to work.
Attractive job offers don't need to force people into work. If the job is attractive enough and fulfilling, people would like to work in it. It's just the shit jobs with long working hours, an awful wage, etc... that force people into work or otherwise threatening them to become homeless or depending on the state.
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LittleOwlbear said:
And even if people are just staying at home for whatever reasons, as long as they are contributing in some ways to the household they are living in, I don't think they are leeching. It should be a personal choice to work.

This 100%
I'd rather help my parents with household projects than help a corporate middle-manager who treats his employees like garbage to buy another yacht. The only time I had a job I vetted it beforehand to make sure I'd be treated fairly. And they did treat me well, but now they're out of business. If I can't find another job like that then I'd rather be a NEET forever, I don't care what others think.
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