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Jun 23, 2016 9:36 PM
#1
I was just talking to a guy friend and he tried flirting with me when I really don't like him that way. So I changed topic, then he tried again. This repeated several times and he still wouldn't take the hint, so I had to tell him straight out that I'm not interested. This happens to me so many times. Why are most guys so damn dumb when it comes to picking up on social cues? |
Jun 23, 2016 9:39 PM
#2
Flirting is fun though. It doesnt always mean someone is trying to get with you. If they are that just means they are persistent. I dont know what this person is like so I can not comment more on them beyond that if they are being a douche or idiot. |
Jun 23, 2016 9:40 PM
#3
Indeed, it is reasonable to judge a demographic encompassing approximately half of the human race based on a single example. |
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Jun 23, 2016 9:47 PM
#4
traed said: I'm fine with flirting in general but he keeps going on when I'm obviously not interested.Flirting is fun though. It doesnt always mean someone is trying to get with you. If they are that just means they are persistent. I dont know what this person is like so I can not comment more on them beyond that if they are being a douche or idiot. MortalMelancholy said: I'm glad you agreeIndeed, it is reasonable to judge a demographic encompassing approximately half of the human race based on a single example. |
Jun 23, 2016 9:49 PM
#5
Aaaaand the common denominator in all this is....................? |
idk about you but the closer a girl gets to looking like ronald mcdonald, the more aroused i become. CAV where can we cast our eyes to @PoruMairu who thinks of himself a member of the true church. Helion. |
Jun 23, 2016 9:51 PM
#6
So I take it you are super hot and have a huge rack? |
Jun 23, 2016 9:53 PM
#7
Sorakaa said: no..... I'm just average at best...So I take it you are super hot and have a huge rack? |
Jun 23, 2016 9:54 PM
#8
Some people are just poor at picking up social cues (girls and guys alike). Or, maybe he was just horny and desperate. |
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Jun 23, 2016 9:55 PM
#9
Yumadu-nii said: Sorakaa said: no..... I'm just average at best...So I take it you are super hot and have a huge rack? "This happens to me so many times.." |
Jun 23, 2016 9:59 PM
#10
He sounds like he really likes you and is persistent...or maybe just horny I have a childhood guy friend that jokes/flirt around just to see my reaction "Do you wanna have my babies" of course I ignore it which makes it ever funnier for him bc its awkward to answer |
Jun 23, 2016 10:08 PM
#11
MortalMelancholy said: Indeed, it is reasonable to judge a demographic encompassing approximately half of the human race based on a single example. I mean... Basically... Comon, OP... |
Jun 23, 2016 10:17 PM
#12
Sorakaa said: That's just how guys are. I'm not that pretty.Yumadu-nii said: Sorakaa said: So I take it you are super hot and have a huge rack? "This happens to me so many times.." |
Jun 23, 2016 10:21 PM
#13
It's because there are no punishments for flirting with women. Kick them in the balls when u reject guys. |
Jun 23, 2016 10:23 PM
#14
Just wear a shirt that says "I have a boyfriend" and all your problems will resolve themselves. |
I envy your delusion; I wish I could live in it |
Jun 23, 2016 10:38 PM
#15
idk what kind of guys you're hanging out with or whether you're making this shit up or not but all I have to say is; nice thread title. You'll have several hundred replies by tomorrow morning.. |
Jun 23, 2016 10:41 PM
#16
Yumadu-nii said: I was just talking to a guy friend and he tried flirting with me when I really don't like him that way. So I changed topic, then he tried again. This repeated several times and he still wouldn't take the hint, so I had to tell him straight out that I'm not interested. This happens to me so many times. Why are most guys so damn dumb when it comes to picking up on social cues? This. Some guys let their thirst get out of hand. Try omegle - Its absolute cringe. |
Jun 23, 2016 10:48 PM
#17
Gesu- said: Yay, I'll finally become really popular!idk what kind of guys you're hanging out with or whether you're making this shit up or not but all I have to say is; nice thread title. You'll have several hundred replies by tomorrow morning.. |
Jun 23, 2016 10:54 PM
#18
Yumadu-nii said: I was just talking to a guy friend and he tried flirting with me when I really don't like him that way. So I changed topic, then he tried again. This repeated several times and he still wouldn't take the hint, so I had to tell him straight out that I'm not interested. This happens to me so many times. Why are most guys so damn dumb when it comes to picking up on social cues? Fun facts: 1. Guys are dumb... some of us can't tell when you're flirting or just talking (I'm not one of these sadists) 2. Just be direct and say what you said! Give that man no hope and he might leave you alone 3. Don't stress.. for the most part GUYS PUT THEMSELVES IN THE FRIENDZONE 4. I'm a man 5. I hope you're young because older people shouldn't still have to deal with this lmao |
Jun 23, 2016 11:06 PM
#19
Because one of life's fundamental rules is to never give up.. Just kidding. Sometimes, boys can't take a hint unless you plainly spell it out for them. Also, sometimes, I they just don't want to believe that you're not interested. If you put him in the friend zone, he's not going to want to stay in the friend zone. His only options is to either move on, or to make a move. Moving on, as we all know, is always hard. Keep breaking boys hearts. That's the advice I'm going to give when I have a daughter LOL. |
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Jun 23, 2016 11:09 PM
#20
Yumadu-nii said: Sorakaa said: That's just how guys are. I'm not that pretty.Yumadu-nii said: Sorakaa said: no..... I'm just average at best...So I take it you are super hot and have a huge rack? "This happens to me so many times.." Probably has an hourglass body while saying this lol |
Jun 23, 2016 11:10 PM
#21
Yumadu-nii said: Gesu- said: Yay, I'll finally become really popular!idk what kind of guys you're hanging out with or whether you're making this shit up or not but all I have to say is; nice thread title. You'll have several hundred replies by tomorrow morning.. Nope, you're gonna have to work way harder than that.. |
Jun 23, 2016 11:29 PM
#22
How old is he. Actually... age doesn't really matter, everyone's just as retarded as they were in high school. OP, it's probably because you're throwing off too many sexual vibes. Stop watching so much hentai and you'll become normal again. On second though, just stop watching anime altogether, you'll stop subtly hinting that you like tentacles and wear striped panties (he's probably like "ayo gurl u prob wurr striped pantays." That's just my take on it. Or because he's a thirsty virgin. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) |
Jun 23, 2016 11:41 PM
#23
I have a genuine question OP, how old are you? |
Jun 24, 2016 12:07 AM
#25
As a highschooler, I see it all too often. So many people give those bullshit quotes like "chase your love" and all. I think it's a bit far to stereotype all guys like that though. I typically let girls start the conversations, and ignore any flirting. It annoys me actually. fyi, I'm straight -_- |
TyrelJun 26, 2016 5:50 PM
Jun 24, 2016 12:07 AM
#26
'cause they're thirsty as all fuck. Bobby2Hands said: I have a genuine question OP, how old are you? I was going to ask this as well. |
Jun 24, 2016 12:44 AM
#27
That's because aggressive guys are often the most successful guys. So we try a few times until we get the 'no'. You can never be sure until you hear that word. |
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Jun 24, 2016 12:48 AM
#28
I take offense to you stating that guys are "dumb." Guys are the smartest creatures currently ranked higher than females, and that is because we have two brains. The one in our skull, called the primary brain, is in charge of logical thought, problem solving, and other various processes quite similar to the female brain. The other one, located in our crotch, is the secondary brain. Our secondary brain is only active a few time a day, but some can be active longer depending on circumstances. A guy's secondary brain usually does not have a lot of processing power, but it is currently the most powerful of the two brains. Under the right circumstances, the secondary brain will attempt to shut down the primary brain and gain an upper hand in control of the body. Keep in mind this brain does not have logical thought, it's merely a wild animal relying on instincts, which it will transfer to the entire hosts body if the primary brain fails. The secondary brain is an unpredictable force of nature, but it can be controlled. It however is hard to shut down the secondary brain, by hard, I mean really hard. Symptoms of a guy's secondary brain being active usually includes a bulge in their pants, and going incognito mode on Google. |
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Jun 24, 2016 12:51 AM
#29
Because guys don't get hints and if they get them they're not sure if they understood them correctly so they try a bit more. Telling us something straight is the best way to go imo. |
Jun 24, 2016 12:58 AM
#30
Their heart and hormones reside in their penis, that's why. An average girl could not give any social cues and simply stand near a hole covered with leaves, and by the next hour she would have trapped hundreds of dumb men who act only on their hormones. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
Jun 24, 2016 1:06 AM
#31
I can't help it, those damn chinese animus frying my brain cells. |
Please learn about cel animation and its technical process. Learn how special effects and backlighting were done without computers. |
Jun 24, 2016 1:34 AM
#32
I bet he's a thirsty MAL user. They're all like that. |
Jun 24, 2016 1:49 AM
#33
Then you are hanging around with idiots. Frankly I feel the same way about both sexes, even though I'm a guy. When I see blatant flirting and density, I question why the other party never takes the cue. It just means some people are more perceptive. |
Jun 24, 2016 1:50 AM
#34
I wouldn't say that's the case with many guys - even most guys possibly. But there's no denying that there are individuals out there who aren't the best at picking up subtle hints when it comes to these things. Much as I hate to admit it, I'm one of those guys myself. I'll try and keep from sounding all ranty, but I have a syndrome that essentially prevents me from reading subtle hints. I need everything to be stated to me flat-out. Now in all fairness, it'd be wrong for me to state that he probably has the same issue, although the possibility is there. In any case, it's not the only possible factor to consider. It may be in their basic nature, it may be due to the false images and expectations planted into them by porn - it may be a lot of different things. |
Jun 24, 2016 2:55 AM
#35
@Yumadu-nii WHY DID YOU POST THIS >///< I was just trying to get to know you better~ I wasn't even flirting with you, stop being so up yourself. |
If you're reading this, then you be should banana the one often to effectively die apples through convergence, autism plus unicorns. |
Jun 24, 2016 2:58 AM
#36
What the fuck did you say about me, you cis rapist? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in gender studies, and I've been involved in numerous public raids on 4chan, and I have banned over 300 misogynist shits. I am trained in not citing my sources and I'm the top land whale in the entire Tumblr army. You're nothing to me but another trigger. I will ban you the fuck out with butthurt the likes of which have never been seen on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with raping me over the Internet? Think again, cis white boy. As we speak I'm contacting my secret network of landwhales all over #stopgamergate and your account is being rustled right now so you better prepare your jimmies, sexist pig. The media will biasly slander out the pathetic little thing you call a gender. You're fucking dead, rapist. I can be anywhere, anytime, and kill you with my massive fat folds, and that's just with my bare keyboard. Not only am I extensively trained in being triggered, I have access to the entire arsenal of Tumblr, and I will use it to its full extent to send death threats to your family all over the fucking Internet, fucking patriarchal bitch. If only you could have know what raging hormone filled butthurt your little "clever" comment was about to bring down on you, maybe you would have circumcised yourself. But you couldn't, you didn't, and now you're paying the price, you goddamn PTSD inducing troll. I will shitpost all over you and you will choke on your own injustice. You're fucking dead, cis boy. I'm a strong independent mulatto transvestite and I don't need no men. You're completely correct OP. Men are stupid and I hate it when they flirt with me. Those horny animals are so stupid. |
Jun 24, 2016 3:03 AM
#37
Ryfour said: Guys are dumb? He was just trying to his job and reproduce, yet all you can concern yourself is with whether or not the guy "likes you". He only wants his dick in a pussy, no he doesn't like you. He wants sex I cracked at this OP is partially right because i think guys have the same problem, its just that the culture functions like that, that males are expected to be hitting on females not the opposite which produces more examples like your one. |
Oshii is probably the only director that loves dogs. He thinks he's a dog himself. That's right, its slime! It will dissolve your clothing slowly before my eyes! |
Jun 24, 2016 3:06 AM
#38
If he's your friend and nothing more then you shouldn't take him seriously, he was probably joking, I do that all the time with a friend of mine, "I want your nudes as birthday present" and stuff like that, of course I dont mean it and she knows that but still continues the joke. That's how xd guys are :-P Either that or he's persistent |
joe_g7Jun 24, 2016 3:10 AM
"At some point, I stopped hoping." |
Jun 24, 2016 3:09 AM
#39
Anyone who tries to dwell in this cesspool called 3D is dumb regardless of gender. 2D > 3D fam. |
Jun 24, 2016 3:21 AM
#40
Ryfour said: bagietka0 said: No, you're wrong. Some girls tend to actually believe that when another male in the same group age approaches them it isn't for sex. But in reality, if it was by their own free will, it HAS to be for sex. Think about it, by what other circumstance would you approach another female by your own will, that isn't related to you but in the same group age? Though, girls are led to believe the contrary. Dumb fucks.Ryfour said: Guys are dumb? He was just trying to his job and reproduce, yet all you can concern yourself is with whether or not the guy "likes you". He only wants his dick in a pussy, no he doesn't like you. He wants sex I cracked at this OP is partially right because i think guys have the same problem, its just that the culture functions like that, that males are expected to be hitting on females not the opposite which produces more examples like your one. I said nothing about your post and how much i believe in it because i didnt want to look like a scumbag, but why should i actually care here :D Oh and personally it isnt all about sex, sometimes its a cigarette, a little breast fondling or a blowjob would do too |
SpaghettiSpikeJun 24, 2016 3:25 AM
Oshii is probably the only director that loves dogs. He thinks he's a dog himself. That's right, its slime! It will dissolve your clothing slowly before my eyes! |
Jun 24, 2016 5:09 AM
#41
maybe the guy was really into you and didn't want to give up on you so easily, I wouldn't call him dumb just because he was a bit too honest about his feelings. |
Jun 24, 2016 5:29 AM
#42
Yumadu-nii said: this is why i no longer talk to woman anymore. in a nutshellI was just talking to a guy friend and he tried flirting with me when I really don't like him that way. So I changed topic, then he tried again. This repeated several times and he still wouldn't take the hint, so I had to tell him straight out that I'm not interested. This happens to me so many times. Why are most guys so damn dumb when it comes to picking up on social cues? |
Jun 24, 2016 5:32 AM
#43
Girls can be just as "dumb" and not good at taking hints. This isn't a problem limited to guys. |
Jun 24, 2016 5:36 AM
#44
Usagi said: preach man preachGirls can be just as "dumb" and not good at taking hints. This isn't a problem limited to guys. i knew i wasnt the only one who thought this |
Jun 24, 2016 5:43 AM
#45
Cucky said: MrMike420 said: Usagi said: Girls can be just as "dumb" and not good at taking hints. This isn't a problem limited to guys. i knew i wasnt the only one who thought this I totally agree with both of you dudes. I know right? Usagi is such a bro, he knows what's up! |
Jun 24, 2016 5:48 AM
#46
Yumadu-nii said: don't know why but this just reminded me of this video Why are most guys so damn dumb when it comes to picking up on social cues? |
Jun 24, 2016 5:48 AM
#47
idk but I always blame the rest of us. |
Jun 24, 2016 5:59 AM
#48
Jun 24, 2016 6:01 AM
#49
Red_Keys said: dude what this was bait?>The most obvious bait thread of the year >Responding seriously Holy shit, OP might actually be right. You guys are so fucking dumb at picking up social cues. also do you go on 4chan?? |
Jun 24, 2016 6:03 AM
#50
Ryfour said: Red_Keys said: >The most obvious bait thread of the year >Responding seriously Holy shit, OP might actually be right. You guys are so fucking dumb at picking up social cues. how is it a bait thread if you just agreed with it? Wtf. Dumbass Wow, wow. One more? Unlimited Bait Works |
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