| How many people have you asked out in your life? I need to know! |
EjrodiewDec 20, 2024 8:17 AM
| "How many people have you asked out in your life?" 1-5. |
SerafosDec 20, 2024 8:38 AM
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| No I don't ask people out lol imagine asking out some random girl so she can just pepper spray you. |
| None, but hey, at least I didn't get any rejections :D |
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| Never, but I got asked out instead 😏 |
*kappa* |
| 0 unsurprisingly. I ain't bold enough to ask someone out. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time.  |
| Yeah, 1-5 for me too The most recent one was quite the horrible woman. She could've just said no |
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| 0 But I don't need real women. Anime girls will never betray |
| 0 times, I'm just too dang shy lol, I HAVE been asked out 2 times though, so there's that. |
| 0 I've been asked out I've never asked people out. |
| "among monsters and humans, there are only two types. Those who undergo suffering and spread it to others. And those who undergo suffering and avoid giving it to others." -Alice “Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely in the mind which contemplates them; and each mind perceives a different beauty.” David Hume “Evil is created when someone gives up on someone else. It appears when everyone gives up on someone as a lost cause and removes their path to salvation. Once they are cut off from everyone else, they become evil.” -Othinus  |
| only 1-2 person if i remember correctly |
| I do not ask, I tell. If you disobey, you are disposed of. |
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| If we don't count over online then it's only 3 times irl. 2 of them are my exes and 3rd is my current girlfriend. |
| I've asked out 0. But i wouldnt know what to say if you included more informal starts to relationships happening organically and long distance where you cant exactly go somewhere together. I have been asked out by 2 girls and 1 guy. I turned them all down. |
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| One. And he said no. Then we dated for awhile and now we're married so idk. It's weird being the one doing the asking. But I also hated having to reject people, especially if we were already friends. |
| Several, maybe above 20, I ain't remembering. |
| How many people have you asked out in your life? None How many people they been asked out you 2-3 |
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| I'll say 6-10. Romantically maybe around 5. I get asked out more but that is 99% not with romantic intent but instead pretending to have romantic intent lol. |
  ♡ Harder Daddy ♡ |
| Zero. I wouldn't date anyone who would even consider dating me. |
| none i dont know how to do stuff like that i'd rather let someone ask me out instead which I'd most likely say yes to |
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| A lot, it's difficult to remember I still have some past chats with them, and when I read some of them recently, I can't endure it because it's too cringe, but surprisingly most of them reply, which says girls actually like guys who are willing to take chances to know them, not shy passive guy I'm not saying I'm brave, I am a very shy person, but I am willing to take those chances. Actually the reason why I broke up with my ex gf whom I have been in a relationship for 2 years with her was because I was not very aggressive, that even after being in a relationship, I was still too shy to make love with her on bed. Because at that time I liked her a lot, and she was like the most beautiful girl I ever knew in my life, so my behavior in front of her was very unnatural, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of losing her, and then Iost her, which is eventually I realized it's a good thing |
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Reply to paintpixie
One. And he said no.
Then we dated for awhile and now we're married so idk.
It's weird being the one doing the asking. But I also hated having to reject people, especially if we were already friends.
Then we dated for awhile and now we're married so idk.
It's weird being the one doing the asking. But I also hated having to reject people, especially if we were already friends.
| @paintpixie What made him change his mind? |
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Reply to traed
@paintpixie
What made him change his mind?
What made him change his mind?
| @traed Apparently, he wanted to be the one to ask me... -.- |
| One person. She said no, I couldn't move on, yada yada yada, now we're not really friends. |
"Molly Ringwald" out right now - check my Linktree!  |
| yeah about 1-5 that's part of why nothing's ever worked out |
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| Don't know exact number, but numerous times. Of course all of them said yes! (Real) Jokes aside, you gotta put yourself out there, can't let rejection get the best of you. |
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| I laughed at the sheer amount of 0 this poll has, then I realized I also answered 0 |
| if I was rich and had a life without fear and anxiety of my own, I'd probably be a social butterfly with a glittering trail of fabulous dates! 🦋✨ But alas, as your Mal regular , I live vicariously through manga stories and anime adventures |
Reply to philtecturophy
A lot, it's difficult to remember
I still have some past chats with them, and when I read some of them recently, I can't endure it because it's too cringe, but surprisingly most of them reply, which says girls actually like guys who are willing to take chances to know them, not shy passive guy
I'm not saying I'm brave, I am a very shy person, but I am willing to take those chances. Actually the reason why I broke up with my ex gf whom I have been in a relationship for 2 years with her was because I was not very aggressive, that even after being in a relationship, I was still too shy to make love with her on bed. Because at that time I liked her a lot, and she was like the most beautiful girl I ever knew in my life, so my behavior in front of her was very unnatural, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of losing her, and then Iost her, which is eventually I realized it's a good thing
I still have some past chats with them, and when I read some of them recently, I can't endure it because it's too cringe, but surprisingly most of them reply, which says girls actually like guys who are willing to take chances to know them, not shy passive guy
I'm not saying I'm brave, I am a very shy person, but I am willing to take those chances. Actually the reason why I broke up with my ex gf whom I have been in a relationship for 2 years with her was because I was not very aggressive, that even after being in a relationship, I was still too shy to make love with her on bed. Because at that time I liked her a lot, and she was like the most beautiful girl I ever knew in my life, so my behavior in front of her was very unnatural, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of losing her, and then Iost her, which is eventually I realized it's a good thing
philtecturophy said: so my behavior in front of her was very unnatural, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of losing her, and then Iost her, which is eventually I realized it's a good thing At the risk of prying, could you perhaps talk about why you came to believe it's a good thing? OT: My score of asks out/asked out stays at 1:1, not going strong! |
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| Maybe like 4. 2 girls in high school, 1 in college and the girl i'm currently seeing I was a shy unattractive guy with no friends in high school, my college i didn't really know how to ask and i consider myself super lucky today |
| My waifu is the most wonderful waifu. Mai Valentine. We're freaking out that we're running out of time, but to do what? Should i stop and think of that? Is there something i could do to slow it down? Live in a day for once, instead of watch it sprinting by |
Reply to Auron
philtecturophy said:
so my behavior in front of her was very unnatural, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of losing her, and then Iost her, which is eventually I realized it's a good thing
so my behavior in front of her was very unnatural, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of losing her, and then Iost her, which is eventually I realized it's a good thing
At the risk of prying, could you perhaps talk about why you came to believe it's a good thing?
OT:
My score of asks out/asked out stays at 1:1, not going strong!
| @Auron_ it's a good thing that she broke up with me, because during the relationship, although she said "yes" for wanting to be my gf, but she never appreciated me as a person, let alone as her boyfriend. Canceling dating appointment last minutes very frequently, gave limitation to how many hours for dating (like 3 hours), only wanting to meet me like 1x to 2x per months, replying text very shortly and long time to reply, and many more. It's a good thing that she broke up with me although I was very sad that day, but not for long, I found a girl that was currently my gf for 3+ years, which is a very kind girl and extremely understanding towards my physical chronic pain and my other lackness My ex gf was very beautiful, but that's it, no other good quality other than that. I was blinded by her beauty that time, but only after being with my current gf that I know I was blinded that time. That ex had the worst attitude and character for a girl I know so far, my worst ex gf |
philtecturophyDec 25, 2024 7:24 AM
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| I asked out both of my boyfriends, I guess it didn't work out with them because they were both so passive and uninterested. Not gonna ask out a third time tbh. |
| No one. Everyone who I have ever been with always asked me out first and I've never asked out anyone else. |
starshiiineDec 27, 2024 2:05 PM
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| Seven none in the last 4 years though and likely never will again |
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