| They be saying World War 3 soon...you better be damn yes I want dem to have a body count so they know how to survive the apocalypse. |
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| I don't think body counts matter, but if she had long term relationships and why they failed matter more. |
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| Nope. Not in the slightest. As long as they're clean, they could have a body count in the thousands and I wouldn't care. I've never even asked lol. Also, I have a fairly high count so it would be hypocritical for me to judge someone else. |
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| I dont think I'm allowed to have any sort if standard in that regard lol. |
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| This is one of those things I fretted over constantly as a teenager that I seldom think of now. |
| Normalization of fornication has been a disaster for the human race |
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| I think I would want my partner to be a virgin, just because I am one myself :'( Azumangaphile said: Normalization of fornication has been a disaster for the human race Straight up facts my guy. Degeneracy and disloyalty are at an all time high because of it. |
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Starchaser said: Salty-GB said: Yeah, this. I'm more interested with how someone treats their lovers than how many they've had Nope. Not in the slightest. As long as they're clean, they could have a body count in the thousands and I wouldn't care. I've never even asked lol. Mhm! Totally agree, though I also think it's important to remember that people change. Take what happened in previous relationships with a grain of salt. |
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_meimei said: Salty-GB said: exactly how I feel. I don’t even think I’d ever have a good reason to ask someone their body count either.Nope. Not in the slightest. As long as they're clean, they could have a body count in the thousands and I wouldn't care. I've never even asked lol. Also, I have a fairly high count so it would be hypocritical for me to judge someone else. Right? How can someone even ask that question and not come across as psychotic or insecure? |
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| No, why would I care how many people they have killed? (im so funny pls like) Ok but in actuality, this is pretty relative. As someone who has never really dated anyone seriously and have gone that far to have a number on myself, I would only be comfortable with someone who has a low (like 2 or less) count. I don't want to be clueless whilst the other person is experienced, I don't exactly know what emotion to describe this circumstance but I would definitely feel a bit apologetic or pathetic |
AstelleVey said: No, why would I care how many people they have killed? (im so funny pls like) Ok but in actuality, this is pretty relative. As someone who has never really dated anyone seriously and have gone that far to have a number on myself, I would only be comfortable with someone who has a low (like 2 or less) count. I don't want to be clueless whilst the other person is experienced, I don't exactly know what emotion to describe this circumstance but I would definitely feel a bit apologetic or pathetic I feel like having an experienced partner would actually be really nice for someone's first time. Would probably lead to a nicer experience. |
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Salty-GB said: AstelleVey said: No, why would I care how many people they have killed? (im so funny pls like) Ok but in actuality, this is pretty relative. As someone who has never really dated anyone seriously and have gone that far to have a number on myself, I would only be comfortable with someone who has a low (like 2 or less) count. I don't want to be clueless whilst the other person is experienced, I don't exactly know what emotion to describe this circumstance but I would definitely feel a bit apologetic or pathetic I feel like having an experienced partner would actually be really nice for someone's first time. Would probably lead to a nicer experience. I can see the appeal, but personally, I wouldn't mind the experience of both people learning together, especially as it can lead into something a lot closer. Whilst I would appreciate the help from someone who would be experienced, there's something quite romantic about 2 people developing and venturing together |
| No it doesn't matter, to be honest. To be more specific I'd rather date and hang out with girl who had at least 1 sexual partner and/or more relationship partners without sex or whatever. Dating with virgins is not as good as it is said in some places, that's something I wouldn't recommend. The only thing which would matter and I don't mean there the body count but how they were received which is if a girl was an escort before, I don't care if someone was buying the services of escorts, but if someone was doing that to earn money x). |
| I think people are missing the point when you ask about specific numbers To me what's more important is that the person genuinely turned their back on this lifestyle and has little to no connection/attachments to her old lovers. Yet, I also understand how sex and dating works so ofc the more you have the more probable it is that you're fucked up inside But yeah I think I can let such a person slide with a few conditions, and to answer your question I would say 2 is already alarming. Especially if she has at least one kid |
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| It doesn't really matter as long as they are healthy (no STDs), in a good place mentally (have moved on), and not particularly interested in that lifestyle anymore (prefer serious relationships over one-night stands and casual hookups). The idea that a person's value somehow decreases every time they have sex with someone is pretty silly (and often sexist as there is certainly a double standard). Come to think of it, I'm not sure if I knew the body count of any of my current/former partners. Like, I'm not sure how do you even ask something like that on a first date (or even before starting to date, as the thread suggests) without seeming weird and reducing the chances of ever getting together with that person. |
| Oh this is sex...not killing people. Um like don't you prefer someone who knows what they are doing? I never understand the how Virgin thing. Like...even Christians during the 1800's in America knew they had to learn how to do it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oneida_Community#Complex_marriage |
vasipi4946Oct 13, 2022 7:15 PM
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart! |
| Yes, especially hands....................... |
| 10 minimum to make sure they know what they are doing |
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SabineTB said: _meimei said: exactly how I feel. I don’t even think I’d ever have a good reason to ask someone their body count either. Right? How can someone even ask that question and not come across as psychotic or insecure? I agree that body count isn't that important (or shouldn't be), but I disagree that asking about it is psychotic or insecure. That's extreme. As far as a "good reason" is concerned, perhaps you just want to know. I want a partner who is honest and open. Asking them the body count question cracks them open a little bit and lets me see if they might lie, especially if they think it will spare my feelings (which is a big no-no, you gotta be honest with me when it counts). There's no concrete way to KNOW if they're lying about it. You're just going to have to read their facial expression and body language. A lot of couples talk about this, so I know I'm not the only one. There's nothing wrong with the curiosity of, "hmm, wonder how many he/she's had before?" _meimei said: SabineTB said: oh for sure, it’s hard for me to believe that this could ever be a casual convo two people are having before they are realizing they’re into each other. Body count 0-whatever shouldn’t matter in anyway.Right? How can someone even ask that question and not come across as psychotic or insecure? My goodness, it's obviously not something you talk about across the dinner table on a first date. But I think most couples I know have talked about it at some point, and I've discussed it with most of the partners I've been with. Half the time, I'm not even the first one to initiate the topic. |
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| im at 0.5 and no of course i dont want to date someone with a high body count for the same reason i dont want to date anyone who isnt a weeaboo. ie, it dosent actually matter if i like the person but its a signifier of the type of life experiences we've had. SabineTB said: okay i have a hypotehsis i think there r 3 types of people when it comes to this. there are people who dont talk about it ever and are oddly insecure about it. people who always want to talk about it but indirectly. and people who dont care at all and will tell you if anything related comes up (the only people i actually know the body count , or that theyve lost count of it, are people who will just talk about it while really drunk, which i am this category too lmao )_meimei said: exactly how I feel. I don’t even think I’d ever have a good reason to ask someone their body count either. Right? How can someone even ask that question and not come across as psychotic or insecure? @AnimeIsWrong youre definitely the second categroy im sorry to say, the worst of them |
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| @rian9999 No need to apologize, you're the one with a ".5 body count," i.e., zero. How do you discuss that when you're drunk btw? Did you saw a girl in half or something? You know fleshlights don't count, right? |
| Yes. Hard to say a number , i guess i'd feel it if it's whether too much. Her age is important , 10 at 20 isn't the same as 10 at 30. |
| 10 in an year? Bro That's a hoe.. Keep away if you don't want to catch anything |
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| Yes it does if it's too much like 10 hook ups in a month... Helll naaahhh |
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Azumangaphile said: Normalization of fornication has been a disaster for the human race Agreed. Stay Halal. ........................ |
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| Anything below 10 is a no go for me. Wait you meant the sex body count |
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| What matters is the partner per year stat. If the number is higher than 4 then that's a no |
| I'd say anything over 5 in the last few years is a red flag |
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| I do not care tbh. When you reach a certain age it looks very dumb caring about some things. |
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AnimeIsWrong said: nonpenetrative lmao @rian9999 No need to apologize, you're the one with a ".5 body count," i.e., zero. How do you discuss that when you're drunk btw? Did you saw a girl in half or something? You know fleshlights don't count, right? how DONT u?? the fact so many people have weird stigma about it makes better even. |
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| "Hello fellow human I am also fellow human." Every time I see topics like this lol |
| having a ''very high'' bodycount (i would say surpassing like the 30's) kinda predetermines the relationship most of the times...and i repeat 'most' not all. Usually these high body count can tell you alot about the person, either they're pretty hypersexual or cant last in relationship for more than a month |
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| On a social level, no, but I would be a little more cautious about having sex with them. |
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Skimt said: 149597871 said: The idea that a person's value somehow decreases every time they have sex with someone is pretty silly (and often sexist as there is certainly a double standard). You're the type of guy whom, if you could, would fuck your best friend's girlfriend immediately after they broke up, aren't you? At this point, I'm not sure if this assumption stems from the belief that sleeping with your friend's former lover is a form of betrayal or from the one that the girl is now less valuable because your friend "got" her first, LOL. Anyway, regardless of which one you are accusing me of, the answer would be probably no. It depends on the breakup, perhaps, but people usually need some time before they are ready for another relationship. However, I don't think that completely removing someone from your dating pool just because they've been with a person you know is fair either, and I also wouldn't mind one bit if a friend of mine wants to date my ex. |
Skimt said: 149597871 said: probably no. It depends on the breakup, perhaps I stopped reading there. I know all I need to know about you from this. We're done. OMG... Barry, is that you? Wait... I didn't know you had a MAL account, man. Come back here... I promise I'll neve... there we go... |
| Not really, but for longer answer it depends what I'd want out of that relationship and how open they are about their sex life. |
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