The kind of relationship you want (cool poll)

Marriage is the only way. I just want to be happy.

Most people who want a swinger lifestyle obviously understand that sleeping around goes both ways, but the reality of that consequence hasn't sunk in. They most likely don't realize that the girl will be out getting far more mileage than themselves. People who think swinging is for human garbage obviously don't realize this either.

Considering that the only real advantage to marriage is a legal one (e.g. tax deducations, hospital visitation rights, etc.), any female that feels the need to get registered on a piece of paper so the government could spy on them besides those practical reasons are clearly just a girl, not a woman. And I don't know about anyone else, but I'm into women, not little girls. Someone that doesn't trust in the relationship and needs a piece of paper or an expensive rock to tell them they're in a relationship is clearly on the same level as those weak men who think letting the woman do what she wants is an assault to their manhood. Women who think an untrustworthy man is forced to settle down due to marriage are just as deluded as jealous men who think an untrustworthy girl becomes magically trustworthy if only they monitor her, lock her in the kitchen and prevent them from getting an OnlyFans.

99% of women are okay with never marrying. Maybe not 99% of little girls. Just like how 99% of little boys don't trust in their own judgment and think losing half their shit is a toss up.

That's why I eventually came to the conclusion of marriage abolition. I mean Im fine with people doing it as a religious or cultural ritual or just for fun ceremony but it doesn't belong in the law. Instead these same rights marriage gives should be both given to all or broken up into separate categories that more people can get in on whether or not they decide to marry. So like something for people that have kids, people that co-habitate, close relationship but not necessarily "family" in current sense of the word so it could be a platonic but close friendship etc... Amusing plus side to this is it technically should satisfy what otherwise would be opposing views because it gives everyone what they want just in a way they didnt anticipate. Though of course it should be set up so it can be exchangeable for marriage in other countries if someone moves.


So if you dont mean open do you mean a relationship of three people where everyone is into the other two? Since if it's just one person with two then that's mostly the same as an open relationship Id think?

@Risa92
Hm i thought open relationship means each person is allowed to date more than just eachother. I think swinging is where it is just sex. Though these terms use seems to differ person to person maybe.